THE BEE: OT7AHA. FRIDAY, JANUARY 19, 1917.
Personal Gossip : Society Notes. f Woman's Work : Household Topics
Love Is Blind
But Not Too Blind
to See a Pretty Girl
By Nell Brinkley
Copyright, IS17, International News Service
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Jteviving Opm House Custom, -MlM
Ailt Pnval has revived
matt delightful caitotn of keeping
open home and you may be ture
that her many friend are taking ad
vantage of her warm hospitality and
are Helping to make it a great aucceai.
Every Sunday afternoon about 4
o'clock Mi Duval ia at home to her
fnendt and they spend the afternoon
in visiting and having informal
musical?.
The greatest treat of all it tea
time, for among the other delicacies
on the tea table are Mrs. Duval's
toothsome' individual - butterscotch
fiies, which are becoming household
avorites among, her friends. So
those of us who are not lucky enough
to be migrating to the south for the
winter may (if we number her as one
of our friends) taste the far-famed
southern hospitality, not to mention
those famous butterscotch pies .with
out experiencing the many incon
veniences of traveling and crowded
hotels, and our purses won't feel
nearly so flat in the spring.
But seriously sneak-ina-. how solen-
did it would be if more of our homes
in Omaha were opened, as is the cus
tom in so many American at well as
foreign cities, for a sociable cup of
tea at regular intervals.
In the busy whirl of social, intel
lectual and commercial life which
threatens at timet almost to engulf
us, calling on friends hat been nearly
relegated as a thing of the past and
consequently there is sacrificed not
only a most enjoyable custom, but
perhaps a little of the generous and
informal hospitality for which our
grandmothers and grandfathers were
so distinguished.
And after all, it it at the informal
affairs rather than the large ones that
real interest in others is most likely
to be kindled and lasting friendship
formed.
Luncheon for Visitors, r
Mrs. Harry. Carpenter entertained
at luncheon today at the Blackstone
complimentary to Mrs. Lloyd Bur
diet of Herman and Mist Pauline
Mansfield ' of Northampton, Mass.,
who is the bouse guest of Miss Marian
Carpenter. Covert were laid for
twenty guesta and the table was dec
orated m pink tweet ocas, arranged
rnost effectively in three bowls, the
one in the center being taller and
joined to the others by smilax. At
the places of the guests of honor were
corsage bouquets of tweet peat. Mrt.
Peter. Hammer, Mrt, Carpenter's
mother, of Harlan, la., wat the only
other out-of-town guest.
Birthday Party. ,
Matter Lewis Meyer Goldstone en
tertained ten of his little friends yes
terday afternoon in honor of his
third birthday. The house was dec
orated in pink carnations and pink
candles in green candlesticks, and
there were gayly colored favors for
- the little guests, who were as follows:
MInii Who
Rosemary eToltw, Bmii Horn.
Henrietta Merer, Annie Morn.
. aleeora. - Maura.
Stanley Jaooha, Bdwln Hommir, ,
Leonard Poleer, Lewis Moaner.
Hubert to turner.
Pleasures Past.
Mrs. Harold Reed entertained the
Loyal Oaughteri club Tuesday even
ing at a kensington at the homeof
her mother, Mrs. H. Davey. The
, guests were:
Mieee
Josele Hellla.
Iron. Mouithrop,
Mildred Tlliel,
Kdllh Calvert. "
. tattle IJanleiaos.
Meedemea -M.
Kroter,
J. Calvert, i .
H. Reed.
Myrtle Srnleor. t
Vara alarahall,
l.ola Bvara,
Udna KlllUir, -Uerlrude
Calvert,
Meedamee-
A. aiasel.
I It. Moon,
C. I. Moulthrop,
M Janke,
Sunday School Social.
