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Woman's Thirst for Admiration
The Empty Flattery Too Often Mistaken
for the Genuinely Honest Thing.
The Story of Jade
Ugly Duckling Must Make Most of Her
Consolation Prize Woman Need Not Lack
Attention from Men If She Makes Most of Her Talents
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By BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
Nothlnc In all the world can convtnr
a woman that a man Is not absolutely
Justified for being in love with her. Noth
ing can convince her that she la not being
cheated out of her birthright and given
an unfair deal and being abused and ne
glected and generally maltreated by
malicious fate unless her progress through
life la marked at Intervals by admiring
males.
Everyone of us ha enough sane judg
ment to know when a man Is making a
fool of himself by falling in love with
somebody else. But when It comes to the
personal singular. Judgment falls. We
don't have to deserve love ur to win It
we Just want It! And ty the force of
'wanting we expect to attract It; while
because of the force of that same desire
we think the tide of life ought to go out
of Its way and digress about all obstacles
In order to wash up on the shores at
our feet shipwrecked mariner who will
exclaim at once and in glowing terms at
pur own first person singular supreme
charm I
We want admiration ergo: we must
have It.
, And the ways in which we set out ' to
get it. oh, my sisters, are strange and
wonderful and wonderfully-; Ineffectual.
We make ourselves fine with gay raiment.
We learn all the futile little tricks of
modern society. We manever to out
shine other women. Wo cater to the very
characteristics In men which in our
hearts we least admire and which, when
deliberately appealed to, fail to yield last
ing or deep response. We make ourselves
cheap and conspicuous and easily attain
able and lower our best standards. And
all of thia for admiration and the glitter
of compliments.
And even while we are chasing In a
circle as amusingly futile as the one Pus
syklns describes when she whirls after
her own fluffy tall, there are the big
emotions waiting outside the pathetlo
little circle we choose for iur dally round.
, Masculine admiration Is well worth
having. But It Is not to be confused with
mure compliments, or with amused toler
ance or with patronising tribute to the
"weaker sex." No grown woman can
really want a man to like her In the way
he would an adorable pretty child. No
being of flesh and blood can live on the
sort of glowing criticism a beautiful
picture might call forth. And no woman
of character can be satisfied to appeal to
man save In an Intellectual way.
But "most of us go unerringly after
what analysis surely shows us we do not
want. We don't discriminate between
praise and flattery and honest admira
tion. For the sake of the icing we swal
low cake that Is made of moldy flour and
cold storage eggs and rancid bu'ter.
We envy the woman who Is showy and
popular. We despair because of some girl
who trails through promenades with a
string of courtiers. . We want to Jiave
other women see that we are admired.
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We want to have the men we honettly
like to see thnt a lot of men whom we
probably honestly dislike admire us.
And for whose good Is It all? Admirers
are not always deelrers. The girl of one
love affair In likely to marry and marry
far better than the girl who, with a
string of admirers to choose from, se
lects the one who moM caters to her and
who most gracefully flatters her and
pasres by the sincere affection that dares
to look at her with honest eyes and
Speak to her with a true tongue.
How much difference dors it make In
your life If people exclaim at your mar
vellous dancing ' or eoraplimont your
smaitntas of stylo, or envy your long
eyplahesT Does any amount of such
adulation give you '.i.o real, lasting,
worthwhile experience? The glow of ap
probation Is ao uflelenj to advance, you
In the world or to help you grow In
strength and ability as la a snap bubble
to stay forever on the end of pipe mir
roring a rainbow In Us heart
But the true admiration that honest
tillltv lmn.tlw .tArt.il Brln .ah thtif f
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another matter. '
If you have dancing ability and you
turn It to account either making a
livelihood through It or teaching little
slum children grace rhythmic expres
sion If you achieve something tlgnal
through this talent you will receive true
admiration and you will be too busy to
notlco It. : '
For there lies the gist of the whole
matter, some women play to the gallery
and they are far more Interested In
the applause given them than In the
consideration of what they have done to
win it. And some women are doing
work home work, personal work,
world's work It matters not which, for
their Interest Is In doing well their task.
