THE OMAHA SUNDAY BEE: JANUARY 4.. 1920 A I u ratharbig violet In th imnr, Mathoucht how citm ha th hurt U low. And notnro griovoo, Th bud of oimplo foitb wUI atotkly How.' 'Nooth irootod loavoo. Keep a Little Change For a Rainy Day---And a Few Secrets "Don't tel! alt you know," my grandfather used to say.. "Keep a few notions for a rainy day. They may come in handy. "It's always a gocd idea to have a little small change in your pockets. Don't parcel out all your nickels' and dimes just because you have a bank acconut to draw on. Keep a' little conversational small change, too. Don't hand out all your in formation about what you had for breakfast and what the wife said at tinner ami how the children did at school. Keep a few things to your self." Grandfather's theory came back to me strongly the other day when 1 happened to overhear a group ot girls talking. "She stops every one who goes by 'her -i -sk and tells 'tin all she knows," said one. "Never keeps a thing to herself. I'll bet the office boy knows how much she pays for her shoes and the scrub woman is wise to where she gtts her hats." "Kinda chatty, I call her," re marked another. "Not too stuck up 1" pass a pltasant word with folk. And not too stingy to pass it along when she finds a place wher? you can still get blue serge dresses for 51.98." "I like to do a little talking my self," remarked the third. - "She vbores me stiff." Between over-chattiness and over chariness there is a wide field of conversational possibilities. But folks are legion who never find that out. Each of the three viewpoints ex . pressed about the over-communicative girl has its points. Let's ac quaint ourselves with them. The girl who stop.s everyane who goes by her desk in order to pour out a conversational stream of in formation anent herself is bound to be a bore. A bore, you know, is "the person who talks about him self when I want to talk about my self 1" Of Little Value. She is sure to sacrifice dignity to volubility. Things which are flung about broadcast never seem to have any, value. And confidences given to all and sundry bec6me public property next in pathos to "public charges." Naturally enough, in a ceaseless flow of conversation not everything can be useless, however trivial. Those who listen to the endless chatterer may extract bits of actual information. But these are given more in pride at being able to im part them than in generosity and because of a desire to help. Frequent letters come to me from girls who want to know how tp "entertain" the young men they de sire to attract. And occasional ones reach me from youths who say they have so littlp to talk about that they are afraid to seek the com pany of girls. Really, they needn't worry provided they have the gift of listening. Shyness and silence maj be dour and gium, and so may repel. But they may also be friendly and warm and inviting. Nothing can be more attractive than the radiant silence which seems to hold out warm arms begging" for confidences and revela tions. The gift of listening intelligently and sympathetically is rare. So, as long as human nature retains its normal desire for self-expression and its serene "egoeentricity," the individual who wants you to talk about yourself is going tq appeal more than the one who wants to do all the talking himself, and do it all about himself. Boring, tiresome,- selfish, even silly, is the person who pours out a constant stream of chatty confi dences. fiut he or she may be some thing worse. That "something" is twofold. The careless talker may be a dan gerous person who betrays confi dence, or a conscienceless person who betrays truth. No one can ramble and burble on forever without falling into danger of telling something that isn't so. or revealing something that should never have been said. There lies the great, menace and danger of failing to get the habit of "keeping a little small change." Don't Talk Too Much. Whosoever gets into the unpleas ant habit of "liking to hear himself talk" is bound to lose his sense of proportion. "He" I say generically now though we started with "she" but why not makes the men share the blame?) "He" then presently draws on his imagination to keep his stream of chatter flowing, Truth and a sense of proportion go. A reputation for being a liar comes and in - critical moments the chatterer cannot convince those whose faith he needs. The i-py system and the secret service alike know the aomunt of reliance they can place on the hu man habit of talking too much.. Na tiens have tottered because some rash individual couldn't hold his tongue. There really seems to be a great deal in dear old "grandsir's" idea: Keep a little small -change . Don't talk incessantly. Don't tell all you know and a lot you merely guess! t Al V X I . - f ' I f What wo lavo wo yrito aot M While wo onjoy it, mi WVv. Amm wo rock th voluoi Th virtu that poaooooioa wo Whil it woo ouro. . jotdfO) dloppin villi A shallow goblet that the rain Left in her flight across the grass) , s The sun has brimmed it with pale gold For all the vagabonds