Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922, December 30, 1913, Page 7, Image 7
THE RUE: OMAHA, 1TKSDAY, DKCBMBER 30, 15)13. A Charming Dinner Dress and a Brocaded Wrap i TXTXAT DESCRIBED BT OLIVETTE 1 RAinfr Cecil Cunningham Tells Gi UCatliy How to Sleep Correctly Girls & Ella Wheeler Wilcox OK "OPERATIONS" By MAUDE MILLER. The extremely becoming wrap of bro- jH . In kimono style, with big broad e,lccvcf-. yJ SD i A wide bund of Ardolse satin makes the f tfL Tho wrap Is rounded both In the front ' MflRB jlS,! j and back with a sliort dmwn.nn ilrnnrrv 'l I f S?maBK" I XJ-TOOrasis 'I affect. A broad squaro collar of natural enhln I. rrl. i- I aSHT f .sJf ?f0 '7 I . ".irnno i. iuu map is iusiciivu vt 1 , ,ik1159raMML I lit the left liku tho popular sport coats Hiki-l worn so much this last season. iRBPSaHBIW wHir Try Everything Else Btfore Re sorting1 to the Knife Wot More Than On' Operation la Beore ! ZTde(t. : i t t : t : : J By ELLA WHEELER WILCOX. "t wont to tell every girl qf today who has an Imagination of any kind to lo very careful lest sho over-exercise It." says Miss Cecil Cunningham of tho "Oh, I Say" 'Musical Comedy company, 'Tcr haps this will sound struugo to those ot you Who havo always thought an Imagination nothing less than 'a gift from heaven, but 1 liavo Wdn many pretty Shis lose their lookB from nothing mora Copyilght, IMS. by Star Oompam nor loss thnn )mngnK tMnKH that had If you. sir. or mudnme, are thinking ' not occurred, nor wore ever hkoly to hap- about undergoing a surgical operation lcn. It: order to diivo away uncomfortablo "lmnglnatlon 1 will admit that It gives feelings or to euro maladies which you us all an Insight Into tho higher Ideals Tho accompanying picture on tho left shows a dinner dress that has a fetching and effective simplicity not often attained in garments uiado for such formal occasions. Two very popular tex tures are used in making it "Crale" taffeta and silk muslin. The bodice is a small bloused effect of taffeja with short sleeves finished by a band of taffeta. The yoke is made" of a band of Nattier velvet. A ribbon of "Crate" taffeta is disposed in ruching at the belt, giving a most effective finishing touch. A Louis XV bow of Nattier velvet is draped In the middle front, and is finished by one end holding up a small basket of Rococo flowers. Tho other end is draped over the hip and falls at tho back, holding up a wide band of silver laco. Under the lace bangs "Craie" silk muslin, giving the fash ionable pannier effect. Tho skirt is tightened at tho bottom by a narrow ribbon of "Craie" falllo trimmed with Rococo flowers. OLIVETTE. are confident you possess and which your surgeon sayn can only be cured by the knife. waU a bit. Try fasting for a whole dn drinking o n 1 y water; then 11 diet of barloy water for a few days. Then take a course of osteopathy, and llvo out-of-doors us much as possible and eat nourishing, simple food, After two months. perhaps. you will abandon your idea of an oper-1 atlon. Baths, external and Internal; violet and ( -ruB, ucrp ureuuiiiiK nnu rrKviur out door exercise (with tho persistant .belief that you will avoid the 'kntfe)' avlllT.do miracles for you. . Hero are some true stories Which are worth perusal by all who contemplate Lurglcal operations: A -gentleman In KnRlaud became ill through worry over his wife, who had undorgone four hospital operations, His case was diagnosed as "pernicious nnemtu," whatever that may mean. i Finally a surgeon was called and said there must be an immediate operation for duodal ulcer. This is a dangerous I malady, and the man says: 1 "I was told that the only alternative was to go on being 111 until I hhd tto ' strength left, so I submitted. The caso j having aroused great Interest, -six ddo-1 lore pui m appearance wneu ino.ppera-, tlon was performed. It got so hot that j we were afterward told by the nursoa that one of them had to spend her .time mopplns tho face of the opepitor. What em I to say as to the result of tills j operation? Finally, the doctors fct unite ! certain that 1 should not survive for J more than forty-eight hours. (The sur- j geon soma months afterward told my brother thliU , ! ' ' ! "Wp wore, beforo all, given to ..'under stand that ho was ffolng to perform a thort circuit" operation, and afterward I had been told that this had been done, but my wlfo and friends were told that they had found a duodenal (?) ulcer, and that It was as large as half a crown, but that It had hoaled Itself, undoubtedly undor the gastrla ulcer treatment of a few months earlier, hut that they had found that my appendix was "peculiar' so that It had been removed. "Imagine me lying In bed and feeling this pain at my side, and continually telling the nurses und my friends that I was sure I was going to have appen dicitis, and think what' an