Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922, September 14, 1914, Page 8, Image 8
TTin m:r.: omaha. Monday, skitkmkkti h, ion. No Grandpas Any More Y5 (H.. Wen Tlwir 'lollies ;ind Steals Their (Jirls!) Dy NELL DRINKLEY Copyright, ll'M, International News Service. - Pwfralf 4 ; mum s "No gran'pas any more!" crowed an up-to-date little Hetty to me. "Not a jrran'pa except In New England, way way deep In the far-away, old-fashioned places where there are still wood-lota and turkeys and little boys who perch on the worm-fence o' twilights and mimic the call of the moose or down south on a white veranda with a mlnt-Julop at his elbow oroh, I did see grandfathers, coming through Iowa In the rolling farm country grandfathers with snowy whiskers and bowed backs calling 'plg-o-o-ee-eee!' and watching the train flaHh by. "But In the city No! A gran-father Is a legend a story of something that was a feeble story written In faded Ink that we cannot read any more! Tt doesn't matter If he's 70 oh, he still gets 70, you know but the heels of him are so light and if he creaks nobody knows it, I can tell you the silver hair ia worn off the pink top of his head his eyes are dim a bit but, oh! the light heart and the heels and the laugh of him! "For I danced with htm the other night the city and town grandfather and that is how I know all this. All the bright young dancing pumps in town were twinkled Into the background I couldn't trip him up on a step and I'd rather dance with htm than all the blonde and black-bird boys In town all together! There are no gran'pas any more!" NELL BHINKLEV. r ' r . Mysteries of Science and Nature ijj- Sex Equality jr By C.ARIIKTT 1. SEItVIS. "What la the number of the stars? I have heard that It la only 3.000. but it aeems to me there must ba many more than that. In fact. I should think there might be million " The number visl Mf tu the nuked ye ia only a few thousands, but It ..ih-b al ilillorent tiiura of I ho year and at different joints on the earth, according to what part of th sky ia looked at, and also according to the transpar ency of the atmo aplie re. . The eyes of different persona likewise vary greatly in their sensitiveness to tarllght. Some cannot distinguish atara below tiie fifth mafinituile, while others cattily see those of the sixth magnitude, which are two and a half tlmea fainter than the fifth magnitude ones. Broadly shaking, 'there are between S.OOu and 4.000 atara In the whole sky bright enough to be seen by a fairly good eye on a clear, moonless night. Hut that does not mean that so many van be cen on any one night, because the num ber mentioned I tu hides all that are visi ble on all sides of the earth, while, of course, no ponton ean see more than half of the entire sphere of the heavens at tne time. And even then the vast majority of the atara that he ran aee are so small and faint that he would hardly notice a sin gle one of them separated from Ita fel lows. On an average night not more than fifty stara appear bright enough to attract any attention, and hardly more than half a dmen would be railed brilliant by the ordinary observer. Yet whoever looks up at the sky on a clear, dark night feels' himself In the presence of a vaat gating multitude. The few hundred stars that he can clearly aee, and the one or two thousand that lie In the background, both of the firma ment and of his consciousness, multiply themselves Into myriads. Their tiny Javelins of light, darting into the sides of his eyea from every direction, confuse the sense of sight until the starry host rem aa uncountable aa snowflakes. When huge teleacopea are used, and particularly whea photographic ap paratus Is employed with such telescopes, then the real riches of the heavens In tars become apparent and an explana tion la found for that singular sense of the existence of hidden multitudes which Impresses the- naked eye star-gaxer. The skr ta full of stara which are In dividually too faint, mainly on account of excessive distance, tu affect the naked eye. but yet unitedly are capable of pro ducing an Indefinite impression of lu minosity, and this serves, like a rich background, which la rather felt, or sus pected, thaa seen, to enhance the bril liance and the apparent number of the visible stars projected upon It. A curious fact has been brought out by recent careful enumerations of the star visible to teleacopea and photographic In struments. It appears that the total probable number of the stars is eqmil to the total population of human beings on the earth a star for each man, woman and baby, of all the nations and races. In other words, the calculated number of the stars Is between 1 .Mn.ono.oOf) and 2,000.000,fri0, which Is quite close to the estimated population of the earth at the preaent time. The astrologers are welcome to seize upon this fact and