WOMEN'S SECTION " TFNf CFNTS V T7ZZ 7TTZrZZ77rZ " "n,iA cnMnAv rnp'ir, ATinilST 14. 1921. 1 B V UL. 01 iNU. "J. 1 A II 1 1 W U wiuniin, uu""" " 1 "1 "T : M u.... J -r TV ,How to Be a Leader in Society A Character Analyst Ad vises Prominent Matron Of Our City. By GABBY DETAYLS. A PROMINENT matron of our city recently visited a charac ter analyst. "I want to become a social leader," slie said by way of introduction. "Money is no object, for my husband is a successful bootlegger. Now how can you help nie?" For the benefit of poor folks who Gabby wjll recount some of the bits ! of wisdom given this would-bc leader, i Seating Dinner Guests. "When seating guests at your din ner table," began the analyst, "study their heads. Do not seat Mr. K., who has a heavy upper development (a Daniel Webster dome, Gabby would say) next to Miss C, whose forehead slopes decidedly back to her faultless marcel. Why? They have nothing in common. Your Daniel Websters will be dreaming and philosophizing while those of the Uncle Sam profile will be thinking quickly in the world of affairs. 'Tut your. Websters together and let them dream. Place your typical a . i . . i i r . i . . .Americans un 111c omcr siuc 01 mc 'table where they will soon- be dis- 9 cussing the latest gelt scores, tue ' best sellers (and cellars) ' and the prospective pennant winners for the . season. y ' Be a Matchmaker. ' "Next you must remember," said the acute-minded analyst, "that no one is a thorough-going society leader without being a matchmaker. And, alter all, tins will be your great fnrt Ttv iiiarrvinc off nnfl n vmir Kfiittifiil nrrvtpcynpQ in a Kcw York lawyer, another to a diplomat in the Orient and still another to a titled European, you will establish coaling stations for yourself, as it were, which will give you pleasure on your travels as well as prestige. "But you must know your busi ness. Your matches must', turn out successfully. Pick out a dainty creature with retrousse nose, indi catincr a vieldinsy disoosition. and a chin curving concavely from lip to fy tip, denoting patience, for the dom- y mating cave man type wun tne prominent aggressive nose and im patient receding chin. That will be a charming combination of the bur ly Othello and gentle Desdemona. "Yes, my dear, before you thrust two young people out together in the moonlight, study them. By all means look at their thumbs. Don't ever try to mate flat-thumbed peo ple. If they marry, wifey will be back to father within a month. Flat tbiimbed people are obstinate, and in this case two negatives do ! not make a positive. ' , Week-End Parties. ' "Nothing like week-end parties for -making social 'hay.' That is, providing you aie a shrewd hostess. Better omit them entirely if you are not. Week-end parties establish an intimacy of acquaintance which will redound to your credit and glory, if, in the vernacular, you 'get away with them. New, if you are planning a camping party, choose the coarser textured people. Get the rugged type of stocky, athletic build, and medium to coarse hair. They will j enjoy ail tt.c narusmpo, even r V V I f t 1 1 1 1 I 111! llll.Aa 1 L llV, V JJUl nnc-texturcd man wouia sniver ai every bug and worm encountered. If you are taking that kind of an in dividual, make the trip camping de luxe for him. You can afford it, of course, considering your hus band's business. Marrying Off Your Children. "If you want the good that you do to live after you and not be 'interred with your bones,' take an unobserved interest in the man your daughter marries and the girl who wins your son. Remember the cases are en tirely different. You will wish your daughter to marry for money, while vour son should have a frugal wife. He should look for the square-head, long-fingered type, while your daugh ter should have the energetic, motive minded individual. So again, study your types! Chauffeurs and Maids. . "Not the least important asset to a i-. -nartne -n r rnnr mam should be artistic and good on detail. You should know by looking at her whether or not she will leave dust in the corners. Short-fingered people are not eood on details. Square palms denote planning ability. Re member this in choosing your house keeper, who should be an expert in that department. Choose your chauf feur for reliability and mechanical genius and you need have no fear of your daughter eloping with him. High Lights at Receptions. "Receptions, as do nothing else, af ford opportunity for catching the high lights. Whether you are re ceiving yourself, or being received, you have occasion to greet many people in only a word or two. The person of culture never "holds up" a line. She must get her personality over in a moment and in a word. In a flash she must size up her "man." Here is superb opportunity to apply character analysis. "For example, here comes a de cided brunette. That type is given to negative moods, you know. What