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    THE P.EE: OMAHA, THURSDAY, APRIL 27, 1916.
Health Hints -;- Fashions -:- Woman's Work -:- Household' Topics
What Has a Husband a Right
to Expect from His Wife?-
fly DOROTHY PIT.
A men has a right to expect hi wife
not to throw away th bait with which
ehe caught him aoon they are mar
ried, No aon of Adam would ever hay
undertaken to eupport a lady If h had
only een her when her hed brletled with
curl papere, her none waa shiny w1 h coll
cream and aha waa attired In a. wrapper
that waa not on speaking terme with tha
wash tub
Sot 1ne marriage change tha maanu
lina point of view on thla' aubjert. A
J froway woman la Just aa unattractive
' merrled aa single and no woman haa a
! right to expect her husband to display
an rnthuelaam about coming homo to
her of an evening unless aha preaenta at
treat a neat appearance.
flefor marriage a woman dr her
beat to make hereelf agreeable to a man,
When ha ra.Ua of an evening aha ta
bright ami cheerful, aha devote herself
to amusing htm, above all aha hsng
with baited breath upon h!a utterances,
laughs at hie Joke, ennores hla atorlea,
anij feed him on all tha flatlery that
be will awallow, Thla make a hit with
the man. He marrlee to get more of It,
and to acquire a permanent audience tha'.
will alwea give him tho glad hand, an1!
an lncene burner who will never weary
of the task of lighting Jo-tlck hefnr
him.
Yet you could count on your finger
tha number of wlvea among your per
sonal acquaintance who never throw a
compliment their huebanda' way or who
don't Interrupt them In tha middle of their
hert atory to auk you what you think
about the latent, cut In faahlon.
Thla la bad tiy and bad faith. The
men who married to get somebody to ad
mire him haa a right to expert a eteedy
diet of the aame brand of flattery which
hla wife used In ante-nuptlal daye and
thi.t aiie will continue to make hereelf
aa agreeable aa a wife aa ahe waa aa a
sweetheart,
A man haa a right to nxpert that hit
wife will control her tongue and temper.
I. myself, believe that temper ahould be
tha flrat cauee for dlvorc and that either
a man or a woman who flnda that he or
ah la married to a peraon with an nnllv
nble temper ehotild have tha privilege nf
dleeolvlng tha matrimonial partnership
here one member of the firm la eo dl
ogieeobl that it la Impoaelble to get
along with him or her
Thtre la no use In raying that a woma i
can't control ber temper. flha can, for
the greatet vlrns,o on earth la ao mill
that butter wouldn't melt. In her mouth
when H la to her Inlereat to he eo, Te
tua ahe la married to a man do e not
give a immn the right to Insult him by
all the cruel sjid bitter thing a temper
maniac aays In her ragea. Nor dnea It
confer the privilege upon her of nagg'nt,
him to death, although tunny wive ap
pear to think that It doei. Th's U a
mistake.
The very leant that a man baa a tight
to expect of hla wife la thnt ahe ahall
conduct hereelf like a lady Ina'ead rt a
fishwife, Nor doea he marry to get m .
ene to continually harp upon hla fault
Marries la never o complete a failure
aa when a man la afraid of hi wife bs
ea.ua of her temper and her tongue, and
beta ue the more ho la a gentleman the
lea capable he la of dealing with her a
aha deservea,
A man ha a rliiht to ex,'t tha a wife
hal reapect hla personal liberty. tfy Hie
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time a man I old enough, to nmrry he la
pretty well ealahllahed In hi tastes an)
hnblle, and he doea not marry to get a
guide and mentor who will rvie hie
entire plan of life,
A man who had hai the tiitclluence
to aucrred In a profession or ho'd d"wn
a job that pay enough salary for him
to afford to seum the luxury of a wife
may bo fairly supposed to know enough
to come In nut of the rain, what to eat,
and, generally ape king, how t take rare
of htmaclf. One might ulao Infer that
he la old enough to have a latch-key and
that If a woman lrunted him enough to
marry him aha would trust, him out of
her elhl a. few hour of an evening oe
caalonally. Thla la tha view of the aubjert that
men take In their premntrlmonlal ex
latence, hut, unfortunately, only too
many of them find when they get married
that they have got. a Joller a well aa a
wife and that Instead of being In earthly
Eden matrimony la a reformatory.
