SILK HAT HARRY'S DIVORCE SUIT -:- Harry Shows taetoeSpeed in Beaneries f JUOOt I ID My- dole owes- mjt Br Virginia terhvne van de water. A letter written to dm by on of the ratei of The Eh contains the follow, big paragraph: "If my husband win not go to church with me, should'. I , make him 10? It seems to mo at Mima ae if It war mr duty to do ao even if w have a quarrel about the mattar. I was brought up to attand church, and I feel UiU ba ought to accompany bm." ' Of oouraa my correspondent feels that ba ought, aad equally, of eoim, ha feels that ba nead aot. "Should I make blm go?" aha asks, and aa I road I faei mr area widen with wonder. Make htm a if tlow could aha? I can fancy aoma wayt In which. If ba ba a peace-loving mortal, aha mliht "make blm' do aa aha wishes. She mVM ba ao unpleasant to blm when ha atayt at home that ha will accompany her to the sanctuary onoa a wk to keen her In a food humor Id 3'j.i: words, win throw a aop to Carbaiua to keep the creature from biting him But would aba, or any wife, ba wining to accept any eonceaaioa made la auch a aplrlt aa that? ft la hard to bellevo It. And yet she peaks of "quarrel In ( with a maa I cause be will not so U church reminds ma of tho man who declared, "I will have peace If I have to lick every darned fa loot In the valley to fat !t." To quar- rvi iwui cnvrcn-aini la w prove inai the husband baa aoma right an bis aide. and that In this case atndwc at the sanctuary dote not "bring forth peace ful fruits." If ahureb and religion mean anything to one they ought to mean gentleness and tolerance. I do not know to what anarch my cor. respondent be tonga, and It makee no dif ference. What doea count la that a wife who la patient and unselfish doea more to commend her religion than aha would were aha able to lead aa unwilling bus- band to eervieea twice on every Sunday and once on every weekday for the en tire year. If wa will consider for a minute wa will appreciate that whea wa think of the founder of the Christian rsltgloa wa do not recall the fact that Ha went to ohurch -although ha dld-but that Ua lived the faith Ha preached. Hie worda would not have meant what they do to ua bad It not bean for the life Ha Uvad. Tata la not a relta-lnua talk, but 1 have felt compelled to anawer above question. And In answering It I car aot lay aside the latter containing it without calling attention to the fact that whan a woman ooea at wns mr wniipwami we her "duty In the way that aha Implies, marriage la not a, partnership, but a bondage. It la that too often eo often ARTIFICIAL WIND IN MUSIC The players ox road Instruments are at a severe disadvantage compared with other members of the orchestra. Tt-elr performaaea requires a conslderabla ef fort of the breathing org ana, which often becomes, especially in the case of elder BlftVMi a hardahlB. Aa a matter af raet jno player of a wind loetruroeot aaa noert Inly practice aa much aa playera of ether n net rumen ts. It la quite Impossible, also, to give an indefinitely sustained note. This has beea rather severely felt la the eomposltloB of chamber music, especially, la which reed Instruments eaaaot ba verv successfully employed. A new apparatus, the work of a German inventor. Court Musician Bernard Bamuela removes all these dlfOcultlea. It consists of a tuba ending la a mouthpiece, and connected with a foot bellows, which serves to carry air from the bellows ta the playeTa month. The player can take breath at will while performing, with the same aaaa as It be were not playing at alL Whenever he wishes to take breath, ba simply draws an additional supply of air from the bet lows. Thus It la possible ta produce aa Indefinitely sustained not or a succession of notes without difficulty. Tho beUowa Is provided with a check valve to pre vent ale fYnn, thai limn Cana, kui m a kla.Ht rem the beUowa through the tuba Into be cavity of the mouth and la dlspatehed same way aa air from the lungs. It Blight ba thought that the affect af bloving air tnto the month would be ta Inflate the lungs, but aa a matter of fact this tr not the case, owing to the closure of the glottis la the act of blowing. It hardly needs be pointed