12 THE BEE: OMAHA, SATURDAY, JULY 8, 1916. MM' M M M M M M . j I . . ' B .L: . , -.Bjn' - f t M I rf-VW. , tieaim mnis r asnions oman s v otk : ousetioia oyw i Jv$t What to Do tJ When Man's Love 1 is Growing Gold It is not until a man realizes that lie is tired of a girl, and never real ly was in love with her, that he also realizes how foolishly he has acted. It' amazes him to find that he has gone so far as to be considered the fiancee'of the maid, whose whole at tention has been given him for a long time for many of these affair re sult in an "understanding" that is the equivalent of a proposal. Then, not knowing how to get out of the tangle in which he has become entangled, he falls back upon the unmanly. - ' Then, not knowing how to get out of the tangle in -which he has become, enmeshed, he falls back upon the un- o manly metnod ot neglecting tne girl he has hitherto courted and flattered. True, this is little more foolish than the former recklessness of his eon duct, but it causes a good deal of suf fering to a woman who has loved in nocently and too .well,' and is de- servinsr of better treatment, Having got no real reason to give for his coldness, except the bold statement that he has made a mis take, he shirks the issue. He knows that if he tells the truth he has to account for many statements that seem to prove the contrary. A man's methods are often coward ly in dealing with the woman for whom he has ceased to care,. He tries to force her to break with him by giving her ample groundsfor com plaint, but a woman is usually too generous and too loving to take ?d? vantage of his devices. Her cry is: "Why are you so changed?" She cannot understand why- the lover who has left her with a fond good-by can go away and put her out of his mind. She writes him frank open letters, the pleading, im ploring ones, begging all the time that he will tell her what she has done to vex him. He cannot tell her without putting all the blame on him self, without showing that he has not acted a manly part. But even if lie could and is not disposed to, his con duct should show her that his . love is dying. The signs are.. unmistak able. , Is there a woman who, being thus treated, does not know the truth at When One's'in Love Ask Nothing ' BY THE JESTER. It is supposed to be a doubtful question when one gets engaged. I don't necessarily mean that I am speaking from personal experience as to whether it is wiser, for either tide to give too many little confessions about their their past life (assuming, of course, that one or the other, or both, of them have a past). Though why it should cause such extensive heart-burnings I never can quite un derstand. 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It penetmtes, eleanoes and soothes. Zeeao la dependable and inespenelTO Try 'It. as w believe nothing- you have ever need la as effective and etlefyio. Zemo, Cleveland. rot one person in a hundred and fjfty would probably ever risk it. You would then want to know all -out the deal you were contemplating and you would proceed to estimate the chances of your future happiness through the light of his or her past side-slips. - But it is, I believe, the custom among those who marry-and give in marriage to be concerned principally with the fastness of their respective partners, cherishing a beautiful be lief where the said oartners are al leged on the highest authority to have exceeded all (need limits in years past with unfailing regularity) that under ,, . . vi. .. .t .1.- ineir own guiuance ui tuuioii, mc gc of miracles is not past. And after alt is said and done this seems to be the most reasonable view to take of the situation. Provided always that the promise to keep to the rails in the future is supported by a reasonable amount of probabili that this will be carried into effect, cannot see how it can'possibly benefit orshould be in. any way obligatory on the other party to dig up little past skiddings. Of cour.se, this should hold good for both sides or not at all. Tile mischief of it usually lies in the fact that two people of the tame cali ber practically never unite. The type of man who could give Don Juah ninety in a hundred and a beating gen erally marries an innocent, trusting little is-year-oid tiling (always sup' posing that the combination exists nowadays) who knows as much about life as a pig does of prayer book. Frankly, then, I don't favor the confession idea unless it be what I call general confession. By which mean, don't either of vou make out that you have been a plaster saint when you have been as torrid as the next letter to K. Nine times but of ten she won't like you any the better for it, and ninety-nine times out of a hundred she won t believe you. But that is as far as the confession shall go. It is an awful mistake to go into individual cases. She may uossibly, and maybe conversely, think that by dwelling on them you have still lingering regrets on the subject, "Peach-Bbssoms" a ByjmmMey Copyright, 1914, Interna tlratl Nwt Service. The Original BUltetJ Milk Nonriehi.f - DiratJbU The) powder dissolves Rich Milk, Malted grain extract In powder. For Infanta, Invalid and growing children. ', Par smtrltioSMrpbaiUiaf the whole body. -) Invigorates cursing mothers, and the wed. Needs no cooking Keep ft on The Original Food-Drink for all ages. More nourishing than tea, coffee, etc. la the) home, oral Hotels and Cafes. 