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A Magnificent Fur Coat
Which Can Be Imitated in Plush at Extraordinary
Low Cost
The Foolish Virgin tf By Nell Brinkly
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BY, DOROTHY JPrSK,
THE BEE: OMAHA, TUESDAY, OCTOBER 7, 1913.
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Here is a" won-'
derful evening "
coatin soft
gray .chin- .... -
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For .the v
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womraa to whom
a! few hun-'
dreds of dol
lars are "no
object" it, is a,
delightful, pos
sibility. However, it
cWTje copied
in gray plush,
in which it is
very effective
and about one
.tgentieth as
expensive.
A wonderful
H-By BEATRICE r FAIUFAX.
'put upon It I have loved
f Three whole ways, together;
And. am live to love three more,
Of "It proves fair weathers,"
wjtn woman, love is an event; with
manj.it Is an occurence. There are many
proofs that men love more 'lightly, more
frequently, more critically, moro selfishly
than," women.
"NoHe1 of it," says Cupid, displaying
his fttock of man's love, "Is as good and
pure!, and faithful and unselfish as- the
loveof a woman, and there Is dlslllu
slon'lt store for the girl who expects It."
As; proof that men love lightly: Some
.whefe'there are four Kjrls In love With
the Same man. This is the way he writes
about) it:
"I am in love with four girls, and.tfiey
are Irvlove with me. One.is a blonde,, who
talkaAnother has light brpwn hair atid
cooks 'One Is dark-haired and is a musi
cian,, and the foiirth' is a brunette and
dancec- Which of the four would be the
most economical one for me to marry?
A stance question from one who com
mits the extravagance of thinking he
loves 'four girls at once. There can be
no watte of bread and butter after mar
riage' more inexcusable than"thls waste
of emollon before.
Doubtless each one of these four girls
thinks she is the one-love-for-llfe in this
man's'vheart. For his part he will not
remember their names six months. He Is
loving, like a man. They are loving as a
woman does.
Advfc to Buch an extravagantly emo
tional 'creature Is wasted,' for the reason
that ier has forgotten ere now that he
askeI-lt. If he remembered and accepted
It, hlajlove for the. girl suggested as the
most economical one to marry," would
not tgurvlve the route from the engage-
GirJs!"t)on'tash
i'Hair With.:Soap
Soap dries your scalp, causing dan
druff, .then hair falls out-
- Try this next time.
After washing your 'hair '"with -soap"
always, jiiply .a little. Danderine to the
scalp to Invigorate the hair and prevent
dryness. JJetter still, " use soap, spar
ingly as, possible, and Instead have a
"Danderine Ha)'r Cleanse," Just moisten
a cloth" with. DandeHne and draw it
carefully through your hair, taking one
strand 'at a time. This will remove dust,
dirt anVexcesal've oil. In a few moments
you will be -amazed, yqur hair , will not
only,te clean, but It will be wavy, fluffy
and abundant, and possess an Infcbrnpar
able softness and luster.
Besfdes-eleanslng and beautifying the
hair, one Application of Daoderlne d
solves every 'partlcje of dandruff; stlmu--laUa
the. scalp, stopping Itching and fall
ing bale. Dan Serine is to the hair what
fresh snowers of rain and sunshine are
to vegetation. It goes right to the roots,
invigorates and strengthens them. Its
exhilarating and life-producing "properties
cause the hair to grow long, strong and
beautiful.
Men Ladles' Tou can surely have
lots of charming hair Get a S cent
bottle- of Knowlton's Dandeiine from any
drug store or toilet counter and try it.
i; &v Loe of a. Mailt .
-r
The straight
shape falls to
the bottom of
the gown, and
crsses over
deeply in front
The long
sleovos are
half kimono.
The large col
lar is a square
cut sailor af
fair that con
tinues in two
long points at
the front.
