AW -wwf.- t.W jW-fesa '.f THE BEE:, OMAHA, TUESDAY, DECEMBER 5, 1916. Personal Gossip : Society Notes .' Woman's Work : Household Topics December 4, 1916. General and Mrs. John C, Cowin's grandson, 8-year-old Michael Cudahy, is featured. in the Chicago Sunday Tribune for a scheme the little fel low has devised to collect old news papers to aid Belgian war sufferer. Little Michael's mother, Mrs. ''JackV Cudahy, was Miss Edna Cowin, only daughter of the Omaha Cowins. The Cudahy home is in Pasadena, Cal in a specially built bungalow -on the large tract of ground in connection with the Maryland hotel. Mrs. Cowin only recently returned from California, where she had gone for the benefit of her health, and spent ; considerable time with her daughter and grandchildren. Besides Michael, there are three (laughters, Edna, Ma- . ne nd Anne, who are pictured with their mother Jn the Chicago newspa per, surrounded by stacks of old oews- papers. : Little Michael, heir to millions and . potential business man that he is, dis covered one day that paper these days is worth almost its weight in gold, so he began merchandising in newspa pers, devoting the proceeds to the Belgian poor. A round of news deal ers in Pasadena resulted in the discov ery that the Cudahy scion was a most persistent newspaper purchaser. Learning the value of nickels and dimes is a pretty tough occupation for a poor kid, yet the Cudahy children are taking a real interest in it. game, are expected to return Tuesday morning. The Misses Meliora and Elizabeth Davis are expected to return the last of the week from Minneapolis, where they have been visiting Miss (Cather ine Dwinnel. Mr. and Mrs. Paul Bradley, whose marriage occurred in Lawrence, Kan., on' Thanksgiving day, arrived this morning and spent the day with Mr. Bradley's parents, Mr. and Mrs.C'L. riraaiey. - Smart, 1 Every Bit of Them ; i The Border Line of Sanity MODESTLY low about N the brows began the brown vel vet hat to the right, but the crown was bent upon rising in the world, and, with the support of a band of beaver, it sent out two expeditions which reached a most unexpected altitude. Two beaver ruffles, di vided by a much reinforced line of blue ribbon, form the collarette, , and two more the muff. TO BEGIN at the very top of. the set below there is a little round dome of Nattier blue velvet and ne.-.t are rows of velvet with overlapping edges. Then there is '-, a hoop of moleskin and a rose. Next here is a very little of who ever wears the set, and then a moleskin collar with fluttery blue picot-edged ribbons and a muff of moleskin lined with blue velvet to match the lining of the collar. Bradley-EUiott Wedding. -. Thanksgiving morning at 11:30 o clock Miss Gladys Elliott, daughter of Mrs. Minnie A. Elliot, and Mr. i J-aui Bradley, son of Mr. and Mrs. G. L. Bradley of Omaha, were united in , ? marriage at Westminster hall, Law . renee. , . ' Jkt bride graduated from Kansas university with the class of '12 and has since been a member of the fac- uuy as instructor in the physical edu cation aepannu-nt. she is a member or me Alpha Uelta Pi sorority. Mr. Bradley is a graduate of the . Agricultural college at Ames, la., a member of the Delta Tan Delta fm. ternity and a young business man of vmana. ' - Dr.i Stanton Olinger of the West ; minster Bible chair officiated. Wed ding airs were played by Miss Mar. :, gurite McMilan of Kansas City, Mo. A wedding breakfast was served, after which the bridal party occupied . a box at the Kansas-Missouri foot . ball game. . . The young people left on an even ing train for a short trip before going , ot Omaha, 'where they will be at home, 606 North Twenty-fourth tv ; enue. j. i'; t;,y, iPartiei for the Concert. - , -- Mr. and Mrs. George Bernhard Prmz, Mr. and M.rsi . Luther L. KounUe and Mr. and Mrs., O. C. i Kcdick, who will occupy a box at the Kreisles concert this evening, will i dine together at the Kedicks' before the performance.' i Mr, and Mrs. Louis C,; Nash and Mr. and Mrs. Ward Burgess have a . box together. v t ' . v . ; With Mr. and Mrs. George' A. Hoagland will be Dr. and Mrs. J. E. Summers. . ..: ' Mr4 and Mrs. George Brandeia will , entertain at dinner before the con ., cert