H1K BKE: OMAHA. TUESDAY. SEITKMnnit JS, 1915.
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Hie Bees MomeMaazitiie Pa
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To
ny ANN LISLE.
No tie of kinship holds us
No bond we could not end, ,
But still my spirit calls to you
And names you Friend Dear Friend.
I reach to you across the space '
Where mind and spirit blend;
And from the strength that molds your far
Comes power to be your friend. '
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While tenderness of giving;
And love I dare not spend,
Stir vaguely In my heart for you.
Who call me but your friend.
No other tie could hold us so
As this so fain to end,
My heart for you with love could glow
Tou call me Friend Dear Friend.
I did not know it, dear, at first;
I never guessed love's trend,
With mind and dreams and spirits knit
I thought to be but friend.
Xnd tho' all life deny me bliss,
Unwanted love I spend;
My spirit still thanks God for this
You call me Friend Dear Friend.
The Love -Time of Life
How Science Interprets the Whims
of Cupid and What Facts Show
By DOROTHY VIX.
l-r. Jackh of Hamburg, has analysed
n scientific principles the course of love
3a the lives of the average man and
woman. He puts the result in diagram
aBiatlc form, and
yiows that the male
-''curve of love," or
Capacity for affec
tion toward the
other sex, Is high
est between 24 and
-e. whereas the fe
male curve rises
Jilghpst between SO
ftnd 34.
Thus does science
interpret the apper
.nt c a p r Ices of
J&Jipld. and teach us
when to be upon our
taiuard against the
JJrows of the l!t-
winged god.
"TTCumnwn- observa
tion will- licsr out
the accuracy of this
scientific diagnosis of the human heart.
Undoubtedly it is true that men love
3&ost when they are young, an! women
Jove deepest when youth is wanl g. Proof
wf this Is furnished al ke by the sUtis
Xtbs of the marriage bureau, which eh ws
jthat nearly all men who marry at all
marry under 30. and by the chronicles of
'.scandal that show that nearly all women
;who make fools of themselves about love
"-o It after they are . .
Every boy Is bTlmmlns- ever with sen
timent. He Is like the hero of the old
-Floradora sextet song who used to warble,
Z"l must love somebody, and It might as
-well be you." And he's ready to ex
pend this excess1 emotion on any woman
that Is handy.' -
. It Is boys of SO who fall in love with
Iihambermaida. or dairy" lunch waitresses,
"or chorus girls, or women old enough to
he their grandmothers, and who marry
ny skirt that ha; pens t be nearest, if
-they have enough money to buy bread
land meat and candy for two.
2 Then there comes a wave of reaction.
rThey have had then- eyes opened a little.
ad are beginning to get over their puppy
Jiove and see things clearer. They've
-lost many of their allusions, and have
!begun to at least differentiate between
ri and 80, but they are still young enough
tn be romantic.
Above all. the primal Instinct of nature
for mating and building of .their own is
'strong In their breast, and it Is then,
somewhere around 30, that a man Is not
'only most, apt to marry, but to know the
; Inspiration of'a deep and abiding love.
' From SO to 40 the average man is too
absorbed In himself and hla career to
'think of love. These are the years in
: which hs is apt to neglect his wife If he
'l married, and to thank God that "he
; hasn't got one if he Is single, . because
"they are the crucial years of his man-life,
'.the years In which he Is fighting his
'battle for success with every nerve
'braced for the conflict, and no time nor
I strength to dally by the wayside with
; lentiment.
After 40 the average man's heart M
! steeled in so f I hues, and cyn. ism if he
'i still a bachelor. He wants his own
liberty, his own ways, his own privileges
I without the bother of f ghtl g with a
J wife for them. Also he hat seen enough
. of the matrimonial Infelicity of his f rend
',ti make him shy cf t. e holy estate.
Therefore, from SO until into the 60s,
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You
when most men beg'n to go back to a
second emotional childhood, the love .Ine
of a man curves down Instead of up
ward. Qlrls are eentlmcntal from the cradle
up, but It is a surface sentimentality,
nnil there Is. ln reality, no ether living
creature that Is so hard and selfish as
a soft and Innocent looking little maiden
of H. From IS to 26 the only person a
girl really loves Is herself. All others,
male and female, occupy a place In her
affections that is nicely adjusted to
what they do for her and how much
they add to her pleasures. She calls this
love when It Is applied to a person of
the masculine persuasion, but It Isn't real
love any more than the ball room Is real
llfo.