Sunday school tcholara of the First
Presbyterian church will be enter
tained at a social in the parish house
Friday evening at, 7:30. About 150
guests are expected and they will be
entertained with a number of sur
prises which have not yet been di-
vulged. ',,
Luncheon for Old Friends. ,
Mrt. W. M. Jeffert, Mrs. W. L.
Carey and Mrt. D. T. Quigley will
entertain thirty guetts at luncheon at
the Blackstone Saturday Among the
guests will be a number of out-of-town
women, old friends of the hos
tesses. Mrs. Keith Neville will come
from Lincoln, Mrt. E. T. Seeberger
and Mrt. A. A. Schati from North
I'latte, Mrt, F. Sawyer from Colum
bus and Mrs. L. L. Wernert from
Kearney for the affair.
Tuesday Bridge Club.
Mrs. Walter Roberts entertained
the members of the Tuesday Bridge
club at her home today. Mrt. Fred
erick Wing of Hartford, who ia vit
iting her sister, Mrs. Harry Tukey,
and Mrs. Charles, Turner of Fremont
the guest' of Mrs. Barton Millard,
were present.
Alumni Club Luncheon,
University of Chicago alumni will
have luncheon at the University club
at I o'clock Saturday. Mr. John I".
Moulds, secretary of the alumni coun
cil of 'the University club of Chicago,
it coming out from Chicago for thia
meeting and fringing with him a
moving picture him and picturea
taken last June at the quarter centen
nial celebration .of the founding of the
University of Chicago. The pictures
will be shown after the luncheon in
the main disiflg room at the Univer
sity club. 'Mr. Harold Swift, the
chairman of the committee on reor
ganization of alumni clubs of the Uni
verstiy of Chicago, is also expected
' to come and bring plant for the more
concrete organization of Chicago
graduates in Omaha. - Dr. A. .
Dunn of Omaha, Mr. Henry Clarke of
, Lincoln, Mr. Wayland W. Magee and
- Miss Faith Hoel have been asked to
make short remarks at repretenting
their respectivet professions.
Mist Irma Grosa it the secretary of
THE HI6HE5T QUALITY
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the Nebraska and Western Iowa
Alumni association of the University
of Chicago and ia miking the ar
rangement Any University of Chicago
students, alumni and friends of the
university caring to see the pictures
have been invited to come to the
luncheon or come in afterwards to tee
the picturei, which have been thown
to a large number of alumni clubt
throughout the country and come here
from Det Moinet, where they are to
be teen at a dinner of the Det Moinet
Alumni club on January 19.
Press Club Luncheon.
Madam Yvctte Guilbert, French
chanteuse who sings at the Audi
torium, was honor guest at the Omaha
Woman's Press club luncheon at the
Hotel Loyal today. Miss Emily
Gresser, her violinist, and Miss Kath
erine Bamman, her manager, were
also entertained by the club. Other
than members, covers were placed for
the following guests:
Mlaaea Mlaara
Leola lirandeta, lfona Cowrll
Laulae Dleta,
Meedami.it--. Meedamee
William Seara Popple C. D. Armatronv,
ton, Frank W. Baker,
W. r. Ballrr. N. C. larr.
A. Hits Ina. - Homael Rem jr.,
C. C. ttoeewatrr. W. Jt. Mattncwa.
Roland II. Jonea, '
Newspaper Woman Coming.
Mrs. Ross Tennel of Sabe'tha.
Kan., will arrive next Thursday, to
be the guest of Mr. and Mrs. Charles
Platte. Mrt. Tennel and Mrs.
Platte, who were school mates, have
not seen each other for twelve years,
so this visit is being anticipated a
great deal by both. Mrs. Tennel,
whose husband is 4he owner -of the
Sabetha Herald, it quite a writer and
it the editor of her husband's paper.
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Luncheon for Guett.
Mrs. Charles Sibbernsen entertained
at luncheon at her home today for her
fuest. Miss Marguerite Duggati, of
ioux City, and for Mrs. Thomas.