to try what they ean make out of It. Perhaps they will claim that the coincidence in number Is abso lute, (which no astronomer would pre tend to assert), and that it proves tbn truth of the old astrological dictum that every human being Is governed by starry Influences, or, aa some aver, has his guldlnir stsr. The heavens contain three stara each of which haa the distinction of atandlng In a rank by Itself, without any rivals. The first of these is Blrlus, which the Egyptians worshiped, calling it, some- times, the Nile, star. It Is. for us, a win ter star, being located In the constellation Canla Major, the Great Dog. Its popular name Is the Dog atar. The second of the three super-stars Is Canopua, which shines In th southern hemisphere and can only be seen from the southernmost parts of the I'nlted States. It Is a little more than half as bright as Pirlus, and Itas south of tt nearly 4o de grees. It la very remote, and may be, In reality, the greatest of all anna, ex ceeding ours, according to some calcula tions, not less than lO.COrt times. The third great star ta Alpha Centaurl. also In the southern hemisphere, and tlio nearest bright star to our solar system. It is a double star about twice as bright as our sun. To the eye It Is about one third as bright as Canopus. or between one-fifth and one-sixth as bright as Sinus. While it has no rivals, strictly speaking, yet there are three or four atara which almost equal It In brightness. These are Vega, Capella. Aivturus. and, perhaps, Itlgel, all of which are visible from the northern hemisphere. The brightness of stars Is estimated by "magnitudes." Each magnitude la about two and a hnlf times brighter or fainter than the one next below or above It. A recent estimate enumerates the Htars as follows: Above the first magnitude, 11. Between first and aecond, 'Si. Between second and third, IX Between third and fourth, 1S!. Between fourth and fifth, .'i0. Between fifth and sixth. 2,,.Vk). (The sixth magni tude is lowest visible to the naked eye. Between sixth and seventh, 6.H0i Be tween seventh and eighth, 2:',2.'iO. Between eighth and ninth. tB,xi. Between ninth and tenth, 174.(. Between tenth and eleventh, 4j;.AuO. Between eleventh and twelfth, HM.OO. Between twelfth and thirteenth, 2,020.001). Be twn thirteenth and fourteenth, 3,!W0, 0i0. Between fourteenth and fifteenth, 7,8y.0f. Between fifteenth and sixteenth, H,040.0t0. Between sixteenth and seven teenth, ;.',40rOo. Between seventeenth and elRhteenth. 38,4o0.000. Between eigh teenth and nineteenth, 54,6oO,000. Between nineteenth and twentieth. 7.K.Ort). Below twentieth, number not calculated, but very large. The total amount of starlight received upon the earth Is about one-hundredth of the light of the full moon. The Price of Popularity y DOItOTHY DIX. We all ngree that a man la a dastard who deliberately wins a woman's heart without meaning to marry her, and that no man has a right to pay a woman marked attentions unless ho does In tend to marry her. It ia a cruel thing for a man to jeop ardise the whole happiness nnd pros perity of a woman's life Just because tt tickles his vanity to make her fall in love with him, or because .die proves a pleas ant companion while ho is marking time waiting to find the one woman he In tends to marry, or because her home is aii uviceaule place io hiwna his even ings In and he likes her company. Certainly nothing could be more In humanly selfish than such conduct, for the man who does It not only blights the woman's chances of marriage by keeping other men away, but he often fills her heart so full of love for him tut. " VlV' - . " rt!-t that is never has room In It for affec tion for any other man. But what of the woman who does prac tlcally the same thing, who uses all her arts and w iles to win the heart of a man without intending to marry him, and who accepts his attentions and his gifts without ever expecting lo make any re turn for them? Is she not as culpable and blameworthy as the man? VndoulHedly the woman who plays with a man's heart as a kitten plays with a ball of yard and who leads him on with false hopes docs a most reprehen sible deed, but in their sentimental deal ings the two sexes cannot be judged by the same code of honor, because con ventious have made men free agents In the matter, while women are merely passive. A man. for instance, pays attentions to a woman of his own volition, but these same attentions are thrust upon a woman. No matter how much she would like to have a man come to see her and take her about she cannot make him do It unless he wants to. That's up to him. Also, by tho same token, a woman has no right to presuppose a man is In love, with her and wishes to marry her until he pops the question. She can't rise up and say offhand to a man, "Sir, I think that you are falling in love with me, and as