THE OMAHA SUNDAY BEE: DECEMBER 22, 1918.'' V Kind word, kiaa' looks, kind acts and warm kaad-aaakaa the an m of (rc and whan ma In troubla art fight'of tfccir unn battles. . Thaaa paarla of thoufht in Paralan gull war brad, ach softly lucent at a roundtd meoni th dlvar, Omar, plucked them (ram their bed F;ti feraJd atrunf them en an English thread. CLUBDOM " TUESDAY. George A. Custer Relief corps will meet at 2:M) in Memorial Mall WEDNESDAY. , At a meeting of the Henry V. T.awton auxiliary to United Spanish War Veterans, held in Memorial I hall, the following officers were elected for the coming year: Presi dent, Mrs. Addie Travis; senior vice president, Mrs. Ida Lane; junior vice president, Mrs. David Olsen; chaplain, Mrs. Blanche Kohlert; treasurer, Mrs. Rosa Whisenand; secretary, Mrs. Mary Birdsell; con ductress, Mrs. Carrie Strell; as sistant conductress, Mrs. Petty; guard, Mrs. Anna Maurer; historian, Mrs. Leona Nye, and instructo.', Mrs. Anna Miller. FRIDAY. Mrs. E. B." Williams will entertain the B. i. club at her home, IbM North Forty-third street. Omaha Woman's Club. There will be no further open meetings of the Omaha Woman's club until January 6 when-a memor ial service will be held for three de ceased members, Mrs. Rosalie Whit more. Mrs. Mary D. Stoddard and Mrs. Elsie L6tz. Following the ser vices the postponed program will I:e given when Mayor Ed P. Smith will be the speaker of the afternoon. Mother to Man French Kiddies No War Drive Has Passed Without Her Contribution. The concert to be given by Mr. Martin Bush, pianist; Mrs. A. 1. Koot, contralto, and Miss t-miiy Cleve, violinist, will take place Janu ary 9, at the Y. W. C. A. The post poned concert will be given the lat ter part of January. The next regu lar meeting, of the Music department will be held January 15, with Mrs. John Iravis as leader, the can celed program of Scotch and Irish numbers will also be given in Jan uary. Press Club Election. Omaha Woman's Press club will hold a called meeting Monday at 4 p. m., at the Fontenelle. when offi cers will be elected for the coming yar. Y. W. C. A. Notes. All club meetings and holiday par ties have been canceled. There will be no meetings until further notice. - War Bride's Special is a New Course Now Being Planned By Y. W. C. A. War Bride's Special is the name for one of the courses which the in dustrial department of the Young Women's Christian association has outlined for women and girls in an swer to the inquiries which have been pouring into national headquar ters in New York as to what pa triotic service women can render now that war is over. ,A study of how to run a home on a small income, how to furnish an apartment on little money, cooking, plain sewing and how to "make over" clothes are the topics included in the War Bride's Special. j For the woman who has been do ing Red Cross' work the committee , advises that she make hospital gar-1 ffients for the gassed and severely wounded men who are to be found in the government hospitals every where and that she aid in supplying necessary extras at these hospitals. Home nursing courses of the Red . Cross are also encouraged because of the necessity for a knowledge of the elements of nursing which was proved during the recent epidemic. Courses ?f education suggested ': would be on current events, includ ing how peace is made, what an armistice means, terms of this armis tice and reasons for them, Wilson's 14 terms tf peace, the peace confer ence, who goes to it and what they do; on laws that women workers want, a study of the eight-hour day. minimum wage, child labor, prohi bition of night work, standards for lifting weights and such topics, on occupations that war times have brought to women and one on French women including a study of them and their conditions before the war. their part in the war and their future in the business world. 7 WHO NEEDS THIS MEDICINE? Only One Way to Know, De clares Writer. Seeks to Educate Public the Value of Good Health. Recommends Tonic Under Certain Conditions. v i A well-known physician is quoted as saying that "Careless habits, evil habits, and ignorant habits result in fatalities whenever an epidemic disease appears in a community." 5 it should be kell known, that ex cesses and indulgences of whatso ever kind bring about a condition of low vitality. To have low vitality " is to be partially sick; to remain so, gives free entry to fatal disease germs. It is duty and common , sense to remove low vitality. Do you catch cold too easily? Are you weak, irritable, nervous and worn out before the day is half over? Have you aches and pains of unknown origin? Are you too thin and seemingly "bloodless?" Do vou have tremors and unsound fears! Do you lack energy and ambition? Are you despondent without reason? Is your digestion faulty and your appetite fickle? Do you suffer with dreadful pains in the back of head and neck? Do you have shooting pains like neural 'gia and-rheumatism? If,, any or all of these symptoms are yours then a tonic medicine like Cadomene Tablets should bring re lief, health and strength if taken regularly with meals. Three-grain Cadomene Tablet has often been called the "miracle medicine" be cause it. ia ao quickly effective in restoring strong, rugged, "happy" vitality. ? Sold in sealed tubes by druggists everywhere and each package is guaranteed to please the buyer or upsey refunded. Adv in That the mother country lingers the heart of every true French man and