TIIE BKE: OMAHA, Tl'KSDAY, .UNITARY 2j, 1016.
Oman's Work -:- Fashions -:- Health Hints -:- Household Topics
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.'Tou get what you want." says en
f th sanest, strongest mn I know.
Tou do "get- what you want' It you
J? D want it enough!'
Th very first step toward tatting
what you want In the world Is believing
that yon can get it. Sneering Idly or
Bitterly, "Oh, yea. thafa all very well
to aay, but soma people are born lucky.
or rich, or good-looking, or clever, and
others atart with big handicaps," U ex
actly the aort of thing that la going to
TV prove a handicap and prevent you front
S getting what you want In . tha world,
i r" Tou have to believe In your own ability
and in the falrneaa of life. And you have
to be willing to work to work single-
heartedly, and even desperately, to reach
your goal. -
Ihe on great reason why ao few of
us do get what w want In tha world la
because w are not quite aura what it
is, or, being sure, we have not quite
the backbone to plug away In order to
et It; or, being willing to work, we alUl
re weak enough to permit ouraelvee to
be torn from - our labors and tempted
into all sorts of relaxation.
It Is ao easy to be "aidet racked." It la
o eaay to be tempted into taking aome
I itle relaxation or pleasure and perauad
Ing ourselves that u a result of it you
will work all the better. There are plenty
vt old maxims that ' seemingly justify
such a course "All work and no play
makes Jack a dull boy," for instance.
That Is quite true, to' be sure, but too
much play leavened with only a little
work makea Jack a failure la equally
true.; '
Tho people who succeed are the people
who are fairly single-minded, who have
an honest purpose In life and who pro
pose to accomplish it, and, what Is more,
to accomplish it legitimately and through
lr own .earnest, untiring , effort.
You cannot become a power In the
legal profession if you give one-quarter
of your time to studying the law, one
quarter to going about socially In order
to rest from four labors, one-quarter to
planning what you are going to do when
you get around to it, and the rest of
your time to swinging along before idle
winds. that blow you where they list.
If you are going to be a power in the
legal world, you have to study and work
and strive . constantly for growth In
knowledge and power. Tou have to make
everything else Subservient to your desire
to be a great lawyer. Tou have to make
even your relaxations healthy outdoor
' ones that" shall ..renew, your growth in-
4 stead of stunting tt. "
! You have to really want to be a great, i
J lawyer, and hot to desire to be a popu-
f j lar society man who is also prominent
X ji ln the legal profession. In any walk of
uic, in any pruiemon, in inr position
where . you are placed, succesa or failure
lift, largely. In. which you work to. ac
ouire. . , ...., .
I know a. stenographer who. has literary
ability, From to I each day ah works
very hard for the $30 a week salary her
position. aa secretary , brings. She needs
that salary and she worka hard to get It.
On Sundays and holidays and during
the eveninga aha talks great deal about
the short .stories she means to write. But
she doe not write them. Instead she lets
kmd friends take, her to dance and off
on on motor trip. I need the relaxa
tion ' uvi ahs. '! ttslraj tn kiva - HfH
"V enjoyment In; Order to go on with toy
"V enjoyment I
. work, Jf X,
were only mere fortunately
, placed I aw
TV oee as w
am sura I should make a suo-
wrlter." :
- AieKing a luocoai mm wnnr or u
Kii.i'iiiB V HTpniuv ...... m. u gjww
you gre placed, and entirely on what you
choose to do. The Joy of working la Just
as restful as the joy of playing particu
larly when It la working at something
other than your regular dally task.
Relaxation lie not necessarily tn rest
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i something different. ' " '.
And If the girl who think she want
to be a writer really did want It want It
more than to have a good time she prob
ably would b a Writer. But aha Isn't
I J quite capable of a single-hearted purpose
V r of a firm determination,
f ' She excuses her desire for a little dis
sipation and enjoyment In term of
"needing the change and rest." . A per
fectly good excuse, and one the and her
friends accept. And since what she
really wants Is a good time, that la what
he get.
People are too easily sorry for them
selves. -Too easily do they excuse their
own weaaneases ana reel very sympt-
thetle for themselves because life la not
K made smooth and easy for them. They
I ) forget that moat of the people -who have
r accomplished big things in the world
have done them when working la the
face of tremendous difficulty.
It is ItnnMHlAN Wklnk - w
q""""atrong man's determination to succeed.
V' He finds the very fight worth making.
: But the weakling excuses himself for
failure because success would have meant
s a fight .
