il Ella Wheeler Wilcox Dessert $ By Nell Brinkley Copjrlnkt, 11. lnternallonit Ntwt Pri!r OS "The Journey of Life" Every Woma Should Hive, Xer Own Existence and rut Xer Own Sphere as Wistly as Bhs Know How THE BEK: OMAHA, WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 21, 1M4. j Her Ideas ot life and pleasure" and duty V By ELLA WHEELER WILCOX. Copyright,, 1914, Ijy Star Company- L.ira'3 Journey. As we speed out ot youth's sunny station The track seems to shine In tho light, 'But It suddenly, shoots over chasms Or sinks Into tunnels of night. And tho hearts that were bravo In the morning Are. filled with repining nnd fear.1? As they pause at the City of Borrow Or pass through the Valley ot Tears. But the road of this perilous journey Tho hand of the Master has made: With all Its discomforts and dangers, Wo need not bo sad or afraid. Paths leading from light into darkness, Ways plunging from gloom to despair. Wind out through the tunnels of mid night To fields that are blooming and fair. Though the rocks and the shadows . surround us, Though we catch not one gleam ot the day, Abqve us fair cities are laughing. And dipping white feet In some bay. And always, eternal, forever. Down over the hills In the West, The last final end of our journey, There lies the Great City of Rest. TIs the Grand Central point of all rail ways, All roads unite hero when they end; Tls the final resort of all tourists, All rival lines meet here and blend. All tickets, all mile. books, all passes. If stolen or begged for or bought, On whatever road or division. Will bring you at last to this spot. If you pause at the City of Trouble, Or wait In the Valley ot Tears, Be patient, the train will mqve onward And rush down the track of the years. Whatever tho place Is you seek for. Whatever your game or your quest, You shall come at the lost with rejoicing To the beautiful City of Rest. You shall store all your baggage ot wor ries, You shall feel perfect peace In this realm. You shall sail With old friends on fair waters, AVlth joy and delight at the helm. You shall wander In cool fragrant gar dens - ' With those who have loved you the ,..bcst, Arid'' the hares that wore i lost In life's Journey . Vou shall find In the City of Rest. A woman writes: "I wonder so much if I am good- enough to go to heaven when 1 pass out of this life. I so hope I am. The great longing of my heart has been for a happy home life, but I havo never had a real hoinc. Fate has been rather un kind to me In that way." If this woman Is dally and hourly doing all she can to ' mako every place u home, and to g'.vo the homo spirit to each house she occupies; It sho Is making htr own atmosphcio home like and sympa thetic to eveiy ono who comes near her, then she may rest assured she will find a home such as a he has longed for when she leaves the body: and that will be heaven. There Is no regulation heaven any more than there Is ono regulation manner of life on earth. Take the very good, simple, kindly farmer's wife, whose whole joy of life lies In preparing food for her household, and in attending tho church, and in re tiring early and rising betimes, and place her In the home ot the duchess of Marl borough, In London, and she would be very miserable, indeed. How to Make the Best Cough Remedy at Home A Family Sstpply sit Small Cost, sad Fully Guaranteed. Make a plain syrup by mixing one pint of granulated sugar and pint of warm water and stir for 2 minutes. Put 2 ounces Of pure Finer (flftv tents' worth) in a pint bottle, and fill it up with the Sugar Syrup. This gives fou a family supply of the best cough lyrup at a saving of $2. It never spoilt. Juke a teaspoonful every one, two or three hours. The effectiveness of this simple remedy is surprising. 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Wayne, Ind sJudicious use of Advertis ing Brings Big Returns are wholly different from those of tho duchess. Yet both are good women: both ore filling their sphere" hero on' earth as unselfishly and wisely as. they know how, and both will unquestionably go to hca.ven when tucy pass, on; but tholr. heavens will bo unslmllar. Yet, no doubt, they will bo less un slmllar than now, because the fanners wife has often wished for more of tlls earth's goods, wherewith to enlarge her sphere of usefulness and tho duchess has no doubt wished, for a simpler Hf.o and simpler joys; and so both havo made corresponding, changes, in the heavenly mansion not built by hands. The woman, who longs for a home and tor love as its keynote. If sho has sent out love vibrations to all the world, and envied no, woman who had more, than she here, but rejoiced, in all the blessings which have fallen to the sharo'.'of, others, sho wilt surely find her mansion wait' InK. Arid she will enjoy It artd the society, ot those she loves" until it is, time, for, her to pose- on to other regions in- tho worlds beyond,' and to reincarnate again and return to earth: where, no doubt, she will then be given tho home life in a material form. The- "fate" which sho says has been unkind to her was only her old self in past lives, where, she failed to appreciate homo life 'and domestic affection. For as wo sow we reap. Ctherwise thero would bo no Justice in the universe. A great religious teacher tells ua there nre- four Important steps In self-Improvement; the self-Improvement whiqh will enable us to build good karma for the