Hayward of Pittsburgh, who is
visiting her parents, Mr. and Mrs. R.
B. Uusch. - Covers were laid for
twelve guests.
Fine Artt Society Lecture.
TaV William Hudson. Drofessor at
Columbia university, Jefferson City,
Mo., will address the Omaha Society
of Fine Arts at the Fontenelle Thurs
day at 4 o'clock. "Social Unrest and
Its Ethical Significance" is hit sub
ject. To Receive Sunday.
Mrt. Arthur D, Brandeis and Miss
Leola Brandeis, -who arrived this
morning from New York, will receive
Omaha friendt in their apartments al
the Fonenelle Sunday afternoon and
evening,
Personal Mention.
Mrs. N. J. McKittrick has returned
from a three weeks' trip in St. Louis
and southern cities.
Mr. J. Clarke Coit and family are
atopping at the Blackstone.
. Mr, and Mrs. W. I. Burgess are
registered at the BJackstone.
Mrs. Peter Hammer of Harlan, Ia.,
arrived yesterday to spend the week
end yith her daughter, Mrt, Harry
Carpenter.
Mrs. A. R. ! Platte of Atchison,
Kan., who has been the guest of Mr.
and Msr. C. T. Platte, will leave next
week for home.
Evening Bridge. , ' :
Mr. and Mrs. A. J. Cooley will
entertain at an evening bridge party
today for their guest, Mrs. Charles
Duffy, of Burlington, Ia. Three tables
will be set for (he game.
On the Calendar.
The Pagalco club will give a danc
ing party Thursday evening, January
25, at Keep's dancing acadenfy, at
8:30 o clock. ,
MrsE. L. Bauer will entertain at
luncheon and carda at the Blackstone
Saturday.
Mrs. A. W. McDonald will have
twelve guests at luncheon at the
Blackstone Saturday. The afternoon
will be spent playing cards,
Mrs. C. W. Russell will have twelve
luncheon guests at the Blackstone
Mr. W. C, Lyle has made reserva'H
lions for sixty-four insurance men for
a dinner-dance at the Blackstone next
Monday evening.
For the. Saturday evening dinner
dance reservations have been made
by Dr. and Mrs. C. A. Hull, Mr. and
Mrs. Joseph Barker (each for sixteen)
ana by Mr. and Mrt. John A. Mc
uonaia tor tour.
The Young Women't Christian as
sociation annual meeting and mem
bership dinner will be held at the as
sociation building Monday evening,
January 22, at 6:30 o'clock. Short
repo'rts of the year's work will be
given, and election of board members
will take place. Reservations (or din
ner must be made before Saturday
morning. ...
Court Grants Liberty to
Three Wives and One Hubby
; The following decrees have been
granted in divorce court:
Oertle Ll Arnutrons trom Jamra Arm.
atrona.
Albert A. Harklna from Myrtle ttarklna
naaei simonaen from Brneat Rtmonaen.
Catherine
Mohler. .
Mohler train William, B.
We Greatly Relieve
RHEUMATISM
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blood partner
and tivin
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throwing off
of p4 I o n t
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mot turn and helps build up too on tiro
jrstom, ,
The faraona Sulpho . Chlorine
Mineral Water la Mlrerod In
Omaha la flve-aallon juga, tl.ttt
te refunded when Jus la returned.
Brow Park Mineral Springs
tSth and O Sta . tnuUl aide rune Sooth TI
D. JOHN A. NIEMANN,
OaaeoMUle Phretelaa k Chute.
wr van earner in Omaha ahonld rand
the BLOW haaH-H -TWH l If-, r
In todar'a lean, lt'a "The Pernio'
tunitr; given them by
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'lain Cre-rot' Aaa'n,
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ISlk end Howard Stroma.
