THE BEE: OMAHA, FRIDAY, JANUARY. 23. 1920.
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SwmI arc tha u of advaraity.
Which lika tha toad, ugly and vtaomoui,
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Shakaapaara.
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ETY
Mirhoff-Henrickson.
The marriage of Miss Lillie Hen-
ricksort, daughter of John H. Hen-
rickson. and F. H. Marhoff of New
. Orleans, son of Mrs. tl. it. Marnort
; of Omaha, took place Wednesday
eveninar at tne lmmanuei iuuiciu
. - " r ri iH
I church. Key. U. nenry oni
". Mrs. J. R. Henrickson, matron of
I honor, wat gowned in silver cloth
and carried an arm.bouquet of red
; roses. Miss Olara Johnson of Mo
; line, 111., .one of the bridesmaids,
wore a gown of pink taffeta. Her
1 shower bouauet was of lavender
sweet peas. Mrs. H. E. Snyder, the
I ether bridal attendant, wore laven
der taffeta combined with silver lace.
'! With this gown, she carried pink
nwert ntas.
Marjorie Murray, the flower girl,
. wore a frock of white organdie
J Fred Snyder, the ring bearer, wore
a suit of dark blue reiver.
I The bridal eown was of white
'charmeuse combined with silver and
laee. The Ion veil which fell to
"r the hem of the j?own was of rose
ooint lace. the bride carried a
I shower bouquet of white roses, lilies
of the vallev and orchids.
F. F. Pitts acted as best man. The
1 ushers were J. R. Henrickson and
H. E. Snvder. v
I Immediately after the ceremony a
reception was held at the home of
i Mr. and Mrs. F. F. Pitts for im-
' mediate relatives and intimate
' friends.
The bride's traveling suit was of
henna peach bloom trimmed with
-.squirrel fur. She wore with it a
; small toque of gray and her corsage
was of orchids and roses.
f Arter an eastern trip, Mr. and
Mrs. Marhoff will be at home in
I New Orleans February 15.
Mrs. Johannes Returns.
Mrs. Charles E. Johannes returned
; Tuesday from Red Oak, la., after
spending four davs there as the guest
!of Mrs. B. 6. Clark. Mrs. Johan
Jnes was guest of honor at, many so-
cial functions in Red Oak, including
I a dinner given by Mrs. Clark and a
'card party and supper on another
occasion. Mrs. Philo Clark enter-
tained 15 guests at luncheon for Mrs.
I Johannes and Mrs. Edward Hays
.was also a luncheon hostess for the
', Omaha visitor.
Mrs. d. B. Clark, Mrs. Flnlo Clark
land. Mrs. Edward Hays were among
;the visitors in Omaha during the
general federation board meetings
'early this month, when Red Oak
, clut) women were invited to attend
the Omaha omans club open
.meeting, at which general federation
officers spoke. Mrs. B. B. Clark is
treasurer of the General Federation
of .Women's Clubs. vMrs. Johannes'
'j
1
I Dancing Masters
H Offer High
Standards
Dancing is a most popular amuse-
ment in Oinaha amonjj yourig and
; old. It is said that any amusement
j-which attracts widely must be con
sidered from time to time to de
termine : whether or not it meas
ures up to the standards of. the
majority of the people. It is perhaps
'easier i'or a few to misrepresent the
.majority in dancing than in almost
t anything else. With the idea of
r i: ta nrlorrl tvirt tr rlanrinor flirt nirirn
I national association of masters of
oancing, at rneir conierences in iNew
York City, launched a campaign for
" dancing that can in no way offend
the most lefmed tastes. The asso-
iVciation maintains that slncf dancing
in an ''interpretation of music'
cheap, vulgar music of the extreme
jazz type, invites cheap, vulgar,
Meaningless, dancing."
The following tempos have been
adopted:
tValtz: 48 measures to minute;
two step, 54 measures to .minute;
lone-step, 66 measures to minute; fox
trot, 40 measures to the minute.
The music should be bright and
"cheerful, properly accented and the
-phases -well divided. The "Ten Plain
IDon'ts" issued by the association are
practical and worthy of ensideration.
Thcy are as follows:
J 1. - Don't permit vulgar, cheap jazz
music to be played. Such music al
most forces dancers to use jerky
tbalf steps and invites immoral varia
tions. "
visitxwith Mrs. Clark, however, was
entirely social in its nature.
In Honor of Mrs. Hanighen. .
Mrs. John J. Hanighen, jr., who
is visiting her parents, Mr. and Mrs.