Idiot the doc tor was not to allow them to tell mo what they know I and meanings ot life, that without It life )vould bo hardly worth living.; but don't nvordo It, or harm will surely como of It. For Instance, every girl known how neces sary long consecutive hours of sleep aro ti beauty and good health. To lcep wo must first tclax, first tho hands and arms nnd then tho rest ot tho body, until every muscle- Is resting, and then wo must relax thu mind. Wo must forget that thcro In anything clso In the world but sleep, and almost Immediately slcop will como to claim us, Uut now take the Imaginative girl. "Bhfi goes to bed weary of body, but Ten Rules of Life n Pirst Woman Doctor By DOROTIIV DIX. To be a human being first, and a womar afterwards. To learn how to do some one thing well enough to make a living by It, so that I need never dependence. To regard loVe us the sugar on top of the cake of life, not the v ho'- substance. To srvo faithfully and well those of my own household, but not to permit myself .to become a ilava id them. To .evelop my sympathies In every direction so that I may truly be a lit tle sister to all the world. To c o n t inually i each out for resh Interests In my life, so that If one falls mo I shall not bo teft bankrupt of resources of happiness. To work always and (o reallre that It Is as much of a shame for a woman to be a parasite as It Is for a man to 3e one. To let no human being go from my presence without giving him or her a happier thought and a brighter outlook. To bear In mind continually that it is just as Important to lay up affection for ray old age as It Is to lay ui iloney. To keep my heart sweet and young. Purged of the bitterness and narrowness OT nIH nv nnn ,n tn trmw ,.11 rrm 1 .. i und bcautlfullv By REV. THOMAS B. GREGORY. It was sixty-four years ago, December I?, 1819, that Elizabeth Blackwell, a young Englishwoman who had made America her home, resolved that she would enter college with a view ot studying medicine nnd surgery. In endeavoring to carry out her reso lution Miss HlacK well met with hor c u I ean difficulties. She was told in emphatic language by her best friends (hat It- was highly Improper for a woman to study medicine, and that no decent woman I would think of be coming a medical , practitioner. As for a lady practlclnu surgery, that was absolutely out of the question. In addition to all this was the very much more serious obstacle of prejudice among the medical school people. Where would she find a medical college that would admit a woman to Its lecture rooms and laboratories? The young woman applied to more than a 'dozen of thu leading medical schools of the coun try, and was Invariably turned down. They had no use for her. They greeted ner appeal with the most derisive laugh ter Finally, however, she received word from a small college In Geneva, X. V., announcing that her application had been 'avorably considered, and that she would bo admitted as a student whenever ahi should present herself. The students treated Miss Blackwell with kindness and respect, but the .vomen of Genoa were "shocked." They "stared at her as though she had been a , curious animal," und declared she hub "either a bad woman, whose designs would gradually becomo evident, or that, being crazy, an outbreak of Insanity would soon manifest Itself." The Conqueror By CONSTANCE CLARKE. We watched by tho side or a tired soul lu' the darkest hour of night; And we prayed that a respite, swift and sure, Might come with the morning's light. And the throbbing black of the darkest hour Was cut by a struggling breath J And Life seemed cruel as it lingered there, When we prayed for the touch of Death. And Death reached low with his kindly hand For the Life that must quickly cease; And, Ured, we bowed at his chilly feet And prayed for a swift releaso. Then dawn burst forth In a flame of rose, That over the pillow crept; And Death drew back with the shades of night; ''or behold, tho sufferer slept 1 - i from 1eei Miss Cecil Cunningham. with a mind alert and wide-awake. She "To cut a long story short, I did get pians the uong ot tho ext dfty, ho re. sufficiently well to go away, but when members with a start a telcphono mes- "Tho person who goU tho moat benefit from sleep never dreams," snyn MIsh Cunningham. "Tho imaginative girl goes to bod weary of body, but alert in mind. Slio tosses from sido to side, and finally, when ho does ftlecp, drcnins." the heart action, and. tnakos the breath Irregular. And when wo don't breathe properly wo havo hollow chests and sal low skin. I remomber how I disliked having my gowns cut to show my neck and Bhouldors when I first went on the stage, but naw I realize that it la simply roveallng the results of a good breathing apparatus, and I am proud to bo ablo to show whut I havo dono for myself. "Exercising