They aro not considering the flattery,
that might confuse them as to real Is
sues In their efforts. They are consider
ing the end of a Job well done.
Ulysses had to atop his sailors' ears
with wax and have himself tied to the
mast so he could safely pass the Siren's
Isle. There are a great many of us who j
aro the wreckage In the sea about the
Siren island there are numerous . craft
drifting off the reefs for no other rea
son man because tney listen 10 we siren :
song of praise. And so sweet sounds the J
chant that they don't look out into life's
sea and remember where they are point-,
ing.
A great many women are modest
enough not to think themselves Irresistl- .
ble until a few flatterers have told them
so. But they long to be made to be-
lleve.
Don't listen. The siren song of flat
tery leads right to the rocks. The faith
ful attachment of one loyal man Is a
fine thing to have. The admiration of a
real friend la manna to the spirit. But
that you have to win and deserve If you
wont to keep It long.
And the only way to deserve real ad-!
miration is to be so busy about your task
In life that you forget the applause that
honestly and always comes in the end
of labor well performed.
Advice to Lovelorn 1
BT BZ1TIIC1 TAXaUTAX
IIstc an Understanding.
Dear Miss' Fairfax: For many years I
have been about with a man who has
asked me at different time to marry
him, yet he never sets a date, and intro
duces me to his friends as his sister, and
boasts he Is a bachelor. Ever since I've
known him he has received letters and
cards from different women. When
asked to explain he says "These women
are nothing to me and I am silly to
bother myself about them." These things
are making me lose my respect for him,
because he won't talk about his affairs
and I have commenced to feel I've been
Imposed upon. Do you think it best to
break with him? Or is the fault mine?
If so kindly enlighten me. B. B. B.
Tou must have a clear understanding
with this man, both for the sake of your
self-respect and your peace of mind. If
he really lovea you and means to marry
you and you in turn care for him, make
up you mind not to be a Jealous, nag
ging wife who refuses to trust her hus
band. If on the other hand he la Just
selfishly taking up your time. It would
be better for yoti to know it at once and
to suffer a quick, merciful blow rather
than drag though years of uncertain
wondering.
Talk It Over.
Dear Miss Fairfax: I am engaged to a
young lady with whom I have been going
about three years. Hlie goes out to theaters
or to "movie shows" with a friend of mine,
who lives In her neighborhood on nights
when I do not call. This friend means
no harm, only friendship. There were
a few people who spoke harshly of my
fiancee auout tnis. nut i paia no atten
tion. he now says my man friend
wants her to ask me to allow her to go
to a beuch with him. I jtalJ no, and on
account of that she th nVs I am Jealous
and feel hurt. CONS ICR VAT1 VE.
A girl who Is publicly engaged should
not go about with any man save her
fiance, except in a very rare Instance.
Don't be tyrannical about it, but try to
make your sweetheart feel that it is un
fair to herself and t you for her to
nut herself ill nosttlon where a. critical
woria can ihibjuok. nrr ana a.acu.. ner
unkindly. Talk it over with her very
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feel that it 1 scarcely worth while to
put herself in a false position for th.
sake of a little Idle pUasure.
Try to Win Her Lore.
Dear Miss Fairfax: For about ten
years I have been employing young girls
as stenographers, clerical workers, etc.,
but up to the present time have never
made any advances to any of my em
ployes. Now I find myself deeply In love with
my stenographer, a young woman of
about If. but as I am afraid to make any
advances to her for fear of her misunder
standing me, I have Just buried my feel
Incs. Wht should I do? Should I tell her of
my feelings?
I am Zi and have a good Income and
should like to make this young woman
my wife, as she la everything that is
good and true.
A UONESOMB EMPLOYER.
Tell the girl exactly bow you feeL
Whether she loves him or not a woman
will always feel complimented and even
honored by the knowledge of a good
man' love. The fact that she happens
to be In your employ la absolutely no
barrier to your trying to win this girl
for your wife. Declare your honorable
Intentions honestly-
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erald green jade.
