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    SILK HAT HARRY'S DIVORCE SUIT -:- Harry Shows taetoeSpeed in Beaneries
f JUOOt I ID My-
dole owes- mjt
Br Virginia terhvne van de water.
A letter written to dm by on of the
ratei of The Eh contains the follow,
big paragraph:
"If my husband win not go to church
with me, should'. I , make him 10? It
seems to mo at Mima ae if It war mr
duty to do ao even if w have a quarrel
about the mattar. I was brought up to
attand church, and I feel UiU ba ought
to accompany bm."
' Of oouraa my correspondent feels that
ba ought, aad equally, of eoim, ha feels
that ba nead aot.
"Should I make blm go?" aha asks,
and aa I road I faei mr area widen with
wonder. Make htm a if tlow could aha?
I can fancy aoma wayt In which. If
ba ba a peace-loving mortal, aha mliht
"make blm' do aa aha wishes. She mVM
ba ao unpleasant to blm when ha atayt
at home that ha will accompany her to
the sanctuary onoa a wk to keen her
In a food humor Id 3'j.i: words, win
throw a aop to Carbaiua to keep the
creature from biting him But would
aba, or any wife, ba wining to accept
any eonceaaioa made la auch a aplrlt aa
that?
ft la hard to bellevo It. And yet she
peaks of "quarrel In ( with a maa I
cause be will not so U church reminds
ma of tho man who declared, "I will
have peace If I have to lick every darned
fa loot In the valley to fat !t." To quar-
rvi iwui cnvrcn-aini la w prove inai
the husband baa aoma right an bis aide.
and that In this case atndwc at the
sanctuary dote not "bring forth peace
ful fruits." If ahureb and religion mean
anything to one they ought to mean
gentleness and tolerance.
I do not know to what anarch my cor.
respondent be tonga, and It makee no dif
ference. What doea count la that a wife
who la patient and unselfish doea more
to commend her religion than aha would
were aha able to lead aa unwilling bus-
band to eervieea twice on every Sunday
and once on every weekday for the en
tire year.
If wa will consider for a minute wa will
appreciate that whea wa think of the
founder of the Christian rsltgloa wa do
not recall the fact that Ha went to ohurch
-although ha dld-but that Ua lived the
faith Ha preached. Hie worda would not
have meant what they do to ua bad It
not bean for the life Ha Uvad.
Tata la not a relta-lnua talk, but 1 have
felt compelled to anawer above question.
And In answering It I car aot lay aside
the latter containing it without calling
attention to the fact that whan a woman
ooea at wns mr wniipwami we
her "duty In the way that aha Implies,
marriage la not a, partnership, but a
bondage. It la that too often eo often
ARTIFICIAL WIND IN MUSIC
The players ox road Instruments are at
a severe disadvantage compared with
other members of the orchestra. Tt-elr
performaaea requires a conslderabla ef
fort of the breathing org ana, which often
becomes, especially in the case of elder
BlftVMi a hardahlB. Aa a matter af raet
jno player of a wind loetruroeot aaa noert
Inly practice aa much aa playera of ether
n net rumen ts. It la quite Impossible, also,
to give an indefinitely sustained note.
This has beea rather severely felt la the
eomposltloB of chamber music, especially,
la which reed Instruments eaaaot ba verv
successfully employed. A new apparatus,
the work of a German inventor. Court
Musician Bernard Bamuela removes all
these dlfOcultlea. It consists of a tuba
ending la a mouthpiece, and connected
with a foot bellows, which serves to
carry air from the bellows ta the playeTa
month.
The player can take breath at will
while performing, with the same aaaa as
It be were not playing at alL Whenever
he wishes to take breath, ba simply draws
an additional supply of air from the bet
lows. Thus It la possible ta produce aa
Indefinitely sustained not or a succession
of notes without difficulty. Tho beUowa
Is provided with a check valve to pre
vent ale fYnn, thai limn Cana, kui m a kla.Ht
rem the beUowa through the tuba Into
be cavity of the mouth and la dlspatehed
same way aa air from the lungs. It Blight
ba thought that the affect af bloving
air tnto the month would be ta Inflate
the lungs, but aa a matter of fact this tr
not the case, owing to the closure of the
glottis la the act of blowing.