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- Aphrodite's son asks alms. Everywhere. His silvery
tousled head is seen piteously in the Winter streets
one foot atop the other to warm a pink sole at a time. He
. smiles in the Spring streets when the maples are in a
cloud of delicate bud and his head rises like a yellow
jtmquil from the stone walling by the sidewalk. He grins
Love Can Survive Many Things,
S J- But Unkind Words Slay It
By DOROTHY DIX.
It it a curiout thing that speech,
which it the chief instrument in win
ning love, it also the weapon that
oftenest slays it. This it always a
bewildering grief and surprise to us,
because it it at if the tword that had
fought for cupid wat suddenly and
traitorously turned against him. i
It is not what' people do that we
find unforgivable. , It .is , the things
that they say to us that rankle like
poisoned arrows in our breastt, and
more affection has been bljghted by
gratuitoui criticism and more love,
kiiicu oy cruei speecnet man Dy all
the sins and crimes on the calendar.
Yet, in spite of this common knowl
edge, there .are men and women fool
ish enough to tell each other of their
faults, and still expect to be loed
and cherished. Vain hopel, Criticism
we may beable to stand from
strangers, for whoV opinion we do
not care, but every word of dispraise
from those we love, and in whose
eyes we would thine, it a drop of
acid that burns to the bone,
Faithful,' says the Good Book
are .the wounds of a friend." ,The
are also fatal. There is no surer and
quicker way for a couple, whetfier
they are engaged pr married, to shoo
love out of the window than for them
to tell each other of little idiosyn
crasies and peculiarities that might be
altered for the better.' '
Most people regard quarrels lightly,
as a matter of no importance. Theyj
even stultify themselves by saying
that "the.falling out of faithful friends
the renewing is of love." but nothing
is farther from the truth.
The first time that we discover that
the lips that have dropped honey can
likewise drop gall, something goes :
out of our hearta that never coines
back again. . ,
Love that has been, tainted with!
doubt, love that has been bruised with
hard words, love that has had to for
give, or be forgiven, is never qilite
the same again. The wound will heal,
but the scar remains, and the patched i
up faith and affection can never be i
as strong as that which has never been
strained or broken. 1
If the quarrels between friends or:
lovera are dangerous, those between;
nusoands and wives are fatal. The;
one is a sparring match with gloves, ;
the ftther ia a fight to a finish with I
bare knuckles. ' . . j
In the domestic spat quarter is
neither asked nor given. The black
flag is nailed to the mast, and noth
ing and nobody is spared. It is the
desecration of all that is holy and
sacred in love. . It is the shattering
of ideals. It is the tearing down of
one't gods, and no matter how much
one may try to repair the damage it
can never be done.
The altar on .which the fire of con
jugal love burned has been broken,
and forever after it will be rickety and
ready to topple over at the tlightest
jostle. Besides, nobody ever worships
again the thing that they have trodden
in the dust under their feet
To the man and woman who wish
to love each other whose very hap
piness is dependent on their loving
each other, aince they are tied to
gether in the bonds of matrimony
there can be no folly equal to the
madness of .indulging in foolish fam
ily quarrels, i
Yet, in the majority of households,
they are as much a matter of course
aa breakfaat or dinner, and those who
thus wantonly wound love excuse
their crime by laying that a husband
and wife never remember such of
fenses against each other. They for
give and foraet. They kiss and make
up, and the incident is closed.
Those who offer 'this apology for
their weakness are neither candid nor
honest. They know that what they
say it not possible. They know that
nobody ever either forgivet or for
gets. In temper, as in wine, there is
truth, and in the heat of passion hus
bands and wives flash out the bitter
accusations, and scathing criticism,
the rankling disappointment and dis-
illusion that policy and prudence bid
them hide in saner moments.