By GARRETT P. BERVI8S.
There Is a great charm about the stone
oalled Jade, which, from prehistoric
times, h been carved Into ornaments
and implements. It la a. crose-gralned,
hard, massive substance, showing a
peculiar lustre on the cut surfaces
and possessing a distinctive color, usually
some shade or blending of green or blue.
It Is sufficiently rare to prevent objects
made of It from becoming commonplace,
being found only In moderate quantities
In certain parts of the world.
China has always been famous for its
jade, and it la found also In Siberia.
Turkestan, New Zealand. Egypt and
northwestern America. Another name for
n la nephrite, from the Greek word for
kidney, an old belief being that It had
curative powers over kidney diseases.
There are two varieties jade proper
and jadelte. The former la a silicate of
calcium and magnesium, and the latter
imcaie or aluminum ana sodium. lna,
In his "Mineralogy." says that the alumi
num-sodium silicate In other words,
jadelte Is the stone most highly prized
Accidents
By CHARLES U. PARKH I'RST.
The Police Bulletin, Issued monthly un
der the auspices of the department, con
tains a quantity of matter that is of
Interest to the general public as well as
to the force. The
October issue gives
a carefully worked
ut - analyst of
highway accidents
occurring in New
Tork city, calculat
ed from a variety
of points of view
and affording mat
ter for careful study
to all who use th
streets, whe t h r
as passenger or
pedestrian.
It appear that
during the first
eight month of
th present year
there were 409 per
sona k 1 1 1 d, or
nearly two a day, and IS,. 616 Injured, or
about sixty-five dally. One result ob
tained which doe not at all coincide
with popular impression is that com
paratively few of these accident are due
to the fault of motormen or drivers, but
to pedeitrain or passengers.
In th month of August last, out of
71 Injured only thirty-one are set down
as a u to tne rauit or motormen or
driver; ' that 1 to say, only about' one
In twenty. Of the accidents occurring In
that month, and due to personal care
leanness, 171 are attributed to "improp
erly boarding or alighting;'' ZH to "cross'
ing streets not at crossing;" 137 to "play
ing In the street."
Such facta and figures afford pedes
triana something that It is worth their
while to ruminate upon. The general Im
presslon that street fatalities and in
juries are mostly chsrKeabie to the risli
ness. and carclerar.ess of chauffeurs .s
thus authoritatively contradicted. It is
always agreeable to es aie personal re
sponsibility by locating It elsewhere
One cannot now travel about In the
cUy on a motof car wltnout comlng to
lh, aa ,hat chauffl.llr, are .
rule, a pretty careful class, nor without
discovering that a great many pedes-
(rUm, w,u, ke
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start across the street at -ny point that
suits their convenience, without taking
any survey of the condition of the street
traffic. That might be discreet in the
country, but not on a crowded city
thoroughfare,
Th figures just quoted show that such
negligence is suicidal. It 1 only fair to
add that there Is no doubt but that chauf
feurs do, to some extent, trespass upon
the rights of pedestrians, especially In
treating crossings as being their own
property. Instead of being th Joint prop
erty of th entire traveling public. The
entire matter can be fairly and briefly
disposed of by saying that the mass of
people la this city are In such a pertur
batlon and unreasonable agitation (hat
they have not sense enough left to know
how to take care of themselves.
Th Bulletin itself states th case in
saying: "It must all t due to the tre
mendous hurry everyone in New York
seems to be In to get somewhere else.
Th nervous pace In tbia city ha in
creased year by year, and It la not re-
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1 A wine ewer 01 mutton fat
j jade in high relief.
of all that pass under the name of Jade.,
Externally tne two varieties appear so
much alike that only an expert ur a min
eralogist can distinguish between them.
Recent examination has shown that
much of the Chinese hide Is really Jade
lte. Color furnishes no certain test, for
both possess a great variety of hues and
shades, and hardness and lustre are
equally Inderterminate qualities. Chemi
cal composition Is the only sure clue.