tho vocal chords Is splen did for developing1 tho neck and shoulders never mind about yoi)r voice peoplo are not expecting to' find In you a second Tctrazzlm Just because you have 'discov ered a way to round out tho ugly hol lows In your neck nnd to regulate your entire breathing apparatus, "If you can control your Imagination, I can think of no more delightful thing to possess. It wilt help to while away many I got home again I was soon as til as sage that she has forgotten to deliver to ' gets the most benefit from sleep never a long, dreary hour; but bo careful, It Is ever. This time I found myself under some member of thn family, sho decides (It cuius. A counlo of nlnhtu like this, and , ho ant to control vou. and when von hv another doctor and he naturally wanted to have a gown mode over, and wonders the .girl's nerves will be nil on edge, she to know all about the first Illness. Then whether or not fur trimming would bo j will be half Blck, and all becapso of an a cool Iotter came from the surgeon say-! appropriate. And every minute sho Is Ins when he operated he found that thoro 1 getting wider and wider a'wako. Bhe was a small wrinkle In the peritoneum, tosses restlessly from aide to side, nnd over-exercised- imagination. "Imagination has everything to do with lost tho upper hand, to lead you Into paths whero your excitement holds sway, and whore your nerves are liable to play all sorts of tricks on ypu. J hope a great one's proper breathing, and I will tell many or you will recotrnlze thn truth in which nt that time he attributed to a ' finally whon sho does fall asleep her rest you why. Imagining any kind of an ex these few suggestions and benefit hv duodenal ulcer, but he now thought that . Is filled with dreams. The person who porience piays on the nerves, stimulates them." It had no significance! I was aghast, I and could only say what a lot of liars they were. "The whole thing, you can see, was a plot. Firstly, I think that my case so Interested them that they could not re sist the temptation to open me up and have a look to satisfy their curiosity, end then when It was done they decided that I would not survive It, to that all they had to do was to fatlsfy tho anxiety and curiosity of my friends, so they made up these lies and persuaded my wife that it was best for mo not to know the truth (which I am afraid I never shall), but I do know that I required no sur gical treatmont at all, and that they lied when they made up the utccr-tho-slze-of-a-half-crown story. "Why my appendix was taken away for being 'peculiar' I don't know. Any way, I am rather glad It was, because It would havo been an excuse for Another operation If It hadn't been, when I was 111 again. "This time another consultant visited me, who advised arsenic Injections and a diet of sour milk only, and tn ten weeks I was about, and since havo been keep ing fairly 'well. "What was and stilt perhaps Is the matter with me I don't know, but the second specialist said It was pernicious anemia. T only wish I had tho money that I wasted owing to tho curiosity of those Infernal surgeons, to 'say nothing of all the pain I suffered." I thought It was funny they never seemed to think It was grand to save any one from the agony of such a fear ful operation as the one they wanted me to have. A lady who was not so III as I was underwent It, nnd' died three months afterward.'' Another says; "My sister has Just had an operation, and the surgeon found a perfectly healthy organ after ho re moved It, She will probably be an In valid for life." The range of vivisection has made surgeons more rabid to operate upon human beings. Doctors and nurses all become more or less under the Influence of this modern medical mania, nnd ex citement and love of experimentation take possession of their minds to thu exclusion of human sympathy. Because wonderful operations arc per formed and lives saved and health re stored by the skilled use of the knlfu (and surgeons crowned with wealth and fame) the doslro to operate has becomo a menace to motherhood and o life It self. There aro malignant growths which only tho knife can cure (and usually these operations oven have to be re peated, and qulto frequently the patient dies within a few months after tho sec ond one). But there are numerous growths which yield absolutely to tho X and violet ray treatment, and slmplo blood remedies, and tho building up of tho bodily strength aid vitality. Tho writer Intimately knows a lady who suffered from two Internal growths for a period of years; nnd they vanished after a time through treatment of nour ishing food, baths, massage, and a course In a school of physical culture. Tabloid Tales By FRANCES L. GARSIDE. I see tho expression, mother dear, "harbinger o( spring" What Is the har binger of sprlnd? Tho poetical answer, my child, Is