It hardly needs be pointed out that a
Bomber of hitherto Impossible musical ef
fects caa ba produced ta Una manner.
Many a passage ta Wagnera aad other
operas, which hitherto could be played
only by extreme effort, la Bow rendered
without trouble. It la said that the ap
paratus produces Its effect without aar
undesirable secondary results. Scientific
Americaa,
The $oe'
NOT tHASff
wounfc -
that divorces are Increasing with daa
garoua rapidity, aad that what waa onoa
known aa "the holy state of matrimony'
la now beoomlng a state at which the
untrammeled and the free laugh.
Wa cannot wonder at their amusement.
How out thoughtful, clearsighted people
suppose that two persona brought up
amid totally different surroundings and
clroumstaiioas, living ae parte rives for
twenty or thirty years, can feel alike
upon all points? And why should they?
Doea a woman expect to control a man's
whole nature, his sentiments, thoughts
apd preferences, ta fact hla entire char
acter? Doea a man buy a woman's soul
her Intellect and aspirations to alter
and do with aa he pi easts? No wonder
that the world at large scoffs at auch
a ridiculous proposition. And auch Ideas
are making marriage Intolerable to man
and women who think and feel sanely.
Surely a woman oaa be a loving hon
orable aad dutiful wife, and yet keep
her Individuality; surely a maa can love,
cherish and eleeee to tho womaa ha
marrtaa and yet hare hla own Ideas aad
views, van If they differ from berg.
But some meal and women do not think
this, aad they demand aa allegiance that
la Impossible unless one la a mass, or
mush, of concessions. If a husband loves
hla wife, la faithful and kind to her. If
he provides for her comfort, and la a
sober, decent member of society, should
she not be content? I know that It Is
natural that aha should wish him to like
the things she likes, but If he doea not,
why need she be unhappy and make blm
so, too? She can endure having her moat
intimate friend posses Ideas at variance
with her own, and this condition of af
fairs doea not make her love her friend
leas. Than why not ba on aa common
sensible terms with one's husband as
with one's friend?
"Ah," sighs the wife, "but I do not
Owner or Partner j . (" A Merry Wedding Teast J',
The Adventures of Cupid y
. By BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
Soft la the breath of a maiden's yea.
Not the light goaaamer atlra with less.
But never a cable that holds ao fast.
Through all the battlea of ware and blast
Oliver Wendell Holmes.
. Ah, who so bold, wbo is so sly aa that little boy Cupid T
la hla first adventure, told in picture by Miss Nell
Brinkley on The Bee's Home Magazine Page, ba starts
ont on weak and wobbly legs with a message ot tors
from tbs man's heart to the woman's.
THE BEE:
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1MUIS iOME ftAcC -a .,. ... -
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-veOUr IUJH
TROOA VAI MEASeTO AU.
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We. tomocei) mo, cmo
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WrVH0 A TrWCNr?
IWxriv8ATTc3l-rDO. '
NArMA-fea A TiOqrr .
AfVHr ata t-i.srmo
I rtT OovjaA? avr ,
love my friend as I love my husband!"
Mar I be brutal for hart a meawof
What yon mean may ba that you de not
own your friend aa yon wish to own
your hatband. And you know that aha
would not stand for such owner hip.
And many men want to own their
wives. "1 win go If my baabaad will
let me," said a womaa a few ears ago.
I would have pitied bar had I aot heard
her remark aa hear earlier "I will not let
my husband jola a oiub," I wondered
how each prevented the other from doing
OMAHA, TUESDAY, APRIL 3D, 1912.
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JrjVw fvrx AwAy
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either at the things mentioned, bat
prudence prevented my aaaUng.
- f bore hi a law of leva and there la a
law of cempulstoa. If a buabaad or wife
will not follow the first, one should be
aahamd ta enforce the second, when
twa persons lava truly they wish to
please each other. I acknowledge an that,
ant to please need not Imply resigning
Meal and principles or should not mean
that If friendship aa well aa krra exists
between husband asd wife, each will
respect and consider the other's views
CoprirhU IsU. Hence al News Aasoclatlon
The Royal Roetd to Lore
Having reached the maid's heart and made bar bis
stoat humble servaot, Cupid mounts s royal steed, and
with bis two captives bound by "tbs goaaamer of a
maiden's yes," drags them oft to ye paradise.