However, for tho collector of antique
and beautiful specimens of Jade carving
the question of the chemical composition
of (he material used la of relatively little
importance, since whether it be Jade or
Jadelte the qualities that give it value
are equally present. It is the work of the
artist upon a matertnl suitable to express
and perpetuate his Idealized forms that
Is sought for and admired.
In prehistoric times Jade or jadelte was
employed for implements of labor, such
as stone axes. This hss given rise to the
name "axe-stone," sometimes applied to
these minerals. Specimens have been
found, for instance, among the remains
of the "lake dwellings" of Bwltserland,
although the stone does not exist nat
urally in Europe. This Indicates that
there were ways and means of travel and
Due to Own Carelessness
mark's bio that accidents should Increase
In proportion."
It should be added to th foregoing
that too much credit cannot be given' to
the traffic squad for the controlling and
protective Influence which Is o wisely
and courteously exercised by It. With
out it vehicular traffic among our main
avenues and even In many of our side
streeta would be an absolute Impossibil
ity. If any one of the doxen or fifteen who
Model of Brown'
Silk with Beaver
A Bernard model Is of brown silk
trimmed with beaver. From J. M. Gld
ding Co., Fifth avenue.
Bernard has varied the monotony of
tallleur fabric by developing a smart
costume In brown grosgrain silk, which
he has trimmed with beaver fur by way
of pleasing tone harmony.
There is nothing especially new about
the skirt. The lines are characteristically
flaring and there 1 a border of fur
about the hem which la fully fourteen
Inches from the ground.
An Interesting detail of the coat 1 the
method used to accentuate the umbrella
flare. Pieces of the material are shaped
on the lines of an Inverted V and set
at regular Intervals through the coat
skirt, from the waist line to the hem.
Kather unusual In these days of funnel
and muffler collars ia th neck finish
which shows a narrow, flat collar of
beaver widened to form broad revs;.
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A vase of the K ion-lung
I period 14 inches tall.
tradn In prehlatorio times auih as we
should not have expected.
Archaeological research has pushed back
both art and commerce to an astonish.
Ingly early period, and proxed that even
In the Stone Ages men seatterej widely
ever some parts of the earth, and already
poewssed the enterpr'se which was to
render them masters of sea and land.
Much of the charm of Jade objects
arises from the exceedingly rich and
varlognted colors of ths material. These
colors are not glaring or conspicuous, but
stibd'iccd and beatlfully harmonious, and
the artists, in the finest specimens, have
taken advantage of the distribution of
the various tones and tints to heighten
the effect of their denlgns while bringing
out the contrasts of color.
Often, as in tho objects shown in the
photographs on this page, the most ex
quisite effects are produced by the vary
ing shades of color running through the
carved figures. Among the colors charac
teristic of Jade and Jadelte, are emerald
green, "mutton-fat," tea-green, violet,
"camphor" and yellow. Nearly all these
shades are sometimes found distributed
through a single specimen. The rarest
combinations are said to be of vlolot and
emerald-green.
listened last Thursday evening to the
Informal account that Mr. Osborne gave
of hi work at Sing Blng cam to th
conference with the notion that the war
den was administering his office under
a system of sentimentality, the result
must have been a thorough disabusing
of the mind of all auch Idea. The warden
la not built along sentimental line. HI
entire bearing la one of dignity, which
expressed itself both In what he said and
in the way he sald.lt, and gave the He
to any such conception of him as that he
would seek to fulfill his relations to the
convict by a policy of coddling.
The point was made by himself and by
other who took part In the conference
that th punitive system that nas been
In vogue In Sing Blng, as in other penal
institutions, la convicted of Inefficiency
by the poor qualllty of its results. One of
th conferees, s Judge In th court of
general session, stated that of the crim
inals that came before him for sentence.
S3 per cent had been sentenced before at
least once and In some eases twice, three
times and even up to ten time.