that pass. A bird dips to it in its flight, The small clouds hover for a share, . , A Wayside Pool, by Art and Life. While all day long above it bem r : The hot wings of the thirsty a? At last the gypsy dusk kneels the And drains it of Us last bright , . wo mm 4V .J tsut nignt uiu tut tne nagon mm And fill it with a silver gleam! Frances Dickenson Pinder, in K . Hand-Wrought Furniture of An tique'Design. ' THE H. P. Bowen Furniture com pany, Sixteenth and Howard streets, are rapidly filling the gaps left by the holiday shoppers-with period furniture of exceeding charm. As you know we're getting away from the massive, straight-lined fur niture pieces oi bygone days and are adopting in bedroom, living room, and dining room, the subtly fascinating period designs, replicas of antique furniture of Italian and Spanish origin and perfect reproduc tion's of the delightful early Eng lish styles. These fme specimens Music in the Home. It is in the home that good or bad taste is formed. Musically speak ing, homes may be divided into three classes: First is the musicless home, where there is no musical instrument, no sound of happy song. In such a home musical instincts die for lack oi food. No one would dream ot starving a child's color sense by forcing him to gaze all day at utterly blank, white walls. The home with out color and devoid, of pictures is unknown, but the home without mu sic still persists among us. Then there is the musically un educated home. Here there may be several instruments, but the music played i usually trashy and the singing is of the sort popular in vaudeville. A child- reared in such ; home will grow up with no real knowledge or love of music. Popular imisic need not be totally forsworn, 1 ut see to it that your children hear in their home at least some really tine, noble music to refine 'and, en volile their spirits. Last, and hitherto, unfortunately, least numerous in America, is the trtilv musical home, where good mu sic is ecognized to be not merely a luxury, but a necessity,, where the child's spirit is fed with good music as his body is nourished with good food and lus mina wun goou uwm. j Music benefits not merely tne in dividual; it also strengthens and beautifies the home life. Gather votir children and their friends about the piano in the evening for a good "sing." Perhaps some, more music ally gifted, can form a string quartet or band. But whether the perform ance is, artistically considered, a suc cess or not, it cannot fail to draw the family together, to make the home a center of youthful Happiness and to destroy the lure of cheap music halls and dance resorts. If we wilt try, with thought and care, to cultivate this environment our efforts will soon be -rewarded v.jth signs of success. Gradually the ytun.g people will progress step by . step in their appreciation of music of a higher order, until the best largely, perhaps entirely, replaces that which hasjittle value. Music and Childhood. Corot An Idealist. Before all things Corot. was an idealist a painter of ideas rather than of actualities; which, of course, does not in any way discount his simple sincerity. His landscapes give the idea of a place or an effect rath er than its exterior appearance. The rendering of a beautiful passage of color, of a gracious form, or a deli cate play of light and shade, was never hetd to be sufficient Within the body of phenomena he saw the throbbing heart and luminous soul of nature revealed; and it was the very heart and soul of his subject that he strove to prison in his pig ments. At the same time, dreamer as he was, there was always in him a healthiness and sanity rare indeed amongst those who are given to see ing visions. . ' . 1 X I t lilt lilWV-k " J J O 3 - which Corot was discussed. I wish the master, who always loved to be praised by those who could under stand and wete sincere, could have heard, what was said of him. At length some one said, "'Corot was a preat artist. It is true that he also happened to be a great painter." The words seemed to me to have mean ings. A painter is a man who does some ' thing; an artist one who is some thing. The statement may not be Beautiful English Woman to Accompany Husband to Panama Post If dfi? V' IK ' f CL ;i AY DEARS: Four years of tbe iV most sinful 'ocaust ever known to man has again established in the minds of thinking people the indispensability, yes the' very great privilege of saving. The economic conditions of today are grave and rt quirc ever-increasing study to the end that we may tvail ourselves of the many opportunities for retrench itient after the drain on the Christ mas purse. The shops are now in the full tide of sales in all departments and I'm wondering if perhaps besides buying for our homes and wardrobes we're remembering to "Do Christmas Shopping Early," as early as a year ahead, for there arc all kinds of ex quisite gift offerings to be nad, and after all a year passes very quickly.. "Cuddlesome" shawl scarfs are to be had in sobetly conservative, vividly gay colors, and very reason able, indeed. HV 