Vet there a many a wife who for-e
ber huahand to eat health food tneeea
when hla teate runa to lobater a la New
burg. There la many a wife who, be
caua ahe doean't Ilka to drink, never per
mit her huahand to hav a glaaa of beer
unleaa he takea It. on tha aly. There la
many a wife who m.ikea her huahand
realirn from hla clung and who would
no more let him have latch kv In
pear than ahe would let a fhlld hav
a slick nf dynamite. There la many a
man' who cannot even go to dinner w ith
a friend or play a gam of card In the
evening with a lot of old cronle without
having to perjure hi Immortal aoul by
the Ilea b tell the tyrant on hla hearth
alone. Thla I all wrong, A full-grown able
bodied men baa got a right to hla own
opinion, to hla own taatea, h'a own way
of doing thing and hi own freedom
to coma and go uwjueetloiied Jtiat aa lone
aa he la doing nothln? dishonorable and
wrong and heriu he la married to a
woman doean't give her any right to Inter
fere with him at every turn.
If more women would reollae thla we
would hav happier homea and more
homekeeplng lnwbande, became (hero la
aomrthlng In tyranny that makea every
one of ug want to Jump over the bar.
The quallMe that have been enumerated
are only the mnt elemental thlnga thnt
a huahand ha a right to expect of hi
wife, but (f women would only reopeet
them w ahould hear a great deal e
of a divorce court, for, after all, any
woman can manage a man who give
her mind to It and la willing to take
the trouble.
Do You Know That
in aome parte of Hpenlnh Guinea there
la a conatant plague of rato much i
that the flrat thing the tradera ak the
traveler I whether he haa brought a cat
with htm. They will cheerfully barter a
eheep for a ral.
In certain part of Tlraill rat ar a
great nulennce, The common cat doo
no thrive for aome unaccountable rea
son, but le replaced by a apecle of amiill
hoa-inrietrlrtnr-thn glbola. TheNanake
are not vfnoinou. They eei In the
houee, generally taking up their poeltlon
at the foot, of the atatra. When nightfall
approach they begin to wake up, and
during Ihe night they glide awlftly ahmit
the premleea, looking for rata. It l
claimed that they are o eaally domeatl
cated that, f moved from one houe to
another, they Invariably return to the
hour whence they have been taken.
registered at Hotel aAstor
during the past year.
a
1000 Rooms. 700 with Bath.
A cuisine which has made
the Astor New York's leading
Banqueting place.
Single Room, without bath, fj.oo to M
Vhubk . . . J-00 M 4 0O
Single Room, with bath, j.oo to 600
Double . . . 4 00 to 7.0a
Parlor, fWraom and bath, 1 10.00 to f 14 oo
on youf
dtahr't
window.
Package
Don't a Shvo
a--M.a.
.w -cmhj, prepartHl in sanitary kitcnenn
a 1.., mnjtrm vira im Lil.-Vin 1.twir un.l fn.
P"Ht JteeJ, Wtvt
t a'khil, itvj Cthf pwwJ t!l!e U fri rvt
The Love
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VwWf'tfAWm VfflHa&2 yWfImsm i
T lior bonnet under iter chin,
Sh tied her goMen rlnRlotg in;
Hut not. alone In the xilken onarn
nid nh tin her lovnly floating hftlr,
For, tying heP bonnet under her chin,
Sho tied a young nmn'n henrt within.
Steeper ind ttteeper ktow Iho hill,
Madder, merrier, rhlllior "till,
Th Weatrrn Mind blew down, and played
Tli wildest trick with the little maid,
A, tying her bonnet under her chin,
She tied young tnan'n heart within.
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Foods
try Cooking
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ytnr UV4. ! ltHtvt.1 tneny
Twiw, Vl I mf. l.uiari
Chakan. Vtt4 Meait Ikt aatHi
lain, b rwatur) fvw iw. c'.
Fr lunch, li at'tf , i -
pf MrrfHn la, ba a
I hand.
