THE BEE: OMAHA. TUESDAY, AUGUST 7. 1917. Is 1 Fumigated Letter from Soldier. Letters of extreme brevity, cen sored notes of ordinary length, form letters conveying prefunctory mes sages in regard to the health of the tender or his desire to hear from the ifolks at home have been received by Inany Omaha people from their sol- iier friends. These usually come from ;ailors stationed ' on battleships or rom soldiers in the armies abroad. One pretty Omaha miss (she be ones to the Maderian society) re ceived, a letter from a soldier friend hot long ago which had not been censored, but which, we regret to say, pad been fumigated! Now whether fumigation is more destructive of the ssence of romance contained in the etters of young soldiers to pretty hrirls at home than is rigid censorship hve do not know. The letter was (opened at each corner in order to make the fumigation thorough, so that when it arrived at its destination the odor of formaldyhide still was strong f You see, the young man who sent , khe missive is in a training station on the Oreat lakes, where there has been an epidemic of scarlet fever. For this reason great care was exercised, not in censoring the letter, but in disinfecting it. Since the young woman was well satisfied with it the contents evidently lost nothing in transmission. To Honor Bridal Couple. ' . In honor of Miss Margaret Dag- 'gett and Captain Arthur Boettcher of Fort Omaha, whose marriage will be solemnized at the post Tuesday after noon, Dr. F. H. Millener and his mother, Mrs. E. P. Millener, enter tained at a family dinner party Sun day. Tonight Captain and Mrs. Howard White will give a dinner at their home at Fort Omaha for the young people. Mrs.' White's sister, Miss Virginia White, who arrived Saturday after noon with her cousin. Father Sten sonr from her home in - Jersey City Heights, N.; J., for a visit here, and the bride-to-be's mother will complete the .party. Miss Judge has been in disposed since her arrival, but when she feels better Captain and Mrs. White will give a large dancing party in her honor. Future Events. Mrs. Charles Weymuller is giving a luncheon, probably on Friday, for Miss Lillian Dickman, whose marriage to Mr. Ernest Bihler will take place next' Wednesday. Miss Margaret English is enter- Itaining a foursome at the Carter Lake Red Cross auxiliary bridge party Wednesday. The group will probably .go out to the lake in the morning for la swim, will have luncheon at the club house and then spend the after noon playing bridge. Mrs. Walter 'oehl, who has recently come to )maha from Chicago; Miss Mercedes laughlan and Mrs. Charles Fanning I ill comprise the party. IMrs. r. is. Hadra will have a party five at dinner at the Blackstone. IVesta chapter kensington will be lid .'at Carter Lak club Thursday Ith Mrs. D, H. Lhnstie. . ws of the Wayfarers. ' j.Mr. and Airs. H. Kranz are at prtg Beach, Cal., and will spend a nth at this seaside resort. Mi's, , C. W. Axtell and, daughter e among recent-arrivals, in Long ach, Colo. J hey will remain at : seashore for the next two onths. i Mr. and Mrs. W. A. Fraser and n are at the Hotel Radisson in inneapolis. Mrs. John L. Kennedy, th here nurse and children, is stop- n gf at the same hotel. Mr. and Mrs. R. Mills and Miss Ruth Mills Lve arrived in Minneapolis in their tomobues and are stopping at the adisson. Miss Katherine Gould reached Min neapolis Saturday . morning for a sit.wun Miss Marjone Wilkins of es Moines, who has visited in maha, at her summer home on Lake finnetonka. Mr. and Mrs. Victor White have re amed from Duluth. Miss Louise Vtiit has also rftiirnd from a visit' Wisconsin. Mrs. E. M. Styll of Richmond, Va., ho has been the guest of Dr. Fred rick H. Millener and his mother, rs. E. P. Millener, for several weeks, Jt Sunday for San Francisco. ' nr, and Mrs. C. B. Foltz left Sat Bsy for a trip to Cheyenne, Estes Vk and Denver, which will occupy reek. Irs. K b. Owens with her daugh- , Oertrude and Elizabeth, returned Omaha from California Sunday ht.,"-. '.. rs. A. B. Jaquith, who has been ing her daughter, Mrs. Elias Vail. Poughkeepsie, N. Y., since June is expected to return to Omaha lit September 1. Her daughter, Clifford R. Weller. will return fa Colorado at the same time. jsonal Mention. br. and Mrs. P. T. Conlan have re ined from St. Marys, Kan., where ly were called by the death of the r.tor s mother. Mrs. C.;H. Marple and Josephine p now in Estes Park, Colo., and ex- ct to return alout September 1. Mr. and Mrs. J. M. Hogan, Mrs. T. oley and Miss Mane roley mo ed to Okoboii in the Foley car Fri- W to spend ten days or two weeks. Mrs. A. C. P. Farrell has returned ni a visit to Chicago. Mr. and- Mrs. Carroll R. Belden h spending the week in Elgin, Neb. .ring tneir absence Mrs. Beldens ters, Miss Ilary Brown, of Port- d, Ure., and Miss Louise Brown of Incaster, Wis., are in charge of Belden home. iaha Sergeant Called To Service in Chicago Sergeant A.