A system that can show no better work
than that la self-condemnatory, if some
different policy can be suggested that
gives even slight promise of yielding bet
ter result It stand to reason that It
should be experimented with and thor
oughly tried out. The difference after fell
between the policy that Warden Osborne
has adopted and the one which he has
displaced Is far more a matter of manner
than of matter.
On of th gentlemen present asked him
to glv a history of one day's perform
ances, first as things were under the old
regime and then a they are under the
new. The difference between the two I
far lea than a good many of th warden'
critic seem to suppose.
The Inmate ar allowed 'to talk to
each other at their meals. In view of
the unsanitary and altogether contemp
tible Inadequacy of the cells they ara al
lowed the freedom of the grounds as far
as la oompatlbl with the requlslt disci
pline of the Institution.
Under the old dispensation they were
treated simply s criminal to b pun
ished. I'nder the new they are still
treated aa criminals to be punished, but
alao as men to be so dealt with that
when they graduate they shall no longer
be a public nuisaace. but become a public
benefit. They are recognized as bad and
yet not so altogether bad as to afford no
realduuiii of manly decency to be dealt
with and fostered.
Although no allusion was made to the
'i n me warden' address ther is
something In th situation which has not
come to open statement and full public
recognition. There la no larger element
of leniency In Mr. Onborne'a policy than
there is in that of Warden Homer In the
ureal Meadow State prison at Comatock
In fact, there Is not anywhere nearly as
mum.
I can speak of Great Meadow from per
sonal knowledge acquired by having
spent considerable time on the arounds
and In association with the convict. But
ther are no criticisms passed on Oreat
Meadow. Warden Homer Is not being
excoriated. The newspapers are not eel
brating his sentimentality.
There is an animus In the mind of
the original author of criticism that does
not proceed from any anxiety lest the
convicts should not be dealt with with
sufficient severity. In that fact lie the
real nub of th situation.
By DOnOTIIV PIX
A homely girl writes me a letter in
which shn despairingly asks:
"Is beauty the only ns?e! that ennnts
In a woman? Am 1 doomed never It b
soiiuht after or
loved by a man be
cause nature dIJ
not cl'o me a
peaches snd croam
e o m p lexlon, and
lustrous hnlr and
large ox-1 k eyes?
Is there no hope
for the ugly girl?"
Of course. It
o u Id bn v-r
eauy to te!l this
ugly duckling that
to bo a swan isn't
u h a gliirioiia
thing she Imag
ines, and that
pretty la s pretty
does, nd that It
Is better to have a
jtrVav7 Vir
lovely character than It Is to have a
willowy figure and that beauty Is only
skin deep, etc. etc., and again etc.
These time-worn platitudes are, how
ever, mendacious. Ke.iuty may be but
kin deep, but It is all of us thst ehows, j
and no mattei; what Is said to the con
trary, good looks are woman's on beat
asset, the thing that gains for her at
tention and consideration, and all of the
perquluillea of like without her ever hav.
Ing to lirt a finger In her own behalf.
The pretty girl gets th partners at
the dance, tho Invitations to places of
amusement. Let a pretty girl and a
homely girl apply for the aame position
and the pretty one gets It. A dnsen men
will spring to their feet t glv their
places in a crowded street car to a living
plrture, while the rhromo ran hang her
self on to a strap, A pretty wife Is
treated aa a parlor ornament, wh.il a
plain-featured one la expected to find
her proper place In the kitchen.
There ia no use in arguing about the
value of good looks to a woman, but
because a girl has missed getting the
capital prise in the femlnln lottery Is
no reason why she should go Into social
bankruptcy. The thing for hor to do I
to make th most of her consolation
prise.
While It I true that the homely girl
tarts Into the race of life with a heavy
handicap, and the beauty has a long start
of her. It Is not Impossible tor little
Plain Face to overtake her and win out
To begin with, the beauty has often
but one charm her looks. Nature Isn't
as unjust aa she seem, and when she
lavishes an extra amount of outside
adornment on a woman' head she gen
erally skimps on the Inside furnishings.