tho From the same country 'comes thia ' violet, the- first flower to tell that j-prlne letter from a lady, She says; "I was told when I was bothering with a critical period that I would dlo unless I had a major operation. At last I found a human doctor who attended me for somo time, and am thankful to say that, as regards that matter, I am perfectly sound now In fact, I am better than for fifteen years back, all without such u, fearful operation, which I feel certain would have killed me In the weak condi tion I was In at the time. You see I got better without the agony ot an operation. "I think a great many doctors and nurses have too little patience and per severance to try alleviating the suffer ing first and resort to the knlfo Immed iately, 80 many of tho trained nurses I had did not take much Interest In my case because It was not an operation, and told me they hoped I would soon have done with them, as they liked 'a grand case' It was worth talking about 1 Is coming, but a more correct definition Is the tornado. Do you believe, mother, that woman will even be fitted for every calling tho men now fill? Heavens, no, child. Think of a woman surgeon, will you? and then reflect whut It would mean to fear, before the chloro form is passed, that you may be mended with a halrplu, We have much to be grateful for, my child. What Is hospitality, mother? It Is that virtue we write poetry about and extol, and thought of which leads us to say, when one asks us If wo have guests. "No, thank goodness." What Is meant, mother, by calling a, man a "bird?" It means, little one, that he flies high, and the bird Is slandered every time the word Is used. In what way mother dear? The man who Is called u "bird, niv child, Is seldom a credit to his family. The bird, little one, leaves his home nest, builds a nest of his own, and never takes his family back on long kin visits, or for his father to gupport. The man really like the birds Is absorbed In taking care of his family and Is never called a bird, What, mother. Is predestination? It Is that form of religious belief that leads us to know our neighbors will be damnrd and we will be saved. It is most comforting, my daughter, to believe In predestination. Why, mother, does every one crowa around the brldo and groom In such hastn to congratulate them? Because, my child. It Is too late to congratulate them after they have been married long enough to realize what they have dono. What, mother, Is meant by "Matches 840 made In heaven?" It Is an attempt, little one, of thoae who marry to lay the hlamo on High. Matches are really mado at a bargain naln without tho privilege of taking the goods to the light Ten yearn have passed since they dis appeared and tho lady Is In perfect health. A woman who found a small growth of a similar nature was advised to have it removed, and went into a famous hos. Pltal for that purpose. She and her hus band were assured that It would be a most simple matter. Yet the physicians performed a major operation on this woman, without consultlnff her hus band, and she died the third day after, ward. The physician now admits that similar growths have been known to be come absorbed and vanish without treatment. Yet this woninn was killed, by an un necessary operation, and the husband is unublo to obtain any reparation because the phvslclans belong to' a regular school and the hospltul U a famous one in Pennsylvania. The woman who was killed was In the prlmo of life and had never suffered any pain from this slight growth, but was advised to have It re moved before It made her any trouble. With such cases ns these occurring continually all about us. Is It not time that women called good common sense to their command, when suffering from maladies peculiar to their sex; and be fore they put themselves In the hands of surgeons that they should decide to use all of nature's simple methods first? And then turn to the light and It bneflclcnt rnys and to the sensible sane treatment of the spine through osteopathv; and with all these that they should learn tho vast power which lies In their own minds? Scores of women' turn to the hospital operation as a means of diversion! They are disillusioned with life In some way: they are lacking an object, an aim, 11 purpose: and through worry and self centered hablte of thought, they grow 111; soon the thought of an operation pre sents Itself as an escape from monotonv Afterward, It Is thflr delight to talk r-f what they have passed through, But frequently "afterward" comes 00 nnother plane; for tho percentage ot women who die within two years after an operation would astonish us were wo to know the statistics, Not more than one operation lu .1 score In needed. Be sure your case Is the exception be foro tilt-) add ono more to the foolish women who rush upon the surgeon's knlfo.