This is what makes the excuse, "I
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riv88 j i in tSlcts
"You may have the witness' says
the attorney for the defense. Then
he unwraps a piece of Adams Black
Jack Gum. And why does he prefer
Black Jack? Because the licorice
flavor wards off. throat infection
and puts his voice in better condition
to address the jury.
a. W.aaalii msi WrA
in Summer and seems to need largess more than ever,
though his little ivory and rose body can go naked with
joy. And, passing him girl and womankind wavers
and leans and cannot resist. For he is blind. But not so
blind but that if she is pretty that leaning damsel
she nods a round, merry, adoring, robin-eye flying open
into her own! NELL BRINKLEY.
didn't mean what I said to you when
I was angry," so futile. We may
seem to accept it, and even return a
Judas kiss of pretended reconcilia
tion. But we all know, with a ghastly
certainty, that it is when people are
angry that they sav lust what thev
do mean, and show us exactly how
we stand in their regard. '
But the most deadly of all wounds
that the tongue deals love is nagging.
No affection, no matter how strong
it was to begin with, survives that
continual pinpricking. Love bleeds to
death from a thousand merciless
stabs. Worse stilt, it has been mur
dered by slow torture, and for this
there "Is no pardon in this world or
the next.
Men kill love oftenest with deeds.
Women with words. Perhaps that is
why women find it easier to forgive
men than men do women.
"Now Remember
hurry to your grocer's for a
can of Calumet -learn your
final and best lesson in baking
bake everything with Calu
met that proved a failure with
other Baking Powders.
"This is the test which
proves Calumet the surest,
6afest Baking Powder in the
world the most economical
to buy and to use. My
mother has used Calumet for
years and there's never a
bake-day failure at our house."
ReceiVecl Highest Award
New Ctoi Boei Frtr
St Slip in Pound Can
MING POWDER!
All
Run
Mrs. Era Robblnt, of Terra Haute, Ind., on Feb. 10th, 1915, mads
the following statement "I had female troubles. . . and I was very
nervous. I took all kinds of medicine
t good until I commenced with Caidct.
and It cured me." For forty years,
thousands of weak and ailing women
Let It help you too. It may be Just
aruggtst sells It Get a bottle today.
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Do We Eat '
Too Much Salt?
By LUCILLE CAINE.
Not a few people are foregoing the
habit of using salt at the table. They
believe too much salt is eaten.
Common salt, the chemical name of
which ia chloride of sodium, has been
used so long by civilized man that
most individuals are ted to believe its
use indispensable to the human econ
omy. This is an erroneous belief, as every
individual can decide for himself.
It is a wrong inference which leads
people to believe that because the deer
likes the salt "lick" or the red man
likes firewater, either of the sub
stances is natural or necessary to the
human body.
It is a well known fact that there
are numbers of people who never use
salt. The North American Indian
whom the hand of civilization has not
made unnatural, doesnot eat salt, and
many of the peoples of the more
northern parts of Europe and Amer
ica, as welt as central Africa, have no
use for salt.
An individual need go no further
than his own experience to learn that
salt is wholly unnecessary for- the
human body.
An appetite for it may be developed
to such an extent that the victim may
well be called a "salt-eater."
The phsysiological effect of saU is
that of an irritant upon alt the mu
cous membrane of the body, produc
ing a watery discharge. This is the
purpose for which salt is prescribed
by physicians as a medicine to irri
tate or clcanfe by flic effect of this
irritataion, which is only intended to
be temporary in character.
It is an interesting fact that salt
and cane sugar have practically the
same effect as an irritant on the hu
man organism.
Anyone can easily prove the truth
of this assertion by snuffing a solu
tion of salt or sugar and water up
the nostrils; the profuse discharge
which follows is proof of the irritant
effect of either upon the mucous mem
brane of the nose.
What -applies to the nose applies
equally well to tile stomach or any
other organ of the body. So that the
effect of salt when used in excessive
quantities is to produce catarrh of
the mucous membrane of the body
and this in time becomes chronic.
There arc other njinor ailments for
which the excessive use of salt is re
sponsible notably, eczema and other
r?.hes of the skin manifesting them
selves in rashes and boils.
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