3??.ray ej-vett Mrs. Percy Bennett, wife of Mr. Percy Bennett of the British diplo matic service, who will shortly ac company her husband to Panama, where Mr. Bennett will represent Great Britain as minister. Mrs. Bennett is well known ia the. United States and is exceedingly popular in London, where she has many Amer ican friends. - - new, but it is true; and" what it in volves is, I think, too often for gotten. . .' . From first to last Corot was as independent as he was industrious He strove always to see nature with his own eyes, and to keep his vision clear and simple. Whether Or not other painters had a grander or nobler vision was nothing to him. It mattered only that he should be true to the grace that was his own. "I pray God every day," he said, "that He will keep me as a child.'" That prayer was surely answered, for never did an artist look out upon the world with a more direct sim plicity, or with eyes more delicately sensitive to the appeal of beauty. Sidney Allnutt (Masterpieces in Color Series) Huge Sum Collected for ' Relief, of Storm Sufferers Corpus Cliristi, Tex., Jan. 3. Money received from all sources for belief of sufferers in the September tropical storm in Corpus Christi and vicinity has reached a total of $446, 422. For emergency relief work $231,525.50 has been used and the balance turned over for administra tion by the American Red Cross in rehabilitation work. Lightning Kills Soldier Lenox, Mass., Jan. 3. StWck by lightning last January while return ing from Europe on a transport, Charles J. Dady, jr., died at his home here. He failed to recover He was 26 years old. Wherever the Exclusive in Dress Is an Ideal THIS sale news will carry partic ular significance. The January sale at Herzberg's, 1517 Douglas, commencing January 2, embodies their stock of garments, pleasing in color harmonies, displaying new touches of grace in each luring fashion detail. Exceptional values, exclusive styles, you'll find this a sale after the dictates of your own heart. January Time Is Linen Time AT the Brandeis stores, and I've noted these excellent bargains for the thriftily inclined housewives, assuring you that they're true values. An all linen damask table cloth at $2.25 a yard. Madeira doilies, six-inch size, sell ing regularly for 50c, at 29c. An English mercerized damask a 59c a yard. An all linen table cloth, two yards long, for $7.50. - An exceptionally lovely satin bed spread, $10 value, for $6.50. Toweling in all linen, regular 79c value, is 49c. All linen napkins, six for $2.25. All linen napkins, 18-inch size, for $5.98. Napkins exquisitely fine, $12 value, for $7.50. Huck towels, large size, 29c value, for 23c. Large-sized Turkish towels, gen erally selling at 98c, for 69c. One-fourth off on all linen banquet cloths, lustrous hospitality in their shining lengths, of double damask, at prices ranging from $15 to $35. Brandeis wash cloths, made from 15c quality of toweling, are 5c. N. B. Enclose check to cover order. ' The Lure of Lamps T1HE Eldridge Importing Co., Fourteenth and Farnam, is a shop with true feminine insight an insight that, knows the lure of lamps. They are offering at one third off their extensive showing of lamps, lamps gathered in art centers the world over. A sae to delight the heart of the home. In gray, green and tan is a vase effect base in wood with parchment shade to harmonize. These for $8 each. Of rich mahogany is the base of another lamp offering whose shirred silk shade may be either rose, blue or mulberry. These complete are $12. Junior - floor lamps, ideal lighting for the davenport or easy chair, are fo be had at the welcome reduction of one-third off. Of exceeding richness are the polychrome-tinted metal wrought lamps with hand painted vellum shades showing riot ous massings of flowers. One wjjich has been beyond one's reach" at $97.50, may now appeal at this nominal reduction. Especially Appealing China Sets at Sale Prices ARE to be found at the Alia Shop, South Eighteenth street There's a breakfast set for $14.85, on whose blue background are scattered cherry blossoms in beauteous array. Black traced designs of exceeding charm are seen on a yellow mat-finish set 1. Chapeaux Designed With Knowl edge of New and Chic Fashion Points ARE' TUB new models at the Nebraska Clothing company's Millinery department, 15th and Farnam. Of s the French im ported Cellophone braid, glitter ing black, taken by many for jet beading, both round and outspread in flat band effects, they're delight fully acceptable additions to the fashion world of Omaha, who truly thank this clever, shop for . intro ducing such a fascinating novelty. Bewitchingly blended, will milady find the duvetvne models in the jade colors of blue and greens, no less bewitching, the softly neutral tans and browns. possess the same characteristics of admirable design, fine wood and ex quisite finish that gave such distinc tion to the work of the cabinet makers of the early periods. You'll find delightfully complete the show ing on every floor and in every de partment of this