this evening and will occupy one oi me ouxes. ineir party will in clude: . i Meaara. and Meedamee . John U Kennedy, Prank Judaon. Mtaaee maaee Virginia Hanecom of Mary Franc of - Mew Turk. Near York, . Dr. and Mrs. B. B. Davis will have as their guests Mrs. John W. Towle and Miss Marian Towle. Judge and Mra. W. A, Redick, Mr. and Mra. W. J. Foye and Mr. and Mrs. William Tracy Burns will oc cupy another box. Mrs. Arthur Crittenden Smith is i another the box holders. . -' - , . ) Mr. and Mrs. A. L. Reed will have as their guests this evening Mr, and Mrs. Glenn C. Wharton and Mrs. ' Charles T, Kountze will also occupy scats in the box. , -, ; Reception for Pastor. ' - 1 ' ) Invitations have been issued bv the trustees of the Unitarian church for a reception in honor of their new f pastor, the Rev. Robert French Leav ens and Mra. Leavens at the Metro politan ciuo house, luesdav even no- December 12. The committee on in vitations includes: , i Meadamea Meadamee , Oeorire w, Heldreae, Draper Smith. ' William Baater. William Newton. J Charlea W. Ruaaell, -. , Attends Junior Prom. Mifci Helen Walker spent the week cna in rmiaoeipnia, having been in vited with some other girls of Miss Somers' school to attend the Junior Prom at the University of Pennsyl vania.. She will be at home on De- j cemoer a to spend the Christmas holidays with her parents, Mr. and Mrs.' William I. Walker, at the Blackstone. . t , , , Bridge for Guests. ' . ' Mr.; and Mrs. T. B. Coleman entertaining informally at bridge this evening ior Mr. ana Mrs. f rank Gal- lagher of Salt Lake City, who are the guesta of Mr. and Mrs. E. H. Barrett. Wednesday Mr. and Mrs. H. G. Kranz : will entertain for the Gallaghers.' Original Monday Bridie Club. Mrs. Arthur Remington entertained the members of the Original Monday Bridge club at her home today. All members were present. On the Calender. :. v Mrs, B. B. Wood ri entertaininir at tea on Thursday for her three daugh- icr, mra. noy wooa ot iSalt lke City, Mrs. W. H. Cranmer of Denver and Mrs. Ben Wood of this city. ; Mrs. Archie W. Caroenter will en terrain the Thimble club at her home next i uesday afternoon. Miss Marian , Kuhn will entertain the 1915 Debutante Bridge club this week.' '. .- , . EARLY SHOPPING ' BECOMES DELIGHT - . ' Christmas Sale of the Churches Starts in The Bee Build ing; Botunda. MAUT BEAUTIFUL GIFTS ! Early Christmas shopping becomes a delight if centered on the Christmas bazars being conducted today in the Totunda of the Bee building by the North Omaha Methodist Episco pal, St Matthias and Pearl Methodist churches, and the Z. Z. ( iirla' rlnh nf the First Methodist church- uauu-pamica cnina, riDDon cor sages,, rugs. comforters. . hanH. embroidered or tatted-edge handker- cnicis, party Dags, crochet bags, laun dry bags, aprons, bungalow, kitchen, maids', tea or fifty-seven more varie ties, doilies, scarfs, guest towels, sil- vernolders .1 host of pretty and use ful articles are on display here-' ; - . The Z. Z. class, header! hv, Mra James Hodge, is proudly exhibiting a beautifully crotcheted doily of linen made by Gunhild, a young Swedish girl who came to this country recently iu ican American manners and cus toms. Mrs. Hodge is assisted at the bazar by Mig. Vincent C. Hascall, Mrs. Knudson, Mrs. J. H. Ready and miss r.uun xtice. .a Pearl Memorial's tables are ' in charge of Mrs. C. O. Huffstetter. Mrs- C P. White and Mrs. Frank Whip- pcriuaa.- 1 . .- :l, " . , . Mrs. Ed Sommer, Mrs. C E Par sons and Mrs. A. C. Kugel preside at St. Matthias' church sale. Miss Jen- mc oruoaxer, Mrs. n. K.. fassoth, Mrs. Otis Plummer, Mrs. L. Williams and Mrs. C. Reynolds are conducting the sale for the North Omaha church House iof Hope Fund Is Shyhousands I The House of Hope building, fund committee reported additional sub scriptions of $890, wliich brings the iuii oi we iuno to $i,uo. , The committee' started nut tn r;. $50,000, At a noonday meeting at Motel Fontenelle announcement made that the work will be continued indefinitely until ithe $50,000 raised. 's-.'.'