OLIVETTE. ,
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1 :m
Creation.
jnent to the altar. He- would hot take
advice, so why give. It for not one of
these girls is the girl for him. The man
who loves mastorfully Is the man who will
have to bo sheltered Inside the home after
marriage, while his wife, stands outsldw
and keep's the wolves away, and not one
of these' girls seems to be on the salaried
basis that matrimony with him demands.
A verr much WorTled girl tells of an
other variety of man's love, She and her
sweetheart have been In love with each
other two years, and the only time he
ever glveB her Is Sunday, afternoon and
evening, pleading in excuse that the ride
to her (homo, which requires an hour, Is
too long. He is faithful, reliable and hon
orable; this Is his only fault Shall she
give him up?
By no means! That would mean to lota
him, and I don't want any girl to lose
a man's heart when It Is both sound and
whole. Mixed with his love there Is a
grain of laziness and several grains of
possessive selfishness, which means that
he feels so secure of her affection her
doesn't think any effort Is needed to re
tain It. Nagging and entreaties only con
firm such a man In his belief that ex
ertion Is unnecessary, and this little wor
ried girl must try diplomacy.
Don't ask him to increase the number
of his calls. Never mention the subject,
again, but. occasionally tell him in the
most Innocent way of the gentleman who
cauea aunng the week. He will not come
In response to entreaties, but he will
come oftencr to inquire Into your happi
ness. That is the way a man loves.
Sophia .-has been keoplng steady com
pany for six months' with a man of good
habits, of fine moral :haracter, and who
calls sometimes four evening a week.
But his time la all he spends on her.
When not calling on her, he Is going to
the theater, or other places of amusement
all by himself. He tells her he loves her,
but so- far he haan't shown prodf In the
lr!ce of a flower or a gum drop.
With the lamentations of wives of pen
urious men ringing in .my ears, I can
can only urge, and almost command,
Sophia to refuse to see this man again.
He loves In the way many men love, and
It Is the variety that means-the -greatest
humiliation and privation for Its object.
Another girls writes:
"I am twenty, very attractive to the
opposite sex, and this worries me be
cause so man men propose to me. One
of these men Is- now threatening to kill
himself unless I reciprocate his affec
tions. What shall I do to prevent the
tragedy?"
Refuse him. of course. He wll not kill
himself, and if he did he would be doing
you a greater kindness than it ie com
pelled you, under such threat's, to marry
him. As for .your misfortune In being so
attractive, don't worry, tittle one, that
Is an affliction that time will soon beaL
; Another little girl walla that he. lover
i,lndlffer"nt to: her before folks. She
doesn't know that It is good sense to
confine demonstrations of affection to
moments when they are alone. She says
he Is good, kind, reliable, and her mother
approves. With so much in his favor, I
fiope she will forget his 'fault. It' U dan-
igerous to make too such of a little flaw
"None of It," sas Cupid, displaying hi
'stock' of man's lore, "is as good and pure
'and unselfish as the love of a woman.
I and there is djslllusjpn in store (or the
Iglrl who experts It '
She deliberately blinds one lovely
eye on the side where Love sits in
tho balance, hardens her tender heart
against the panting of hla golden head
upon her breast, and sees only the
glitter of that which clinks in the
swollen bag on the other measure!
Why Married People Lie to Each Other
2&
By DOROTHY DIX
Not long ago a wealthy western woman
was heavily fined by the customs au
thorities for falsifying her statement
about the value of a dress she had bought
in Paris. Upon In
vestigation the col
I e c tor announced
that he was con
vinced that the
reason the lady
made a false re
port of what sho
paid for the frock
was not because
she desired to de
fraud the govern
ment, but because
she was afraid to
tell her husband
the truth about
what the garment
had cost.
About the same
time a man In
Tonkera appeared
at home early one
morning with a
black eye and the most frightful tale of
how he had been waylaid By robbers and
almost murdered, and left for dead by
the' wayside, and of how he had crawled
home as soon a be recovered conscious
ness. The police Immediately began search
for the footpads, and a they began to
get "warm," as the children say In play
ing hide and seek, the gentleman con
fessed that there had been no assault
madfc upon him, but that he had tarried
downtown too long and looked too often
upon the beer as It foameth, and had
fallen against a fence In trying to find
his own domicile, and. that he bad con
cocted his cute UttU He about the as
sassins because he was afraid to go
home and ttll his wife the unvarnished
truth.