It Is during this time that a girl not
Infrequently deceives herself and mar
ries a man under the Impression she la
In "ove with him, when It's Just because
she liked the way he combed his hair or
1 turkey trotted, or the good time be gave
I her. How ephemeral Is this early love
Ms shown by the way It vanishes after
(marriage, when the little bride finds
nerseir race to. face with the stern
reality of matrimony. Nine-tenths of the
divorce cases are after-claps of youthful
marriages.
From 25 to 30 women begin to think
more seriously about love, but they also
begin to be critical They put their door
on the latch for Cupid, but they are
looking out of the window to see if he
wears a good coat, and drives ud in a
taxi Instead of coming wandering In on
foot and without a rag to his back. In
a word, they want to love and marry,
but they prefer to fall ln love with an
eligible party.
This may be called the rational age of
love. There are not many thrills to It,
but it Is an eminently sane and safe af
fection, and. comfortable to live with
because the woman who la only mod
erately In love neither asks too much
of her husband in the way of affectiou
nor bestows too much upon him.
r-rora 3U to 35 is the panto time of a
woman s life when she perceives that all
or. have
rr!nn. ,'nd th' "b-M
M?ht of , k UP" h" ta the
he Z e !"r,ner- tht
in? tZ iTfi Z th". iiRln car ' rtn-
ing for her. Then It is that a woman
eTenc.T JT" tht.Mk her''
U R after "tnt-,
. . . '
at Ind .hT. . 8 t0t ComM
ah. I. T -in no matter whether
that all the pleasure, and amusements
Zl ,H J?- -'!-elher.f
.tl 7nH ri.V' Zu- .""trow "ooeniy
"Sel. by heart 'u obsessed by lone-
for affection ""6 thint'
It I. the last imnji i .
summer f iT?. ftPOp,Cml " the
coM winter r .l . Mr9 ,he
lnuence she not. Und6r ,U
tMw lX tZ -? VntlXed
rll? a bot lun. i Wh m"'
or .topS'wTt. 'hie ? b
entaS iVZJT, KeU
And.?. n,r-ra!.'rCefU ntrtu-
uv"y tn at the
tune
least
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lapenle of Inspiring love in man.
1 '
, .
is difficult for a satisfied man to be
progressive.
IVMR'H VI. '
IJve wire, should not waste time on
dead issues.
Only the very wealthy' can afford to
Join the anti-tipplng crusade.
( If you take' things as they come
other fellow will not get them.
the
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if
I In-Shoots I
.... w wnn me rjiguanifce their personal odorousness or mal-
tanguage U often called wisdom. odorousne... it Is strictly personal and
There are a good maay fnlted ate. ' tlIU,,lUj' u- " i. nothing
waters who could not 'hold dowf TZ.T. 'V
I ond base ln a minor league.
Everyone wants to h.!n th. vini
The buslntiss oppurtunity that deadens
a man a oousclence Is usually the most
Inviting.
it we couia most with the Peiwlsteuce
that we knock, s lot cf god ould be
accomplished
My New Girl of
It U a foregone conclusion that a
sriea from the pen of the famous
artist whose unrivalled sketches adorn
the paces of magasinea will be eagerly
read by Interested thousands. Today
Mr. Fisher tells of his decision to
draw a "new girl of bnuty," and
gives his reasons for deciding on a
change of style. Mr. Fisher's series
will consist of three articles, of which
today's is the first. Editor.
By HARJ090N FISHER
To do our work wett we need once or
twice a year to get as far from it as
possible, and from the distant point to
look coolly and critically at It.
That I did this summer. The result is
that there will be a new Harrison Usher
girl, or several new Fisher girls. I looked
my studio opposite Bryant Park early In
July and went back to my horns stats,
California. I visited my father and other
i relatives In my home town, Alameda,
across the bay from San Franolsoo. Than
I went with artist and author friends to
a camp of the Bohemian club in the coun
try of the giant redwood trees. That was
the birthplace of the new Harrison risher
girl or girls.
It a maa has found his work .it he
doe th work that Is not some other
saan'a, bat his own, fee canto It with
felt tot fees veceUto. He
quite escape it. Nor does fee wish to.
It la Ms twin.
9e the Harrison Fisher girt was with
me 4a the redwo. I looked coldly upon
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a I $ ' ' the Storm I
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Giving Proper Attention to
By DR. CHARLES n. PARKHUItST.