out that a Bomber of hitherto Impossible musical ef fects caa ba produced ta Una manner. Many a passage ta Wagnera aad other operas, which hitherto could be played only by extreme effort, la Bow rendered without trouble. It la said that the ap paratus produces Its effect without aar undesirable secondary results. Scientific Americaa, The $oe' NOT tHASff wounfc - that divorces are Increasing with daa garoua rapidity, aad that what waa onoa known aa "the holy state of matrimony' la now beoomlng a state at which the untrammeled and the free laugh. Wa cannot wonder at their amusement. How out thoughtful, clearsighted people suppose that two persona brought up amid totally different surroundings and clroumstaiioas, living ae parte rives for twenty or thirty years, can feel alike upon all points? And why should they? Doea a woman expect to control a man's whole nature, his sentiments, thoughts apd preferences, ta fact hla entire char acter? Doea a man buy a woman's soul her Intellect and aspirations to alter and do with aa he pi easts? No wonder that the world at large scoffs at auch a ridiculous proposition. And auch Ideas are making marriage Intolerable to man and women who think and feel sanely. Surely a woman oaa be a loving hon orable aad dutiful wife, and yet keep her Individuality; surely a maa can love, cherish and eleeee to tho womaa ha marrtaa and yet hare hla own Ideas aad views, van If they differ from berg. But some meal and women do not think this, aad they demand aa allegiance that la Impossible unless one la a mass, or mush, of concessions. If a husband loves hla wife, la faithful and kind to her. If he provides for her comfort, and la a sober, decent member of society, should she not be content? I know that It Is natural that aha should wish him to like the things she likes, but If he doea not, why need she be unhappy and make blm so, too? She can endure having her moat intimate friend posses Ideas at variance with her own, and this condition of af fairs doea not make her love her friend leas. Than why not ba on aa common sensible terms with one's husband as with one's friend? "Ah," sighs the wife, "but I do not Owner or Partner j . (" A Merry Wedding Teast J', The Adventures of Cupid y . By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. Soft la the breath of a maiden's yea. Not the light goaaamer atlra with less. But never a cable that holds ao fast. Through all the battlea of ware and blast Oliver Wendell Holmes. . Ah, who so bold, wbo is so sly aa that little boy Cupid T la hla first adventure, told in picture by Miss Nell Brinkley on The Bee's Home Magazine Page, ba starts ont on weak and wobbly legs with a message ot tors from tbs man's heart to the woman's. THE BEE: jnp Maa,irp p)a 1MUIS iOME ftAcC -a .,. ... - a- -veOUr IUJH TROOA VAI MEASeTO AU. aTl f Nl HevTi rrt. A WW Of JrtoeprW tRUef-? tt-frteCSTOILOa nrC fvfJOft. rf 1-A60C r RRjTBAti KlfM.T VAi A We. tomocei) mo, cmo tVN ArvO AiXeTD If A 1 CrfrAAr U A VSl-l-OW" reXUCvf WMrtJD VU CAU A WrVH0 A TrWCNr? IWxriv8ATTc3l-rDO. ' NArMA-fea A TiOqrr . AfVHr ata t-i.srmo I rtT OovjaA? avr , love my friend as I love my husband!" Mar I be brutal for hart a meawof What yon mean may ba that you de not own your friend aa yon wish to own your hatband. And you know that aha would not stand for such owner hip. And many men want to own their wives. "1 win go If my baabaad will let me," said a womaa a few ears ago. I would have pitied bar had I aot heard her remark aa hear earlier "I will not let my husband jola a oiub," I wondered how each prevented the other from doing OMAHA, TUESDAY, APRIL 3D, 1912. WHO f10U . vvw arn way na abO He? ALtO JAT m Aimirtfer r XOsU HS HKTTHm 8wue(L. iAfd ! Cewfkpwm, , w 2Sj?'aAW0,W NIovtT AMO WOa UM A JlDNS auuxa- fKi THAT AUXeTD TyVC BWttOietL. WHJ. .TH L frUiTlaj.am 1Vir - ' Vnir.VI. 1-S a we House ROCtc eaaBliHB.aa.Bas 70Mrf.7 00HT rVT VVlt HrNNO MTHci ifMOrtACtr PiTtHEjS. WiOMSj OOrrKXCAO. ietTiCitarri in nerwHO . Aeiigai 7hw MSH6 . cau. out trir THe rreOrv,- tr-fi, Wry marfeif AA 7"rwifirr AyTO. rVTtr.4- De JrjVw fvrx AwAy asU either at the things mentioned, bat prudence prevented my aaaUng. - f bore hi a