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Anita Stewart Tells Girls How to Achieve Success and Happiness
World-Famous Motion Picture Star Begins Here Today a Series of Unique Heart-to-Heart Talks to Girls
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Cf ELLA WHEELER WILCOX.
Copyright. 1915, Star Company.
Whatever you set out to do, know this:
It U yourself, not circumstances or con
ditions tJf Influence, which will make
XH'-tT success. It U
what - jrou (eel,
what you think,
what you do not
any one of these,
tut all of them.
Tou may - do all
that the altuatlon
require, but If you
ytare no feeling In
'.he matter your
' deeds will be al
most barren of re-
; Auit. .....
Tou . -may feel
strongly, yet if you
do nothing your
seed of feeling will
not take root. Tou
may feel and do.
yet If your thoughts are not centered on
.-what you do your work will but half
f P succeed.
J i Are you a musician? All the tech
f nlque, all the knowledge, all the Indus
try of a lifetime of hard study will never
,, make you a great artist unless you feel
your music, .
Tou can never move the hearts of peo
- pie, you can never win your audience.
you can never command pupus, as
the less thorough artist may do who
feels what he Is portraying.
Are you a farmer? Then think of your
siness as the most Important one in
world. Study It, love It, concen
trate your mind upon it and work to
make others realize its worth.
Are you a doctor or lawyer? Tour
following does not depend Uon Influ
ence or luck; It depends upon your own
attitude to your profession and to people.
Tou can draw patrons to you as the
magnet draws particles of steel. If your
mind Is focused and Intense, and your
methods earnest and unafraid.
There Is no purpose in life which Per
mits a divided Interest without protest
Uhls protest spelis failure, and is usu
ally attributed to "bad luck" by the
Mctlm.
Most of us belong to a class still more
hopeless than the proverbial Hoots" who
will learn in no school save that of ex
purience. We will not even Jearn InUiat.
It Is not to be understood that we can
l-.ave but one interest in life; it is only
that we must have but one at a time.
There was a wonderful flsheman. K .a ties
sprang to bis bait, even when dropped
In streams where no other . sportsman
ever obtained a bite.
Ills basket was always filled when his
companions, sitting at his side, went
home unrewarded and ashamed. One
cay the famous fisherman fell in love.
He could think, dream and talk of noth
ing but nls heart's idol.
While he was at his favorite sport he
dreamed of her, and the fishes sped by
his bait without touching It. And the
man called It "being down on his lUOkY
a f trwrd he married his heart s Idol,
.Sjd he was loyal and loving always; and
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as me tairy w.y
happily forever afterward. But there
came a time when he was so assured
and content In his love life that he could
again think cf bis occupation as a
fisherman, and his lost "luck" returned;
and he never understood why It had left
him nor why it had returned.
But It was all In accordance with a
changeless law the law of mind over
matter and circumstance.
Think of one thing at a time. Put your
whole mentality, your while spirituality
and your physical vitality into the mat
ter at hand.
Be direct and send your thought as
straight as arrow to the target of
your desire. All of success lies In you,
Tou need never ask any min'i aid or
counsel If you set alU your own forces
to work.
A welj ask another to walk for you as
to help you to success. '
Depend upon yourself!
Eat Less Meat
And Take Salts
If Kidneys Hurt
Says & tablespoonful of Salts
flushes Kidneys, stopping
Backache.
Ireat forms Uric Acid, which
excites Kidneys and Weak
ens Bladder.
Elating meat regularly eventually pro-
ducea kidney trouble In some form or
other, says a well-known authority, be
cause the uric add In meat excites the
kidneys, they become overworked; get
sluggish; clog up and cause all aorta of
distress, particularly backache and mis
ery in the kidney region; rheumatic
twinges, severe headaches, acid stomach,
constipation, torpid liver, sleeplessness,
bladder and urinary Irritation.