Thus do we see how fear of the part
ners of our bosoms makes liars of us all.
Probably there Is no other place on
earth where strict veracity Is at as much
of a discount as It is in the family cir
cle, where universal experience proves
that, however admirable it may be as a
theory, it Is a boomerang In practise
probably no man and no woman ever
Sometimes she ties the blindfold,
lifting her white arms about her own
evaa.
Sometimes somo ambitious relative,
singing .all the while a little song
about using one's head and not the
heart, smothering her robclllous
They Won't Tolerate the Truth
Rather Have Peace Even If
-j-
tries telling tho exact truth to his wife
or her husband, but once. That once Is
sufficient to point the moral, Let it not
be forgotten that the champion liars of
history and tradition, Ananias and (top
phlrn, were a married couple,, who had
doubtlesB acquired dexterity In putting
across plausible fibs in dealing w(th.eooh
other, '
Now, most married people, while recog
nizing the Impossibility of maintaining
the character of Truthful James and
Veracious. Sally, and still keeping up
friendly relations, have regTctted this
liecesslty. More: They have been troubled
In their consciences about the matter,
for they were not by nature liars and
would gladly have dallied with the truth
if they could.
To these unhappy tarradlddlers there Is
balm in Ollead by the decision that has
Jqst been handed down by Judge George
L. Phillips of Cleveland, O., who gives It
as his Judicial opinion that when a little
lie will preserve the domestic -calm, tho
husband should tell It bravely and well,
and In a manner to carry conviction.
Indeed, Judge Phillips a Daniel, a s;c
ond Daniel, I say, , come to Judgment
holds that a man Is actually reprehen
sible If he withholds the falsehood from
hts wife iiist would have prevented a
family squabble, in commenting on the
evidence In a divorce case, Judge Phillips
opined:
"A little diplomacy, and there would
have been no trouble In this family, A
wife -objects to a husband atending lodge
meetings. Why tell her about It? What
she doesn't know won't hurt her,"
Assuredly not. And lt' perfectly won
derful how many astute married people,
with a proper respect for .their own peace
and comfort, have anticipated Judge Phil
lips' decision, and Instead of telling their
respective husbands and wives the truth
that woujd raise' a row have tqld the lit
tle He 'that Insured the dave of peace still
roosting on the roof pole.
Mr. mth' Is" perfectly aware that hts
beloved Maria will deliver a curtain teo
ture that will be Interminable if ho tells
her that he stayed downstairs1 at nlghr
to play poker with .some old crony, but
she will think that he d'd no moro thtfn
l.U duty If he remained away from his
own fireside to toil to make more money
"nays," knots the oloth over the eye
of her heart so she is blind to that
side.
"Foollth Virgin," the living gold of
Love's head Is a sweotor thing to
hug to your brcasC than tho cold gold
In the swollen bag.
It Means Quarrels, and They'd
They Have to Fib to That End
for her to spend. Very well, It's a clnoh
what Mr. Smith Is going to tell Maria
about why he wasn't homo for dinner.
Mrs. Smith knows by experience the
storm that will break over her head If
sho admits that she paid $25 for her new
hat. Therefore she sweetly remarks to
Mr. Smith, that oh, dear, she's nearly
ueua; she's just been running all over
town trying to find a hat thut looked llko
anything and that wouldn't cost but J12,
but, thank goodness, she found one In a,
shop on Eighth avenuo that looks as If It
had come from Fifth avenue, and she
didn't have to pay but 10 for It. Suoh a
bargain!
And Mr. Smith remark that It looks
good to him, and he's glad he's married
to a woman who knows tho value of
money and doesn't fool It way as othor
women do. And Mrs. Smith kisses him,
and has the difference between what sho
pays for the hat a,nd what sho says she
paid for the hat charged up on lh
grocery book and the butcher hook, and
deep peace reigns over Kurope, Asia,
Polynesia and the Smith family.