There ar a few exception to this
rule, but they ar very tw. If you
will think - over all of th Venus you
hav ever met you will recall that moat
of them were dull as dishwater, and the
most boring of companions.
Her is th homely girl' opportunity.
Realising that no man will consider her
a piece of bric-a-brac which he can spend
an evening in admiringly contemplating
it la up to her to read, and study, and
observe until she acquires a line of con
versation that will make people forget
whether her eye look Ilk burnt holes
In a blanket or violets drenched In dew.
The ugliest man In England, a man of
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The Change of Life.
Bkltsvtllb. Md. By the use of Lydia E. rinkham's Vegetable
Compound I have successfully passed through a most trying time,
the Change of Life. I suffered with a weakness, and had to stay in '
bed three days at a time. Lydia E- rinkham's Vegetable Compound
restored me to perfect health, and I am praising it for the benefit of
other women who Buffer as I did." Mrs. W. 8. Duvall, Route Ho. 1,
Beltaville, Md.
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vompouna oen tne stanaara remexiyr or fe
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nas restorea so many suiienng women to health.
""?Write to LTDIA E.PIXKH1M XEDICIXE CO.
L-f (COS r l DtMlAL) LYNX, MASS., f or advice.
Your letter will be opened, read and answered
by a woman and held lu strict confidence.
grotesque f0 ani) figure, was the moM
noted lady-killer of his time, and It wns
his bonot thnt If ynu would give t'jm
fifteen minutes start of the hsndsameot
ran In the worl I he could cut hlra out
with any woman. "
The same thing Is true of women. A
Pretty face may catch a man c nn.l
nare his fancy for a lime, but the
women .wl.o can keep a man inlcrort. d
j end sniurd I the one that can hold
j h m. and of whom he never tires. "
i The second ndvnntnse the homely gtrl
' hoi owr her pretty sistrr Is In the mnt-
Ur of vanity. The whelp circumstances
ef Ivjn'i life lend to mk her self,
conceited snd neirtuh. She feels thSt
ndul;it!(.n Is her rlKhl. and that she
should hsve the lest of everything aijfl
everybody thould be subservient to her
whhiia. v
Men held pretty much the rame views
concerning their o n rreroaatlve.i thjit
tho beauty dors about hers, and so when
th two met there Is apt to be a clash.
That's where the ujly Krl hss hor In
ning spaln
. She Is wllllns to etudy a man and try
to pleaso him. Instead of having him
break his nerk tryin to pVopltlat her.
She's arxlmis to burn Incense before th
man InMead of expecting him t- pet
i.usy with his Jow Mirk at her feet.
She's resdy to hurl bouquets at the msn
Instead of haughtily r?rl?nlr.g to accept
a few tributes from him. And thl ex
plains why ravishing beauties so seldom
make good msirlno, while so many
plain looking women capture matrimonial
prises.
flttll .another advantage that the
homely woman has over the beauty Is
that aa the beauty grows older she fades.
while as the plain woman grows older
she nearly always get better looking,
o that often two women, one of whom
waa pretty and th other ugly at 20,
hav changed places at .
The middle-aged beauty whose hair h
lost It luster, her cheeks their roses,
her eye their brightness, her form It
lithe grace, la a plteou wreck of her
former elf, but th homely woman wpo
never had any beauty except that of the
mind and soul Is at th very height of
her charm, and her Intelligence and sym
pathy mak her even physically attrac
tive. x
Therefor let th homely girl not mourn
as on without hope, but stt herself to
work to cultivate her mind and heart
with th assurance that Intelligence and
oompanlonableness are a pretty good
substitute for beauty, and that when aa
ugly woman I fascinating she Is the
most fascinating woman on earth. t
In-Shoots
Good Judgment haa often been termed
cowardice. ' I
It 1 easier to look Into th mouth of
som gift horse than others. '
When a girl laugh at being kissed It
la a sign that th fellow I wasting time.
When a fellow cannot maka a good
speech It will always help som to "set
'em up again."
Lot of men who claim to have corns
from fine families appear to be a long,
way from home. ' r