-W. Anderson. 3022 ward street, an ' Omaha bov ho is on the staff of the Sixth regi lent at Lincoln, has been called to hicago, where he will be assistant i Colonel Barry, head of the sreneral epartment of the army. The call r tit e e DC O nmrklitnn t ts irAimrr A n Jerson, who has only been in the irmy a few months. He is the only ergeant on the quartermasters staff. Anderson graduated from Com mercial high school last spring. He Jained his sergeantship with the Tadquartcrs staff at Lincoln because this expert stenographic ability lonstrated in competitive examin Dn. For excellent work there he is prompted to the central depart- nt. He Is this week assisting in the nnting pi the ' Dandy Sixth AyVIUUiJlcitv THIS POPULAR GIRL ONE OP SEASON'S TRAVELERS. WOMEN PREPARING FOR DEFENSE WORK Mrs. Tom Allan to Be Chief Co worker; Women Endorse Campaign to Carry Bas kets From Stores. Dr. Jennie Callfas, Omaha member of the Nebraska State Council of De fense, who has just returned from the meeting of that body held Satur day at Lincoln, announces that she has selected Mrs. Tom Allan, sister of William Jennings Bryan and pres ident of the Young Women's Chris tian association, in Lincoln, as her chief co-workc. in safeguarding the moral and spiritual forces of the state. Mrs. Allan will have special charge of this work in Lincoln. Both Dr. Callfas and Mrs. Allan are seeking special training along this line. Both are going to Lake Geneva to the Young Women's Christian as sociation conference in the near fu ture, and Thursday Dr. Callfas ex pects to start west in search of what ever information she can find. To Carry Groceries Home. The Nebraska State Council of De fense Saturday formally endorsed the movement urging housewives to car ry groceries home, thus curtailing store deliveries. They also dis cussed the appointment of commit tees and announced the next meeting tor Saturday morning, September 8, at the headquarters of the Fraternity building in Lincoln. Bv that time they expect to have their work defi nitely outlined. Jn the meantime they are waiting for instructions from the War department, which are necessary netore they can make and definite procedure. Police Stop Honeymoon; Man is Wanted in Chicago Less than twenty-four hours after his marriage to a prominent Lincoln girl, Hyman I. Goodwin of Chicago was arrested in Omaha by Detective Jolly at the request of Chicago police who accuse Goodwin of cmbezzelment of $335 from a coffee concern. Goodwin was married Sunday even ing at Lincoln to Miss Sarah Fogel son, daughter of H. Fogelson of that city. The ceremony was conducted at Temple B'nai Jeshurum by Rabbi Jacob Singer and was attended by 250 guests. After a reception, Goodwin and his bride started on a honeymoon tour which was to have included Bay City, Mich., New York and then a trip back across the continent to San Francisco. But the contemplated jour ney ceased abruptly at the Hotel Fon tenelle when Officer Jolly appeared on the scene. Arlington Store Robbed By Thieves in an Auto A store at Arlington, Neb., was entered and robbed of the following goods Sunday night: three shotguns, twenty-one dozen of overalls, one dozen pants, and twenty-six dozen shoes. The stolen goods were taken away in an automobile. At 3 o'clock Monday morning, three men in a Maxwell touring car were seen at Plum Creek, headed towards Omaha with the goods in their auto. Ready-to-Serve Carrots Home Canned Wash your jars;- wash' rubbers; test rubbers for quality. Set empty jars with rubbers in pan of water to heat and keep hot. Fill wash boiler to cover jars two inches with water. Heat water in wash boiler. Use young tender carrots, fresh ly pulled. Wash carrots thoroughly; use a vegetable brush. Place carrots in colander; scald by setting over a vessel of boiling water, covered tight, for five to ten minutes. Dip quickly into cold water. Scrape or pare to remove skin. Pack whole carrots, slices, or cross-section pieces in hot jars. Place rubbers and caps in po sition; not air tight. Place jars on false bottom of wash boiler. Submerge jar two inches. Let water boil ninety minutes. Start to count when water be gins to boil. Remove jars. Tighten covers. Invert to cool and examine for leaks. If leaks are found, change rub bers and boil again for ten min utes. Wrap in paper. Store in a cool, dry place. DON'T MISS ANY STEP. Things We Dread Seldom Are To Be Feared By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. Nothing ever yet was as bad as our active and morbid fancy painted it. Which has been said before! But it is well to keep reminding people of vivid and timorous imagination that the actuality of a situation never causes a tithe of the torture which the anticipating mind has attributed to it. Recently I read an article which dealt with a borrowed idea, which I in turn shall borrow. "The brave man dies once; the cow ard dies a thousand deaths," are the lines I want to borrow. I should like to have them printed in letters about a foot high and given a whole page all to themselves. Really they are important enough fr that. Par ticularly are they important in these days when panic so often seizes by the throat. Recently I met a young chap who was invalided from France. He is a nervous wreck. Physically he is almost disintegrated and yet he has never a wound not even a scratch. For two years he was in the first and even the second line of trenches. For two years he dreaded the day when he must get into the third line into ac tion. In those two years he has, I sup pose, died more than a thousand deaths. By suffering in anticipation he has cut himself off from being a real factor in fighting for the glory of France. There are tragically many of tis who make our lives one long series of tortures just as he did. Now, as a matter of fact, most real troubles are not as bad when you march right up to them and look them squarely in the eye as they were when you were thinking about them! Who'does not remember lying in bed. quaking and shaking in fear of some terrifying sound coming from the black dark beyond the bed? A night of such horror actually takes years out of a life. If you had the courage to get up, throw off the muffled covers, and sally forth to investigate the terrifying sound, it probably turned out to be a shutter a : .v.i. . napping in me darkness or a curiam rattling, or some inanimate object blowing about in the breeze from an open window. Lying still in the darkness of men tal cowardice and dreading any situa tion is very much like lying muffled to your nose in covers and suffering agonies of fear over what is probably nothing worse than a little kitten scratching for admission at the halt door! it pleasure is greatest in antici pation, just remember that this is also true ot trouble. or at the last, noth ing is very serious. Mortals give things an importance auite bevond their gravity. The day of our death, Jike the clay of our birth, is shrouded in forgetfulness, and if we do remem ber any of our trials and troubles, it will be only to smile that they should ever have calised us a pang," wrote Elbert Hubbard. There is a good deal to think about m that paragraph is there not? It is rather surprising how many of our brilliant authors have said that for us in prose or verse. But it lias to l.p said over and over again and ex plained ever more and more cm pnatically. f-or you and I and all of us are children afraid of the dark-. When we are kiddies, we weep and wail in anticipation of the torture we are going to be put to when the drn tist fills our aching tooth. Later on, we are ashamed to make a fuss about it, but, shut up inside of us, a dread- iui hiss is going on. I think pain is a dreadful bogey man with which we frighten ourselves all through life. Now, when we dis cover that the nurse maid or an older sister nas frightened the baby with threats of what the policeman or some mythica "bogey man" will do to him if he isn't good, we promptly reprove and reproach and give our orders that baby isn't to be frightened half out of his wits. Why do we do that? Not iust to save a naughty child who probably deserved it from a little disciplin ing fear. No not that! Rut t iPn him from growing up with the wrong aiuiuac toward law and order and to stop him froift being a coward. We want him to know that law is on his side that the policeman is his friend if he behaves. So we don't let naby get hold of the wrong attitude toward law and crow uo in fear nf it .Each of us needs the same sort of disciplining for ourse ves. Life is a game of consequences when most of tnose consequences we bring on our selves. And things we ought to fear, because they are going to follow in evitably from our own deeds, we brazenly neglect to dread. Last summer when the cruel plague of infantile paralysis took its toll of life all about us, even grown ups were panic stricken. Fear bf the unknown caused horrible misery to many who escaped everything but their own fear. I know of one family in particular who fled from New York with their three children. Where they were going they hardly knew; but they must get away from the crowded city with its high death rate. The first summer resort to whiih they fled re fused to take children from New York. The second had no room for any more guests. At the end of the discouraging quest they settled down in a mountain resort of which thev knew practically nothing. They could see that the sanitary conditions were not good but at least they were far from New .York. All three of the children were stricken with tvphoid fever. The water in the little settlement was polluted! The youngest baby died! Fatalists said that the baby was doomed anyway. Yes, that is true, tif you stop to think what made the doom! It was the blind, stupid un reasoning panic of the parents. Had they stayed in New York they might have taken preventive measures against the plague. And by cleanliness they might have avoided it. But fear drives you into dangers greater and graver than what we dread with tragically blind and un reasoning terror. Women in Athletics Cleveland lays claim to being the home city of the best team of woman bowlers in the country. In a recent tour of the middle west the team de feated all comers. Miss Mabel McConnell. star ath lete among the coeds at Northwest ern university, did no training for the recent athletic meet at Evanston, in which she shattered a world's hur dling record i Blue Serge Asks a Hearing BLUE. serge we have ever with us for which much thanks to the fates. This little coat dress is a dull Indian blue, cut with a little basque effect whose points are repeated on the tunic of the skirt. Brown and orange stitching is run along the tunic points in "candy" stripes. The basque crosses over the belt and decides it wants to be a sash. The smart waistcoat and collars and cuffs are of white linen. Below the brown satin tie there is a double row of buttons in orange and brown. Advice to the Lovelorn By Beatrice Fairfax As to Wlfe'i Seniority. Dfr Miss Fairfax: la there any estab lished custom to being friends with' a young man four years my junior. We read and studied and went about to gether, and drifted Into a close romps nlon. ship. He wishes me to become bis wife. As friends the difference In our ages did not matter, but It seems to me that by marry Ing blm I should be cheating him. Co you think It probable that such a marriage would turn out liappllyT What happens to me doea not matteri what happens to him Is the vital thing, so please don't mind my feeltng at all when you answer this. I need somebody's honest opinion. J. W. W. Every word you say goes to prove clearly that you are just the wife for this man. First of ajl you have a splendid friendship based on con geniality of taste and ideals. Sec ondly, you care so much for him that any sacrifice seems small if it will insure his happiness. What bet ter can life offer a man than a wife who feels such unselfish devotion as that? How can a girl who writes as charmingly as you do and with deep feeling that you express feel that such a non-essential as four years' seni ority on her part is going to affect the happiness of a marriage based on all the wonderful real things you possess. I happen to know of two perfect marriages in which the wife is much older than .the husband. Yon are too fine a girl for a man to lose. The Home ot the Bride. Dear Miss Fairfax: Is there any estab lished custom which forbids a bridegroom to sojourn as a guest In the home of his intended brlds during the days immediately preceding and up to the day of their mar riage even though h has always been thus entertained during the early part their en gagement? It la understood that the home of the bridegroom Is, In another city and that he has no other place to go privately either among relatives or friends. Under these circumstances would It be unhosbltable. If he were allowed to go to a hotel? M. T. D. There is no reason whatever why a groom should not be a guest in the home of the bride-to-be. There used to be a silly, old superstition that on the day of the wedding the groom must not see the bride up to the hour of the wedding ceremony. But that is absurd as is any question such as your letter seems to raise. Don't lie Stubborn. Dear Miss Fairfax: 1 am JS and have bRen going with a young man for the lat year. Recently we had an argument and didn't see each other for some time. At the end of three weeks I called him up and asked him to come to see me. Do you think It was my place to give in or his? As he Is very stubborn, I know that had J not called him up he would never have given In to me. Now, Miss Fairfax, do you think he loves me in spite of the fact that he TUESDAY AND AT DREXELS Five Special Bargains 200 pairs Women's Genuine Castor, Suede and Buck Ox fords; colors brown and black; former price ?5 t 1 f( and $6. Reduced to ipIeUU 200 pairs Women's White Canvas, Rubber Soled, Leather Trimmed Sport Shoes; oxfords and bals. Former dQ A f price $3.50 and $4. Reduced to Je&erO 200 pairs Women's Pumps and Oxfords, $1.95. Former price $4 and $5. Best value ever offered in the city. All of our Bathing Shoes, high and low; nothing but 7C first quality, at I DC 50 pairs of Men's Genuine Russian Calf and Ve- fc ! (( lour Calf Rubber Sole Oxfords; sizes 5i, 6, GVfc UU Former Price, $4.50 NO DELIVERIES NO CHARGES NO EXCHANGE These are th most wonderful bargains we have ever offered. Drexel Shoe Co. 1419 FARNAM STREET. .IflnMNrel would have let our friendship end if 1 hadn't called him up? We do not know who was at fault. A. M. What does it matter who "gives in?" You seem to think that love and friendship are contests of will. Why try to outdo the boy you like in one of his faults? Stubborness is a grave weakness and often separates real lovers. Don't cultivate this unpleas ant quality, but rather try to cure your friend of if. Quite Troper. Pear Miss Fairfax: Do you think It Is improper for two girls to go out of town for weekends to a hlghclaes hotel. We have no particular place In mind as yet. We do not get a summer vacation. We re ceive good salaries and feel that we can afford to do this. Several of our friends say that an action of this kind will give cause for unplesaant criticism. A. O. Not a bit of it. The world lias ceased its stupid old attitude of "looking for trouble," and the people who would misjudge two dignified, well-haved young women for going away to enjoy the benefits of a vaca tion in the country, are that narrow minded and unprogressive class of which sane thinkers look with either pity or amused tolerance. Hllllnl.le Gift. Dear Miss Folrfaj: I have known a young man for three months. During that time he has been calling on me three or four times a week. His birthday is July 29, and I am at a loss to know what would be a suitable gift. I thought erhaps a etgaretts esse might answer, but I really do not know If that would be In good taste. ' If you could help me with a few sug gestions for a remembrance on his birthday I would surely appreciate. It. I,. W. The gift of which you speak is rather pretentious the sort one gives a fiance or a very intimate friend. It might embarrass the young man to receive a valuable present from you. As a matter of fact, the right sort of man generally docs not like accepting gifts from a woman. Why not give him a book of poems, modern philo sophy, or one of the many splendid volumes the war has produced? If this does not appeal to you, a trifle in leather or silver would be in far bet ter taste than a cigaraet case. ASK FOR and GET , IHorlick's The Original , Malted Milk Substitutes Cost YOU Same prka WEDNESDAY Reducing the High Cost of Charge Accounts A perfectly good check or real money, puts one on the "Thorny" road to better things in women's wears. Early Display and Sale Autumn Models (.Now for the Adjectives) Rich Luxurious Coats Wonderful Suits Charming Dresses Comely Skirts Dainty Blouses August prices are two to ten dollars under credit figures and are subject to raise. Rare Bargains in Summery Wears Dresses and Skirts, Blouses and Sweaters. Suits and Coats. Children's Coats and Dresses. All posi tively to be sold during August. Join the "Good Scouts." It's a movement to co-operate with the stores everywhere by taking: one's own packages when con venient. Be a Good Scout. Any good store will quickly appre ciate your act. AT WELCOME ARCH : f' F. Hot? Tired? Bored? Hungry? The Blackstone Roof sup plies the remedy. The most delightful recreation spot in Omaha. A wonderful place for dining or light refresh ments, music and dancing. For reservations in ad vance call Harney 545. Our Nations.! and OrieraafCafe Rooms and cir FovmtairC Room arc unsurpassed For appointments and service. Your First Line of Defence THE MOUTH is the gate way of the body for perms . 8wellasfiid. Your teeth are in the first line of attack by the invading army. Your commanding officer is your dentist and your best weapon of defence is the toothbrush. Report to him regularly, use your toothbrush regularly and use an efficient dentifrice which doesnt make impossible "germicidal" claims. S. S. White Tooth Paste is a pure, whole some, non-medicated cleanser, approved by the highest dental authorities. Your druggist has it Sign and mail the coupon below for a copy of our booklet, "Good Teeth; How They Grow And How To Keep Them." THE S. S. WHITE DENTAL MFC. CO. MOUTIJ AND TOILET PREPARATIONS 211 SOUTU 12ih ST. PIIILADELP111A I SmHITl TOOTIt fastis iyflj COUPON HAMS. , W. 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