Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922, March 31, 1916, Page 9, Image 9
Si Tin: bf:k: omaha. Friday, makch itns. J J i : Health Hints -:- Fashions -:- Woman's Worc -:- Household Topics Chance for English Women to Win New World Place By KLI. A WHEELER WltTOX. 1 The editor f Pnron Megaslne writes I from London am follo. i "In the day of national upheaval I ' It irrml te me Imperative that ome lead should be gven to the women of ? England, ao that out of the chaoa they 5 may be helped to form saner Ideals. ) nobler principle, and a larger roncep- i tlon of the place which awalta them . when peace la once more established. "I feel confident that women every- i ' where are waiting for this messaae. and that they are looking to the known leader Vf aerial life for the Inspiration hlch will help them to find them- ? ' "1! 1 A of xa pic. wh Isle he editor of Pearson's wants thla ter'a suggestion, and they are given dly and freely through the medium the Evening Journal. sirhere are no more charming and lov- aUe women on earth than the Bngllsh women when one cornea to know them. There i only one other country which can produce more disagreeable women, when met oaaually. In travel and at ream-to. than England haa produced. If the Bngllsh woman wants now to find heraelf let her first see herself as others aee her. Iet her know that the cold, distant, haughty exterior which ahe carrlea Into the world and which she utterly discards like a mask las it Is) In her own home, is unbecoming, ami that It awskena In the hearts of ami able and kind people Impulses of resent ment and dislike which are destructive to both the sender and the receiver. It does not create a Christian feeling or promulgate that sense of brotherhood and sisterhood which must exist before the New Golden Age can be established on earth. A two weeks' stay In an English re sort a few year ago aroused In our hearts the hearts of two very good-natured and amiable Americans a senna of exasperation toward two English peo- who sat at the table next our won, who were often near us In the room and elsewhere. slight overtures toward courteous tment were met with a cold stare, nd titter Indifference marked their de meanor during the entire fortnight. Sim ilar experiences had been passed through on ships and at other resorts In Eni(lan and In English colonies. On leaving one place we were, curi ously enough, placed In the same com partment with the haughty couple when, lo and behold! after a few hours the mask was thrown aside and the de lightful, cultured and genial English na ture shone forth. We were later Invited to the home of thla couple, and have for a period of several year been the best of frlenda. The man Is an officer at the front to day and the wife a Red Cross nurse. It was discovered that her distant manner really hid a timid and shrinking nature which lacked self-confidence and poise In meeting strangers, t. v. i i . , . . . l i ii - m m i ins m irciiur-niijr ine explanation Ol I thla English fragidlty of deportment; a I J deportment which conceals . hearts,, as y warm and genial as any which beat In f human breasts. But let the English women know that their attitude is un necessarily and disagreeably repelling-. ana lei mem realise mil n iney wouio be helpers in the world and lifters of the race they must unbend and unmask. Then let all right thinking English women start a erusad against the smok ing habit which characterises the na tion. It waa from England, not from Russia or Turkey, or any other land, that the American women adopted thla ungraceful and unsanitary habit. The "smart" women of England took It up heaven only knows why or how, but we first saw It In the fcngllsh plays, and we. later aaw It In English drawing rooms, and atlll later In hotels and on lps, and In truth everywhere that we saw the English woman of position. Ho universal haa it been for some years, that one who wss a visitor in England i and did not smoke was obliged to ex- J plain her 'eccentricity." I If. aa the editor of Fearson'a says, the English women are waiting to find their I place of usefulness when peace Is estab- M lmUA l-t .Via it hI&ii.I u WKI " V ilinin UVI till UIMU ni HIUIl, Then. perhaps, the American women, who pattern all their vices after foreign fashions, will throw away their cigar ettes, and come Into the march of prog ress toward a cleaner and saner way of life. . We asked a distinguished and bril liant Englishman who was at the head of the medical department In Ceylon. "Why U it that English people In general nd English women in particular, are the most dtssgreeable human beings one meets abroad, and the moat delightful and lovable of souls when met In their Jl own land and homes?" "I don't know why it is." he replied, "but I do know It Is a fact. I see It . and hear It expressed wherever I go. One thing. English women are' In