Society takes it complexion from Its
units, and 'Individual men and women are
Uie units. The big Metropolitan building
is white because each separate block of
marble entering
Into Its construc
tion Is white, not
because a general
ha. been applied to
it. The belt of
brightness that
" the heaven,
in the autumn and
winter masons,
hat we know as
shine, with a luster
that Is only the
brilliancy of all the
,.vera .tellaP unlu
Milky Way
ZZZS begin.
n th. unit; every-
J thing depend, on the unit The Quality
, the unit. IU complexion, IU valaa. d-
'termlne. what wlU be the quality, com-
piexlon and the value of the sum total
that the unlU mm up Into. W. must
- Plhl to fundaments
""ta and not let ourselves be deceived
the ca-ual aspect of things,
Prtnc,P' contetvdlng for
dmlt of appllcaUons.
We call ouraelve. an intelligent and rw-
fined community. W think m Wu
0Ur W to be with In-
j telligent and refined people. Being each
: ourselves our fellowships are naturally
! with those of the same order. As perhaps
our understanding of the community doee
not extend beyond the close circle of our
, Intimates, we generalise, and predict of
tho whom w. know nothing about tha'ifvT. & "at'hsr siTT I still love her
, - - mi Him w
'are acquainted with, and the consequence
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regard tha aspect of culture and elegance.
Unfortunately there Is no such thing as
a general condition of refinement. The
only refinement there Is Is what Is em
bodied in a certain number of refined In
fi I vidua la. Refinement Is not an atmos
phere, a peculiar transcendent condition
of the air, like some pervasive perfume
t ha t all ruwtlnlai an -r.l h t. .
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- M vm iuiuuie
of a room will Illuminate every object
I at the room Is furnished with, and It
I the electricity and everything at once be-
comes black. Everything had shone with
a kind of sheen, but there was only one
lllrht. If w mrm tt fwiil-
' tlon of this rltv Into n i...
fus of those llu,t are nfinrd and the
I , thr ! of tho; who are credited
Beauty & a
ejaat nere II ill f rS. .11 II
ft
with being so fcecause they live In a city
that happens to have some reflnod people
ln It, we should none of us. I suspect, ba
prepared to say which of the two classes
would show a majority.
What we call "the spirit of the times"
I. only a rather pretentious phrase for
the spirit that possesses a very consid
erable number of Individual men and
women that live In the times. The Ger
mans call It Zeit-QeUt. a nrsttv exores-
'slon, but a combination of fact and fic
tion, prose and poetry.
It was a remark once made to me .by
a man widely known in this part of tho
world, and held In the highest esteem
for his eloquence, the Justice of his Judg
ments, and for hla understanding of New
York, where he had been for a long time
an aotlve and observant resident the
remark, namely, that a majority of the
people living here are pagans.
It was made to me shortly after my
coming to town at a time when my esti
mate of conditions was founded princip
ally on Its reputation for large benev
olenoee, for the variety of Its humanitar
ian enterprises, for the distinction of
if. churches and reputations of Its clergy,
and for the wide extent of Its evangel
ising effort.. It can easily be Imagined
the shock thst was caused me by the
characterisation. In terms so severe, of
city that I had conceived to be a fairly
Advice to Lovelorn
ay MArmzoa tazxt
rerget It.
Dear MUs Fairfax: I am 15 year, of
age Nearly two year, ago I mat a girl
of my own aae, and I fell in lute at first
sight. I havs not met her since. 1 hava
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w nn, 4 cuuiu cars ior any
I "t"' ,rl- Woul1 J Jase rive me
.wuur uv
your advice. IlfcAKTaORE.
I advtso yon to stop chasing rainbows.
Vou are much too young to think of
love, and the little girl you are wasting
your time dreaming about Is probably
far better occupied. .Work and try to
got ahead In the world then some day
you will be aula to uke care of a gjod
wife.
Mew aad Letter-Writlasr. v
Dear kfis Fairfax: Am engaged to 4
young man. and supposed to b married
soon. He U all that I could want hint to
bs, but for one thing. When he Is nuar
me he pays me a great deal of attention
and many limes gives me too much of It.
but whn he is away. like, for Instance,
between Wednesday and Sunday, by no
act does he show me thst he thinks of
ins. lo you think bis Invn I senulne or
not? PUZZUSD MAT.
Many men hate to write letters, so your
fiance's silence when be U absent for
three or four day. Is only aa example of
this masculine characteristic. Tou ought
' ta hava nomh r.lih l -v., .
lve which shows Itself plainly can Uu
(r a few days of separation and siieu.e.
5n.
ft BY HARRISON FISHER
The Famous Artist
wis? "SSJl-
'
Every Unit
close approach to the New Jerusalem,
j without caring to state what precisely
, denoted by paganism, and while die-
claiming all Intention of quoting my In
formant's remark for the purpose of ex
hibiting disrespect for the religious con
dition of the city, It simply Illustrates
the principle I am contending for, that
no single characterisation Is applicable
to a community. The city cannot be
railed religious nor Irreligious, moral nor
Immoral. Whatever morality or Im
morality, religion or Irreliglon there Is,
Is simply an affair of Individual men and
women.
