13 i X L i The .j? r Ma p)a B Nc THE BEE: OMAHA, "WEDNESDAY, SEPrEMBER 24, , 1913. afjflsysp''asassati ElLgc'Wheeler' Wilcox ON- Self -Esteem People Resent Attitude of , Jir Am Holier Than '': Thou." We Should Be Patient and Condone ' Short-Comings of Oth- era, as None of Us Is ; Perfect. By ELLA WHEKLlitt WILCOX CQpyrlSht, IMS, by Star Company, -AJjoung man 'who prides himself upon hltffsOQd habits, and who tries to Hvo up to"theldeala implanted In his mind by a good pother, la made very unhappy by thtgniailca of his enemies, lie says; A&ho reason I write Is, I suffer not from. weapons, but 'frm tongues of my 'adversaries, who; seek' only to drag1 me down to degradation with He'- -which I oan n rft, ,un del-stand. Myi'naturo Is mora lllo a woman's; by that I mean, more refined than a man's nature usually is," No lies of our enemies can harm us t we pass on In the path of truth and pay. rib .attention, further than a calm denJaTof misstatements. We'iare Judges by our lives, and ae tlnii's" fA the long run, not by the gossip oCour detractors. , The only human-be'lne I recollect who attained maturity without being Ued about? and having: enemies' was a blind idiot. "r ' : This, .young man" quoted above quite possibly la to self-centered. He 'is- continually" thinking: how refined andfgood o is, and how much better he is than lil? associates. f hl. state of mind naturally attracts criticism. - . 'WHeirauy pne assumes an1 . "I-am-hollpr.thanthou" attitude toward his feljatrfen, ho' is certain to be a target forUles- . ! Pjiojpa" "resent that attitude more than enyJher. altjpdneas, real worth, real, mbr allsK'jto ft wayaj accompanied bya. sort of nfle?umllty;j a manner which in vteVpo'niaence;1a deportment which car ries wlth It sympathy and understanding. Unless you feel near to your fellow men; unless you are conscious of their kinship, no matter how erring they may be i junless your thoughtIs one. of pity rateicha condemnatlonN6V thelrfolI-J '"ffiffvy.QU wovht really so good, aftefc'sll not really- so much, better than theyyiwJlh,V'aU' their "Wi)8- For? Jyou. have tho.sjn.of self-conceit, of seTjSatTsfactlon "e.t Jwoharitableneas, of laojctof human syppfUhy. And you f org&th&t you have not their inheritance and' -environment. ' ' The .humjtn being who puts on airs for any reason Is 'a pitiable creature. Tfie very 'beat of mortals Is still full of faults.1 The-very brightest is dull pr weak or lncoffip(4,'"lriif6me respects". The' mDst.su'cfcessful in Ih'o arts or'pro feajtforis o'Flrades are 'pigmies, put beside fnen arid women who hn,Vo lived in other eras. -i : There is nothing which w.o can with anyjeason pride ourselves upon having done V-been-to the extent of holding our headsVabove'buc "felkiws. Whatever our achVeveme'nts, we need" to feel humility in the presence rot. the "great all-mighty Creator of the universe, We-"heed- to walk softly and speak klndlyTand-be patient and charitable and sympathetic and helpful; and we need to talk munh of the good qualities of others and little of our orf "' This young man. quite possibly, brought alt his troubles on himself by trying to I Impress upon his associates how very, much more moral and refined, and dell cate be is than they. !e needs to develop- some robust quali ties. ile heed to turn his thoughts out to ward his fellows, and not in upon his oVn good self so continually. JLeUhlm do good to those who despite fully Use him, and speak pityingly of those who He about him, even If h keeps away from their society. And Jet him forget all his troubles, which are mainly imaginary. No. lasting or serious harm can come to anyone who fills his mind with good thoughts, his mouth with good words and his, life with good actions, 1 ' A Business Girl Copyright, 1913, National Nowa Sorvlce. By Nell 3rinkly '. ,'Ppre In niy Inky fist I hold a letter on severe, businesslike paper frpmone:if;ths valiant army of girls who do battle In New York town ehoulder to shbu.de: with the men. . ..It's rather different from the one 7i k$ldLlnth8,!oth hand an odorous little gray noto, lined with dell- 'cate Uwue. aa .tliLn as tulle ahd breathing Sandal seed "when .1 rlppod It " " qjen'.'" The'jb'rie'Is plain and square and typed, smelling of Just clean air, 'the vrys1gB and symbol of the trim, black-and-white, sane and cleanly sort of brainy girl itcame from. The other is long and nar row, and faintly scented awfully feminine jaaaklng one see the ease . Jul, lacy,, charming, luxury-lapped girl It came from. One was proba , bly rapped out ,oa the .typewriter at 8S a. m.; the: other was scrawled Jaed an a silken Jmes at 30:20. ,m, -with her chocolate toy Hps iljctlahBd bsalde Jhm. Oils girl had Just covered a mile, more or Jen, of city gtretitg oh a. -stout -pair al yvmyy. Tto sttMsr jssttl lam&tm covered the space of- tZlYKl carpet Mtvem lies! am& -wbtimw ti, a yaie of oriental "mules." ffif'Vai e!e$si larnr. Owa lima eJi-eil I kh get in here: The busy tet& isx 'tto- Wm xatd -fka Sasry own Jem the mules are-Jmst-alike tho bMT tmea Jsst am fimSz ami urMtiss istal "XSimr ble as ever the. others axel The square, white XeUSr nbra mfmximmwij asuE wwaB.atfj "Make, If you please, oara. aeC.-.iae ,'ynlssma arsatsB C Ulmrs ami plenty, but ijott the plain haslnati.'zl! Tim ara a Imt ef . 70 know." . , v'T The narrow, gray letter mjv. "Taaic, 1 " 7sm jlcaiw, jt taxsy'fttmtxri who finds life; a, thing of reey dswB ad whs aoUBa wliAaa ahst had A JOB! There are a lot of 'tig, yon iuewi1' . - