THE BEE: OMAHA. TUESDAY, JUNE 19, 1917. Society Enjoy! the Sunshine. Nature masques, picnics and such things are necessary now and then lor recreation. All ork.and no play makes Jack a dull boy, you know, so that if all of our society folk worked at Red Cross, war relief and conser vation all the time we should 'Don be a stupid lot Saturday furnished the needed diversion, with such interest ing events as Mrs. Myron Learned's bird masque, the Thimble club pic nic, the bi' dinner for the Pasadena hospital r it and at night a big dance at the Country club. Out in Hanscom park only the chil dren had a better time than did the young women who served the ushers. Mrs. J. T. Stewart. 2d, and Mrs. Sam uel Burns operated a refreshment con cession and directed them. If you doubt that they are having a good time, you should have seen Miss Eu genie Patterson and Mrs. John Cald well in their white cosltumes, com pleted with fetching Red Cross caps and veils, as they flourished about distributing program:, and piloting the audience to seats. Miss Marion Kuhn sold crackerjack to the hungry multitude, while Miss Mary Megeath and several others carried holders of ice cream cones for sale to those plentiful of pocketbook. Perhaps the fact that when they were safely screened back in the orchestra wing they, too, indulged in ice cream cones, added to the pleasure. Out at the home of Mr. and Mrs. T. A. Sunderland, in Fair Acres, the Thimble club members and their fam ilies had a genuine old-fashioned pic nic, with games like drop-the-hand-kerchief and three deep. The most fun of all came, though. , when the committee in charge arranged a spell ing match and set the brains of all the guests to. throbbing with such terrible words as pachyderm, palin genesis, papaveraceous and paridigi tate. The match was not ended, need less to say, for all the spellers were so proficient that time failed. One of the interesting happenings of the luncheon for Pasadena men was that several young hospital vol unteers found mutual friends among the Omaha girls. A handr me young chap named Carleton Wright had a sister, who was a schoolmate of Miss Erna Reed. He had met this Omaha girl when she was visiting in I-a Jolla, CaL At the Country Club. Mr. and Mrs. W. A. Pixley had a dinner party of seven at the Country club Sunday. W. G. Preston, J. T. Stewart, 2d., M. C. Peters, Louis Clarke and Frank Judson also had small parties. , At night Mr. and Mrs. Hoxie Clarke of New York had a supper party of eight Mrs. Milton Barlow had ten guests, Mr. an Mrs. Dan Whrrler had fourteen with them, and smaller groups were with Edw:rd Martin, M. G. Colpetrer, W. D. Hosford, S. S. Caldwell, H. H. BaMrige. Fred T. Hamilton, R. V. Gardner. Jack Sum mers. H. J. Connell, W. M. Burgess, A. V. Kinster, R. C. Howe, E. A. Cope and Brinkley Evans. Today at luncheon Mrs. F. A. Nash had nine guests in honor of Miss Blanche Burke of Portland, Ore. Mrs. Thomas Latham Davis entertained her division of Alt Saints' Parish Aid at the club, as usual. Mrs. C T. Kountze was one of the luncheon guests. At Happy Hollow Club. Thirty tables were set for the Fi delia club card party at the club house this afternoon. Many handsome prizes were offered to the players for the game and much interest was taken in the formation of the Cathedral cir cle, a Red Cross unit. First of the children's matinee dances will be given at the club Tues day. Thursday night will see the sec ond married folks dinner-dance. RETURNS FBOM EASTERN SCHOOL FOR SUMMER. 'f 'I 'X ' '' ' ' I " 'V ' At Seymour Lake Country Club. Complimentary to Miss Margaret Parks, one of the June brides, Mrs. J. M. McCarthy entertained at a luncheon Saturday, followed by a matinee dance. Miss May Mulnhill entertained at a golf-luncheon Sunday for Mr. I). J. Kelley, a prominent member of the Country club at South Bend, Ind., who is an Omaha visitor. Mr. James G. Martin had a dinner party on Sunday. Mr. H. C. Forster entcrjained Mr. Attebolt of Scranton, l'a., for the (week-end. At Carter Lake Cluh. First of the regular cottagers' din ners at Carter Lake club will be given Wednesday night. Seventy-live members and their families have made reservations. Friday the Cottagers' I Bowling club, an organization distinct J from the Carter Lake Swimming and Bowling club, will meet at the bowl ing alleys. Recently elected officers of this club are Mrs. H. E. Simpson, president, and Mrs. Arthur Schwarick, secretary. Notes of June Weddings. The marriage of Miss Nell Levin, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Arnold Levin, to Mr. William Boasburg, formerly of Minneapolis, will take place Tuesday afternoon. Rabbi Frederick Cohn will perfon.. the cere mony, after which a dinner- will be ? riven for the wedding guests. After our weeks spent at northern lakes they will make their home in-Omaha. The marriage of Mrs. Henrietta Sands Anderson to Mr. Richard T. Merrick took place at the country home of Mr. and Mrs. E. D. Bird of Greenwich, Conn., on Saturday after noon at 3:30 o'clock. The ceremony was performed by the Rev. H.- C. Whitney of. Greenwich, in the pres- MISS FLORENCE RILEY. One of the pretty school girls who has just returned to spend the summer in Omaha if Miss Florence Riley, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. E. F. Riley. She attends Trinity college in Wash ington, D. C. Upon her way home she spent a week in New York, stopped over in West Point for a cadet hop, visited Buffalo and' Niagara Falls and was guest for a week in Chicago at the home of Miss Clarissa Vincent. ence of a limited number of close friends. Mr. Eric L. Bergland of Baltimore was best man. No cards have been issued. The bride is a granddaughter of the late Admiral B. F. Sands. 1J. S. N., and the daughter of the first Mrs. Preston Sands of Washington, D. C. who was Miss Emilie Piquiette of Detroit. The bride groom is the only son of the late Hon. R. T. Merrick of Washington, D. C. Mr. Merrick, who was formerly of Washington, I). C, now makes his home in Wilmington, Del., where he will lake, his bride. Invitations have been received in Omaha from Mi. Lewis Whitlock of New York for the marriage of her daughter, Mrs. Frances Sprague, to Mr. John Watson Dixon on Thursday at 4 o'clock at chantry of St. Thomas' church. At 4:30 a reception for the wedding parly will be held at the Ritz-C'arlton. Mr. Dixon was a for mer Nebraska City man, well known in Omaha. He and his bride will be at home after December 1 at 310 West Ninety-second street in the city of New York. Shower for Miss Bridges. Miss Marie Simpson entertained at her Cater Lske cottage today for Miss Emily Bridges, a June bride. The party was a miscellaneous show er to which only a few of her most intimaie friends were invited. Wild flowers formed the house decorations. Social Gossip. Miss Janet Chase of Lincoln is vis iting her aunt, Mrs. Charles Burke, and her cousin. Mrs. Walter Klopp. Mrs. Howard Rushton has as her guests her mother and sister, Mrs. VV. C. Taylor and Miss Helen Taylor of Logan. O. Isaac W. Carpenter, jr.. spent from Friday noon to Saturday night in Omaha on his way from the Fort Snelling training camp to his new station in the vcoast artillery at Fortress Munroe. Mr. and Mrs. Grove S. Howell, who for the last week have been visiting their aunt. Mrs. A. MacAulay, re turned to their home in Chicago Sat urday night, Miss Thelma Wood, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George H. Wood, of Topeka, Kan., came Saturday to visit her aunt and uncle, Mr. and Mrs. H. R. Bowen, for several weeks. Alkali Makes Soap Bad For Washing Hair Most soaps and prepared shampoos contain too much alkali, which is very injurious, as it dries the scalp and makes the hair brittle. The best thing to use is just plain mulsified cocoanut oil, for this is pure and entirely greaseless. It's very cheap, and beats the most expensive soaps or anything else all to pieces. You can get this at any drug store, and a few ounces will last the whole family for months. ' Simply moisten the hair with water and rub it in, about a teaspoonful is an inai is required, it makes an abundance of rich, creamy lather, cleanses thoroughly and rinses out easily. The hair dries quickly and evenly, ' and is soft, fresh looking, bright, fluffy, wavy and easy to handle. Besides, it loosens and takes out every particle of dust, dirt and dandruff. Advertisement. Annual Outing for Creche. Dundee and North Side circles of the Child Conservation league will give their third annual outing for the children, of the Creche Thursday at nanscom pari. . Mrs. J. H. Beaton is chairman of the committee on arrangements and Mes dames Fred Elliott, jr., and N, K. Sype ot Dundee ana Mesaames L. H. bav- Train the Kiddies In Generosity "I am worried," writes a mother to me, "because my little son is so self ish. How can I teach him to be gen erous?" Well, selfishness is a problem, I'll admit, but happily it is not unsolvable. That selfish little boy of a worried mother can be made generous to a fault (if such a thing is