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Br BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
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it la. of course, nobody, business when
?tand b' n unfaithful and lying
husband, who haa humiliated her In the
yes of the whole worm by hla lnfldcll-
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it-
We read In the
dally paper Inci
dents of that
nature, and eome
of os aay: "How
beautiful la such
Ottot Ion," and
om of ua aay
otherwise. Th e r e
are wives who
ink It very noble
to "stand by" a
Very bad husband.
There 1 In the
nature of most
women a strong
tendency to act
the part of re
forming; angel In
the life of a man. That Is why so many
dissolute men find It an easy matter to
Win paragons of virtue for wives. The
wife of such a man always believes she
Is to guide him Into the straight and
narrow path of good behavior, and some
times aha does.
It depends upon how much character
the man has developed and how much
tact. Jove and patience the woman pos
sesses. There are women who know how
to make a respectable life as fascinating
to a man as a life of folly and dissipa
tion. There are women who know how to
keep a man so entertained and occupied
with happiness that he finds no time or
inclination to. return to the paths of the
prod leal. It is wise and womanly for
a wife to pause and look over her own
part In a man's career If he falls to
keep the vows he made at the altar be
fore she consigns to the divorce court.
Many a good woman can trace a hus
band's neglect and failure to be loyal
ner own door
ble were she to say she intended to "give
him another chance" than to say ehe In
tenaa to ' stand ny" h:m. There Is no
credit In "standing by" and defending
crime.
It would seem that some women never
show real affection for a husband until
he becomes a criminal and breaks every
moral and divine law.
How can a woman really know whether
she loves a man or whether It Is a mere
Infatuatlin of the sennits, or a habit of
association? some one asks. There are
women and women, and no one answer
will apply to th s qu-a Ion for all
The more Infatuation depends upm the
man's physical presence usually or upon
some personal reminder of him. Ills
magnetic inriuence sometimes leaves a
wake behind It for a time, but a pro
tracted separation and silence break the
spell.
There Is another Infatuation of the
Imag nation, which takes strong hold of
some women only when absent from the
man win has I nap red It. Such women
revel In dreams of happiness when away
from the lover; but once let him enter
their presence and they are co!d, un
responsive and concl -us of a sense of dis
appointment. They mentally criticise the
man, his appearance, his manners, his
words, and wonder how they could have
Imagined him fascinating. Yet out of
hla sight the spell returns again. It is
the r anal in of the Imagination only,
The affection of habit of association is
very often mistaken for a great love and
frequently ends in marriage. Sometimes
It results In real love, and again It does
not, yet the fact is not discovered by
either contractor during this life. They
jog along oontentedly and suppose they
have experienced all life had to offer.
More frequently one finds that a mis
take has been made, and runs forth to or
stumbles Into a pitfall of hopeless pas
sion. There are women who can neither feel
nor tnsplre a great love. They have ten
der feelings and loyal affections, and
they often make devoted nurses for their
Q ner own door If she is honest with I
herself. A momentary weakness on the families, but they do not love and are
pari or an otherwise good and loving
husband may well be condoned end a
new trial given him without a loss of
womanly self-respect.
When, however, a man deliberately
plana the wooing and marrying of an
other woman under another name, when
ha descends to forgery and Innumerable
lies and deceptions to bring about such
a result a result which means ruin to
the girl and humiliation and disgrace
to the wife and when he Is finally ex
posed and punished it is hard to con
ceive the type of a woman who feels that
she is doing a noble act to "stand by"
her husband and live for him.
A passing fever of the Ben sea some
women are able to understand and for
give In a man exposed to peculiar temp
tations Pine, noble, strong, true men
have fallen temporary victims to such
experiences and expiated them In sor
row. But when a man lies, deceives and
plots an Infidelity for months there
would seem to be something wrong with
his mind or his whole character.
Only by regarding him as Insane and
taking the responsibility of his care as
a nursa can a wife stand by him and
retain her self-respect. Possibly such a
woman finds greater happiness in think
ing she will save the man from further
fall from decency by leading htm,
through her self-sacrifice and devotion,
to repentance than she could find in
any other walk of life, having once teen
his wife.
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aii ma iaii?r ibci urs per coiiuRSttl Bor
row, and however seemingly hopeless
work she takes upon herself, with the
author of her misery, all women must
feel sympathy for her and wish her God
speed in her efforts to make a man out
of a manikin, even if they do not re
spect her for choice of employment.
But It would be more moral and sens!-
not loved In the full meaning of that
word. Such women form the great ma
jority of the commonplace.
The woman who really loves a man
loves him absent or present She loves
him with her Imagination and with her
senses. She knows his faults and may
tell him of them, but she will permit of
no one else to speak of them or to criti
cise him In his absence.