future, (good causes, and therafore good results). Observation- of what Is going on about us, accurate observation, will enable us to gain health and longovlty and to sleep peacefully.. People who Hee, hear and understand tho dolly happenings of life accurately aro very rare. Discrimination Is another quality- to bo cultivated. We must learn to dis criminate between our needs and our desires, our wants and our necessities; between our physical tool tho body and our master mind. Tho teacher tells us this will develop the intellectual soul and give spiritual life new impetus. Devotion Is another Important factor In our growth. , To let no day pass in which' wo do not turn our thoughts reverontly to higher powers and Invisible helpers, and give thanks and love to the Creator for our blessings, and ask, tor more light- and greater opportunities for usefulness".. Then comes the fourth step persistence In. all these- things. X When wo use continuously all these four ways of self-dovelopment, we are equipped to build our heaven here on oarth and in the. world to come. Three Women and Their World Lessons By ADA PATTERSON. They are not pleasant stories I will tell you today, my readers, but I hopo they will be as good for you In the read ing as they were for mo In the watcning. Alt reached their climaxes In the recent holidays. There was tho weman who tried to kill herself. Sho was a woman In the early forties who had been pretty nnd who would still bo attractive had not her face grown so hard, her eyes to cold, her voice me tallic; all symp toms of a harden ing heart. She had never worked In her life. As a girl she had been supported too luxuriously, living beyond her father's means. As a young matron she had plunged into extravagance, alienating and nearly bankrupting her husband. As' a divorcee she had lived as a spendthrift I and in dubious ways. During the holidays she had tried to kill herself. Brought back to conscious ness she said life bored her. She promised to avoid another attempt at suicide pro vided she could find "some entertain ment." If she found nothing to amuso her she would try to shuttle off again and the next time 'she wouldn't bungle. That night she went to a tango ball, re turning' home In high spirits. In this big hurrying world, with work crying out to be done and other work crying out td be better done, with shoul ders bent by their burdens and hearts aching with their hurts, a, woman tried to die because she could not find any thing to "arausa" her. Another woman did the work of self- extermination better. The Janitor found her with a gas tube In her mouth, her face livid, her eyes staring. Five years ago the woman had been slexed with n fancy to go upon the stage. The fancy became an obsession. That she was the beloved wife of a good hus band, the mother of three bright, healthy, beautiful children, that she had a good home and many friends, weighed not at all In the scales. Un, up soared the end of the life scales in which she had placed these, and down, down, a that which had the only real weight to her, went her ambition to be come an actress. She left the home and the husband, the children and the friends, and came to New York. Of course sine he had a few thousand dollars she found an unscrupulous manager who was will ing to "star" her. Ills mental reserva tion "as long es your money lasts, you foci, ' he kept to himself unt'l later Eros and he, you know, ia that hard-working youuf," gentleman who has long ago discovered and drank from the "Well at tho World's End" where bubbles the water of Eternal Youth Is a great fellow to hold forth on tho tffaira- of Men and Maids; ho lectures; he's written books; cook books full of strange recipes; and bo's eveu dabbled in making up menus for young people, rich and poor "What to eat on Tuesday; what to eat when tho pay envelope-IB flat and hungry-looking," Just like tho magazines now-a-day, don't you know? And this is his She went on the road with her company that laughed at her behind her back. Tho audiences laughed but more openly, but tho woman would not learn the lesson In that laughter. Sho went back to New York, besieged dramatic offices for five Tabloid Tales By FRANCES lu (JARSIUE. What, Mother, Is meant by a "houso party?" I read of It often theso days. A house party, Child, Is ono where the hostess has to worry about sheets, as well as tubltfcloths., ? What, Mother,, is a compliment? It is that gentle art.,, My Child, that if used with nicety as a, handle will open any door. What, Mother MVno',' Is ambition? It is a praiseworthy hopo and desire, Child, to do great . things, Every one la well supplied In youth, but it dwindles away In time like' a cake dfsoap, so" that by the ttmo a man . 1b TO ho can't re member that he ever had any in the tub with him. x. Advice to tlie Lovelorn By BEATRICES FAIRFAX, Ask. On? of the Otbrr tJIrU, Dear Miss Fairfax: I am 19 and In love with a girl of tho tamo age. 1 do not speak to this girl, as we havo never been introduced.