possible) if she will for a time labor unceasingly, with faith, patience and tact. There are, of course, some children who are what we call "naturally" selfish, while others are naturally the opposite, but I think intelligent moth ers will agree with me that the av erage child is originally neither one nor the other, and that his early train ing determines his standing. How ever, even the "naturally selfish" child is far from being hopelessly selfish. All he neeJs is help to a dif ferent attitude of mind if he has ever had any serious thoughts about the subject at all which he probably hasn't. The youngster of tender years, say f" m the first cry to 5 years, does not readily comprehend that others be sides himself may desire things in tensely. Yet I have seen a year-and-a-half-old child give up a toy smil ingly, not once, but several times in succession, to his various relatives, who delighted in putting him through the generosity test. This dear little smile was the result of his young mother's patient training and constant wachfulness for "psychological mo ments," as it were, for the teaching of unselfishness. Do not force a child to be generous that is, to give up its possessions unwillingly. Such a method is a great mistake, for it makes the child re sentful, besides giving him an unbeau tiful idea of a beautiful virtue. Forced giving is likely to be felt as an un mitigated and unjust deprivation. The better way is to educate little folk up to the point where they find happi ness in giving in making others happy. Do not fail to call attention to this happiness when the child has per formed a generous action, thus im pressing it on the young mind and heart. Stories of generosity are always helpful both in training young people to be generous or in that greater problem the one overcoming any selfishness that may hnve been al lowed to develop. Is there anything finer than the spirit with which Louisa Alcott's dear "Little Women" give away their very delicious break fasts, to a nearby poor family? This charitable incident is especially ap preciated when one knows that it really happened in young Louisa's own life. Other stories especially good for instilling generosity are "The Three Cakes" and "The King of the Golden River." The life of Peter Cooper will be enjoyed by the older children. Selfishness in a girl or boy ap proaching womanhood nd manhood is. of course, more difficult o cope with than when found in younger children, but the idea of sending the former upon short trips with social workers, or taking them oneself to see, and help where possible, cases of distressing need, is effective. Such cases usually appeal to the most cal lous, so that there is at least a soften ing of the soil in which the seeds of generosity, tactfully planted by the home folk, may hope to grow and flourish. Very often lariness is the real cause of a child's selfishness. I know a man ho is ever ready to give away money in preference to his own serv ices, not because he is wealthy, but because he is thus absolved from us ing his indolent body and brain; he is not generous; he is merely paying for what he wants ease. The highest generosity is self-sacrifice, unless the contents of the pocket is needed more than one's personal services. The poor little only child is always in danger of becoming selfish from the sheer lack of opportunities to share toys and goodies with other children. Consequently it is wise to encourage the sisterless, brotherless bnes to seek companionship among other children ami to invite those companions into your Wbuse or garden where mother eyes may be upon them. It irtamentable, but true, that some mothers deliberately make children selfish. What do you think of the women who gives her little girl two cakes after school accompanied by idge, J. C. Sheeran and A. L. Digford of the North Side circle will compose the committee. Thirty-five children are anticipating the affair, which will be an all-day picnic, both lunch and supper being served. Mrs. A. L. Irten and Paul Theman son volunteered the use of their ma chines to assist with provisions. Events to Come. In honor of Miss Lillian Weiss, who was graduated this year from the University of Chicago, her moth er, Mrs. A. Weiss, will keep open house next Sunday. The two re turned Sunday from Chicago, where Mrs. Weiss went a week ago to at tend the commencement exertises. J 400,000 eS Messages 1 A Das Work Every 24 hours, more than 400,000 mes sages are sent by WESTERN UNION to 26,000 cities, towns and