2 B THE BEE: OMAHA. SUNDAY. AfRIL 23. 1022. Problems That Perplex BEATRICE FAIRFAX. Apple Charlotte. Tliii is delicious deert. Si enough tM ppls mw pint ej ihult iiuffi etrn iH fo o what sugar and -on with cmav Who Occupiel Uniqw Position in tht Writing World n Authority on ih Problem of Curl. ' "What outJ yen da about a man bo ii (dorabb and io tnd loving that ill hard la hink o( Ife without him. but who never doei on considerate and rouipHfljr unseliuh thing for your" wines MbrL "Now, to make myself clear, let m tell you one hicmcHt. 1 ha ether night 1 wa invited to a dinner in one of th suburbs. I telephoned -my fianca and asked him to go with me. a my hoite hid oJi4 m to bring my own etcort. Hut he id 1 oulu to know by this time that format d n neri bored him. 1 couldn't s-t him to g He didn't think of the ffront ta my friend or to nte. It didn't even occur to him to offer to meet i at th train on my return. Thii i the sort of thing I meet with all tha time. "Vet when it ennui to showing me attention of hit own choosing he li lovely about it. He U generous with money, and devotiion Itaelf if 1 let him carry out hi own ideal and don't annoy him by developing any of my own. Do you think this meant unhappincti after we marry r tor if he won't adapt hinuelf to my friend, my eleirei, my pereonality what It there for me to do but become a shadow of him, and thu I don't want to be. and "Do you think I'm making up trouble for myself or nuking a fut about nothing? This lecmi most important to me, but maybe you can laugh it away." No, 1 can't laugh lack of consid eration away. We live in a world where certain social requirement are made upon all of us. We don't need to be ociety people, but we do need to have Mends and to form part of a social group. And this requires cer tain adjustments by u. Often we do not want to nuke them, but the price of friendship is consideration and courtesy. Consideration and courtesy are part and parcel of love. Of course, there is always this excuse for a man who doesn't do the right thing socially. Society is administered by women and is more important to them than to men. Men are io used to being excused for their little lapses from boyhood to manhood and so accustomed to being petted by women that they get into the way of thinking hat they are a Igw unto themselves. Little thingi don't matter to men as to women. But a great deal of peace and happiness is dependent on little things. . Men may have formal occasions when those occasions are purely so cial. But they go to banquets dinners when there is a business rea son for so doing. So it is only fair that a man should be logical and con ihtrnt about the intercut of hit sweetheart. Of course there are plenty of wo men who innist on putting; their so cial engaiieiiients ahead ot the vital business interests of men. No wo man can expect a hard-working man to neglect something in connection with his work in order to take her to a dance on hich her heart is set and which will do nothing for either be yond costing many hours of valuable sleep. Women must teach themselves to look at the values of situations fairly and squarely. A man's lack of consideration may be due to his lark of perspective. It may. come from his lack ot training. The thing for a girl to do who loves a man and is unhappy over his unwillingness to meet her anything like half way in the matters which count with her is to sit down and talk the thing over without rancor or emotion. More and more the re lation between husband and wife is coming to be a 50-50 one of mutual allowances and mutual concessions. And the farsighted woman will try to educate her man to a sense of equity. Washington Society Bureau of The Bee, Washington, April 22. It it distinctly woman's time in Washington this month. Never have f,here been so many Daughters of tjhe American Revolution here, for the Congress was larger than ever before, 4nd, in fact, is increasing every year iith the formation of new chapters iVerywhcre. . And scarcely was the inMnp.c. !! ctarfitrl wliptl tl r11 gates to the convention of the Leafeue of Women Voters, which opened in Baltimore Thursday, began to ar rive. Nearly all of them came to Washington first and many of the Daughters of the American Revolu tion delegates also are delegates to the other. The women who are here With the delegates to the Pan-American Scientific congress, and the wo men of the auxiliary committee' of which Mrs. Charles Evans Hughes is. secretary, have been invited to a joint conference with the League of Women Voters, so that it will be a double affair, with a special Wash ington day next Friday. Secretary Hughes will address the women, who will meet in special session in the Memorial Continental hall. : Lord and Lady Astor, who are guests of the former United States minister to The Netherlands, " and Mrs. John W. Garrett, in Baltimore, Lady Astor attending the sessions of the joint conference of women, will 'Come to Washington next week and be guests for a few days at least of Mr." and Mrs. Gifford Pinchot. 