The most desperate ill-health was not
an Insurmountable barrier to Robert
l tout Stevenson; bltndnea did not
hamper Milton. - To none of the big souls
in tn wona is any pnysioal handicap a
barrier to success.
' Any human being who want anything
firmly and surely and atrongly enough
will t It because they will go after It
and fight for It. "Tou get what you
want,'- but only if you want It with
force and determination that will make
you sacrifice pleasure and all the leaser
inclination for your own great purpose.
The Loveliett Curly
Hair So Easy toHave!
Why make your hair dry. brittle and
dead looking with the heated wavlug
tonga, whan the simple aluuerine method
will produce a eurtlneae far more natural
tn eppearaoce, and at tbe same time pre
serve the lustre and beauty of your
traasssT liquid sllmedae Is so agroeabl
','". belug neither sticky nor greasy,
and tbe ovwr-nlght transformation la o
pleasing, tbe first trial wul make It your
firm friend.
The approved way to apply It la to pour
a little Into a saucer at bedtime, dip a
clean tooth brush Into tnis and draw the
brush through the ba!r from crown to
tip, pee atraod at a time'. A few ounces
of this h armies liquid from your drug
gist will last a long time. You will like
it not only because the curly and wavy
effect will be ao charming, hut because
yeu will also find it an rellent dressing
the hair. AdvertlsenK'iit.
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.. " Simplicity I th keynote 6f this
one-piece droes of black broadcloth
cut on semi-fitting line. The tlare
(a gradual from waist to hem, while
"side pockets embroidered in Oriental
colors lend a distingue touch. Black
ribbon bows finish the front and the
lower edge of sleeves.
When talent -and personality are com-
blned. sgeces 1 a foregone conclusion
and the fate of Georgette of Paris Is
hitched to a star a star that looms bright
on th fashion horizon, saya Harper'
Batar. Through aheer merit Georgette
wen her spur a a designer ln the day
when h was the permlere vendeuse for
Francis
Her originality and sense of color and
line, plu that Indescribable quality called
''chic," assured her a large following
when Francis retired about three years
ago, and Georgette took over tbe busi
ness. "Wo have been much touched by the
loyalty of our American customers thia
year," : ah said recently. "They have
ordered more than formerly, and we are
well aatlafled with . this season's busi
ness. Pariaiennes alao have ordered
more than they did laat year, and we
are even making some dinner gowns
for them, simple of course, but delight-
An Editorial
The Inevitable
By DOROTHY DIX.
Did you aver atop to think how you
sis up when your husband, or your wife.
Institute th inevitable comparison be
twssn yourself and other people?
We delude ourselves with the belief
that our husbands and wives think u ao
perfect that they never contrast us with
other men and women, and that they
nevet draw any deadly parallel th way
w treat them and the wsy ln which
other people treat them, but this 1 not
true. Every day of our Uvea, every aot
of our Uvea. Is weighed In the balance,
and woe unto u If we are found wanting.
Not long ago a very beautiful and bril
liant woman, and one who Is universally
admired and loved by her friends, said to
me bitterly:
"Do you know what I th strang
est thing In th world to me? It I that
of ail th people, that I know my hus
band ma to take th least' Interest In
me, and to show me the least appresla
Uon. 'Tn society I am flattered, I am ad
mired, I am aought after, end I often
wonder that he doesn't think how he
must appear to me when I Institute the
Inevitable comparison between him and
the men who take me down to dinner,
for instance, and who laugh at my
stories, and tell me how becoming my
gown la.
"And I know plenty of other women
In tha sam bos. The only knocks thsy
ever get are from their husbands. The
only people who ever tell them that they
are getting old and fat, or that their
olroa are era eked, or that they don't
know what they are talking about, are
their husbands. Bo often, so cruelly often,
th only unkind words we ever hear are
from our husbands.
"And It'a then we Institute the inevi
table romparleon between them and the
world that never telle us to our faces,
at any event, that'll doesn't admire im
that marriage becomes a failure, and we
Nattier blue velvet was the
nlng coat. Festooned about the
tllly lace, edged with sable fur, while beneath extends another flounce
of this lace with nattier blue ribbon run through it. Collar and cuffs
are of sable fur.
ful comblnatlona of lace and fur. The
length of skirts? Very full and short.
but not too short. We all feet that
American buyer wilt come over as usual
this month and tn February, and we are
preparing many surprise for them,"
The Interesting designs shown on this
page were given by Mme. Georgette to
the representative of Harper'a Basar and
are reproduced Just aa they were aketched
in Paris.