She could as easily tear her own heart
strings out as to allow one word of ridi
cule or censure to be passed upon him
without springing to hla defense, like a
mother wolf in defense of her young.
She will bear any trouble or burden for
hla sake and love him the more, and her
love would liva and thrive on sorrow, but
would not endure humiliation or injus
tice, because then the very basis ef a
great love of a great nature respect la
taken away.
It Is the woman who demands much of
the man she loves and who gives as
much as she demands who Inspires much.
The spaniel woman who licks the hand
that strikes and the doormat woman who
thinks to have a man wipe hla muddy
feet upon her la a proof of hla devotion
and her love, are fortunately going out
of date.
They know nothing of love or of being
loved for love besides passion and loyalty
must also contain dignity and self-re.
spect. Only when it Includes these quali
ties can it ennoble and elevate Its ob
Ject. That is what a great love always
does.
Say not that any man haa been the
object of a great love unless he has
grown worthier, kinder, nobler and
grander In character. Some element Is
missing from the woman's devotion if
the man degenerates.
To love fully you should stand upon
the heights.
How I Discovered Myself
By ADELAIDE SIMPSON.
Principal of the New York High School
for Women.
Strange to say I was educated for
society girl and cut out for a teacher. I
can truthfully say. too. as I look back
over nearly twenty-five years of teach
ing, that there has never been a minute
that I haven't been Inspired and encour
aged by the appreciation of others.
I woke up to the fact that I was very
young and I must utilise the education
that had been given to me to its best
advantage. I chose teaching, because It
offers an opportunity for diversified
knowledge, because there is a broader
field to conquer, because all other walks
n life are specialised and therefore
All my life I have been a student. I
have atudled everything with which I
amai In contact, and not all of it has
been the lessons set forth In books.
Human nature has came in for Its share
of study, and the ability to reach and
understand the individual haa been my
goal always. If I have reached this goal
in any way, I can say that It has been
the keynote of iy success that I have
had.
I was principal for a long time In the
Italian district, and it was through my
work wiUi boys and girls that I became
Interested In the High school for Women.
I kept thinking of the countless women
who wanted an education and could not
get one.. I kept thinking of the wage
earners, and their efforts to scrape along
on almost nothing.
If any one Interested In my work wants
a real inspiration let him come to my
evening high school In the Washington
Irving building. There I am nightly
raised to a higher plane; there I receive
all the Inspiration necessary to carry m
along for days; there I do a'll in my
power for the women who are In earnest.
Can any one imagine a more Inspiring
sight than a school filled to the brim
with women tired out with the tolls ot
the day, but willing to sacrifice any
thing for more knowledge.
Why the wage earner is a living ex
ample of self-sacrifice; the women who
come to my school are frequently hungry,
for it is often necessary to go without
a meal so as to make the time for the ,
evening lessons.
Wbea I felt that there was need of
me In the world, I awoke to the fact
that there must be a soul In me, a some
thing bigger than I was and therefore
a something that I must give to others.
I have always believed in the school
as a hitherto unrecognised field, because
the world Is a school, and the applica
tion Is therefore limitless.
In the world we are all students, but
It depends largely upon ourselves where
and from whom we learn our lessons.
In a school the danger is less and tue
Influence greater, teaching is wider than
all humanity, and we women who take
the helm must guide to safety all the
souls entrusted to us, therefore it la a
huge responsibility.
My work with the High School of
Women has been a constant reward
which sometimes almost overwhelms me
with its strength and earnestness. To be
connected with so wonderful a work is
to me so great a privilege that I want
to share it with others, lest I keep too
much of the, glory of giving and the
glory of being Inspired for myself alone.
Style Cues Are Taken from 1830 Period
new modes In Danw Frocks (Jive Wearers More Freedom and Ease
A rich sealskin coat haa a
border, collar and cuffs of con
trasting fur. The special fea
ture is the flare cuff. From
C. C Shayne & Co., West
Forty-stnond street.
Optimism
Cheer up! If you're sick of the turmoil and strife
Of fighting for fortune and fame,
If worn with the struggle and weary of life
And utterly spent with the fame,
Back out of the harness for some other chap
Whose one only aim is to carve
A name for himself that will show on the map,
And then you can restfully starve.
Dont worry! The burdens you grudgingly bear
May seem far too heavy for you:
The present may loom like the Mount of Despair,
The future rise gloomily blue.
But some other fellow will take on your work
And set about making his mark.
While you have abundance of leisure to shirk
And sleep on a bench In the park.
Be brave! If success Isn't even In sight,
Jf you know that you can't make a hit
Though through long years you may drudge day and night.