. . ,t .' . -,i Program to Be Given by the Tuesday Morning Musical Club . The Droo-ram tn h clown hv. h Tuesday Morning Musical club at the sranueis tneater tnis atternoon will be: v ; , ' pakt i, ;, ' , (a) Rom Sottly Blooralns. . , .l.udwlf Spohr (b) Ua mote dl lloja. ....... ,W. A. Hoaarl (c Low Haa Eyei. ...... Hfnry a, Blahop (d) Shepherd Thy Demeanor Vary .... i i',Old Enjllah Mra, Lillian Helmea-Polley. Mlaa Btuart, Aecompnnlal. : ' . s . ; i ttrm Aoenaa f At i . . (Bvenlne) .....,..,. b) Noyelelto. op. ..,).. Robert Schumann ) Warun) (Why) I (d) Ortlleu Whima)... Mra. I.. F. CYofwt. Alrla from Ifadeachda "Oh, my heart 1 r' wfr'!- Uorlna Thomaa Mra. A. J. Root. Mra. Walter Sliver, Aecompanlat. PART II. f An April Heart".; . ...... .Clauih Lelihtor Ik lOlai of the col- ' s r i TTlVRRY hit. almost. Hi lar, muff and bag is made of strips of tan felt seWed together, and around the edges are ridges of Kolinsky. Purple ribbons appear . wherever there is the slightest ex cuse, and embroidered flowers, too. wwm I MTrr-BMci The Surest Way to Get a Husband Is to Learn to Make a Home Social Gossip. ' , ( Mrs. Franklin Albert Shotwell re- turned, last week from an extended lay m the east.. Mr.iand Mrs. W. H. Bucholr. who went east to attend the Yale-Harvard I a) When Rprina- Awalcea tb. The World la Full of Anrit (e) A Little Malfbn. Lovaa a Boy. , (d) The Maalc offtlia Hprlni. ,' () Ion and I and April. I . Mra. Lillian Helmea-Polley. ' Mlaa Btuart, Aucompanlat. (a) Beroeuae .....I (b) Impromptu..., . .F. P. dhopin (o) Nocture, op. S7, Ko. , Mra. 1.. V. rrnfnnt ' , I ta) flapphlache Ode,...t ; (b) Meln Lleb ! eln. .Johannea Brahma Jaer . (0) Nur war die Sehnaurht kennt..' ... Polar Taohalkowaky (d) Life and Death.. ... .& Colerldjo Taylor Mra. A. t. Root. ' . Mra. Walter Silver, Aecompanlat. Anti-Suffrage Women Leave for Convention Mrs. William 'Achibald Smith,, sec retary, and -Mrs. Harvey E, New branch, a hoard member of the Ne braska Anti-Suffrage society, leave Tuesday evening, for the national con vention of the Association Opposed to Woman Suffrage, which opens in Washington, D. C, Thursday. Other Nebraska wnmn uhn mii be in the cast at the time are planning to attend the sessions of the meeting. .curuing to Mrs. fcdward 1'orter iccK, local president. Funeral of Mrs. Mayer to Be Held Here Wednesday wThe funeral of Mrs. Hal Irene Mayer, whose sad death leaving a motherless infant child has already bn chronicled, will take place from the First Christian church Wednes day at 2 p. m., the body in the mean time being at Cole & McKay's rooms. Her sister, Mrs. J. C. Meyers, is coming from Mitchell, S. D., and another sister, Mrs. Jones, from Seat tle. Three sisters and a brother live here: Mrs. Walter Hughes, Gladys Fow er, Bessie Fowler and .Ransom Fowler. - A$k for and Get . Skinners THE HIGHEtf QUALITY EGG NOODLES 3th Ktap, Book Ffa . JXIMNERMFG.C0. OMAHA. USA UIIOUT HACM0KI IAO08Y III 4MU1KA ' By DOROTHY DIX. What does a man look for in a wife? What aualitv. above all other quali ties, does he want in tne woman ne marries? .-! ' . :! ' " What is the one particular charm. by which a woman can lure a man to the altar? . This is the conundrum that hun dreds of thousands of good-looking and intelligent young women spend their days 'and nights in an effort to guess without being able to unravel the riddle. Perhaps these earnest seekers for light on the reason why men marry, and more particularly why they don't marry, may find a gleam of informa tion in the story of Miss Clara Bishoff Miss Bishoff, it will be recalled, is the young womanwho announced in the columns of this paper, that finding herself unable to support herself and her mother by her own efforts, she had decided to transfer the job to a husband and that she would marry any respectable man who would give them a good home. Now, Miss Bishoff was admittedly penniless. She is only ordinarily flood looking, and any man taking her or a wife was getting a mother-in-law thrown in with the bargain, which is not generally supposed to add to the glamor of domestic life. Yet right here m little old New York,' where men are more averse to committing matrimony than the aje anywhere else on earth, within the space of twenty-four hours, this young woman received more than 500 proposals of marriage. ; Why 'did so many men wish to marry a girl they had never seen, and