Would you accompany them? There Is hard traveling
ahead. Tbs roads are steep and rough. There are briars
to tear ssd wound. Jealous leers from the next turn la
tbs road, waiting to begin bis torture.
Doubts assemble along the way. Sometimes dissen
sions attend, and often faith lags behind.
But so long as the little god Lots lesds, the prisoners
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W0U iVW CAUJS TMf SwN TO
YCreO A ttdtTTJC POU Aa
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VH'H ATlOy ur.
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aad each will allow the other to possess
them la plaoa.
Be I would say to my uui i eaputident
whose letter 1 have quoted, that If, whea
aha gees to ohursh or anywhere else,
her husband voluntarily ai,issnisalia
her because she would Ilka Mm to to or
bars teas It makes her happy to have blm
do ao, well end good. She may thank
God and take eoureee. But It he doea
aot want to go, and olr geea to prevent
a qtiarrel, aha would do well to beg him
to stay at home. -
Drawn by
II a, waw.ae II
lUl-OOOf &
would not be released if they could, and could sot If tbey
would.
For love Is the strangest of all paradoxes, sad those
wbo follow it are happiest when tbey are most miser
able. The bruises, the pains, the torments, the thirst that
is never quenched, the bunger that is never satisfied,
the heart that aches for that which it seeks, and aches
when it gets it; all theee attendants on tbs road to love
are what make it royal.
The destination, paradise, may be uncertain, but it
is paradise all the way.
"For lore Is heaven and heaven is ie"
.:. Drawn for
By WINIFRED BLACK.
A woman died la Hew Turk the other
day and left V for th ear af
fatvorlte pony.
Alee aha left W.Nt to the ahyslclaa
wha looked after
her last Illness.
The phyalclaa sent
back the money or
refuei 1 to receive
It-end now It will
go to the brother
of the woman who
died, aa he Is the
aext heir.
I'd like to see that
d a a t a r-wouidn't
yea? I wonder what
sort of a looking
man ha la There
must be something
about him different
from ordinary man.
Twelve thousand
dollars! What a trip to Europe that
might have meant, a stunning automo
bile, even a college course for a favorite
k. But he didn't want It wouldn't have
It, That doctor la the first realty nca
I've beard about la years, except
one that I met the other day aver la the
tenement district.
The one I met In Hie tenement district
la an Italian; be s ) years old; be
married the other alght, and I weat ta
tbs wedding. I wouldn't have ml seed H
for anything aa earth.
Auch a pretty bride, aueh eyes, aglow
with the emne of Italy, auch blushes,
such braids of night black hair, and such
nlumo little hands and round llttla
UtUa ankles.
Such a gronmt So handsome; Ma Boas
hooked a bit tea moo, perhaps, but
what a pair of flashing area, what teeth,
every one et them aa sound as a hickory
nut and aa white a polished Ivory; what
Nell Brinkley
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The Bee by Tad-
a pair of shoulders, what S seep cheat,
and whea he threw bark hla head and -
laugnea aioua out oi pure neppmsss,
what a splendid threat ha ah awed.
What a laugh he had, too; why. It '
tamed the ejook back a dosea rsere to -hear
It. and he oould sing, mind yos, aad '-
did sing, with ao fakes medeety about -Mm.