- Knot
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Household Helps
A ini fumltur rlih I eiaht oitnrea
of N'd oil, four ounr,ea turpentine, two
nuncr-a ammonia. Apply with ii"h an'l (
l,Hii w'th wixilcn i lth.
After whlng a white knitle,! 'er.-ev, i
put tt n a ct biar tu (try. "'l hn
It en a line n the air It will Wrp a
letter hf than If (( 1 en t"e lina
ili"iri, ik I evirllenl fnr i-anln
mtuv ,'iiiih it tiouM re rpni"i un a
r' f iii while flannel, ltt f,tr
it t.ft- tmiie. n,t then well bruehot
nt iawn
It Met y U.Mi !iiiit l bte4 tbl'l
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O, Western wind, do you think It wbh fair,
To play such tricks, with her floating hair?
To gladly, gleefully, do your bent
To blow her againttt the young man's breast,
Where he has gladly folded her In,
And kissed her mouth and dimpled chin?
O, Ellery Vane, jou little thought,
An hour ago, when you beaought
Thla country las to walk with you,
After the un had dried the dew.
What terrible danger you'd bo In,
A i-he tied her bonnet under her chin!
- F rom an H on hv Nora Perrv.
Women Hard to
n t rTTintN.
'Women ei Imrd tn get nn'withV
Tliipy are mi. -crtam qmntltlr. captlona.
hilitlikr, iiiireiinlii( anil unreaiiniiablx ?
J'.rbap Ainu niabe Hut what (,f thla
wNuii I ra1, anil o tM- h reatt.
In the tnwair
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By Nell Brinlcley
Copyright, l!tll, Intern'l New Service,
Get Along With?
1 we bear, but her In th flrat paragraph,
of the day 1 report of prooeeillna, a In
j rnnfrra, w read that a "(rav and
1 reverend aenator waan't apeaklnv to
j en ef bla brolher enatnra. let lie call
Ihe n'ibbe4 one H'nator ttrown B'it
heiyatur Tlroan waa n"l the only one
ho came unrtr hla ban of limee, Twa
othn wer belli- treatel to th quiet
cur bv blm. We will ay thay ar Hen.
Mr iliaan and Krnalar While Ureal
the aitibariBMiiieiit, e4 r l,
f tnn aenaiora, ael ehairtu'tH waa
I'- (inainaaa ,f Hie iNIti n,1 tenitary
Va'tue 011a man piquel Tel woman
I... v f their i,i.flee ta rontrat
f KemiaU are unfit fw arnment
t mp'i ai'J bK'ii
A a.iniau e.liior he lahoia la a f
fi llh a half .,a male f th '
.,H v..u..n l'l n thai ahe
ai.ir hll,lt!et ef wl'i'ne ei p'l
itranev In thai offk tn ee !"
ha ba.l e la lni(ti4 e-tiaal In a
Tha a ef the laea lla
eia 4 l. W. Whll h
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Tragedy of
an Appetite
n.r MB. BOBEBT WATSO.
A little boy who brought hi nwUnr
bottle to th dliipfiiaary to b refilled
waa aked by the wearied dotor,
"Wtaf wrong wllh your mother?'' for
a moment hla face waa blank, then he
caught an lie aid brightened, "I think
-I think ehe'a got the apitetlt," he (aid,
Whether the mother really had th
complaint J am not able to elate; but
"ChHrlolte W." haa It and haa tt In an
eerlou a form that ahe write to Implore
ai'J, Her letter nine:
"I am troubled very much with a glut
tonoua appetite, I never know when I've
ha1 enough to eat, I've tried and trial
to be moderate, but I can't help rnyeelf.
It i-n't that I eat dalntlea, or want them,
If it I only bread and tea I am I'itt th
aame, never knowing when to top. I
think It must bo a dlaiaa. Will you
pleaao tell mr. If it Is or not? And what
nhoull 1 do or take? 1 foci that life U
not worth living, and I do want to b
tmra e. I tim only 20 and hav worked
; hard alwaye "
TIt la ait eplalle of de,gr, lut ahe
algri it, "your hopefully,"
At it a hard worker I entitled to eat
freely; and, of the laet two, I would aay
th it a girl of V needed more iin.irlhmni
than a lad of the aim , Growth anl
development call for miterlaln. Work
mean the romhiiatlnn of no'irithmcg'.