of whom, they knew nothing except what she told about herself? The only explanation can be found in the fact that she declared: i (a) That she was a first class cook. (b) That she would guarantee to keep her husband's buttons sewed on and his socks mended. (d) That she liked to stay at home. , ' . ., . i The modern young woman who thinks that matrinlony should mean just one tango parlor after another, and who believes .that she can fox trot through the holy estate, will doubtless sniff at the oait with which Miss Bishoff went angling, an de clare tiat it is old stuff. To this one can onlv reolv that the domestic fly is the fly that has been used by all of our most successful lady anglers since time immemorial, a,nd that it is the one to which the vast school of men have always risen, and t:. iv. ' .... i. .u t nu mange, busiuilfs Cllange, mc point of view changes; but a man's desire for a comfortable and well kept home, withVa good dinner and a cheerful wife watting in it for him at the end of a strenuous day, never changes. Any woman who feathers her hook with that certainly doesn't have to hook her man. He will come up 'and impale himself on the mar riage license of his own accord. Women lay all the blame for the decline and fall off in matrimony, as Mr. Wegg would say, on men. They declare that Barkis is willing,, but thnt men, are too selfish, too fond of their own comfort and ease, two self centered, to get married. , They say men want to spend their money on golf and clubs instead of of on a family, so they enjoy the pleasure of a girl's society withoat the penalty of having to pay her bills. Undoubtedly it is true that the young man of today is afraid of mat rimony, but it is largely the women's fault. . It is the girls themselvesi who have scared him off. , They have hoiste.d the quarantine flag that makes him steer clear of setting up a home of his. own. - , When a young man looks at a per ambulating fashion plate and tries to tigure out how tar his salary woum go toward even dressing a young per son who looks like an understudy to the Queen of Sheba, it is no. wonder that he doesn't any more think of setting up a wife than he does of setting up a yacht. Nor is he further inclined toward matrimony by ob serving that the men he knows who are married mostly wear the furtive look of those who are hounded by the bill collector. ' ., Girls dress to attract the eye of the man and to please him, and in so doing they often as not defeat their own ends, for even while he admires the effect of the scenery, he is count ing its,cost and deciding that it is not for him. No girt could make a, better play for a husband than to announce that she makes her own clothes and is handy with the sewing machine. Another reason why men hesitate to marry is to be found in the fact that the average woman seems to con sider that the first duty of a wife is tn he amused, and that the nlare tn look A or pleasure is outside of her fQnla home. Bridge, and movies, and mati nees, and theaters, and restaurants are the things that, occupy her attentfon, and not the kitchen stove noir the j mending basket. ( C -. "Gee," said a young , man in an office to me the other day, "you don't catch me worrying. Why, when J go home with my friends sometimes or an evening, its dinner time, and the beds, haven't been made in the flat, nor the dishes washed, and about the time we are thinking of sending out a police call tor- the wite she comes in with some sort of a mess sne nas Dougnt at tne delicatessen store for dinner." , une ot ine reasons I oon t marry, saia tne most eligible bachelor ot my acquaintance, "is because I don't want to be dragged around of eveninss from party to party and restaurant to restaurant by a pleasure-mad wife. like a quiet evening over my books and my pipe, and I get that now and am fit for business1 the next day, while all my married friends are breaking down with nervous prostration trying to work all day and dance all night to please their wives. . ,- . So. apparently, what men, want in a wife is the old-fashioned wife who will stay put and who possesses the old-fashioned, virtues and the old fashioned accomplishment .of making a happy home. And