great furniture store. Be sure to visit the new French room" in the drapery depart ment and to see on the same floor the exceptionally splendid showing of fine rugs. . Jaunty, indeed, is a navy' velvet frock whose ripple-skirted bodice has choseit for its fashioning a Scotch plaid angora. tea pot, cream, sugar and six cups and saucers for but $8. At the same price a set of the, same number of pieces in bright-glowing luster gold. Bamboo in blue on a white ground, the same number of pieces in a set is $4.25. A set of three pieces in the blue-bird design tea pot, sugar and creamer is $2.50. Seven-inch plates of Howo in blue and white are 30 cents each, cups and saucers of the same are 30 cents, small pitchers are 30 cents, the. large ones 50 cents. Bread and butter plates are 20 cents. I'll be glad to send any df these out on receipt of check covering the prices quoted, together with postage. I assure you that they will be carefully packed. It's "Inventory Time" in the Shops - Have You Taken an Inventory of Your Home? T1HE thought occurred to me the other day when I was in the shop of John Henrickson, the Loyal Jeweler, Sixteenth and Capitol avenue that the "Polly People" would find hundreds of things for their homes if they'd ut make out a -list of necessaries. There's .a sparkling array of the beautiful Lib- - "Buttons Never Better" A VER the fashion mandates and truly one sees an enormous number of these chic little fashion artistries. Every suit boasts from eighty to two hundred if you please! Mr. Ver Mehren of the Ideal But ton & Pleating Co. tells me that he has just ordered 20,000 gross of but ton moulds and pearls, so you need not hesitate to have any number wished for made up to order from the scattered scraps of material which the modiste has left. Em broidery was never better and this sjiop will be happy to send you their book" of suggestions for the new season's embellishments, together with a tangible sample of the work done. Seems a bit early for the plan ning of your Easter frock, but I've just helped with suggestions for several. , i "From the Delectable Christmas Goodies to More Practical Tnings" T S the word from the Sbmmer's Specialty Shop, Seventeenth and Douglas, with entrance in the Bran deis theater. The . delicious Fred Usinger meats from Milwaukee, goose liver sausage, Morta Delia sausage, Lach's ham (pork loin with the bones removed, rolled and smoked, for slicing), home baked .ham, southern style; Cervalot, Pas troka beef (spiced and peppered), home cooked tongue, fine cheeses of all kinds, suggest but one thing to our minds delectable sandwiches This shop is making a specialty of sandwiches made up, too, and will have them ready if you'll phone in your order. They're agents for the Milwaukee rye. bread, which is so wholesomely delicious. A Sale on Everything' in the Art Department AT Hospe'8,,1513 Douglas street. Isn't that a welcome bit of news? Specially if you've been see ing the delightful line of bric-a-brac they're showing this Christmas. All standard frames, pictures, framed and unframed, 'lamps, shaded, can dles and candlesticks, artificial flowers, everything in the depart ment except frames made-to-order, will be included in this 20 per cent discount sale., "Andrew Geller New York." A NAME significant in the shoe market is responsible tor the designing and fashioning of the beau tiful new pumps at the F. & M. Boot Shop, Sixteenth and Farnam. Soft kid forms th; vamp of a satin-backed pump creation, long of line and graceful in every detail. Very nov cily rut is the high front instep, newest note of spring. In the same lesign there's an all over alack Kid model, also an all satin fashioning. Of Paramount Importance TS THE foundation of he spring " gowns, milady's, corset, which must needs be perfectly fitted. Doro thy Hill, 205 Neville block. Six- A Long Delayed Shipment of Blue and White' Linen Table Cloths and ' Napkins TTAS just arrived at the Nippon Importing company,' 218 South Eighteenth street. A cloth 48x48 is $1.85,' the 60x60 size is $2.85, the 7-?x72 is $3.55, while the napkins are 55 cents for half a dozen. Daintily desirable bits of linen these. If You Find the Hat You'd Planned Upon IS somehow not up-to-the-minute in style, just send it up to the Kruger Hat Shop, third floor, Bar ker block, Fifteenth and Farnam. They'll reblock it into any shape.re fashion or refresh your old feathers and renew most fasnionabty your old marabou set. Remember that this shop closes at 2 on Saturdays. ' Every Time I See a Big Sale Adver tisement IT is humanly impossible for me to resist the temptation to go "snooping." This time it was the big reduction sale at Orchard & Wilhelm's and such delightful things as I've seen. At reduced pricings of from 25 per cent to 50 per cent, there are furnishings for the whole house, curtains and drapes., distinc tive art offerings in the gift depart ment, exquisite rugs of all kinds and sizes. It will be truly delightful t me to save money for you as well as to choose beautifying ibits for your home during this sale. Satin