On all counts, lhre muat be a btaj de
mand frr fool to meet every reiulrement
and make anre. that no part of the ayatem
la penalized and that, the evolution of th
proper woman or proper man goea on
evenly and eatlefactorlly.
A houne building mean a vat deal of
thing, but tho hody-bulldlng mean men
In propurtlon; ant, whereaa tho ar,!bl
tecfi areclficatloni, enable exact quan
flil of particular thlnga to be brought
for the purpoae to the houae, your body
hua to pick l'a need out of the mt of
lord you efferj and the matter fa fom
plicated by tho fact that your buldlnf
1 all thn whllo living end acting, and
reel fuel and the wherewithal to effect
rerelr end improvement.
Therefor! I would commend to "Char
litie W." the old proverb, "Never b
tahamed to eat your niat," and ' Eat.
t pleaaure. drlnk by meaauro." 1 inc'ine
lo b'ili ve that the truth burled In y
Inga like "Mere die hy food thnn by fam
ine," anl "."pit kllla moie than a,ilgot"
ai d "Gluttony Wile mote than tre aword,"
are' "They ore re.er aood who mind their
telly too much," are aimed at thraa
eming th elderly who appear to live
to rat.
la auch en appetite a dlef the letter
aaka. That would be for a doctor who
had examined "Charlotte W." to anawer.
If, studying the maid, her meala, her
work, he could not reconcile th amount
fonanmed with the other fact of her
cae( he would be forced to conclude that
ahe had-not a dlieaae exactly, but-a
symptom which pointed at dlaeaee. And
the symptom haa a name. Older book
call U "Unllmy," modern sclenllfle work
erell It a "Bnllm'a." and the word como
from Greek words for "ox" and '"hunger."
If "Charlotte W." la a victim of o
hunger, ahe wants to know what to "do
or take." Irreverent, readere may whisper
abr.ut graas and hay being Just the thing
fcr'her complaint, hut the matter may
be too serious for jesting. Bulimia Is a
symptom of d1aa, not a disease in it
aelf, That mean that bulimia may oc
cur in a, number of dlaeaaea, and that
other symptoms muat be found (more
cluesi to narrow suspicion down to such
a flno point that the real our- ef her
exces'lve appetite may be Identified. Do
"Charlotte's" letter contain a hint of
other symptoms? ,
For one thing, I think it prove har
body stronger than her mind -her muecla
are better then her nervous system. Bh
confesses, that though she ha tried an1
tried ahe cannot overcome thle appetite,
even bread and tea can wreck her best
reanlvea. But she always work hard,
ahe la vlgoroua, but weak-willed. Then
In one dip of her pen he declare Ufa
"not worth living," andvwlttt the next
ahe signs quite "hopefully,"
Now, of the many dlseaae in whloh
you may find bulimia, one great groun
of dUoaaea ineludea auch nervous ail
ments as hyaterla, neurasthenia (nervous
'ability), epilepsy, brain tumors and In
aanlty. "Charlotte'a" letter I toe alert,
too eondae for the last of these; but I
think tt probable that her nervea may be
out of order. She may be a little hys
terical and debilitated. I only throw out
the bint. Let her be good to her ner
vous ayatem, avoiding excitement, almlne
to live without worry, denying herself
tea and coffee In favor of cocoa or milk,
,plng early to bad, perhar having a eold
bath or a cool aponge all over before she
dre of a morning, end In general liv
ing th lmpln life. And tf In a month
er thereabouta her appetite le atlll irre
sistible. I would trongly dvi "Char,
lott W." to bring her ca before a local
doctor.
Advice to Lovelorn
Py Beatrice Fairjax,
!. Bar rrUa-.
Pear Mia Kairfaa; Having tn In
New Ptk two yaara and not iiavlr had
lha plraaura of meeting a y,un lalv
a hnm I ard 10 a, out wllh mot than
few time, I am writing ii )u fr
aav , a
I a n yaara and hav a goed in
r w
la illy large a Saw York It i
very bard for a iraii(r le inak fnanl
llnaaver, if )i, aara to l,,in lha Viui
Mens 1 hrloilan aaltl r a i i.
van md iini,iiht'v in,r ''
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