woman is evidenced, once more, by the splendid work which has been done by Mrs. J. F. Kjrkpat rick of Columbus, Neb., who was born many years ago at Somain, in the northern part of France. For eleven months Mrs. Kirkpat rick has traveled up and down the state, at her own expense, lecturing in behalf of the French war orphans, and she is directly responsible for the adoption of approximately 200 children and has sent between $700 and $800 to the fund through Max Westernian. But this isn't all. Mr. and Mrs. Kirkpatrick are proud of the fact that not a single war drive has passed without their contribution, and Mrs. Kirkpatrick is supporting three orphans through her own ef forts. The home of her family in France was among the first of the villages to be destroyed by the enemy in vaders. "I confess." said Mrs. Kirkpatrick. "I did not take the war to heart until I heard of the atrocities committed against my owtt people. I felt that I owed France nothing I was an American citizen, and thought of the people on the other side in an abstract way, but when I heard how my own relatives had been treated I resolved to do all I coud for war relief and for the babies of France." Mrs. Kirkpatrick has 34 male rel atives in the French army. .w I w '? V "V N5, When a Man Listen to Unkind Criticisms of His Wife He Places A High Explosive "Under Happiness Porto Ricans Like Y. W. C. A. Cafeteria Porto Rica has a cafeteria. It is the first one established on the island and when it was opened in the Y. W. C. A. hostess house at Camp Las Casas the natives crowd ed around much amused at the inno vation. They insisted upon having American dishes. The hostess houses, two of them, one for colored and one for white men, were opened Columbus day by Miss Harriet -Dunn of Buffalo, Y. W. C. A. secretary who had for merly been at Fort Oglethorpe. Both houses -became very well known in a short time and a group of women from San Juan volun teered to go to the hostess house ev ery week and" do mending for sol diers. ' During the recent epidemic of in fluenza on the island, the colored hostess house was used by the gov ernment and the white one was kept open as a gathering place for con valescent soldiers, by request of the commanding officer. Roth Y. W. C. A. houses will remain open as long as there are soldiers in the camp. Dinner Party. Mr. and Mrs. D. G. Robb enter tained at dinner at their home Sat urday evening in honor of Mrs. O. B. Bragonia and son, Curtis, of Denver. The guests included Messrs. and Mesdames A. L. Barr, George Houseman, L. J. Barr, Mrs. F. T. Lewis, Misses Margaret and Maty Lewis and Victoria Barr. Mr. and Mrs. Robb will give a din ner this evening in honor of Mr. and Mrs. W. M. Fair, who leave January 1 to make their home in California. Covers will be laid for 12 guests. Mrs. Homer Robinson returned last week from Washington, where she was called by the illness of her daughter, Miss Stella Robinson. Miss Robinson has been doing gov ernment work in Washington when she contracted the Spanish influenza. By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. DO your relatives praise your wife? Are they convinced that she is the best of domestic partners for you. and a supremely competent mother to the children? Or do they sometimes let you per ceive that they are sorry for you, and that they can't understand how in the world you ever happened to make such a choice? ) If you have had the latter ex perience, don't I beg of you, take it too seriously. Try not to let it af fect you as much as it has poor A. M. V., who has written me as fol lows: - "I have been married four years and rave two children. I have tried my best to keep on good terms with my mother and sisters, but they have from the first tried to inter fere in my affairs. They keep tab on everything my wife does. They inquire all about my personal af fairs and try to turn me against my wife. I consider her a prize and I think they are jealous. They should thinji me very fortunate in making such a splendid match. It makes me very blue at times. What would vou do in the matter?" In the first place, this state of things is by no means unusual and it's very human 1 Don't you sec how it conies about? ' Almost always therels some good, sweet girl, lingering patiently and hopefully just outside the margin of the family picture, whom a young man's mother and sisters are par ticularly anxious to have him marry. And quite as often, in a somewhat remoter background, there is an other girl, just as good and sweet, whom he himself has fallen in love with and whom he does marry. Nobody would deny that he is Act- Lt. Edward Hotchkiss who has been ill with the influenza is improving. Adler-i-ka Again! "I had a bad case of constipation, gas on the stomach, and other bowel trouble. Twelve hours after I took Adler-i-ka I felt better and after continuing I consider myself CURED." (Signed) E. H. Beeman, Calispell, Wash. Adler-i-ka expels ALL gas and sourness, stopping stomach distress INSTANTLY. Empties BOTH up per and lower bowel, flushing EN TIRE alimentary canal. Removes ALL foul matter which poisons system. Often CURES constipa tion. Prevents appendicitis. We have sold Adler-i-ka many years. 