John J. Damrjch, at Mobile, Ala.,
has been honored at a .number of af
fairs given in her honor. Mrs. Dam
rich entertained at a bridge tea for
her daughter. Miss Roberta Ollin
ger, who was a bridesmajd at Mrs.
Hanighcn's wedding, gave a lunch
eon for this Omaha matron. Mrs.,
Hanighen was also honor guest at
a bridge party given by the members
of a club to which she formerly be
longed. The society columns of the
Moblie papers cqutained dctailcJ
descriptions of the various gowns
.worn by this visitor. Mrsr Hanighen
will not return to Omaha until the
latter part of February.
Card Party. '
A card party will be given Fri
day afternoon at the South Side
Odd Fellows' hl! by the women of
St. Rose parish.
Dance Postponed.
The dancing party which was t.i
be given ndav evening at .Lyceum
hall, Twenty-second and Locust, by
the Columbian circle, has been post
polled until Monday evening.
For Esther Wilhelm,.
Mrs. H. R. Bowen entertained in
formally at luncheon at the Black-
stone, '1 hursday, in honor of Miss
Esther Wilhelm, whoe marriage to
Samuel Cooper of Pittsburgh takes
place Tanuary .51. Tinae s roses .nid
ferns formed the cenu.rn ece ot the
luncheon table. Covers were placed
for Mcsdames C. M. Wilhelm,
George Stirrat, - Robert .Garrett,
Leonard 1 restor, Isaac Carpenter,
jr.; Misses Erna Reed, Olga Metz,
f:,rpart Baimi. Gertrude Mout
and Mary Cooper of Pittsburgh.
. Dancing Party.
A Community Center dancing
parly will be given net .l-riday
r.iiiht at the auditorium of t.h Bciv
son city hall. Mrs. Abbie - Werhli
is chairman of the dance committee.
Guest at Nurses' Dinner
Tri-City Birthday Club.
Mrs. W. A. Wilcox will be hos
tess to the iri-Lity birthday club
at her home Friday. Each club en
tertains the club once a year, the
date being the birthday of the hos
tess.
Birthday Party.
Helen Hurst entertained at tier
home. Thursday evening, the
occasion bein-r her eleventh birth-
av. Those present were Frances
O Marro. Viola Schiii'baner, Florence
Emeiy, Margaret Ei;iery, Florence
McCaun, Gottlieb Morqcson, Henry
Mctheson and Richard Schiffbauer,
2. Don't permit young men to
hold their partners tightly. Oftimes
this is the- fault of the gentleman's
partner. Both dancers should as
sume a .light, graceful position.
3. DonH, permit partners to dance
with cheeks close or tuuehing. When
dancers put their eheeks together it
is simply a case of public love mak
ing. ' - i
4 Don't permit "neck holds."
The gentleman's arms should en
circle his partner's waist, his hand
resting lightly at her spine, just
above the waist line, and lady's left
arm should not encircle the gentle
man's shoulders or neck.
5. So-called "shimmy'' dancing is
a shaking or jerking of the upper
body while taking short steps, or
standing still" and should not be
tolerated. Short side steps first
right, then left, when done continu
ously are not conducive to refined
dancing and should not be per
mitted. Teachers should not teach
any steps or movements that can
not be controlled.
6. Don't permit dancers to take
either exceptionally long or short
steps. v The proper ' dancing step
should be the same as a natural
walking one, except in exhibition
dancing, which belongs to the stage
and not to the ballroom.
7. Don't dance from the waist up;
dance from the waist down.
8. Don't permit dancers to copy
the extremes that are now used on
the modern stage.
10. For the bnefit of refined peo
ple, don't hesitate to request ob
jectionable dancing couples to leave
the room. Remember that the ma
jority of people want to dance clean.
Jy 'W5ik fHsV tsf -
Mrs. Joseph Cudahy, president of
the Visiting Nurse association of
Chicago, will be guest of honor and
speaker at the annual meeting of
the Omaha Visiting Nurse associa
tion to be held in the south room
of the Chamber of Commerce. Fri
day, January 23, at 12 o'clock. Mem-
Ders ana tnends are cordially in
cited to attend.
Heart Beats
By A. K.
SCHOOL boards all over the
country are recognizing the
need cf higher salaries for
teachers to meet the increased costs.
Salaries are being raised in spite of
contracts made some months aga
calling for a specific sum as oav-
ment for the school year. The board
ot education in Des Moines recently
voted a 10 per cent increase in their
pay roll for teachers in their citv.
The raise becomes effective Mon
day, January 26. Unlike -many in
creases, this one begins with those
receiving the lowest salaries and
diminishes, as it reaches , those
"higher up."