He up ta the aatddle of taut ","
room and ssmSs mnm at bla bride sad ..
aeag lave sanga till we All wished wa.
were twent and It was our weokttag) '
ova
What a supper-spaghetti, ohlokea
(well, ot course. It might bare Bean veal; P- 4
.u.i 11 a,,, all . . . , .
gallons of It. aad the gaesta kept ran-
MngT W RVl Mia,", WVIV Ma Wl
Its giving out before morning, but there
never waa, ,,lrM
There was plenty, plenty of evai-ytausi,
ana ta enara: vsv. wa ware rich aa v.T
Croesus; we had yewta aad food aad '
wine and love and laughter, aad the "
long alght before ae, and the bride's '
mother sang, too, a king about 1 o'ewerc
In tbs morning, aa aid esadtaa sons, aad
all the nuooie-aaea women sn we room
laughed and tried to sing, too, and soma ...
cried, and elderly husbands seised elderly '
wtvss about their thick waists and swung ... ,
them In a as nee aa wild aad full of Joy
aa aver waa footed ta all the -aatry.
world, aad there waa no aueh thing aa
poverty or oare or sorrow or bereave ,
armt or love forgotten and fldeNty be- ' t
trayed, aad the gray old world swung '
back again to Paradlas."
A wiwaaa arka vraa with aaa tanked ..
upon the laughter aad listened to the -
singing, end eke shook her bead,
"What caa you do with people e
thlar she aald. "That boy la only getting '
IU a week; why didn't he save aome ot
It for the hard times that are coming 1 rr
But ao. he'd have this wedding supper
If he had starved, he and hla bride, tee,
the very next week. And hla father sad
mother are just aa bad; they never grow -
an, these people; they're fust foorteh
ehndren as long as they Uva." -
Aad the womaa wha was wtth ne r
stghted and looked very sad, aad I know -v
she waa composing sentenoee for bar
next assay en the Troblem of the Tana- :.
meats." which she aaa promised ta read
at the Settlement Rouse at the very Beat y
BMetlng of philanthropists. ' -
Just foolish children! Well, t suppose
they are, but I looked at the careworn '..
face of my friend who sighed over It. -and
I thought of her little wisp of a
dried-up mother, who never really "'
laughed out loud In bar life, aad of bar , -solemn
father, with the llnee of money
grubbing bitten Into hla face aa If by
add. and somehow I found myself feel- -r-Ing
sorry for bar and her kind of people,
Instead ot tor the groom and the bride j
who laughed their impecunious hours
a war. and their trlende and families.
Whatever else comes to that Bttle bride,
whatever happens to that groom, this
one time of joy aad eareleee hepptnese X
they've bad; aad nothing, aot all the
senraoaa la the world, oaa take the mesa- ,.
ory of It away from them.
Poor little settlement worker, she's ao
good aad ao honest end so painstaking;
and, yet, has aba ever la an her Ufa bad ,
one hour of reel Joy of living?
I wieh that doctor who refused h take
the tum In New Tork had been at that .v
wedding. I behave be would have en- -Joyed
It to the very core of bla bear. .
ClreeVatlaa Oraterw. "
Oa one eccasloo Senator TUlmaa waa
so much pleased with a speech he ma III -that
he prUHed It la pamphlet form. .r
"I oeaaTatulata yon.' Senator Balkry
said, a tew days after, "oa that speech,-
which yoa have circulated aa a paanphlea.
I happened to see one this morning, aad
It coatalned some of the beet things X
have ever asea in any pamphlet oa that .
"I am very prood to beer yon say 00." .
said Tillman, muck gratified. Wbas -
were the things that pleased yoa so
much?"
'-Why." explained Bailey, "aa I passed . ,
the Senate restaurant this morning Ir"
saw a girl eame out tnto the oorrtder
wtth two cherry plea wrapped up la It. ' .
-Popular Magasine.
Polated l'umapnapbe.
One kiss at leisure may be worth a
dosen In baste. '
Isn't It queer that only sensible people ..
rer agree with you? .
Soon after marriage a girl's brain
cesses to be a dream factory.
A bad ettlasa Is oae whose room at prsf
arable to hie company. -Bo
many sjuesr things happsa aewa- "
days that miracles are considered a back .'-
Bomber. '
Just so a maa makes love to her, a ' ,
woman may aot care whether ha aueaaa.
It or not. . ..
Whea the prMtcgrapher tails yea to "'
look pleasant tt ta ap to yoa w manga) - '
but face. . v " ..
It Isn't the proper thing for a girl to
practice aa a vocal range while her poor ..
ssother praoaoea oa a reoklag rang a, ?
Chicago Neva, .