The moment your back hurts er kid
neys aren't acting right, or If bladder
bothers you, get about four ounces of
Jad Salts from any aood pharmacy;
take a tablespoonful In a glaaa of water
before breakfast for a few days and
your kidneys will then act fine. Thia
famous salts U made from the acid of
grapes and lemon Juice, combined with
llthla, and has been used for generations
y flush clogged kidneys and stimulate
them to normal activity; also to neu
tralise the acida In the urine so It no
longer Irritates, thus ending bladder dis
orders. Jad Salt cannot Injure anyone i makes
a delightful effervescent Uthla-water
drink which millions of men and women
take now and then to keep the kidneys
and urinary organa clean, thus avoiding
sirlous kidney disease. Adverttsenvn,
By ANITA STEWAttT.
Copyright, Wlfi,
International Newa Service.
Perhana It may seem a bit cheeky In
a girl as young as I am I am not yet 30
to attempt to advise other girls about
how they should live their lives, and
what they should do and not do.
But Just because I am young, just be
cause I am a girl living and working
out In the world. I know perhaps better
Characteristic Poses of the
than an oldr person just how the mod
ern girl feels about things, lust what
; temptations she has to meet, and Just
! what are her hopes and aspirations and
j problems.
j Of course, the eternal moralities are
always the same from generation to gen
eration. Things that were sins In our
grandmother's days were sins in our
mother's days, and are sins in our.
It's because everything in the life of a
Advice to
"it Bumm Tuxru
ProT Yoaraelf.
Pear Miss Fairfax: I am II. and. though
I am considered bright and well edu
cated, for both a bualnesa and a social
world, I have been out of employment
for soma time. After six years of com
mercial experience during which I had
worked up to a salary of 118 per week I
wag finally compelled to accept a posi
tion as cashier, stenographer, bookkeeper
and general helper and all for $6. 1 ac
cepted this after various attempts to get
positions, and took It only becauss 1
was getting so morbid. While In the class
of the unemployed I lost my natural
attitude, which was cheerful, oongenlal
and accommodating. I am tasting a very
bitter cup now of suspicion and Jump
ing to unhappy conclusion. I am a fail
ure to myself and dejected and disheart
ened, but I long to be cheerful again.
Can you tell me how?
FLORENCE.
My dear girl, you are far too clever to
yield to depression just because your
present state la not as good as your past
one. Tou can easily work up to a posi
tion as good as thst you had before or
ven better. Just do your day's work and
' do It with a determination to make it so
splendid and worth while that advance
ment will have to come. These are times
of business depression, and you are
sharing the common problem. Tou are
not at all alone in your trouble. Since
you know what your present fallings are,
you must make a stand against them.
Very few things are permanent In the
world. The feeling of unhspplnesa you
have today may be quite gone by tomor
row. Make up your mind that your own
nervousness, as well as
the difficulties!
Rlrl of today Is ss different from what
It was In the life of her mother that
mothers really cannot take care of their
daughters Quite as well as they should.
How can the mother who has lived all
of her life In the home, surrounded by
men she only knows socially, advise her
daughter who Is out In the world, strug
gling with men for a living?
How can the mother who only knows
the problems of hor own house be a guldo
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to her daughter who is living the life of
the stage, or the store, or the office, or
factory?
It's like a landlubber trying to tell a
sailor how to manage a boat In a storm.
And the glrla know this, and that's why
they often don't listen to mother's coun
sel. But I am of their generation. I live
their life and that Is why I think that
they will, perhaps, have real heart-to-heart
talks with me, just as girls do at
the Lovelorn
that are causing It. are temporary things
and that better is bound to come. So
make the most of what you have and
determine to get better. Just this little
set-back gives you a chance to prove
yourself a girl strong enough to face
difficulties, to conquer them and to wrest
success from them.
Kagasjremrwt Aaaounremrnts.
Dear Miss Fairfax: Will you please ad
vise me as to the proper wording for an
engagement announcement for a couple
who are to be engaged without any recep
tion or any festivities whatever.
ANXIOUS.
Mr. and Mrs. X (or substitute the name
of sister, brother or any guardian.' u;il
if you are alone It must be II Us X)
announce the betrothal (or engagement)
of their daughter Anne to Mr. Henry
Smith of Albany.
Ask Her.
Dear Miss Fairfax: I have been calling
on a young lady for some time, and tea.iy
loe her. I hold uunveraaut-iis with her
dailv over the phone. tthe Is always
anxious for me to call at her home, but I
cannot understand her ways. Although
sn is very courteous, she dwi not have
much to say. Her affections sems to
inci.ne towards snuther, although he does
not call 8veral persons have (old n.e
that they had heard that the young lady
say that she loved me. A. II U.