Such experiences are not confined to
the Smith family. They are dally enacted
In every household In the land, and tho
fault Is not with the liar, but with the
tyrant that makes the liar. No man but
would like to be frank with his wife. No
woman but would Jlke to be open and
above board with her husband, but the
price of veraolty ic a continual row, and
wa all prefer poace even If we have to
get It by subterfuge.
The truth Is, we are all afraid of our
husbands and wives, and fear breeds
llnrs. A woman makes her husband lie
to heriecause she won'th stand for thb
truthT'X man puts a premium ou his
wife deceiving him because he won't
stand for tho truth from her, and so It
goes, and the biggest whopper that any
man or woman ever tells Is wlien they
say to the partners of their bosoms: "C
always tell .you the truth about every
thing." Of course, It's better to fib than to be
divorced, but most people have felt that
the domastlo lie was a degradation, and
three will be cheered and comforted by
Judge Phillips' decision that surh lies
are not only admissible, but a conjugal
duty.
Tho muln dish tho pleco do resistance, as tho French say In tho great ma
jority of homes Is husband, either served Plain, or with w wiuce dluble, yet, un
fortunately, tho great majority of women never lenrn how to prcpnro this stapla
article of diet so that it cither Hgreos with them or Is palatable to their tastes.
To properly preserve a husband begin by selecting your husband with great
care. Do not pick out ono that Is too young, for It will be callow and flavor
less, and It will eoon pall upon your palate. Besides It requires too much watch
ing to mako It worth tho trouble of preserving. Neither choose ono that is too
old. for It will bo tough and cross-Brained and soured by age.
But ch'ooso'a husband- of medium ane. not too young and not too old, and pay
moro attention to whether" It s, sound and sweet, and ripe, nnd mellow and tender
than .you do to. its looks. Be careful to sco that tho husband you pick out has
not a rotten heart, and is not either Utrt arid acid or too mushy, for neither of
these specimens can bo successfully preserved for homo consumption. The only
thing that can bo dono 'with them Is to pickle them lit alcohol.
Having selected your hband, carry It homo without slinking It, and keep It
under lock and key. MUoh depends upon your carefulness In this respect, for.
alnsl many of our dearest lady frlmds havo kleptomaniac tendenclds and n
sweet tooth, and when they see a" real
sugar plum of n husband that has
boon .loft lying unguarded around tho
house thoy nro sometimes tempted to
strut it.
Qood housekeepers aro dlvldod as to
whether husbands should bo skinned
or not before preserving. Porno hold
that tho first thing to do with a hus
band In to nel off IU bank roll, con
tending that It la easier to keep It
that -way, -whlln others argue that sep
arating a husband from Its small '
chango Is all that Is necessary, nnd
that If you remove nil of Its long
green from It It Is apt to sour on you
nnd ferment. , . ,
As both processes aro successful, It
seems to bo a matter of Individual
skill with tho housewife, so tho young
wlfo may take her choice of methods.
Tho husband is now ready for tho
last process of preserving. Tho old
way, In vogue In our mother's times,
was,to.a!t It down In brine. This
was dona by a housowlfo keeping on
tap a largo supply of tear which bIiq
poured over her husband morning,
noon and night until ho was ub sticky
and salt as a keg of codfish.
This means of keoplng a husband,
did not provo satisfactory, however, and
tho modern scientific! woman preserves her husband In sugar Instead of salt.