will you say to her? You must not jolt her. Give her something sym pathetic. If her daughter has just married, make some remark about losing a daughter but gaining a son. She won't care if the remark is trite. Your sentimental sympathy will make her heart warm toward you. "But . what about the buoyant blonde? Take her off her feet I You won't offend her easily and you must interest her. Give her the up and coming stuff, and 'cut the sympathy. Date lic'r up for a poker game, or the gambling top. Do it quickly. Don't plan. She will change her mind if you give her time to think it over. "Ike color of the hair alone is not ' " '' ' "' ' ' - ' ; Left ioricut- top vow lrs "Marie leff Caldwell Doud, Tfiss Lilly WiUouist, 7 r'3rss Beatrice Peterson, 7Kiss Mavtj Ttiotnas, TKiss Lotetia. f(txoy.t bottom rou KZyk V T&lenAlaponis, Lux. Gonez., Nicholas Petvo : : , : -i the determining factor, however, you must remember. The build, facial expression (which reveals life's ex periences to the trained eye), and all the fine minutia which go with analy sis, must be taken in consideration. Not an Occult Study. "This business is an exact science, you know," the analyst concluded. "There is nothing occult or mystic about it, as some people foolishly be lieve. None of us but recognizes in stinctively that face, hands, build, expression, etc., reveal character, but most of us haven't realized yet the far-reaching significance which analy sis may have in all walks of life. -It is an established thing in the busi ness world, but is only beginning to be seized upon as a force in social life. You are among the pioneers in this aspect of the work. Do you think you care to go in for it, re membering there is much to learn about which I have only hinted?" Husband for President "Heavens, yes, the 'customer' re plied, "only instead of aiming at so cial leadership, I think I might as well make my husband president of the United States. With what you could teach me, it would be a simple matter, I believe, and then, of course, I would have the leadership, too." That is why one of our prominent matrons is so busily studying during these hot August days. GABBY was attending a meeting. Two women were exchanging trmihle on the side. "How is your sister," asked one. "No better and no worse," was the "Ply- . ... "Too bad, said tne wouia-De sympathizer. riokKw 'nn1rfH iv-hat ibp meant. "too bad," and recalled to herself the story of a man who telephoned the doctor, "My mother-in-law is at death's door. I want you to come and pull her through. Lincoln Plans To Have a Drama League Lincoln is ambitious for a drama league. Mrs. T. L. Mead and Miss Hazel Snell believe there is need for such an organization and enough local talent to justify it A meet ing will be called early in Septem ber. They contemplate affiiation with the National Drama league if they organize. The Omaha Drami league withdrew from the national body a year ago. It is interesting to know that Larry Raugh, a former Lincoln boy, has the leading part in "Prunella," which is now being rehearsed by the Chicago Drama league for an early fall or late tnmmcr oerformance. The Omaha Fraternity Balls Planned For Autumn Diirinc the autumn, when brides are so numerous and the festivities of Ak-Sar-Ben so interesting, society usually feels that the women and girls are having more pleasure tnan tupn. but not so this vear. There are to be some "big times" of which the women will have only a smaa part. Phi Rlin Sitrma medical fraternity and Delta Tau Delta fraternity will hold their national conventions in A,v Phi Rhn Sicma will be in session September 12, 13 and 14 and will have their headquarters at me Fontenelle, as will Delta Tau Delta, which will meet August 23 to 27. Til nrrasinns when eirls will participate in the pleasures are the balls. Then the wives, sweethearts and best girls will have a golden opportunity to display tneir idicsi fall frocks and gowns. The Phi Rho Sigma dance will be imU WflftnpcHav evenine. Septem ber 14, at the Blackstone ball room, and the Delta Tau Delta party will be given Saturday evening, August 27, at the fontenelle. vWt Thn Sienna, which has two chapters in Omaha, one at Crcigh- ton and one at tne university ui Nebraska College of Medicine, is in that the Nebraska chap ter has a house w here some of the convention activities win prouauiy t 30 dcleerates and as many alternates are expected, as well as a large numucr ui aiumi.. who are located in the middle west. Joint Outing of "Y" Groups Is Planned All girls and women of Omaha are invited to be the guests of the Y W. C. A. from 4 to 9:30 Thurs day, August 18, at a picnic ai d out ing at Krug park. The x. M. C. A. will at the same time entertain tie boys and young men of Omaha. Admission tickets may be obtained free of charge by calling at the Y. W. C. A. office. ' A program of games and water sports is planned in the afternoon