- I have known 'her for ovr a 'year, but Jt seems we aro never to meet. Ohce in a while when I seo her I smile at her and she smiles also. Would you Kindly aaviso me how 1 could meet her without flirting, us I know, a few girls with Whom, she Is acquainted. C. IT, M. An Introduction should be easy to se cure since you have mutual friends. Ask one to introduce.' you, I am pleased that you respect her too much to attempt to Hlrt with her. Sot If Yon Truly f.otr. Dear Miss Fairfax: I am 2i and deeply in lovo with nina eight years my senior. I am very tall and thin, and as my sweetheart is very short nnd stout, we look so ridiculous together . that our frlendfl pass remarks about us. Do you think this would affect our love? I do not think I could live without htm. E, H, U If you love each other as you should nothing your friends say will make any difference. The site of a man's brain and heart, my dear, means more than physlcul stature. It Would Or Suicidal. Dear Miss Fairfax: I am 1 and In love with a young man two years my senior He hus asked me to elope with him, as he knows h's father would object to Us msrrylng a poor girl Would It be r.ght for me to do so It , T, years and as tho holiday time, a happy tlmo to most hearts, was paying Its cheer ful visit to the metropolis, the womnn who had given everything for nothing, and who knew It at last, was crushed by the realization. "I Intend to kill myself," she -said to tho janitor, who seemed to be her only acquaintance In tho great apartment house, where neighbors live as aliens, en acting the drama of life on the other side of tho partition of but never speaking to each other when they meet in the hall. "I didn't believe she'd do it," said the janitor. Tho husband and children she deserted never speak of her, not even since the news came in a laconic tele gram which they read in silence. "While ono stands, ten thousand fall" were tho dying words of another wreck of one whom nature had designed to be a good woman, wife and mother. They havo taken her back to the home frctn which she ran away seven years ago. She had found her home town hum dtum. She wanted to see Uio garish splendors of a great city, For a brief tlmei a few months at most, she was seen on Broadway In sumptuous gowns and blazing Jewels, nut soon she drop ped out of Eight anad one who set out to find her located his unhappy quarry In a miserable room bestowod upon her In charity by the wife of a saloon keeper. She .was wearing a ragged frock and a pair of men's shoes that had been thrown Into an alley. Three women and their lesson to tho world. You have already guessed their Icesoii. The beginning of their downfall was selfishness. Its progress was in weakness, the Inability, or unwilling- news to turn luck when they found' they had taken tho wrong road. Girls en trenched in your homes, In honest work, In upright principles and thoughtf ulii'ss ot others, stay behind these kaa behind a barricade, llctter the ao-calJqd "nar row" H to than deaths such as, theirs. Old-Time Cold Cure-Drink Tea! Cot a small package of Hamburg Breast Tea, or as the German folks cal It, "Hamburger nrust Thee," at any pharmacy. Take a tablespoonful of the tea, put a cup of boiling water upon it, pour through a sieve and drink a teacup full at any time. It Is the moat effectlvo way to break a cold and cure grip, an it opens the pores, relieving congestion. Also loosens the bowels, thus breaking a cold at once. It Is inexpensive nnd entirely vege table, therefore harmless. Advertise ment pet reclpo for a great feast when Poverty slta loafing beside a young couple's hearthstone, when thoy are up to their adoring eyes In love, when thoy aro very young "Bread and cheese and kisses." Kisses for dessert! Now Love that same Eros, alias Danny Is my side partner: he sits on my couch on a wildcat skin every day of tho year and mixes Into my work; IiIb own fnco gets Into It; he tells tales out of school to glvo me Ideas of how things go with chaps and girls tho wldo world over. I like him; to I'm not cynical about him or any Jealousy on the RV WILLIAM GRAY. Actors and actresses of all grades are admittedly the most generous people In the world. Strangely enough, at tho same time, almost without exception, they are deadly jealous ot one another. The green-eyed monster Is responsible for much misery and unfairness in tho profession, and I have often marvelled at its prevalence. I have In mind the case of a star who, In singing a very tino number with chorus and lighting effects, was assisted by a young girl in the refrain. The lat ter was a light and a very graceful dancer, and she worked well up to her principal, thus contributing largely to the success of the Item. Tho star's mother was "In front" at the first performance, nnd immediately tha curtain descended she rushed to her daughter, gasping: "Oh, my dear, you must not permit it. That girl draws all attention from you, Hho's lovely and she must be suppressed. See the stage manager at onco about It," That official was called to the dressing room and heard the star's "complaint." Five minutes later an ambitious little chorus girl was sobbing bitterly at the back of the stage. She had been told her work was excellent but that In futuro she must not do her - best because her best easily overshadowed the star's ef forts. If there Is anything to choose between them T think Jealously exists more among the ladles and gentlemen In musical comedy than Is the caso with vaudeville folk. The spobbery usually starts with the management and Is slavishly copied by every one down to the chorus, I know one West End theater whom the following notice was once displayed at the stage door: "Notice Ladles of the chorus are re quested not to notice Mr, on tho street." In their turn the "show ladles" fre quently decline