anjl Feathers Add an Elusive . Charm jto Sumijfcr's Straw. THE chichewhats in the F. M. Schatfell .Shop, 1522 Douglas street, have combined with their sparkling new straws quaintly curl ing feathers of charming effect.' These in brilliant scarlet, becoming tan, smart black or .brown. A de lightful little brown straw mqdel whose brim is two soft turned-back folds of satin, will wear most fetch ingly its new slant hatpin of brilliants. Startling Values Goods Sales FiUE to early J-7 Kilpatrick & fering unpreceden iniiiuni nunc Bail ing of the table li Odd linen cloth and extra oualitv price from'$8.75 td Mercerized tab from 36-inch to 7 price from 79 ce each. Dama'sk. nr v, $1.59; this from wide. All linen napki: trom $5.Z5 to $V Mercerized ni to $4.95 a dozen. Cotton huck borders or all w from 19 cents td Bath towels, at y cents each. Id Union and all 59 cents each to .$ Exceptional va are spreads at fr excellent pillows $11.25 pillow cas .to 75. cents: she $2.50; cotton blai to $6.95; wool from $8.75 to $22. Comforters, to. orate silk and saj guest room, -nor for everyday values. . Anions' the wl priced, are longchj varicus household ou 11 find vi throughout the er. this January sale for both erownn laces and embroid! special offering! cresses and furs I've Just Discove "THAT in spite A of Living" Flower Shop, Ei'ij nam, still make ud at a nominal pne flower arrangem deed. ' An Advance Sho son Models for O MARTLY dig! "bewitching hat resistso attract! 'coming! These buying trips mad Blake Hat Shoo. tween Seventeent Small and large French models, line you'll find t fcrent chapeau st teet'th and Harney, has made cor setry a scientific study for many vearsi and is a corset specialist of note. You'll find that after all the fitting of a corset is the matter of paramount importance in one's spring wardrobe. Decorative Head Dress Dainty Dashing bey and Hawkes cut glass, the artis tically superior glass of the world, exceptionally fine offerings in silver plate as well as sterling, while they have a line of docks without paral lel in the chy, from frivolous little ivory affairs to massive chime clocks of mahogany Taffeta, the Newest Fashion-Favored Fabric. T71EAY, the modiste, second floor, Neville block, Sixteenth and Harney, whispers in strictest con fidence that the favored fabric for spring fashionings is to be taffeta, indeed she is even now draping on their tight-lining gowns of witching loveliness, bouffant, airily distinc tive intheir hiding and revealing artfulness, they're truly lovely crea tions, these gowns of hers. You'll find her suggestions clever indeed, of a newues to delight. - . - , A ,1111 F . : . . - . A fold of gold tissue forms the bandeau in this headdress, and black aigrette are posed, in front. - 58 Gold Fashion's Latest Fur Style Pro . .nouncements "DEFLECTING in charming wise the many and varied seasonal functions for which they were .de signed, are the" distinctive models which the National Fur and Tan ning company, Eighteenth and Douglas, is offering at a 25 per cent discount. Types of ultra-refinement, the preference of inner circles of fashion, luxuriously elaborate affairs for the evening function, afterneen theater matinee or every hour of the busy day, ravishing creations to charm a fastidious femininity, you'll find this a price offering quite irresistible. Mink models in both natural and Japanese mink peltries, skunk or brown marten in neck pieces, stoles and capes, you're sure to find a fur piece to meet your needs here. . A Traveler Is Known by His Lug gage, y " QUALITY in travel accessories is an index of "quality" in peo ple. Aristocratic .appearance and 'careful grooming are inseparable from good taste in luggage and handbags, and indisputably smart are the luggage pieces offered by the Omaha Printing Co., Thirteenth and Farnam. There's a 15-inch case just arrived, correct in every detail, it's a seal patent with delightful rose lining, white ivory fittings, for $40.28. Another, a bit less complete in its vanity, fittings, is $37.50. An envelope bag with rough silk lining in purple, one of the new collapsi ble affairs, at $44.20. while quite the queen of these beauty bags is the taupe-lined bag. gold fitted, whose vanity accessories are of the new shell composition in French period cutting, exquisite indeed. This is priced at $70.85. Newly -.arriving pieces make this great leather dis play satisfying indeed. When You're Taking Kodak Pic tures T"0 IT with the idea in mind af f having there enlarged. The. Kase Studio does most exquisite en larging as well as dainty color wo'k in oils. The finishing is exceedingly prompt and efficient. Have you tried 1 ntic servicer L If You Want a Overcoat .VOU'LL find tl them most sJ Pantorium, Six. streets. They collars out of cutting out th piecing it toge kinds- of alter excellent . rek send price qi Kitty-Anne c T S equally 1 summer'. -JfI house or vfJ fashioned ofrM tan nr lav1 lm loosc-hangii II ice which ei II tie-sash in HmfJJ rouna tne" white finery fit collar. Thf U( te had iof Thompsof shows t U9 Tttl 1