I herefore, teacirers receivme the
lowest wages will get an increase
of 20 per cent, those getting more
will receive a slightly smalkr per
centage of increase, and so op up to
the higher salaried teachers, who
will get abnut 5 per cent more, while
20 of the highest salaried will get no
increase at all.
Dispatches of January 22. an
nounce that the teachers' strike in
Chicago has resulted in an average
increase of $50 a month, effective
after February 1.
v,
Miss Stearns in Portland.
Miss Lutie Stearns of Milwaukee.
club woman and social service
worker, who spent several weeks in
Om iha last spring, is now in Port
land, Ore., in the interests of the na
tional dairy council. "A Woman's
Opinion of an Ideal Democracy"
was the subject of a recent address
given by her before the Civic league
there. According to the Portland
Oregonian, she said:
'Democracy should be brother
hood interpreted in terms of government."
The problems of the asre which
must be solved before an ideal de
mocracy is possible, she specified as
social problems capital and labor,
poverty, the wage system, industrial
disturbances, accidents and sickness.
Poverty she classed as a social dis
ease, which wiH vanish with the ap
proach of democracy nearer to the
deal. J he ideal democracy will also
see to -,t, she said, that motherhood
properly recognized and that
proper aid and education are given
o the mothers before' and after die
birth of the ih'lu. It will also see to
t tiial everv child is fed scienttfiral
v :,r.d with sufficient food for proper
aevelopinen'
"Scottish Rite Women.
The Scottish Rite Woman's club
will give s card party Friday after
noon, January 23, at the Scottish
Rite cathedral.
If you're nervous today
or if you vere Vakef ul
lasi niht or the niht
before, its time io think of
Instant
Postumi
In place of coffee
A boon to those Vho like cof
fee but cant get alon with it.
S old by Grocers
Try a tin-youll VindTherei a Reason
Made by Postum Cereal Co. Battle Creek.Mich
23
"Two a Week" Ratifying
the Federal Suffrage
Amendment.
Suffragists are elated over the
rapidity with which ratifications of
the federal suffrage amendment are
falling into place. "Two a week,
says Mrs. Carrie Chapman Catt,
contentedly, speaking of this week's
harvest, Oregon and Indiana, is
pretty good average, although we
are looking for a final blaze of glory
in which all the unratified states will
scurry to get on the honor roll of
Jb ratifying states. It is "not going
to be pleasant for the women of any
state to rave history record that
they were finally enfranchised by th
men of states other than their own."
"Last week .the honor roll added
two states. Kentucky and Rhode
Island. Tnis week Oregon and In
diana. It is interesting to note how
often the east and the west, the
north and the south have been
bracketed in ratification gains. Cali
fornia and Maine came in together.
so did New lork and Kansas, so did
Minnesota and New Hampshire. We
take this to be indicative of a new
bond of union which will be cement
ed by, the enfranchisement of wom-
Indiana in writing its name on the
honor list of 06 ratifying states,
completed a varied and interesting
chapter in the history of woman suf
frage after a strenuous campaign by
the Women's Franchise league of
which Miss Helen Benbridge isnow
president.
Under the Ipadershin of its retir
ing president Mrs. Richard E. Ed
wards of Peru, a business partner in
the Peru chair works, the Franchise
league achieved three brilliant vie
tories. It gained presidential suf
frage in 1917, regained it in 1919, and
after a long effort succeeded in gain
ing a special session for ratification
on January 16, 1920.
Y. W. C. A. Dinner.
Invitations' have been issued for
the annual dinner of fhe Y. W. C.
A. to be held at 6:30 Monday eve
ning, January 26, at the Y. W. C. A.
All friends are cordially invited
whether invitations are' received or
not. Friday is the last day for mak
ing reservations.
, Community Service.
Friday, January 23 The Beehe
club will have dinner, at the Com
munity house at 6:30 p. m. followed
by games and music.
Roosevelt Circle.
Roosevelt Chautauqua circle will
meet Friday evening at 7:30 with
Mrs. F. A. Cressey, 4202 South
Twenty-second street.
West Side Mothers.
The West Side Mothers' Culture
club will hold a regular meeting Fri
day afternoon at 2 p. m., at the home
of Mrs. Paul Bonorden, 1512 North
Firty-first street.
Personals
Mrs. E. W. Marr is ill at the
home of her mother, Mrs. Emma
Nygaard., '
Mrs. Walter Chamberlain of
Clarks, Neb., is ill at the Birchmojit
hospital.