you can't improve on that. Save him-- . to bo s uaeful American If he were your boy, there ia no extreme to which you would not go to match him from the clutche of the White Plague. Unfortunately he haa do able piotottut. Hia kf dependa upon what you ana other patriotic Americana area aft this tinnatmaanae to oeip him fight for hie exte tence. RED CROSS XMAS SEALS eriva you thie opportunity. Make tha moat of iL But By GARRETT P. SERVISS. The boundless interest which man must always feel in everything per taining to the organ of his intelli-. gencc. the brain, gives importance to any speculation on that subject Some time asro there was an exhibi tion of sketches made by the insane a, tne setnienem Koyai nospnai in London. It has been remarked that some of these pictores strangely re semble the productions of the so- called "futurist" and "cubist styles of art. But too much weight should not be ascribed to that, because an artist who would be recognized by any,. alienist as perfectly sane may paint or araw pictures oi inc most eccentric character with a perfect un derstanding of what he is about. If he is working out a consistent theory he can hardly be called insane simply because the majority of people do not believe in his theory of art. Antoine Wiertz filled a large gallery in Brussels - with paintings jwhich many people now stare at as' if they were the productions of a madman, and some do 'not hesitate to assert that Wiertz was at least half mad. Yet Wiertz knew exactly what he was about and painted his extraordi nary fancies with a definite purpose. So some people say that the "grotes que and arabesque tales ot bdgar Allan 1 Poe are insane writings, but such criticism is too narrow. The distinction between sanity and insanity is often very hard to trace. The assertion that genius is only an exalted form of insanity simply leads to confusion, besides being absolutely groundless, uenius is an expression of the most perfect sanity. The man of genius his a mind pf absolute clearness, at least on the side toward which his genius inclines. .If this were not so, genius, instead of leadV ing ,to success and triumph, : would lead to failure and disaster. In snite of all the definitions of the alienists, insanity cannot be complete ly corraled. ihere will always be some persons on the outside of the fence who,others will think ought to be placed on the inside, and vice versa.- If we were to accent all the marks, signs and "stigmata" devised by Lombroso and ether theorists as indicating insanity, we should have to regard half, the people we meet as more or less developed lunatics, and we' ourselves would lie ooen to similar suspicion. wnat is. insanity, men: ror it will not. do to assert that there is no such thing. ..A practical definition is that insanity means so wide a departure by certain individuals, from the or dinary, and almost universally ore- valent, laws of human thinking and conduct that such individuals stand in a class by themselves, i People are often insane only on some .particular side, their minds re maining entirely clear and normal in other respects, and' in such-cases I believe it would be possible to dis cover the special lesion in the brain' causing the partial insanity. Insanity is also sometimes only temporary. But how great a degree of depar ture from the ordinary should be re garded as constituting real insanity? There are many families which have a ' queer member. Who nevertheless is not regarded as a proper inmate of an asylum. All through nature there is a certain tolerance of irregularity' and non-confomity, because even these have their laws of action. S "Just What jj" i I Want!" g S1 "Give me cake made JJ 3C I with Calumet I know what Xj I'm getting I know it's 91. pfi pdre,wholesome, nourishing, ml IKi tempting and tatty. V O "It's all in Calumet's won- V A derful leavening and raising 1 3 poer-'" absolute purity. S ' Q Use Calumet for uniform s ' i 1 Q results and economy." , C 1 IX Received Hiaiieet Awarda K I I V , Km Cut JmI fro - X I jCl luSUtlm AaaiCea. Q y STATE DISTRIBUTOR RED CROSS SEALS i MRS. K. R. J. EDHOLM, 483 Bra'ndeis Tbeator ; Tel. Doug. 8230. 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