law of leva and there la a law of cempulstoa. If a buabaad or wife will not follow the first, one should be aahamd ta enforce the second, when twa persons lava truly they wish to please each other. I acknowledge an that, ant to please need not Imply resigning Meal and principles or should not mean that If friendship aa well aa krra exists between husband asd wife, each will respect and consider the other's views CoprirhU IsU. Hence al News Aasoclatlon The Royal Roetd to Lore Having reached the maid's heart and made bar bis stoat humble servaot, Cupid mounts s royal steed, and with bis two captives bound by "tbs goaaamer of a maiden's yes," drags them oft to ye paradise. Would you accompany them? There Is hard traveling ahead. Tbs roads are steep and rough. There are briars to tear ssd wound. Jealous leers from the next turn la tbs road, waiting to begin bis torture. Doubts assemble along the way. Sometimes dissen sions attend, and often faith lags behind. But so long as the little god Lots lesds, the prisoners er JT ffTMt rtjCtrtaeVPH Po IOOO aesawaj a saaaj na a. K Bn. aaw r mmmucM thc aAtouiM VH tfXP. m ?aXr4 we Aft BlAtC VOVft Jawj-c W0U iVW CAUJS TMf SwN TO YCreO A ttdtTTJC POU Aa fkXtt THAT off A cvy i(av VH'H ATlOy ur. (IWEfEfiHf WAV TXrTVMf t Af IftWHimmO THE OWMtBTTC ? 3DMr toOtQMt (bYArfl-TWrSOiaEL lATC . noTteyv TDbOTrU. M aad each will allow the other to possess them la plaoa. Be I would say to my uui i eaputident whose letter 1 have quoted, that If, whea aha gees to ohursh or anywhere else, her husband voluntarily ai,issnisalia her because she would Ilka Mm to to or bars teas It makes her happy to have blm do ao, well end good. She may thank God and take eoureee. But It he doea aot want to go, and olr geea to prevent a qtiarrel, aha would do well to beg him to stay at home. - Drawn by II a, waw.ae II lUl-OOOf & would not be released if they could, and could sot If tbey would. For love Is the strangest of all paradoxes, sad those wbo follow it are happiest when tbey are most miser able. The bruises, the pains, the torments, the thirst that is never quenched, the bunger that is never satisfied, the heart that aches for that which it seeks, and aches when it gets it; all theee attendants on tbs road to love are what make it royal. The destination, paradise, may be uncertain, but it is paradise all the way. "For lore Is heaven and heaven is ie" .:. Drawn for By WINIFRED BLACK. A woman died la Hew Turk the other day and left V for th ear af fatvorlte pony. Alee aha left W.Nt to the ahyslclaa wha looked after her last Illness. The phyalclaa sent back the money or refuei 1 to receive It-end now It will go to the brother of the woman who died, aa he Is the aext heir. I'd like to see that d a a t a r-wouidn't yea? I wonder what sort of a looking man ha la There must be something about him different from ordinary man. Twelve thousand dollars! What a trip to Europe that might have meant, a stunning automo bile, even a college course for a favorite k. But he didn't want It wouldn't have It, That doctor la the first realty nca I've beard about la years, except one that I met the other day aver la the tenement district. The one I met In Hie tenement district la an Italian; be s ) years old; be married the other alght, and I weat ta tbs wedding. I wouldn't have ml seed H for anything aa earth. Auch a pretty bride, aueh eyes, aglow with the emne of Italy, auch blushes, such braids of night black hair, and such nlumo little hands and round llttla UtUa ankles. Such a gronmt So handsome; Ma Boas hooked a bit tea moo, perhaps, but what a pair of flashing area, what teeth, every one et them aa sound as a hickory nut and aa white a polished Ivory; what Nell Brinkley (7H 11 f e The Bee by Tad- a pair of shoulders, what S seep cheat, and whea he threw bark hla head and - laugnea aioua out oi pure neppmsss, what a splendid threat ha ah awed. What a laugh he had, too; why. It ' tamed the ejook back a dosea rsere to -hear It. and he oould sing, mind yos, aad '- did sing, with ao fakes medeety about -Mm. He up ta the aatddle of taut "," room and ssmSs mnm at bla bride sad .. aeag lave sanga till we All wished wa. were