It is always easy to quit
Some hustling young fellow will slip on your shoes
And figure some day in the headlines, .
While you drown your grtofs and your troubles In booze
And board at the) various breadlines!
I
The Welshman's hat of brown
silk braver has the narrow
brim extended by brown and
white ostrich feathers. Prom
Kurzman, Fifth avenue.
By GEKMA1NE GAUTIER.
There seems to be a logical relation
between the wide skirts of the dance
frock and the 1830 period, from whloh
such frocks take their style cue. Every
one Is agreed that they are much easier
to dance In than aklrts of a season or
two ago, whose hem measurement did
not exceed one and three-quarter yards.
Like all new things, there is danger
of running Into extremes, and when that
point is reached the frocks can be used
only by professional followers of Terpsi
chore, who can have an entire ball room
floor or the carbaret stage quite to them
selves. Kor Instance, it would be quite Impos
sible for the average dancer to adopt a
new model whose skirt measures not less
than eight yards. The material of mallne
and taffeta la not permitted to fall In-
icrmauy aoout tne feet, but has two
reeds Inserted In the petticoat to maintain
the balloon-like contour which the fash
ion arbiters are Insistent on showing.
To -carry out the period scheme such
models are supplied with pantalettes or
Turkish trousers, usually of soft net or
of satin. These garements are finished In
various ways, some of them being gath
ered about the ankle above a lace flounce,
while others have a deep ruffle of laoe
or net closely plaited and hung from a
point Just telow the knee. This Idea
expresses a sort of foundat'on petticoat
over which the tm-ee or four layers of
title are mqunted
When the skirt Is attached to the
quaint bodice with its sloping shouldor
line and atralght-across decolletage, one
is reminded of the old prints of Fanny
Esser snd other dancers of bygone dsys,
whose names and whoso art are Inter
woven with wars aifd court Intrigues In
the Illuminating pages of history. Or, if
one prefers to traco the garment to roy
alty, there are the authoritative portraits
of the Empress Eugenie or of her young
contemporary, the queen of England,
who at that time had not assumed the
title of Empress of India,
Georgette ot Palrta is responsible for
one of the most successful dancing frocks
of the autumn season. It Is almost super
fluous to describe it, since It has been
talked about, written up and illustrated
on every possible occasion since the
model reached these shores about the
Afternoon gown of orange
colored rtroodcloth, with velvet
appliqued flowers and fur col
lar. of adaptations have beon made by Ameri
can dressmakers, and one now finds It
in a great variety of fabrics and color
combinations.
In that model Georgette used a reed to
stiffen the hem of the extremely wide
overdress of diaphanous material. The
stiff bell outline was broken by attaching
this hem to a narrow foundation skirt at
regular Intervals. In many of the adapta
tions, however, the reed Is Inserted higher
tp, and a curious compromise between
1830 and nineteenth century Ideas becomes
manifest.
C Advice to Lovelorn I
BI BBATKXCB TAUT AX '
Your True Happiness.
Deer Miss Fairfax. When I was 17 I
eloped, and aftur spending two years
with my husband I became discontented
and returned home. It was nenessary for
nlm to live In the country, and as I had
been brought up In New York I missed
the theaters and other places of amuse
ment. I am now studying for the stage, at
which work my teachers tell me I will
te suoreaaful. However. I often foel that
I should give up this work and return
to my husband, although I am aura that
I do not love him as a wife should. He
wishes me to come hack and my parents
wish it also. Should I return in hlmt
DISCONTKNTJO.
I believe you could find the greater
happiness at the side of the man you
married. The loneliness you feel in the
country la by no means so great as that
you may know out In the world when
you have only your work to console you
and no one with whom you really stand
first, as evidently you still do with the
man who cares for you even after your
uveeruon or Din,
flood Principles.
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rairrax: i am a Sot in
and do not drink or gamble. My friends
hi.i Wr,' ch'-Un me. saying that a
Will you kindly give me your opinion?
W. 11. K.
iy dear boy, I admire you Intensely
ior naving good moral principles, and I
would be equally disgusted were you
to sacrifice them because of the foolish
criticism of so-called friends. Any boy
who learns to master himself early In
me is likely to grow to be a fine and
successful man. Take a firm stand and
do not permit anyone to sway you from
wnai is right.
Thlek Well.
Pear Miss ralrfax: I am M and love
Flii of 17. We exr-eot to t
next year. I see her often and take her
to plaeva of amusement, but when I s"
grat staying at home ,h a,na Mm-
satisfied, and often refuses to answer roe.
mum icu me wnai j ought to uo.