truth very retiring and timid by nature, and very much afraid of being forced into the limelight. They ahield themselves In consequence behind this distant de meanor, which is often mistaken for If-satisfactlon and Indifference to oth- rs." '. But since this demeanor haa caused the English woman to be disliked so unl--. versslly when she is met outside of her I home. It would be well for her now to 4 consider the adviablllty of changing her manner to one of gracious affability and 1 kindliness; let her not be afraid to show the transient acquaintance or the stran ger encountered in travel a little of the lovely nature and tender heart which characterise her In her native heath. ) Trusting the editor of Pearson s will v pass on these suggestions from one Amer ican woman to all English women. I am i hla and theirs for reform. A i I In-Shoots I. Do not get too chesty when soma one compliments you on your success. The chances are he wants to aell you ao auto. undeserved praise is bat a momentary stimulant. The man with a billy goat face la lust ss liable to be pursuea by a Jealous wife aa a tango Apollo. There ia a large quantity of vinegar ii, the disposition of the sarcastic sill r'Thla work of reforming some fellowe i aa difficult as patching together a broken egg. It ia difficult to indulge In the fancy test habit without attracting thasattet. tion of the alienist. The smaller the neighborhood the Kr eater the excitement when some fel low geta too attentive to another man's wife. "After the Ball! )1 Copyright. 1M. Intern I Nes Service. By Nell Brinkley MmiMi F i JliSil. ill:: H '! ' "' YOUTH have, or bave had all! And bo It is In the things of the heart and mind. What do you think and have thought, bo have I and your neighbor over there! The common ex perience of Youth, and the same dreams and pondering. We stand in a level, lovely sea, all with our feet upon the ooie at the bottom, our breasts laved by the shining surface, our heads In the sweet air above, and our eyes turned to the sky your neigh bor as well as you. Why, then, are we surprised to learn, when we come out of stress and changes on the surface of the Sea of Life we stand in, that our friend beside us, and all the hosts that stand with us, have felt and known the same wash and heave of the waves about their hearts that we have? Telling of a marvelous blue and the light that fled over the sky for you, you whisper it and look for striate on the face of the listener. But he nods and 6miles as over a familiar treasure and says, "I was It, too!" The undercurrent that frightens you, your neighbor fights against also. The foam that flies, he, too, tastes saltily upon bis Hps as well as you. And all the cloud-shadows and rainbow hues, rumors of light and dark, the lovelinesses, the mysteries, tbat touch the face of the great Sea that swims around us these have touched the hearts and spread before tae eyes of us all the Truth of Lif. But we hug our dreams, our conjectures, our desires, our agon ies, our secret remembrances! Sometimes for shame poor we sometimes for jealousy. Because we fancy the friend beside us never thought so! Youth goes home from the dance in the thin light of the morning. The big, low moon paints silver everywhere and peoples even the city shadows with faery things. With the pins half out or her hair and the silver roses still drooping in its waves tired silver roses she leans In her window and dreams. Her good little heart half afraid repeats every word, every sigh, every smile, the sound of the music, the arch of his brows, and the rhythm of his feet beside herg on the glass-smooth floor. The froth of her dress lying across the severe black of big knee she remembers him lifting it with a cautious band and saying, "I always knew you were faery-relatlon." What happened that her heart does not sing over and over again! The rose he asked for and thrust roughly Into bis pocket where would he keep it? Her thoughts venture, like blind things, groping, wandering, grasping at memories, exulting at symbols, ad vancing into the future shy things that tiptoe into unknown coun try and fly back again to the real things of that night back and forth back and forth like busy shuttles weaving vague cloth of gold and blue. Gold for remote reachings, blue for the beautiful adventures Just gone. And out of her dreams looks the straight sml)lng man she's growing to know better! He, too! La yes. He doesn't feel the sharp bite of the air bis heart's so warm while he Binokes and dreams in slippers and gown at the open window in his "diggings." What did she wearT Silver and black and had eyes like stars he thinks. ' Did she like him when she smiled like that or. was that Just the way she al ways did it? And her eyes clung to her rose as though she'd kiss It it she dared before it went Into his keeping. - He's glad he's tall she Is so