To' do thin make a syrup of hpmo comforts consisting of 305 good dinners a year,
a clean and cheerful home, with a wlfo who lav a ministering angel in It; flavor
this mlxturo with enough Independence to keep a mnn Ktiesijng bushels of lovo,
a dash of deviltry, entertaining convolution tb tasto, a liberal supply of laughter,
and a practically unlimited amount of Jollying nnd flattering. . , '
Steep tho husband In this mlxturo. and keop It stmmerlng.ron tho hearthstone,
and you will have no trouble. In. turning out un article of tho preserved husband
that would- tako a prize at any country fair and bo easily alablo at a Woman's
exchange. , , ' ' i
N. B. Tho success In preserving, a husband lies In making the domcstjo sauce
so sweet nnd strong that tho kind mado away from homo wllliscem'-veak and.'
flavorless beside It. This reclpo for preserving husbands.-M becwtrlcd by our
experts, nnd It Is guatanteed to work; Follow It and you puhnot fall..'' '
States-General of Louis XIII
By IU3V. THOMAS B. GltEGOItY.
It wna 203 years ago. September 37, 1614,
that the statos-general of Louis XIII met
at Paris. After cursing one another
most bitterly for a few days tho orders
adiourncd without
doing anything at
all and there was
not another meet
ing of the utatcu-
rweaartwoy t helftl76
general for 175
years.
For 175 years four
hlngB, IxjuIs XIII,
Louis XIV. Louis
XV and Louis XVI,
had their own sweet
way with the peo
ple of France, with
n o n o to molest
... mnVn ilium afraid and then
came that other states-general, of 1783,
of which all the world has hoard times
without number.
For a. century and threo quarters thoso
four men, aided by their respective minis
ters, did what they pleased to and with
tho twenty-five millions of Frenchracttf
and then, suddenly as the bolt from tho
storm cloud, somothlng broke loose and
., wi-nncra of aces were washed out In
such a torrent of blood as had not been
lnrn the' days of Marius anu yn.
w,ii klnes is a- cood hand, but there.
Is a hand that will beat even four kings,
and that hand was held by the people,
when, In tho shape of tholr reprcsonta-
Advice to the Lovelorn
By BEATIUCK FAIIUWX
Thut Was Your ll-nsure.
Dear Miss Fairfax: I am 19 and I was
Introduced to a young man who seemed
to take some Intoreit In mo. While bid
ding each other good nlsht, ho asked mo
If I hud anything elso to say, and I an
swered "No."
iirill ..n nl.aaa nrivlun mr whether It
was proper of me to ask him to coll, or
was it his place to ask nrt
If you enjoyed his company, it was
your privilege to Invite him to call again.
Perhaps that was what ho was waiting
for when he asked you If you had any
thing elso to say. The poor fellow was
too bashful to ask for the privilege of
calling.
Bite is nitritt.
Dear Miss Fairfax: Having kept com
pany with a girl for the last five months,
und really loving her and knowing that
my lovo Is reciprocated, I asked her to
give mo a good night kiss, whloh she ro
fued to do. , E. F.
You are not engaged, and though
mutually attracted, have no right to ask
for a kiss.
I am qulto sure that down in your
heart you respect her more because aho
refused
i-l
IK
11
tlves, thoy,,brpko awav ,frim tho Bt&tcs
general of 17891 retlr;( 'to'', the farn,ous
tennis court, declared .themselves the
"National Assembly,"' and swore by tJio
eternal that; they .wouid,,novor eeparnte
until tho "Constitution of the Kingdom
had been established And" confirmed oh
solid foundations,"..
It was a terrible time that they had in
"confirming and establishing" things, u.
time the horror' of, whloh still haunts
the worlds memory, -but the work was at
last thoroughly dono and today there is
nowheru on earth a freer, happier land
than France. , .
It Is a splendid Instance of good cottllhff
out of c'll. Possibly It was Just as nvelj
that tho four Id HKs 'woru. given that hun
dred and Bovchtv-f Iva-year rule without
anybody to bother the'm, Without realiz
ing It, thoy wero opening tho people'
eyes, arousing tl'pir senfiV of" 'vnJng,
qulckiirilhg 'their lotiff-cowcd 'resolution
and so fitting them" for tho great -work-
that wus to be laid out for them -in 17R3-D3
work that was to freo Franco from
despotic rule, and, indirectly, inaugurate
the dmocraoy which -Is eventually to
make every people frCe.
Men Welcome .
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