Q. V. J.
This girl Is so very young that she
probably considers life nothing but a
chanoe for a good time, and hardly ap
preciates ine seriousness of love and
marriage. Re careful to make no
blunders, for unless you have a wife
willing to do her share to make the borne
and who will work by your aide as well
play by your side, you will neither
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Wonderful Romance of the
Earth's Interior
By GARRETT P. 8ERV1SH.
"If It were possible to sink a shaft
throush the earth and Install a pasaen
ger lift In It. what poxltlen ould the
car and the passengeia aasume on o. in
line out on the
otner aide of the
ertht riease ex
plain the action of
the laws of gravlta
' tlon in this case.
Whloh would he tip
and which down,
and when would
power be required
to operate the carT
It seems all topsy
turvey to me. I).
R, Newark. N. J."
An answer to
this kind of ques
tion is worth
while because It
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tally unaware of any eccentricity In his
Posture, since, no matter where we may
be on the earth, our eensea tell us th-it
down Is toward the center, and up Is
way from It.
It should be added that If the car were
simply dropped Into the shaft. Inatead
of being let down from one side of the
arth and pulled up to the other. It
would (neglecting the resistance of the
sir In the shaft), shoot through the
eftrth. attaining Its greatest velocity as
It pawed the renter, and rising tu th
surface on the opposite side by virtu
of the momentum accumulated durlncr
Its rail to the center. Its motion would
resemble that of a pendulum. The time
required to fall to the center would be
about twenty-one minutes, and the aama
time to rise from the center to the op
posite surface; so that, under the Im
pulse of the earths gravitation, one
might travel straight through the eartn
affords an especially vivid conception ot th" thr-" ot an hour.
the way gravitation works, a thing about I
which even many educated people appear
to have very oonfused Ideas.
Assume thst ths shaft runs through the
center of the earth. Also, In order to
avoid quibbles, suppose the earth to be !
perfect, smooth, homogenous sphere,
and neglect the effect upon a falling
body of the earth's rotation around Its
axis. The ear would descend, as tar as
the center. In the same manner that an
ordinary passenger lift descends from the
top of a building, being drawn down by
the force of gravity, or the attraction
of gravitation.
Every particle of matter In the earth
exercises Its share of this foroe by pull
ing toward itself, but the aggregate ef
fect of all these small forces Is a single
pull toward the earth's eenter.
The smount of this pull upon any body
Is measured by what we oall weight The
weight Increases or decreases not merely
with the else, but with the density of
the body, because the pull of gravitation
Is exercised equally upon every particle
that the body contains, and a dense
body contains more psrtlclee than a rare
or light body. Consequently an iron can
non ball weighs more than a wooden
bowling ball of the same slse.
Now we come to a very Interesting
point. As long as the oar remained on
the surfaoe, every partlola In the earth
would pull It toward the center. The
majority of the particles do not pull di
rectly toward the contar with their en-
time attractive foroe, but a greater or
lesser portion of the attraction ef eaoh
particle la toward the center, and as be
fore said, the aggregate, outstanding ef
fect of all these forces united is a single
pull to the center.
But when the oar had desoended be
low the surface all the particles compos
ing that part, or shell, ot the earth sit
uated above the level of the oar, would
cease to exercise a pull toward the cen
ter, and their various attractions, as
Newton mathematically demonstrated,
would balance or neutralise one another
In such a manner that they would no
longer affect the movement of the car.
The practical result would be that the
aggregate downward pull on the car
would proportionately diminish.
As the car continued to descend the
thickness of the shell of earth above
its level would increase, and consequent
ly the downward pull would decrease,
until when it reached the center there
would be no pull at all, the forces of
ttractlon being balanced against one
another on all aides. Here, then, the
strain upon the cable supposed to regu
late the velocity ot the car's descent
would cease entirely, because the car
and everything that It contained, would
completely lose their weight. A passen
ger In, the car would lose all sense of
dlreotlon. There would be for him neither
up nor down. He could not stand or fall.
He could, however, atlll use hie musou
lar strength, and might, by a push, or
a kick, set himself spinning like a
thistle down in the wind. But if he
tried to walk he would bound away like
a rubber ball at the first step!
In order to continue the trip of ths
car up on the opposite surface of the
earth it would be neoeasary to reverse
the action of the cable so that now it
would lift against the force of gravity.
As soon as the car was drawn away
from the center the sense of up and
down would come back to the passenger.
What had before been the celling would
now become the floor. The weight would
increase with Increase of distance from
the center, and the strain upon the
cable would grow gradually until the
surfaoe was again reached.
Emerging on the other side of the
earth from that which he had left, the
passenger would haare his feet pointing
In exactly the opposite direction from
that to which he bad been accustomed
on the other side; but he would be to-
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