little! Over and over his brain speaks the ride to the dance how she listened to his ambitions with eyes that glistened and never left his face! Was she that Inter ested? Surely she couldn't listen to another man with that look. She had never given even him so much before. And her hair! What hair! And shutting his eyes, Tits heart repeats the touch of it against his cheek when ber bead drooped coming home. His thoughts, too, venture into the same dim land the Land of What-May-Be where hers are reaching. And before "diving in," he stuffs her white roue into his hill-folder, man-fashion, and firmly believes that no other chap ever carried a rose there before! Didn't you know, dear Youth, that we all do that? Or did one time? All Maids and Men dream Dreams, and pretty much the same shy things. By NELL BWNKLET. The Two-Fold Duty of Man By ADA PATTERSON. A good man died In New York last week. Three daya later they buried blm amidst a forest of flowers and a rain of teara. He waa a dentist. He did not belong to on of what are so-called "the learned professions;" although I anouid like to know which of the "learned professions" contribuales more to ease, comfort and health of mankind than does skillful den tistry. They have taken in the modest sign with his name and the initials. "D. I), 8." after it. The shades are drawn and there is a "To let' sign on the duor. His patient have scattered aa members of a suffering tribe to other dental of fices and told tbelr troubles to other men wearing snow white coata and a patient expression and holding shining metal in struments In their hands. And as they have visited these offices they have all heard the same apeech: "He took good car of your teeth. He did hie work well." The patient have gone back to their home or office, or stores, or work benches with thought other than of their pain and loss. They were Inspired by the words: "He did his work well." A renewed ambition flamed in their breasts. They rexolvrd it should Im truthfully said of him: "lie haa done his work well." What more can the man who la leaving this world than tlist of shadow and mystery ask? One thing more. It may be asld of him; "He always nmrto me more cheer ful." I hsd known this man for cIkh tern jesrs. Fur all those jears he ha-1 guarded iny.teclh with the csre that a dainty womast gives to her Jewels, Hut he did more for me than that. He .never failed of a cheery greeting and a gay farewell. He kept the even tenor of good humor. I asked him one day how he main tained his unbreakable composure, to all men and women, ' in all weather, mental and otherwise. He polished carefully the last filling while he answered: "Sometimes when people come In at that door they get me. They ruffit. me. Hut I never let them know It. The aurly, the Irritable, the Buffering, the meek, ali received from him the same greeting, the same careful professional treatment, the same godnpeed. Latterly his strength had been abating. He confessed that hi laet vacation had been prolonged and that he hadn't un dertaken te new season's work with aa much vim aa before. He told me of hla plans for lessening hla work. There should be less of quantity of that worn but not less of quality. He would en. tat.llnh a home apart from his office. It was wearing upon Mm a little. Yea, but there waa no change In hla fine workmanship. None In his manner. On the evening of a hard day ha aat at the talle waiting for the serving of his dinner. There waa an Inarticulate sound, a dripping on his head upon his breast, snd. he, waa a-nne. Rut the last patient who had left his chair. Juat as the light was growing too dim for work, said what I loan of all the otbrr years had said: "He wss moat arfnl in his worh, snd he MiilU'ii snd Joked when he shook hands." He ilid M Wurk el nnd he ma c hi l l fill. That in tl,e km. I of memory we fha'.l nil have! .nivc in none better! Man and His Manners By BEATIllt K KAI1IKAX. How many of us think sbout our msn ners? And yet Isn't It a tine ssying that manner make the man and lack of them the fellow! Think If you will how often you intro duce gracefully one friend to another. Uo are all supposed to know that the gentleman is introduced to the lady, no matter what hla lank may be, never the lady to the gentleman. For In atance. ou would ssy. "Miss James, this Is my friend, Mr. Swift," but not "Mk-. Bwllt, thla is my friend. Mil James." Hetncmber to present yound people to their elders and single persons to mar ried. ' Many pet sons wonder whether to shake hands on being Introduced or simply to bow. if the Introduction 1 formal a bow Is sufficient. Hut if the stranger Is to become a friend give a hearty grip. Ladles have the handshaking privilege. A gentleman doesn't offer hi hand at first. It ia assumed always that a man is honored by an introduction to a woman. 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