for the younger girls. Parents are in vited to bring picnic suppers and join in the games and water sports for adults, in the evening. Miss Mabel Quiner and Miss Mary Jewell will be in charge of water sports and volley ball games for the Y. W. C. A., in co-operation with George Campbell and Norman J. Weston of the Y. M. C. A. Miss Bea V. Swanson and Miss Emily Lear will have charge of the program in the afternoon for the younger Miniature Melting Pot J UICIUII5 pUl 111 111 ill laiUIL V CkJ kilt. UUiniiiv.1 --- Settlement Countries of Europe, Asia, North, Central and South Amer icas have representatives among the children who have been attending the class. Helen Aluponis, Lithuanian; Luz Gomez, Mexican; Nicholas retro vachky, Serbian, and Frederick Jordan, German, are pictured above with ir t t ct r-n1rl..,atl Ti..,l l.Airl rciftpnt rf ttii fttlnipnt. and her IMTS. Hi.dllC J-.CU VdlUVXll tUUip in-au i j. v.. v. .. , - assistant, Miss Lorena Knox; Miss Beatrice Peterson, director of the . . ' . . ... ir' T Ml T T Ml ' i. I 111.. kindergarten, and two ot ner assistants, juiss i-iny fimqursi anu miss Mary Thomas. . ti,. tn ?n V.it-rrA i-rtTun t irr ivnrVr lnrlunincr Alis Peter- Son, director; the Misses Thomas, Hillquist, Dorothy Wright, Eva Erixon, Georgiana Steel, Elizabeth Youngman, Frances Wiles, Ruth Betts, Mil . r . -T-, , t x ' ...it... t . 1. - r r.u i t 1 T) V : : . . : nred Jacic, iieien vveymuuer, csiner ainpueiu, ncicu jwrcu, msuna Davis, Nora O'Neil. Helen Cain, Thelma Warren and Mesdames F. O. Beck, C. A. Stewart and Mrs. Elmer Wenberg. It was a merry group of youngsters who attended the party at the settlement Friday morning, which was held in connection with the closing of the six weeks' course. . Rosie Weber and Rosie Algya, each 21-2 years old, are the youngest members of the class. They are pictured above enjoying their ice cream cones. Considerable coaxing was necessary to induce them to leave the protection of their older sisters for the few minutes it took to pose for their picture. The twins, Frances and Jennie Bares,, age 4, were putting a picture puzzle together when the photographer snapped them. The charming little Spanish dancer is Teresa Gomez, Mexican. Teresa and Luz, who is shown in the group with the teachers, are sisters.. Charities Benefit "Twenty dollars worth of food and fun for $5," said Mrs. George Doane Friday, referring to the Associated Charities benefit dinner which will be given in the new Brandeis res taurant the evening of September IS. George Brandeis is donating the en tire cafe floor, the food, the service and the orchestra which will furnish music for 'dancing. "This means $5,000 for the chari ties, if Omaha people will attend," said Mrs. George Doane, secretary. At 11 o'clock that evening a mid night revue will be presented. Mrs. Howard H. Baldrige, who is general chairman for the benefit, promises that it will be something "unsur passed in Omaha frolic annals." The English grill room, done in mahogany, the French room, renais sance type, and the private dining rooms of the restaurant will be util ized for the dinner and also for the two luncheons which will go with the benefit series. Juan Muller of Rome, Paris, Lon don, New York and Chicago, man aging director of this new establish ment, has already arrived in Omaha and the object of his life for the next four weeks, according to his own declaration, is to make the bene fit dinner more wonderful than Lucullus of Rome or. Esccoficr of France could have originated in their most fruitful epicurean days. Mr. Muller is Swiss by birth. At 12 years of age he was a page in the Quirinal at Rome, the greatest hotel in that historic city, favored by royalty for their private fetes. The Rcstaurante Josef ,of Paris next claimed him and then the Sa voy and Rit2 of London, also the Sunday . to Set New Mark Romanos, preferred by King Ed ward and very popular among Eng lish sportsmen. As steward of Lord Beresford he later toured the world, becoming familiar with all the del icacies afforded by India, Australia and New Zealand, where prolonged visits were made. Cafe Martin in New York was the first American restaurant with which Mr. Muller was identified. After a successful experience as manager there, he went to Chicago where he took charge at the Con gress hotel, remaining until the op ening of the La Salle in 1909. In 1913 he returned to the Congress, leaving only to open a place of his own, the Seville, a high-class res taurant on Sheridan road. This he sold to come to Omaha and open the Brandeis cafe in September. The charities dinner will be his debut as a managing director in Omaha. His great pride in his work as an art will lead him to no limit in presenting something unusual to Omaha on this occasion "the equal of anything in New York," it will be, he assures. "Every man in the kitchen will be an artist," Mr. Mueller has said. He