I don't Intend to marry you, you had By BEATKICE KAIKKAX Is there a short-cut to popularity. No. But there Is a safe highroad that will lead you there. Charm and magnetism are things that no amount of taking thought will enable you to cultivate. Beauty Is a gift that comes from the gods when It exlxt it tan be guarded and Improved as any flower may be cultivated. When It Is absent, cleanliness and health and good taste may enable one to produce a fairly satisfactory "something Just as good." But popularity Is possible without the aid of the lieutenants of magnetism of charm, of brilliancy or of beauty. No one is born to b liked or disliked. There la no decree of fate that one has tu accept and bear as. well as possible whether It works the right or wrong way. Any girl can work out her salvation and make the other girls she knows ashamed to think what they did with Iheir advantages when they leholl her over coming a handicap of plain looks, poor taste In dressing, and no flashing bril liancy of mind. Dispose first of the trlflea that count Just as headlines in a story count. Have attract the eye like a promising looking Index to a book or colorful magaxine cover. Think what other people want of you and of life. This will give you sympathy and there la no single quality in all the world that will set you further along the high-road to popularity. People will make a confidant of you and men, women and children unconsciously come to love the person to whom they dare re veal their hearts and feelings. If you ran leatn to laugh you will have advanced another step on the road to popularity. Iook on the bright side of things so that you can bring a bit of cheer to the worst pessimist you know. Don't force your good spirits on people, like the man on shipboard, who asked the woman who had been seasick all the way to Gibraltar, If she had ever known a smoother crossing. Sympathy will tell you vi hen to laugh and a clear, ringing laugh of good will Is going to make up for a vast lack of CVopatra-llke charm. ICverythlng lies In the power of a girl who has the gift to make the most of herself. It takes a lot of "the Infinite capacity tor taking pains" to win popu larity. Deserve every tittle thing. Ion't pre sume on your looks or your family, or your ttll the World. The great secret of popularity is to win It. And the great Jewel of popularity Is this: To be popular Is to be loved. And love' Is the one thing that all human nature ! craves supremely. So whatever of effort is the price of popularity. Is it not well worth playing? Household Hints Advice to Lovelorn I l; BATICS TAlmrAZ ' Love, ear .Mtss bairfax: Will you please tell me if there is any such thing as love, and if so, please explain it. K. M. AIRKS. lve Is a passion thst can hardly be defined in exact terms. It has many phases and variations. The love of par ents for children, of children for parents, of husband for wife, and so on through the various trsdat iont.. all differ in de- Ferspiration-xceBsive-ls a trial to"'"' "m iniinam- n.anv. Kxtreme cleanliness and dusting f"u ,,S('lr ,n w understanding. with powd.rcd buracle add mixed with hen ;0" "P-rtence the feeling. fine starch 1, the best preventive. wlU know what U wi,hout beln J tuld. When cooking vegetables never allow! t enia Ic I ted the water to stop boiling all the time they n.ar K."fax "l" "a'giVl that is are in the saucepan. -To do so will makt t very anxious to get acquainted with a them sodden. ! nice boy that speaks to me every time 1 l meet him. and I have heard he has been ... . u. . - i ' trying to lind out my nume. Now 1 wish vo After washing lamp chimneys, try pol- )ou woul so Mm, Rs to te m'e tailing them with dry salt. This gives tlie koine nice way, to make his acquaintance, glass a brilliant shine and prevents It i Would it be foolish if 1 would write him " . . ta nice letter and tell him 1 know it is from cracking. . h)a l)lM,,7 Bllt l(, is -bashful" but goo. WU1 you tell me a few ways that 1 may A god treatment for unduly moit1tr"- ANXIOl'S. bathe When you desire to keep meat and have no he on which to keep it. wrap It in a cloth wet with vinegar Wash the vine gar off before cooking the meat. your headlines attractive to the eye Study dress. Don't wear the fad of the I our money, or your position, or moment; don't wear Just what you want; I cleverness to bring you social auroras, but be sure that you are modifying The g:rls w ho have taken their popular style so that your clothes look as If they I By for grsnted without earning It will liked you as if they honestly wanted to '"'el aa flat as a dandelion that the lawn drape your body. Fresh air and simple I mower bas gone over when they find food and sane hours will aid In keeping j ,low much you have won by deserving J your complexion clear. Hair that Is often "i sht'inpooed will fall ill soft