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Omaha Electric Light & Power Co. GEO. H. HARRIES, Pres. - r n THERE is a space In life and the seasons when they who live only to see and understand and marvel, hear whispers of what is to be I orach, it is a whiSDer and a oromise of richer I naps it is the taking shape for a day of the spirit of the delicious ' colored pink and white blossom is the babyhood of the rose-and-gold peach. It is a whisper and a promise of richer form and color. Per- reality. The old gray rocks wait for the short hour of spring suit- bloom. And they lament its quick going. "If you were gray and homely like us you would last until Doomsday!" they say. "If you," mourns the grim, rocky-faced man who lives but to see and marvel, as he watches the brief space of peach-blossom time in a little maid's life, "if you were hoary and ugly as I am you would go on so for a good hundred years !" V ; " In the hurrying, breathless instant when spring comes and is gone almost before we have lboked into her shy eyes, the girl of 14, a slim little branch of a figure, clear-eyed, flower-lipped, ((raws down the spray of peach-blossom and holds it 'gainst her face, and the two are one, with that beauty transparent and fairy-like ttiat is passing even while you see it! . , , The grim, rocky-faced man, who sees and marvels, grumbles, "A peach is a splendor and a gift of the gods, but ,1 would keep its flower ing longer" with me I" NELL BRINKLEY. - HOTKIi) AND RESORTS. -Hotel- Marie Antoinette Broadway, 66th and 67th Sts. ' :" ; NEW YORK CITY.. SITUATED In th moit m. .. vcnitiH location In town. Mod em, in rnvtry detail, absolutely fireproof, within ton ninutM of. tho, .M4inf department tore ehopa and . theater. Convenient to Ptnaiylvanla and ' ' Grand Central Depot. , Rooms With Bath, $2.50 Per Day Up. Suites, $4.00 Per Day Up. ROOMS HAO PER DAY VP. t Reetaorant of UnuauaJ Excellence. 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H. C. SHIELDS, . - 311 South 14th SL, OMAHA, NEB. READ THE BEE FOR TRAVEL INFORMATION Household Hints Wash a potato, wipe dry and put it in your breadpan. It will keep the bread fresh for days. Always rinse black stockings in blue water, and they will Veep a good color right on to the end. To make ironwork proof against rust, heat it until it is almost red hot and then brush it over with linseed oil. This makes a varnish which, un like ordinary paint or enamel, does not chip off. ' To tighten . cane-bottomed chairs wash the chair in a strong solution of soda and water and let it get thoroughly dry. When dry it will be found that the cane has shrunk and the seat tightened. To make a good furniture polish scrape two ounces of beeswax into a pot or jar, add as much spirits of tur pentine as will moisten the whole and the eighth part of an ounce of resin. Dissolve all this to the consistency of paste and add as much Indian red as will deepen the color to a dark mahogany. Stir all well together.-. sT : V, V the hecinnitur? She Hties. hut sTfcw will not admit it, Yet ail the timeTJ . from the moment when the first doubt arose in , her mind, she has , 1 j. known it. . There is only one thing- to do -when a man's love is dead and that ' is to let him go. To "win back his love" is next to an impossibility. It is a pathetic sight to see two people, one madly in love with the other, aud i V the other unable to. reciprocate. And, yet "try to fogret" is the only advice , that can be offered. - A Man shows it plainly enough when he has ceased to love. 'Ap pointments cease to be sacred, he cannot summon up courage to write letters, he is moody and silent, and shows in his manner all that his ton gue refuses to say. If he can get an excuse to go of? somewhere away from his fiancee, he endeavors to bring her to an under standing of his views by preserving ' a strict silence. -- Should she not , see things as he wishes her to, she may be angry with him, and he will see this pre text to bring about a rupture between them. - Anything to save him from confess ing that he has not acted well. Usual ly the disappointments of women are i the outcome of man's infatuation and -false promises. . : Were a woman not so honest and so blind in her love, she would see do to i tn r through many, of the protestations of affection made by man, and know his vows tor what tney are wortn. The silliest thing a woman can do is to cling to the man who wants have done, with her, and to try to bring hira around to reciprocate her affections., v If he is a sentimentalist he may be influenced, and vow that he really does love her just to please her. But this will not alter his affections. Ha will shirk the marriage and put it off. Should he go so far as the altar. she is no better off, for doubtless, after marriage, he will state plainly that he does not care for her, and that he only married her because she" worried him into it Certainly men have queer ways and should be brought to took about their misde meanors. , : , v - . It is not wise to surmise that a man's love is dead and treat him ac cordingly. Be sure of it. Bring him to the point of saying so. It will pay you to do this, much as you may regret the parting, for a man in love can be gentleness itself, while he who loves not can be cruel as the grave. 1J ANcwFruhSalad By CONSTANCE CLARKE. , Fruit salads are steadily growing in favor and nothing is more healthful or delicious than a judicious mixture of fruits with a delicate dressing. The following recipe it new, and makes temtping salad: Take three apples, chopped fine, the sliced pulp of one grapefruit six canned pears, cut into email squares, three stalks of celery, half a cup of chopped wal- srX j h thicHJf f M Of nut meats. Mix well toeeth range in a pile on platter with mayonnaise dressing. Dressing-rTwo three-fourthi cup ot thick mayonnaise, add two ta blespoonsful of lemon juice, await spooniui ot paprika pepper, pourTI.Vt dressiug on, the salad,, using a pastryA iudc witn plain found -pipe to decoe rate the top. ..-. , (Tomorrow Little Neck Clamaji