has secured one chef from the Blackstone in Chicago and another from the Ritz in London. "All we have to do is sell tickets," said Mrs. Baldrige. Those who make reservations early will get pre ferred or 'ringside' seats next to the dance floor." . The public is invited to attend this affair, which will not be full dress. Mrs. J. J. McMtillen, Harney 1222. is taking reservations; tickets at Matthews book and Bea ton's drug stores. Bee D. A. R. Chairmen Of National Committees Mrs. Charles F. Spencer of North Platte, state regent of the Nebraska Daughters of the American Revolu tion has appointed the following state chairmen of national commit tees: Mrs. R. C, Hoyt, Omaha, con servation and thrift; Mrs. S. K. Hanford, Omaha, revolutionary relics; Miss Katherine Green, Lin coln, Americanization and patriotic education; Miss Roxie Ammerman, Fairmont, official D. A. R. maga zine; Mrs. F. W. Downing, Kearney, preservation of historic spots; Mrs. Otoe Morton, Nebraska City, cor rect use of the American flag; Mrs. L. W. Headstrom, Stromsburg. na tional old trails roads; Mrs. William Madgett, Hastings, historical and literary reciprocity; Mrs. J. J. Reimers, Genoa, "Real Daughters;" Mrs. George Scouler, Superior, his torical research; Mrs. Ellis E. Good, Peru, memorial continental hall li brary and state genealogical library; Mrs. M. A. Hostetler, Shelton, pub licity; Miss Julia Fuller, Beatrice, flag awards; Mrs. York Hinman, North Platte, Fort McPherson flower. ' Officers of the state chapter in clude: Mrs. Charles F. Spencer of North Platte, regent; Mrs. Eliza beth O. Smith, Chadron, vice regent; Mrs. Milan S. Moore, Gothenburg, recording secretary; Mrs. Eugene W. Huse, Wayne, corresponding secretary; Mrs. Ernest E.- Correll, Hebron, treasurer; Mrs. Charles C. Waldo, Lincoln, registrar; Mrs. George Scoular, Superior, historian; Mrs. Elmer E. Gillette. McCook, auditor; Mrs. Ellis E. Good, Peru, librarian; Mrs. Wilbur S. Lccte, Plattsmouth, chaplain. The 20th annual conference of the Nebraska D. A. R. will be held at Lexington in March, V922. Mrs. P. A. Adams, regent of the local chap ter is chairman of the committee on arrangements. Musician Returns to OmaKa to Reside ; Stanislav Letovsky, well-known pianist of this city, returned from Europe a year ago to reside with his parents at Florence. Dur ing his sojourn abroad he had un usual experiences as a composer and conductor, according to his friends. It is planned that he will appear in recital here at the Fontenelle Octo ber 4. Mr. Letovsky will reside here during the coming winter and will open a studio in Omaha. He was at one time a pupil of Joseph Gahm of Omaha Marriage and a Career Marriage and a career. Husbands and, well, say Poetry? My dear, I would not for the world discourage you; but Well, here is my story: I wrote a poem once, a good one, too. I sent it to a magazine, it was ac cepted. I had maintained a modest silence, though puffed up with pride, Till it appeared, And then I hurried with it to my husband, And, with a throbbing heart, stood waiting while he read it. This he did slowly and carefully. He gave it back to me without a word of comment Either upon its content or its ar tistry; v But, with an injured air you know the way they do He said: "Why have you kept this thing a secret from me. Mary?" I was a bit dashed, still in my new joy I got away with it. But, when again genius laid hold on me And wrung from out my soul an other gem of poesy. Without delay, I took it to my hus band, Again I stood with throbbing heart and waited. All this was years ago, my dear; but I can see him now, An ample man, with heavy rims around his glasses, Holding that precious slip of paper in his hand And slowly reading. He read it over twice, three times: He turned the paper over as though to be assured That he had seen it all And then he gave it back to me. He looked me over thoughtfully; He laid. a gentle hand upon my shoulder And said, in such a kindly voice, "There, there, dear, that's all right. Suppose I just don't go to the office today And you and I will take a good long ride into the country, The air will do you good." This thing or something like it hap pened to me twice, three times; I've finished now, even a wife can bear only so much, And now I know that first sweet child of my unfettered fancy Will never have a little brother. Marriage and a career? Husbands and, well, say Poetry? Was Alice Carey married? Or her sister. Thoebe? Does Amy Lowell have a husband? And can you mention a second fa mous poem by Mrs. Julia Ward Howe? My dear, I would not for the world discourage you: But, child, not all "the mute in glorious Miltons rest in country churchvards. By fcdith k AIU11 The Woman LT.lim SOCIETY Small Craft Popular on Potomac Impetus Given to Boating By Presidential Use of the Mayflower. Bureau of The Bee, Washington, Aug. 13. Almost all of official Washington is