becoming Mufriness about our face. Attend to'Vo'l will oihokt that you have won tlie . the feet in hiit water in taid to ie par hands Is to warm water to which vinegar has been added. them frequently little alum In I or to him. Get some mutual friend to Intro duce you. He is not very bashful or he would not speak to you without an Introduction, Kit her Way la Proper. Dear Miss Fairfax: I am a young I girl, and o far have been out very little :in young men. vv nen coming noma Hot water u-ed both Internally and ex-jf an entertainment the other evening .. my escort took my arm. Later a girl ".!") muni? K-iuuMiM-iiMi-u 1 irtcna told me tnat the proper w please tell me which Is the proper way? I.VEXPKKIKNCE. Either way is proper, and It la also quit correct and very common to walk together without either taking the other's arm. The main purpose In taking the arm is to afford assistance, in the way of support or guidance. Perhaps the more popular way at present is to walk without taking hold of arms, except at such places In the way where a little as sistance ensures the safety of th lady. Trat Him. Dear Miss Fairfax: I am a woman nearly Z years old and have heen keep ing company with a man four vears mv senior for about three years. This man tells me he loves me. In fact feels hurt ii I don't believe him and trust him: also 1 love him. He is very generous with his gifts and always look after mv welfare and p'easure, but has never asked me o marry him. although he is in a position t do so. shall I drop him or continue in thia way? W. A. C. A very effective way ot bringing a dila tory lover to terms Is to accept the atten tions of another man. If this doesn t bring him lo a realizing sense of his position nothing will. It is unfair to you to go on as you have been. Test him without delay. better quit coming to see me and spend ing your money upon me." The man might retort, "You flatter yourself. You are not at nil my style of woman, and t never hail the slightest idea of proposing to you." That would leave the woman in a ridiculous position, and so, no matter how honest she may desire to be, she l not at liberty to declare her sentiment to a man until he has first expressed his own. This also is true, yhe Idotle convention that rules such matters does not permit a woman to go frankly and candidly forth and select her mate. She can't pick out the man she would like to have for a husband and tell him so. All that she can do Is to sit up with her fingers crossed for luck, and hope and pray that some man that she can admire and love will come along and discover her and ask her to marry him. Now men are like a flock of sheep. Where one goes the others follow. No man has the perspicacity and courage to go to see a girl that no other man will go to see. He follows the crowd, and this Isj why the girl who has only one beau has that beau taken away from her and given to the maiden who has ninety and nine. All women know this simple fact of masculine psychology, and so that is why girls "lead" men on, and why they smirk, and smile over senile old grandpas and callow kidlets, and laugh at the dull stories of tedious bounders, flatter self complacent egotists and suffer themselves to be bored almost to extinction by weary Willies whose presence makes them want tc scream. It Is only by drawing the mulltude of Tom", Dicks and Harries about them that women stand a sporting chance of some where among the number finding the real men that they are looking for. and whom the gods may be kind enough to give them for husbands. This Is necessarily often hard on some honest fellow who Is really misled by the come-on smile of a woman who is not mean nor hesrtles.1, but who has heen forced by convention to play the game according to the rulej Mrs. Grundy has laid down. One of the chief reasons why women should be given the right to propose, and be as free to pick out their life partners as men are. Is because It would enable them to play the game of hearts fairly and sq.iarely and honorably, and not forte them to have to resort to tricks that are dark and ways that are vain, as they do now. There can never be honor between the f-rxes until there Is equality and they stand on the same platform. , - - . ........ ... ......... ... .... ' 11117 U IUIU IIII9 IMIl Illf ITIfll.!' W 1ft ft! When ou have earned your popularity ' cat men as a cure for insomnia Bathing 1 for in tu take his. Now, 1 have always 'hitid to see a girl holding onto a man s thr.a -fc.H, .v ..nllhmi I lot ttumun n.t.. ... i I ....... .tt. - ...... "" I" ' ..w.Mva ai mt mat. J ou will , ...w- .. ..w.v.s .. ,,,, alt . iiv uiiij cilllAOVUI. j In. Hon in his lading her arm. Will you tK 3 6c ANDERBILToUi UJhtruruou rWi oireel east aiojam (jiu enue,jiju; jortr WALTON H.MAK.SHALL. Manager. An Ideal Hotel with an Ideal Situation Summer Inciter i