Mr. and Mrs. Richard E. Bennett
of Lincoln, whose marriage took
place Jnauary 1 at Council Bluffs,
have returned from their trip to New
York aod will reside in Lincoln.
Working. 1
He who will not work shall want,
Nought for nought is just
Won't do, must do when he can't;
Better rub than rust;
Bees are flying, sloth is dying,
Better rub than rust.
Ebenezer Elliot.
AH Rlthta Rnorvei '
A battle there 'was
Before me
As there is
Before everyone
And I could not wiu
In life's conflict
With my puny strength
And alone.
For no general
With all h's power
Ever works
Without his men.
So I scanned my troops
Both rank
And file .
And discovered my habits
Were soldiers.
Among them
Lurked cowards
Weaklings and thieves-
Bandits
Highwaymen
And mauraders. x
All of these outlaws
Were hampering me.,
But among them
I counted
Brave recruits
Dauntless
And unafraid.
To tackle a raid
On the enemy.
General Idea
Stood at attention ' i
Acknowledging Future
As the reigning king.
We summoned soldiers--Good
Habits
And culled out the trash
And the mold.
Courage and honesty ,
Determination
Sincerity 1
Integrity
And Loyalty
Were the officers
The affinities of success.
They symbolized nerve'
And a will to win
Put muscle
Into the moral spine.
Together we charged
Together we fought
Till over the top
Of Self-control
We smiled
As we saw
The end of the toad
The cherished road
Called Victory.
' SELAH1
Afternoon Coffee
A woman never appears to better
advantage than when presiding over
the tea table, or coHee table, as the
case may be. For this service a tea
cart may be used, or everything may
be brought in on a tray to a low
table in the living room.
An appealing informal afternoon
refreshment combination consists of
fruit salad, nut sandwiches and
'coffee eggnog. The portions of
salad should be small and arranged
individually on salad plates, with a
garnish of lettuce. A seasonable
combination consists-of squal parts
of halved grapes, sliced apple, diced
pineapple and bits of orange, put
together with mayonnaise to mois
ten. Lach salad may be decorated
with halved grapes and a bit of
candied cherry.
The coffee eggnog should be made
in tne Kitcnen. to do tins Drew
some strong coffee, combing it with
one-fourth the amount of boiling
milk and allow three-fourths cupful
to each person, pouring it on a
well-beaten egg. Add a drop or
two of vanilla, transfer to tall
glasses and serve, topped with whip
ped cream. Then pass the sugar.
Lovelorn
BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX
His Slater's Snubs.
Dear Miss Fairfax, Omaha Bee: I
have a sister, who was adopted by
my aunt about '10 years ago on ac
count of sickness tin mother's side
of the family. Mother thought she
could not support u two and . my
grandmother because she was di
vorced and had to earn tha money
herself. My sister was adopted with
the understanding that mother could
Bee her at least four times a month;
now my aunt will not let mother go
near her. I do not know why it is,
it may be that (she) my sister
is getting a little sense now, for she
Is only 14 years old. Sis has never
heard the truth of this thing and
therefore does not know, but, Miss
Fairfax, it is not right for a foster
mother to tell my sister lies aboat
her real mother, Is it?
I went to see her before Christ
mas. Just as I got there she was
ready to go downtown, so 1 .went
with her. She would not let me,
pay the car fare, and when we got
in the car she would not sit with
me. She deliberately eat with some
one else. Do you think that is right
for a sister to do to a 15-year-old
brother? She is old enough to un
derstand, isn't she?
Whenever 1 go to see her I know
I am not welcome, but I trs to make
myself welcome. Now, Miss air.
fax. what do you think mother and
I should do. forget her, as I have
tried to do, or what?
Hoping to see my letter in print
soon, yours very truly.
MOTHER, AND I.
I cannot understand this attitude
of your sister. Either she is labor
ing under a false impression, mis
statements or falsehoods, or else she
is just at that age where she doesn't
know what' she wants. It is difficult
for me to explain her actions, since
have not heard her Bide of the
story.
Rings, Etc.
Dear Miss Fairfax: I want to ask
you for a little advice. I am en
gaged to a boy ot zi, ana l am is.
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For Lumbago, Backache,
Pain, Rheumatism,
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"Laxative
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Quinine
Tabteta"
BAD COLD GOT YOU?
FEELING GRIPPY?
You want relief quickly and safe
ly Then insist on "Bayer Tablets of
Aspirin," stamped with the "Bayer
Cross.
The name "Bayer" means you are
getting genuine Aspirin prescribed
by physicians for over eighteen
years, and proved safe by millions
of people.