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But his mother and sisters, who adore him and who take everything con nected with him very devotionally his diet, his wardrobe, his social en gagements don't easily recover from the disappointment of having their candidate defeated. They consider that the idolized son and brother is equal to any op portunity that life may offer; that he can perform any conceivable ex ploit. But they don't think he is capable of choosing his own wife. They feel that he deserves to be the happiest man in the universe. But they can't admit that this girl of his own selecting has the power to make him so. Now the reasonable course for a devoted family would be to wait to see whether the oung man's mar riage proved happy, and in that case, to applaud his good fortune, even though they might feel that the young wife spent too much time at the piano, or that she darned her husband's socks on the wrong day of the week. But a devoted family isn't always reasonable, and can't be expected to be, especially if its members have a little more leisure than is necessary, and are victims, perhaps, of the very human vice of gossiping, and have never been trained, as most of us haven't, to take the biggest and san est view of everything. A. M. V. should realize that .his case isn't unique by any means. That there must be countless thou sands of instances in which a young husband's relatives either openly or secretly criticise his wife for not conforming to some ideal and im possible standard which they them selves have set up. But there are other things that he should realize as well. Having confessed that he is in I possession of the supreme gift of i life, doesn't he see that in the matter i of general distribution, he uwty be ' said to have his share? ' A wife who is a "prize" and whom he adores unreservedly after tour years of marriage and two chil dren to boqt? .Here are all the essential har monies. Here all the strings arc of silver,' all are beautifully vibrant W hat n unlovelier sounds of out side origin are sometimes faintly to he heard? Here are love, happiness, under standing. Enough for any heart And though it may sound very moral, indeed, I really believe that a heart so rich m treasures should be rich m tolerance, too. The happy person can afford to be generous with the unhappv one. A. M. V. is doubtless right, as all may well admit, in believing that his mother and sisters are jealous of his devotion to his wife. But he should remember that jeaHQiisv is an as pect of love even though one of the baser aspects, it is true. It was for merly they who had all his Aeo tion and they're still lonely for the lark of it. It isn't a tragic or a hopeless sit uation, rar from it.- It isn t even a situation that justifies surrender to the blues. I is, I think, a situa tion that a clear-sighted, warm hearted young man ought to be able to handle if his wife helps him. The Young Husband's Course. Gently, but unmistakably, I think he should make it plain to his own relatives, once for all, that he can not listen to any unkind criticism. And from that time on, I think he should try to put the whole mat er out of his mind. Assume that the existing relations are normal and pleasant, and avoid watching for little manifestations of jealousy or other ill-feeling. It won't help matters any for him to talk the thing over repeatedly with his wife. Indeed, it's better not to refr to it at all if possible. If he plants himself firmly on the basis of his own happiness, and as sumes that everybody else knows he is happy, and that there's no pos sible excuse for wounding criticism, his relatives will be obliged to suc cumb gradually to this attitude of his. By acting as though nothing but good feeling could possibly exist, good feeling itself will inevitably de velop. As I have already hinted, this will be less easy to bring about if the young man's wife is not tactful and cheerful and magnanimous and eager for family harmony. But if she is, A. M. V., ought to be able to straighten out that problem of his without allowing any family es trangements to develop. So that doubtless it will come to seem not a problem at all. Personals Miss Katherine Squier returns to day from the Lincoln,"school at Trovidence, R. I. to spend Christ mas here. Reed, who has been the influenza, is im- Mrs. Bryon quite ill with proving. Mrs. J. M. Baldrige and Miss Gwendolyn Wolfe are expected to morrow from New York to spend Christmas here. Mrs. Frank Hamilton left Mon day for Chicago, where she will meet her daughter, Miss Exelona, who is attending school near there, and will spend the holidays here. Mr. and Mrs. W. D. Bancker, former residents of Omaha, and later of , Indianapolis, Ind. have moved to Basking Ridge, N. J. Miss'Angeline Rush, who has been at Rogers Hall, Lowell, Mass.. will spend the holidays in Boston and Providence with friends. Miss Dorthy Lalk of Riverside, 111., who was the guest of Mrs. Clarke Powell last week, left Mon day for her home. Dr. Edward W. Lee of New York City, formerly of Omaha, is just " To catch th magic tptttand lift a bird rtpeat it to th world. " ?s7t & Queen Anne Design enefl onoynapA Just one of the many beautiful Cheneys we have for your selection. The Queen Anne period design is notable for its exquisite art and refinement of decorative detail The Cheney Queen Anne Model, with its impressive and distinguished beauty, is a rare example of the cabinet maker's art. . This instrument is equipped with two large Orchestral Sections and a large Resonator, which develops a tone of unusual richness and volume. As-a musical instrument The Cheney Phonograph is remarkable. 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