Mme. Georgette Is young, yet she ap
preciates that In this grey world youth I
fleeting, therefore she creates costumes
that hold so much of the charm and
freshness of youth that they aid and
abet the little whit Ilea ' women tell
about their ages.
Even her salon in th Rue Auber, with
their white decoration, have auch an air
of youthfulneaa that when you . go to
order a gown Mme. Georgette cornea In
to greet you with her Inimitable mile
well, you order two gown Instead of one,
and Mme. smile again.
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for Women
Comparison
make fool of ourselves over affinities.
There's a warning to husbands In this
woman's words. Be sure, dear sir, that
your Maria 1 not so taken up In admir
ing you that h 1 omitting to notice
how you treat her. She 1 busy compar
ing you with th other men of her ac
quaintance, and contrasting the things
you aay to her, or that you leave un
said, with their graceful compliment on
her pulchritude and wit.
And men are equally engaged In mak- j
lng the Inevitable comariaon between
invir wives ana omer women, vvnen you
correct your husband' grammar, dear
madam, and hi pronunciation, and hla
table manner, and when you look bored
to death at hi storiea, doesn't ft ever
dawn on you that he la comparing th
way you treat him with the way some
other woman treats him, who begs him
to tell her the story of his life, and
glorifies him because he la self-made, and
who sound hi prals a a raconteur?
We call disagreeable truths "home
truth" because we never hear them any
where except at home. And that's th
Pity of It, because It makea little dif
ference what other people think of u
la contrast to what our own think of ue.
That'a why it' never eaf to stop be
ing agreeable, and trying to charm over
again our husbands and our wive.
They are always instituting th Inevi
table comparison between us and ether
people. And It makea moat of us look
Uks thirty cents m ba4 money.
In-Shoots
It I dangerous to srmpethta with a
married woman who ha a mean hue.
band.
A check book never make Interesting
reading unless there Is a bank account
behind It.
When h' ears tiegln to grow It Is 1m-
Pitflt.le for sny politician tu keep In the
dark horse class.
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material chosen for this charming eve
lower edge Is a flounce of black Cban-
S-Q.M-E Dffflgrmiitl"
"Any tifflg you want root
roouies Calumet Baklnu
1r owueri iyij motner uses it
she's tried all others she's
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learned her lesson now she
sticks to Calumet,
"Unequalled for making.
tender, wholeiom. light bak
ings. Wonderful leavening;
and raiting qualities uniform
result. Mother tars Calumet
Ib the smsi aroemnkal K bar sua
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TIIE HOME PAPElt
What Spring Will Bring
Fvery variation of skirt fullness Is to
be found among new drees models, which
are reprodurUona of Uie periods of 1
to 10. They sre short snd full and usu
ally murh trimmed. Many are In crino
line at)le.
Romcttnir the feline of the rut and
the stlffhexK if the matrrlnl are all that
are required to give the crinoline effect;
then, again, sometimes the petticoat,
stiffened artificially or made of stiff
taffeta or iron ruin, support an outer
skirt of light and soft matorial. Mri arile
petticoats of crinoline are sometimes
worn underneath the droa aklrt. -
Special features of the new skirts are
overeklrt draperies flounces and band
trimmings. Most of the fullness Is
massed at the sides over the hliw, and
there are some skirt with fullness every
where. Some dressmakera feel that It I
sufficient for the dress skirt to be cut
very full, without artificial means of
sufficient for the dress skirt to be rut
their skirts wide, but use materials that
are self-supporting and add a petticoat
rf.lffened with reed, bones, cords or crin
oline fsclngs.
Snur-fltting collars, wrinkled and very
high, are used on dreases.. Itlas banda of
silk, boned and ornamented with bows
snd loop ends of th same material, are
seen. Pimple, high-standing turnover
collsrs are made of stiffened tulle or
mousneline de sole, or a sort of starched
crepe llese. Other high collars stand
away from the neck In a atiff, straight
line. Conn button straight dow-n the
front In a continuous line with the bodice.
Shoulder capes, sleeve cap and circular
cut flounces posed on sleeve and
shoulder of th new suit coats. Capes
alao appear on separate roats. Milliners
are also making tiny shoulder rapea aa
matching neckpieces for spring hats. As
a rule, suit coats ar abort wtth a raised
walat line, or they ar in bolero form,
sometimes falling over a vest with a
basque. Basque ar very full, springing
out well from th hlpa. The line of the
jacket at th lower edge I a gentle slop
from the front toward the back.