For, a few cents- you can get a
handy tin box of genuine "Bayer
Tablets of Aspirin," containing
twelve tablets. Druggists also sell
larger "Bayer" packages. Aspirin
is the trade mark, of Bayer Manu
facture of Monoaceticacidester of
Salicylicacid.
Nw what I want to know Is this:
Should you take off your engage
ment ring and then put it back on
after the band ring is placed on, or
should It be left on. And what would
be nice for a hope box? Hoping to
see my letter in print. I thank you
in advance. ' BLUE EYES.
, Leave on the . engagement ring.
Tour hope box is a matter of taste.
They Need Brain.
Dear Miss Fairfax, Omaha Bee:
We are two old maids and very lone
some. We live on the edge of town.
How is my writing? I am consid
ered a good writer in my city.
Why are we so lonesome? We
go quite a lot. but still are lone
some. The boys are crazy about us
and wink at use when we go up
town, but never ask us to go with
them.
Are silk stockings approprlte for
winter?
z Would liver be all right to serve
at a wedding breakfast
My hair is beginning to turn gray;
should I dye it?
I'eoplo take us for 20 and 31, but
we are 33 and 34. We are tall and
uso roiiKe and powder; have brown-
is;i gray nair.
Ansir as soon as posnlble. Tour
two constant readers and friends,
THK SLEEPING BEAUTIES.
Tour writing looks like the ef
forts of a child rather than an old
maid. If the boys are crazy about
you and still you are lonesome, I
fear there is not'hing I can offer in
the way of entertainment, but do not
get the mistaken idea that because
boys wink at you they love you
rather it shows an-attitude of dis
respect. Silk stockings are all right
with high shoes, but ridiculous for
low quarters. Liver for a wedding
breakfast is all rteht if you like it.
If you admire gray hair wash it.
If you prefer dark hair wash It
and dye It. I fear your lonesonie
ness is due more to lack of brain
than attention. i
X. V. Z. Postpone the trips with
your fiance until after your mar
riage. Even though his sister ac
companies you, there remains op
portunity for criticism. Tou should
never visit his home when others
aro not there.
The Trade Mark here
shown Is on every
wrapper of genafne
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Wholesale Distributors.
A Never Failing Way
to Banish Ugly Hairs
(Aits to Beauty)
No woman is immune to super
fluous growths, and because these
are likely to appear at any time, it
is advisable to always have some
delatorle powder handy to use when
the occasion arises. A paste is made
with some of the powder and water
and spread upon the hairy surface;
in about 2 minutes this is carefully
removed and the 'skin washed. You
will then find that your skin is en
tirely free from hair or fuzz. Be
sure, however, to get real delatone.
Free Lectures for Non-Catholics
St. Cecilia's Cathedral
701 North 40th St. Omaha, Neb.
From Sunday, January 25, to Sunday, February 8, 1920
The Rev. Bertrand L. Conway and
The Rev. John E. Burke
OF THE PAUL1ST FATHERS OF NEW YORK
The purpose of these lectures is to explain the doctrines of tne
Catholic Church to all seekers of the truth, and to answer in a kindly
manner all their difficulties.
Question Box: Questions deposited in the Question Box at the
door of the church will be answered the following evening.
ORDER OF THE LECTURES
Sunday, January 25, 11 A. M. "The Church's Divine Mission."
Sunday, January 25, 8 P. M. "What Think You of Christ?"
- Monday, January 26, 8 P. M. "Reason and Faith."
Tuesday, January 27, 8 P. M. "Is One Church as Good as
Another?"
Wednesday, January 28, 8 P. M. "The Kingdom of God."
Thursday, January 29, 8 P. M. "The Church and the Bible."
Friday, January 30, 8 P. M. -"The Papacy."
Sunday, February 1, 1.1 A. M. "Church Unity."
Sunday, February 1, 8 P. M. "Religion in Spirit and in
Truth."
Monday, February 2, 8 P. M. "Confession of Sins to a
Priest."
. Tuesday, February 3, 8 P. M. "The Holy Eucharist." '
Wednesday, February 4, 8 P. M. "After Death What?"
Thursday, February 5, 8 P. M. "Marriage and Divorce."
Friday, February 6, 8 P. M. "The Church and Intellectual
Progress."
Sunday, February 8, 11 A. M. "It Is the Mass that Matters."
Sunday, February 8, 8 P. M. "Why I Am a Catholic."
v ALL NON-CATHOLICS CORDIALLY JNVITED
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En route visit the National Parks, National Monu
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Ask for information about Excursion Fare; to
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