Tell the girl of your love and ask her
what ber feelings for you are. Her In
terest In "the other" man msy be feigned
nieMy to nuke you ulous and to
-brln you to thu point."
bedtime with each other when they got
on their kimonos and let down their
hair, and get out their cold cream Jars,
i and tell each other the secrets of their
soula.
I am sure of It from the letters they
write me, "Dear Anita Stewart, 1 want
to become a movie actress. How glial! 1
go about it?" "Pear Anita Stewsn, what
shall I ilo to make myself beautiful llko
you are?" "Dear AnIUi Stewart, do you
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Whose Fame as a Motion Picture
Coast to Coast.
think It happier for a girl to marry, or
have a career," and so on, and so on,
until I am fairly buried In the letters.
Now to answer the first question first,
about how to become a moving picture
actress. I think that's the ambition of
about' nine hundred and ninety-nine per
oent of all the women In America, young
and old, ugly and pretty.
I don't criticize ! I like to see a girl
have ambition, and spunk and whut wo
Kvery man does not laugh the same
way at the same Joke.
It is seldom that a dog's reputation for
Intelligence has been earned.
It Is seldom that the husband and wife
bqth entertain affection for another
woman.
It is difficult for the average small boy
to be decent without becoming girlish
In his ways
One good loser Is the defeated candi
date who does not beef when paying the
campaign expenses. -
When the base ' ball editors begin to
talk of next year's prospects one can
almost hear the bluebirds sing.
The man who attempts to get his liv
ing by his wits often finds that the
world Is full of rival humorists.
When a woman has no troubles of her
own a kind neighbor can often come In
and suggest a subject for worry.
When a man awakens to the fact that
he has al.io married several of his wife'
relatives, the divorce lawyer sits up and
listens.
The fellow with profound knowledge of
the Scriptures can always make you feel
small In an argument, whether he can
accomplish inuih In the way of conser
vation or not.
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call get-up-and-get In good Amerncanese,
and to be a moving picture actress Is
fine, interesting work and to be a moving
picture star Uium-um about the best
thing ever, I think. Rome Job, believe me.
But In order to become a success ul
rclng picture act rest one must ha . e
certain qualifications. To begin with.
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there Is the quostlon of looks. The wo
man who atplres to play romantla hero
ines must not only be beautiful, but she
must take- beautiful photographs. She
must have a willowy figure, for nobody
op Imagine a fat, stumpy gl 1 rls ng
thrills in a man's breast In a reel I f e,
although she often does it in re.il Ufa.
Also her face must be expressive be
muse she has to convey her meaning to
the audience without the aid of words,
r'he must have the drama tlo Instinct so
I'eenly developed that she can make pao
plt laugh or cry Just by the lift of an
eyebrow, or the wringing of her hands,
oi charm them by the sweetness of her
smile.
Then you have to have a constitution
cf Iron for the work is ceaseless and ex-
hauttlrig. I'm on my feet more hours a
Cay than any shop girl, and much of the
fine rigged out In costumes that are a
1 erfect torture to wear, and I have
wrilked more miles In f.lms than any clr-
It-the-globe-pedeMrian.
And you've got to be Sally-on-the-spot
In keeping every appointment, foil tt costs
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hundreds of dollars an hour for camera
men, and the other actors to be kipt
waiting while some dilatory person
noeded to make up the scene, strolls
casually In.
And the girl who goes In for moving
pictures has got to leave her nice little
tender feelings at home and not get hurt
or mad when the stage director tells her
his candid opinion, of how many kinds
of an Idiot she is, and that the way aha
walks across the stage looks Ilka she wag
understudying a three legged cow. Or
words to that effect.
And she must be as obedient' to dis
cipline as a soldier and as patient as
Job, and she must have the courage of
a soldier In the trenches, for she has to
risk her life many and many a time to
make a six reel thriller.
To be a successful moving picture
actress, you have to ba .born for the
job, and be able to register most of the
cardinal virtues. And any girl who can
do that can get alont In any career she
chooses.
(The next article by Anita Stewart will
be "Career, Ileal and Imaginary.")
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