Almoat all hair dressing Is high, with
very little variation In tbe arrangement.
The heir Is pulled back from the face,
drawn loosely over a transformation and
twisted Into a French knot, or loos puff,
running from th top of th head to the
nape of the neck. The line at the back
of the head I generally amooth. Fre
quently the entire shape of the head Is
revested, without coll or twist of any
description.
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Anita Stewart's Talks to Girls
No. 15Women Who Act L he Men
By ANITA STEWART.
They say that every woman In the world
wishes she were a man. No doubt this Is
true, because this Is a man's wor'd, and
everything that Is host and most drslr
ablo In It goes to men.
But as long aa we sre girls, and not
hoys, let's play the game of life from
the feminine standpoint, for. In my opin
ion, no girl ever makes an big a mistake'
as the one who trlM to make an Imitation
man of herself.
You know the type I moan the girls
who go swaggering around wtth their
hands In their pockets, dressed tn tnllor
made clothes aa near like their brothers
a they ran get them, who smoke rlgar
ettes In public placrs, who acorn to pow
der their noses, who tell off-colored
stories, and swear and make you blush
for your sea when you look at them. For
It's a funny thing that when a woman,
tries to act like a man ah never arts
like a gentleman.
The Imitation man-girt I never a suc
cess socially. Other girl don't like her
because she affects not to be Interested
In any of th things they like. Hostesses
don't like her because they don't know
what to do with her. She doesn't fit In
anywhere beesuee she's neither fish, nor
flesh, nor good red herring. And men
don't Ilka her becaime no man wanta to
make love tn a girl who looks Ilk an
understudy of his kid brother.
Thereofer, I am very stir, girls, that
we succeed best when w capitalise our
femininity, and do women' work In a
woman way. if you will look about
you at the women who have made money
and names for themselves, you will see
that almost vry on of them has been
following some distinctly feminine occu
pation, and that aha dresses Ilk a lady
and doea her work In a ladylike manner.
In reality It I this, feminine touch that
make a woman's work valuable, and she
throws her bt st away when she
trie to do thlnga Ilk a man. It' be
cause women know what other women
want that make them valuable aa buy
er in dry good store.
It's because any little girl reporter
know Intuitively more about why a
woman aot In a certain way than alt
the men psychologists could figure out
In forty year that women are employed
In newspspers.
The other dsy, In peaklng to th fresh
man .class at th New York Medical col
lege and "Hospital for Women, Dr. Cor
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domestic science schools
aarxl other who teach gcimtific .
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nelia C. Brandt impressed this point en
the girls who sre studying to be doctor.
Bhe said: '1'coplo who employ a woman
physician employ her because she Is a
w-oman and they want womanly qualities,
the womanly sympathy, the femlnln
lightness of touch.
"To compete with men, you must not
only have a knowledge and skill equal to
men, but you must cultivate certain quali
ties which belong to women. Those who
prefer the masculine personality will em
ploy a man doctor. You cannot hope to
appeal U this clsss by aping maaculln
manners or dress."
That' the case in a nutshell. Being
women we succeed best ss women, and
there really no reason why we should
go out of our own field to work. A long
there are people to be fed, and nursed,
and amused, and taught, there's plenty of
work, and good paying work, for women
to do. And thla work I best paid when
It has got the feminine Stamp impressed
deepest on It. '
flo I say, don't try to make Imitation
men of yourselves, girls, or attempt to
give Imitation or a man's work. All sueh
Imitations are more or leas despicable and
cheap.
Dandruffy Heads
Become Hairiest
tf you want r'ty of thick, beautiful
glossy, silky hair, do by all means get
rid of dandruff, for It will starve your
hstr and ruin It If yeu don't.
It doesn't do much good to try to brush
or wash It out. Th only way to get rid
of dandruff la to dissolve it. then you
destroy It entirely, To do this, get about
four ounces of ordinary liquid arvon;
apply it at night when retiring; Use
enough to moisten th scalp and rub It
In gently with the finger tips.
By morning, most If not alt, of you
dandruff will be gone, and three or four
more applications will completely dis
solve and' entirely destroy vry single
stgn and trace of It.
You will find, too. that all Itching and
dlsglng of the scalp will stop, and your
hair will look and feel a hundred time
better. You can get liquid arvon at any
drug store. Tt Is Inexpensive and four
ounce I all you will need, no matter
tow much dandruff you have. This sim
ple remedy never falls. Advertisement. '
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