hamlets. Over 40,000 employees give them faithful and efficient attention. v Telegrams Day Letters Night letters Cablegrams Money Transferred by Wire THE WESTERN UNION TELEGRAPH CO. Favorite Foulard to Fore AS dusky blue and lovely as a summer night full of stars is this dress out of black, blue and white foulard under blue chiffon, and fringed out a little at the edges of underskirt and sleeves. To add the one crisp touch the season demands, the vest and collar are of white organdie, with a row of pearl but tons. In the back there isj loose panel of chiffon. the remark. "Now do keep them for yourself and don't feed the whole neiglioornooar nna in rne same class is the trolley car mother who whispers to her adolescent son, "Keep your seat. You paid for it and you're just as tired as she is." Not only should children be taught to give; they should be taught to give graciously. Many a shining gift has lost its radiance "because of the man ner with which it was presented. The "gifting spirit" is a lovely thing which glorifies even the passing on of an old garment. To give tactfully, quietly (even secretly); to give freely, gladly ah, then giving becomes worth while, and giver as well as receiver is enriched. But that reminds me. If few folk know how to give beautifully still fewer know how to give gracefully. Make it a point to express a frank and unmistakable gratitude or appre ciation when a little child performs a generous deed. XThus will the kiddie be set an example, and he, too, will be "generous" with -his gratitude and receive in the same spirit as that in which a gift is offered. Rene Still--n in Philadelphia Ledger. Omaha Women Ready to Aid In Conservation Campaign That Omaha women are ready for any war time emergency is demon strated by the fact that four organ izations have already expressed their willingness to co-operate with the government and State Council for Defense in recruiting women for membership in the national food con servation campaign, which, as out lined by Herbert C Hoover, will be from July 1 to 15. Mrs. J. M. Metcalfe, president of the Equal Franchise society, said: "The suffragists stand ready to co operate in any way." "Mrs. Langworthy Taylor, state chairman of the National League for Woman Service, received instructions from the national chairman. Miss Maude Wetmore, to co-operate with the State Council for Defense in the work," said Mrs. William Archibald Smith, local chairman. Mrs. F. J. Birss, president of the Woman Voter's Conservation league, expressed the desire and willingness of the organization to co-operate as far as possible in the work. Rabbi Colin of the Board of Public Welfare, said: "The Board of Public Welfare will co-operate willing in any'possible way." Public Vacation Schools Start in Three Buildings Public vacation schools were open ed Monday morning at Lothrop, Far nam and South Central schools, for a period of six weeks. These schools were maintained last summer and are intended particularly for children who failed to make grades and are anxious to make up their failures. Sugar in Jelly Making. Washington, June 18. Much waste of sugar and spoilage of jellies can be avoided by using a simple alcohol test recommended by the Bureau of Chemistry, United States Department of Agriculture. To determine how much sugar should be used with each kind of juice put a spoonful of juice in a glass and add to it one spoonful of 9o per cent grain alcohol, mixed by shaking the glass gently. Pour slowly from the glass, noting how the pectin trft substance in fruits which makes them jell is precipitated. If the pectin is precipitated as one lump a cup of sugar may be used for each cup ot juice; if in several lumps the pro portion of -sugar must be reduced to approximately three-fourths the amount of the juice. If the pectin Jy not in lumps, but is merely pre cipitated, the sugar should be one half or less of the amount of the juice. If the juice shows no pre cipitation under this test, it is un suitable for jelly making and must be combined with apples or other juices rich in pectin. The housewife will do well before making the test, to taste the ;uicj, as fruits not as acid as good tart apples t robably will not make good jelly un less mixed with other fruits which are acid. Don't Stay Gray Tint yoar hair to tha ihtda desired with "Brownatone." Thii new preparation is far superior to any mixture that contains henna, sulphur, silver, lead or similar preparations. 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