to talk to tho choruif "girls," and onco I was present at no end of a squabble between three of the chorus over a line that one )( ihem ial been given to speak. Each claimed It had been given to herself, and as each of the young ladles bore a striking re semblance to the others tho producer himself had a hard task to decide which of them he had originally chosen for "the part" Lady Ilolyrood and Dolores are Hi two star lady parts In that delightful musical comedy, "Florodora." There has always been troublo between tho ladles playing the two characters as to which of them should tako precedence of the other. In one touring company with which I did business relations between the nc tresses became so strained as a result of this never-ending controversy that tho traveling manager wrote a full report at the matter to the head office and asked for Instructions. thing ho bollevos in! But although with all my heart and head I try to think with Lovo and all his ttomabeca that caresses aro dessert enough somehow my fancy goes a-wajidorlng off and sallB around, and around, and straight to pumpkin pie; or English plum pudding with sauce rnado of brown sugar and butter and rum flowing over 11; or home-made apple pie with nutmeg' Inside and whipped cream outside! Kiacs for dessert make u pretty picture but wouldn't you like It bettor to havo both? Me I dol NELL BRINKLEY. A few days later a notice was affixed to the callboard stating that Dolores wns inn principal part in the musical comeuy. Tho actress playing Lady Ilolyrood Im mediately handed In her resignation. The actor-manager and tho author nro very Jealous of one another, Tho latter Is always accused by the former of giv ing too much "fat" to his other actor friends In the company, and the author Invariably thinks nnd says that his patron's acting Is on a lovel with that of an Italian organ grinder's monkey. I onco got a (tecp nt a letter from a well-known actor-manager to an equally Illustrious writer returning the MS. of a new production with comments. It read something like this: "You don't get me on early enough. I must make tho big entrance, not . So-and-so has too much fat. I don't want to be on In the sixth scene. Put there. Cut - 's pnrt. That bit of dialogue will do for me." The letter went on at great length In this strain, The author got 'the better of it, in my; opinion, when Jie'-. replied: "I .herewith return your check.- You want a mono-, Jogue not a play." There are always heaps of Jealousy In all theaters and music halls renectlng tho way everybody la billed. Seldom 1b everybody satisfied. I think it Is generally known by tho public that In all contracts thero Is a claiife which' reads: "The management will bill tho artiste In type the size and nature of which they deserve to, them selves the right to decide." Despite this,' overy week when new bllllmrs and noun paper advertisement!, matter la issued, there is an eager rush by every one to scan It, Then you hear comments llko this: "Hilled me llko a chorus girl. I won't stand it." "Classed with the pictures. am I? Well, I won't go on," "Urcat! Scott, I'm not good enough to mention' now," "She's bigger again this week, It's nice to be a friend ot tho manager." Comedians are easily tho most Jealous men in the world at pantomime time. Their first endeavor Is to appropriate thq star dressing room in the theater, irre spective of any claims the lady principals may have. When a three-cornered fight; has been fought between the manage' ment, tho ladles and themselves about the distribution of "gags," "I won't feed, him," Is an expression frequently heard rhich means that one fun provider dis tinctly declines to lend himself to work ing up n scene In order that his partner may speak In the line or lines that ulti mately get the big laughs. It is only human nature to feel cxulta tlon In "getting your own .back." My friends of both sexes are adepts at this pastime. 1 once raw a, Bweet, fur-clad creaturo go up to another in the wings at re hearsal and heard her murmur; "I hear, dear, that you aro to be my understudy Then I saw the ono spoken to wince as sho cooed back an affirmative. The un Stage derstudy was getting twico tho salary of tho principal on this occasion. Both women knew It, but the principal had an old scorn to repay, nnd BOt before the wholo company, she seized this opportun ity to put the othor "In her place once and for all." Tho musical conductor ot a theater onco "got oven" with the star, ttn ar rogant Individual, who modo life Ho man t for himself at the expense ot every cne else. It was a gula night, nnd Great things wore expected from tho singer. To overy one's surprise he failed lamentably to get his top notes and left the stage, in chilly silence. Nobody could understand It except the singer and tho orchestra. They knew that the orchestrations had b?en- trans posed half n tone higher, manlnst it un comfortable for '.ho linger right throush the melody, nnd nt tho finish an Impcs slbillty to reach tho top notes that-i.su-ally brought tho uong to a conclusion. jiy siocit or anecaote on this subject Is wtfll night InexluuttlMo. .1 liava 'writ ten enough to show that the -path ot I he successful "pro" may5 look, rose strewn, but thero-are many hlddsn thorns to dodge. In' learning to avoid turt for himself tho old stager has to trample down nil comers. 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