taking itself to the seaside, the mountains or the river and bay this week-end. The frequent use of the Mayflower, the presidential yacht, by President and Mrs. Harding has given an impetus to boating. The river is full of small craft of all kinds and not for many years have there been so many yacht clubs on the Potomac as there are just now. The President and Mrs. Harding returned on Tuesday morning from the longest trip they have made on the Mayflower. Their party was much smaller on the return trip than when they went up to Plymouth and on to Portland. Senator and Mrs. Frelinghuyscn and Senator and Mrs. Phipps went up with them, and Senator and Mrs. New returned here with them, along with Secre tary Christian. The speaker of the house of rep resentatives, who, with Mrs. Gillett, went up on the Mayflower and to the Weeks' lodge, returned here by rail Monday morning, but Mrs. Gil lett remained in the north and if now having a visit from her son-in-law and daughter, Mr. and Mrs. Reginald Foster, who have but just returned from their wedding trip to Bermuda. The past week was the dullest, socially, which Washington has known this summer. The dullness will continue, too, until congress has had its recess and gets back on the job. Few of the congressional peo ple will return to their homes unless they are in the eas., as it is hardly worth while for them to make long trips for so short a time. Secretary of State and Mrs. Hughes arc thoroughly enjoying the beautiful suburban and isolated place, "Graystone," the home of the Thomas Armats, which they have leased for the summer season. They will remain out there until well into October, for the early autumn is one of the most beautiful seasons in Washington. The secretary of state will be the busiest host of all during the dis armament conference which opens Armistice day. It is estimated that the conference "Kirr-bring to AVssrr""" ington no less than 500 brilliant men and women of almost all nationali ties. Already those responsbile for housing and entertaining them are busy with the puzzle of proper quarters. It has been decided by seme of the embassies and legations, those which are the most spacious, to entertain the parties from their countries there, the secretaries being the ones to be put at the inconven ience of finding accommodations where they can for those weeks. The gayeties attending the conference are likely to begin the first of November and to continue until the first of January. The presence here of the delegates will inspire an earlier opening of "the little season" than has ever been known before and the "little season" will be merged into the real one. Senator Hitchcock spent the last week-end in Atlantic City, where he went to join Mrs. Hitchcock and Miss Ruth Hitchcock, at the Ritz Carlton, where they are for the sea son. Wrhen congress takes its recess he will go there for a good rest. Senator and Mrs. Norn's are al ready established in their summer camp in Wisconsin, where their daughters join them from time to time, one or two remaining with them all the time, assisting their mother to nurse their father back to health. He has been in bad health for a year. Representative and Mrs. Reavis will not get out to their home in Falls City, Neb., until Christfnas, as the recess time will be so short they they would not be justified in making the long journey. They expect their two sons, C. Frank jr. and Jack, who live in Cleveland, to spend the last week of this month with them. John Shanahan, secretary to Rep resentative Jefferis of Omaha, is planning to make his first visit to Atlantic City when congressional business here is suspended for a month. He will defer, his visit home until Christmas, like many of the congressman and their families. Representative and Mrs. Jefferis and their daughter, Janet, took an interesting motor trip to the Endless Caverns in Virginia recently. Mr. Jefferis' family will remain east until Christmas. Judge and Mrs. Robert E. Evans' find their pretty apartment so com fortable that they are loath tf leave it even for the seashore. They have not decided whether they will go up to visit in their old home in Penn sylvania, make a little visit at the seashore, or just stay in their apart ment and enjoy the quiet. General Pershing is making a visit in Columbia, S. C. He has as his guest in his luxurious apartment at 2029 Connecticut avenue. General Charles G. Dawes, director of the budget, who is an old friend. The Pershing apartment is in the very handsome, new building known as the apartment house de luxe. It is at the corner of Wyoming avenue and Connecticut and commands a view of Rock Creek, Rock Creek park, the Georgetown Heights and the city in general if one goes to the upper floors. It is one of the pret tiest sections of the city, within a few feet of the million dollar bridge over Rock Creek, on the road to Chevy Chase. LI