L In my Innocence and tnoonalderation,
had taken the Christianity evidenced by
Its churches and missionary enterprise,
and diffused It through the entire popu
lation; made It a kind of Joint .took prop
erty, supposing, a. I must have done,
that all New Yorkers were neither
prophets nor apostles, but that somehow
the distinguished piety that was known
outside to exist hsre was sufficient to
cover the whole territory In a way to
allow every resident to be a sharer In
Its benign and blessed Influence, Its
amenities and prerogatives.
In the Mime manner ft Is a common
thing to apeak of the United Btatea as a
Christian country. It Is a pleasant way
of representing the situation, not objected
to by Christians and usually accepted by
those who are not. But only so much of
the country Is Christian as I. the num
ber of separate and Individual men and
women living In It that are Christiana.
And even then It U not the country, not
even a part of It, that Is Christian, but
only so many of It. people.
Someone may say that this is splitting
hairs. It is not splitting hairs. The dis
tinction Is s? sharp one and cuts deep.
Failure to observe the distinction and to
make it determinative ln each several
ease is what enables one to feel that he
Is graded to the particular quality of
those with whom he Is thrown, without
the necessity of being himself personally
and Individually possessed of that quality.
If he consort, with respectable people he
easily Imputes some of that respectabil
ity to himself, without, very likely, aa
Intentional dishonesty In the prooess.
We can feel ourselves brightened by
someone else's Illumination without
thereby becoming ourselves luminous. The
full moon shines with groat brt Ilancy,
but tf. when at full, the earth hap
pens to come between It and the sun the
light out of which Its brilliancy I. com
posed Is shut off and the moon turns
black.
Borrowed excellence does not writs 1'ielf
In indelible colors. This Is Illustrated by
the fact that when one ha. been for a
time kept artificially upright by the In
tegrity of hi. surroundings there Is no
telling what he will become tf moved out
of those surroundings into a less sus
taining environment. So that the only
way of making the world wiser and bet
ter is by the bettering of its units. In
creasing the number of Its brightened
and Improved Individual..
her. I criticised her. I determined to
put mere character Into her, to give her
more strength.
While I thought of her I read some of
Rodin's news of art. The great sculptor
advised the artist not to be photographic
In his representations. He meant, "do
not fling upon canvas or into pen and
ink a model as she la, hut put Into the
picture what you yourself think of her.
, Reveal her to ethers, not necessarily as
v she la, but certainly as you see her. That
Is Individuality.
I resolved to do stronger work. I de
termined to make my girls less beautl.
ful. If need he, but of more pronounced
character.
Hitting on longe In front of my tent In
the redwoods I sketched the new Harri
son Fisher girls. I hope you will like
them. Wider-eyed, more thoroughly
awake mentally, reflecting sturdier char
acter and higher purpose, I tried to make
.them. I tried to eliminate the non-essential.
If before I used sixty strokes In
drawing a girl's face, I have now used
thirty. On this page are some of the red
wood sketches. I hope you will like
them.
i
r.y BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
No groat victory has ever been won
without enthusiasm. The defenders of a
citadel need only determination and stub
bornness to enable them to hold their
position. But to take the offensive and to
storm any fortress needs the white heat
of supreme enthusiasm.
The force of enthusiasts! Hope and en
thusiast to endeavor has saved many a
lost cause. Depression slinks away before
the force of bright eyed desire to be up
and doing. How many of us snthuae
quickly about each new opportunity that
touches our n orison. But the cold winds
of waiting may chill our first ardor and
the frost of no results may even destroy
It. But It Is only counterfeit enthusiasm
that so easily perishes. The genuine
feeling endures In the face of hardship
and the slow accomplishment end con
quers by force of seetful determination
to reach Its goal.
Youth, In its first flush of proud con
sciousness, is likely to think It can con
quer the world. IKrt the enthusiasm that
can make a whole life splendid Is that
which endures to the very end of life's
disappointments and transcends them all.
Cultivate the enthusiasm that endures.
It will make a dull world blighter It
will make you a cheerful optimist In
which hope lives snd who has the power
to endure the disappointments In the light
of the belief that all will yet be welt You
give of your best when you are keen on
the soent of what you are hunting In life.
The ardor that lightens work and bright
ens disappointments has Its effect on
yoirr physical being. You are not Jaded
and tired with the boredom of one who
feels that tomorrow has nothing tc offer.