twent and It was our weokttag) ' ova What a supper-spaghetti, ohlokea (well, ot course. It might bare Bean veal; P- 4 .u.i 11 a,,, all . . . , . gallons of It. aad the gaesta kept ran- MngT W RVl Mia,", WVIV Ma Wl Its giving out before morning, but there never waa, ,,lrM There was plenty, plenty of evai-ytausi, ana ta enara: vsv. wa ware rich aa v.T Croesus; we had yewta aad food aad ' wine and love and laughter, aad the " long alght before ae, and the bride's ' mother sang, too, a king about 1 o'ewerc In tbs morning, aa aid esadtaa sons, aad all the nuooie-aaea women sn we room laughed and tried to sing, too, and soma ... cried, and elderly husbands seised elderly ' wtvss about their thick waists and swung ... , them In a as nee aa wild aad full of Joy aa aver waa footed ta all the -aatry. world, aad there waa no aueh thing aa poverty or oare or sorrow or bereave , armt or love forgotten and fldeNty be- ' t trayed, aad the gray old world swung ' back again to Paradlas." A wiwaaa arka vraa with aaa tanked .. upon the laughter aad listened to the - singing, end eke shook her bead, "What caa you do with people e thlar she aald. "That boy la only getting ' IU a week; why didn't he save aome ot It for the hard times that are coming 1 rr But ao. he'd have this wedding supper If he had starved, he and hla bride, tee, the very next week. And hla father sad mother are just aa bad; they never grow - an, these people; they're fust foorteh ehndren as long as they Uva." - Aad the womaa wha was wtth ne r stghted and looked very sad, aad I know -v she waa composing sentenoee for bar next assay en the Troblem of the Tana- :. meats." which she aaa promised ta read at the Settlement Rouse at the very Beat y BMetlng of philanthropists. ' - Just foolish children! Well, t suppose they are, but I looked at the careworn '.. face of my friend who sighed over It. -and I thought of her little wisp of a dried-up mother, who never really "' laughed out loud In bar life, aad of bar , -solemn father, with the llnee of money grubbing bitten Into hla face aa If by add. and somehow I found myself feel- -r-Ing sorry for bar and her kind of people, Instead ot tor the groom and the bride j who laughed their impecunious hours a war. and their trlende and families. Whatever else comes to that Bttle bride, whatever happens to that groom, this one time of joy aad eareleee hepptnese X they've bad; aad nothing, aot all the senraoaa la the world, oaa take the mesa- ,. ory of It away from them. Poor little settlement worker, she's ao good aad ao honest end so painstaking; and, yet, has aba ever la an her Ufa bad , one hour of reel Joy of living? I wieh that doctor who refused h take the tum In New Tork had been at that .v wedding. I behave be would have en- -Joyed It to the very core of bla bear. . ClreeVatlaa Oraterw. " Oa one eccasloo Senator TUlmaa waa so much pleased with a speech he ma III -that he prUHed It la pamphlet form. .r "I oeaaTatulata yon.' Senator Balkry said, a tew days after, "oa that speech,- which yoa have circulated aa a paanphlea. I happened to see one this morning, aad It coatalned some of the beet things X have ever asea in any pamphlet oa that . "I am very prood to beer yon say 00." . said Tillman, muck gratified. Wbas - were the things that pleased yoa so much?" '-Why." explained Bailey, "aa I passed . , the Senate restaurant this morning Ir" saw a girl eame out tnto the oorrtder wtth two cherry plea wrapped up la It. ' . -Popular Magasine. Polated l'umapnapbe. One kiss at leisure may be worth a dosen In baste. ' Isn't It queer that only sensible people .. rer agree with you? . Soon after marriage a girl's brain cesses to be a dream factory. A bad ettlasa Is oae whose room at prsf arable to hie company. -Bo many sjuesr things happsa aewa- " days that miracles are considered a back .'- Bomber. ' Just so a maa makes love to her, a ' , woman may aot care whether ha aueaaa. It or not. . .. Whea the prMtcgrapher tails yea to "' look pleasant tt ta ap to yoa w manga) - ' but face. . v " .. It Isn't the proper thing for a girl to practice aa a vocal range while her poor .. ssother praoaoea oa a reoklag rang a, ? Chicago Neva, .