'Mrs. Pinchot is giving a tea for Lady .'Astor Saturday afternoon. They; were girlhood friends and are still interested in just the same progres sive things. Mrs. Hughes will re ceive the delegates at a beautifully arranged reception in the Pan-American building on Friday afternoon, the affair, being in honor of the for eign ladies, the delegates to the con vention of . the League of Women Voters being included. , A great mass 'meeting will be hem in the Memonaj Continental hall Friday evening. This joint conference is one of the tit knost importance, not only to the women, but to the countries and dis trict! they represent. Washington day will have its significance. The speakers at the mass meeting will include Secretary Hughes, Ambassa dors Mathieu and Geddes of Chile .and Great Britain, respectively; Dr. j?owe, director general --of the Pan-American union; Mrs. Carrie Chap jTnan Catt and a number of others, Twho will talk along the lines of f'What the .Women of the Americas Can Do to Promote Friendly Rela tions." Round table conferences pre Istded over by prominent American j-women will play an important part 3n the joint conference. In the broad sand comprehensive program which that been arranged by the national ' league work comtemplated or now feheing carried on by women in the various countries of North, and South America it being fully outlined and f-discussea Dy tne aeiegaies. ine dele gates to the Pan-American women's 'conference have all the privileges fot the floor during the joint confer-'- ence except a vote. . Tuesday evening the Nebraska As sociation of Washington gave a large and brilliant reception with dancing !in honor of Nebraskans receiving .- presidential appointments in this ad i ministration. They were J. Raymond "McCarl of McCook, comptroller also was absent because of her se rious illness again, from which sev eral weeks ago it was thought she was recovering. Mr. Andrews was present. A short program of music was given by Mrs. M. C. Guthrie, daughter of Mr. Harding, and Miss Marion Harding, her cousin, from Oakland, who is here studying music at the Convervatory. Mrs. McCarl wore a charming costume of shell pink chiffon and satin with crystal triinminKS. Mrs. Pugsley was in Hardinir blue chiffon studded with blue sequins,. Mrs. Snyder, wore black satin and lace and won derful old corals, in a necklace and ear-rings. Mrs. Nielsen was in laven der satin, chiffon and lace, and Miss Abbott wore black satin and lace and an Oriental scarf. In addition to the many Nebraskans living in Washing ton there were a number of guests from the state, who are east on visits, Among them was Mrs. Crowley, wife of Dr. Charles F. Crowley of Lreigh ton university, Omaha, who is the guest of Dr. and Mrs. Straeten, and Mrs. Susie Root Rhodes, Mrs. Strat- en's mother. Mrs. Crowley wore black lace and chiffon. Mrs. Annie Chai- kin Sorenson of Lincoln and Mrs. W. E. Barkley, also of Lincoln, also were in the company.. .They are both deleaves to the convention of the League of Women Voters being held in Baltimore. Mrs. Crowley came east to spend Easter with her son, Edouard. who is at the naval acad- emv. A splendid celebration of the close of the sixth year ot service o: Mrs. Susie Root Rhodes as head of the municipal playgrounds of Washing ton. was held yesterday at the old est playground in the city, which is in southeast Washington. " Miss Thelma Smith, the suoervisor of that playground, had a tea in honor of Mrs. Rhodes and asked the children of the district and their parents to meet her. Mrs. Rhodes is from Crete, Neb., where many pi her relatives live. She is contemplating a visit home some time this summer. Mrs. Smyth, wife of Justice Con stantine J. Smytlv gave a tea in her apartment Monday afternoon for their daughter, Mrs. Charles W. Bur gess of Omaha, who is spending : few weeks with her parents. Many of the Nebraska people and the young friends of Mrs. Burgess were among the guests. .. The engagement of Miss Marian Hamilton, daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Charles William Hamilton of Omaha to George E. Hamilton, jr., of this city, was of much interest in society here. Miss Hamilton visited Mr, Hamilton's sisters last season and made a -splendid impression upon society and she will be welcomed royally as a permanent member of the resident set. Mr. Hamilton is the son of one of Washington's most prominent bankers, and though of the same name, the two families are not related. Things You'll Love To Make I general f the United States; C. W. "Pugsley of Lincoln, assistant secre tary of agriculture; Edgar C Snydef t of Omaha, United States marshal of -v the District of Columbia; Fred K. j Nielsen of Wahoo, solicitor for the State department, and Miss Grace . Abbott of Grand Island, the only wo- man in the group, who is chief of the f children'a bureau, Department of s Labor. Representative M. O. McLaughlin of York, as president of the association, headed the receiving ' line, and the introductions were made h by Mr. Harding, formerly of Oak land, Neb., who was a former officer and one of the organizers of the as- sociation. Mrs. McCarl, Mrs. Pugs . ley, Mrs. Synder and Mrs. Nielsen all . stood beside their husbands. .Repre sentative and Mrs. Reavis were ' among the early arrivals, but left early because Mrs. Reavis is still 5f recovering from her serious illness of ' the winter. Mrs. Andrews, wife of Representative .William EAndrews, Hi! men. Soak one envelope of gelatin (about two level ublripoons) in one hl cup of cold wtter for five mm utcs; tir the gelatin into the boiling apple sue. remove from the heal and beat till perfectly tmooth; then itir In the ttiff-beaten white of two t8. 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