But Instead you write each day with the
eager Joy of one who has faith In his
own ability to achieve. Brain, muscle, will
and spirit all must respond with their
best when the motive power of enthusi
asm starts them Into action. -
Enthusiasm Is not content to stagnate.
It demands to learn how to do. It la Im
pelled from within to get on quickly
and It doest In work. In play. In vocation
and avocation, enthusiasm not only points
the roed to success, but guides you along
it at an earnest pace with unswerving
purpose to reach the goal of accomplish
ment Without enthusiasm achievement Is a
colorless thing. And enthusiasm Is not a
gift of the fairies-It Is a tnlng wtthln
your own power to cultivate and possess.
Bnur yourself with desire to do and with
Joy at what yeu have a chance to accom
plish. Look aestfully forever and ever
more opportunity to eonnt In the world.
Oo about your work briskly, with the
feeling that you are assuredly to acoom
pll4i, great thlnra You are not llksly to
disappoint yourself. Your own enthusiasm
w ill carry you high on wing, of power.
Do You Know That
The word "omnibus" means "for all."
Great Britain paid PU) for Newfound
land. Aa Knglteh prince or princess Is never
called "baby."
"Emeralds are worth more per carat
than any other precioua gam.
Osmium la ons of the most valuable
metals. It l worth per pound.
8L Peter's church in Rome, will accom
modate M.4U0 people
In Bsvltle t'.ie night police are armed
with long epears, such as the knights
of eU usad.
Pampering Your
Children a Folly
To Enjoy the Comforts .
You Have Earned is
More of a Duty than to
Furnish Your Offspring
with Unneeded Luxuries
Ry ELLA WIIRELER WILCOX. '
(Copyright. 18IR, Star Company.) -tW
not deny yourself comforts ana
pleasures In order to give your children
luxuries.
There Is nothing worth wlrlle In such
a course of action.
and almost Invaria
bly the result is
Injurious to the best
Interests of the chil
dren and of society
at large.
Give the children
you bring into this
sphere of existence
your love, your sym
p a t h y and your
counsel. Flu fly them
as you would study
the most omportant
problems. Make
yourself acquainted
with their tempera
ments and disposi
A-
tions and train
yourself to exercise patience In dealing
with their weaknesses,' Remember, they
may have whertted some of these weak
nesses. . .
An sxample cf self-control, kindness
and sympathy Is the greatest wealth you
can bestow on your children. Give them
such opportunities to develop their
strength and best character as you can.
without too great sacrifice of your own
needs.
If you are able to enjoy some blesslnsr
of your toll, enjoy them Instead of hoard
ing your dollars to give your children
luxuries which they have not earned, or
leaving a fortune to be fought over.
The worst characteristics human nature
Is capable of frequently develop In, chil
dren of unselfish parents when the divi
sion of property Is made property which
the children had no part In earning.
Not long ago a sober, Industrious and
contented laborer received word that an
Inheritance had fallen to him. and he at
once began to neglect his work to adopt
vices, and finally committed suicide In a
mood of delimiting rage because law was
slow In giving him all he believed hla due.
I met two young women to whom a
fortune had been left. I knew what sac
rifices their dead parents had made to
give them the luxuries snd advantages
they were enjoying, and I studied them
with care. Two more arrogant, selfish
and unlovable young women I have rarely
encountered. They made frequent refer
ences to "common' people" and spoke
1 patronlsingly of the middle classes."
Yet the father of these girls had been a
poor boy, and a self-made 'man,' snd the
maternal grandfather had begun life as
a peddler until he .earned the money to
: study a profession. Money hoarded for
! two generations,' and the . 'sacrifices of
'parents and grandparents brought no hap
: pier results In the third than two arro
i gant and purse-proud girls, who would
have been rendered nobler and sweeter,
'no doubt. If they had been obliged to
'come In closer association with the "com-
jmon people" and the "middle classes."
I grow to believe there Is a curse upon
money we do not earn. Certain It Is that
wo rarely find the greatest characteris
tics or the worthiest qualities developed
In the children who have been spared all
effort and shielded from all responsibil
ities, and upon whom has been showered
the hoarded wealth of self-denying par
ents, while scarcely a day passes that
we do not encounter or hear of selfish
ness, greed, crime or folly which has re
sulted directly from Inherited wealth.
Enjoy the proceeds of your labor be
charitable, generous, benevolent while
you live; give your children a happy
home and reasonable pleasures and ad
vantages, but do not sacrifice your life
to them.
You only worry yourself and them and
society by such a course. They will be
better cltlaens if you let them work for
what they have. "
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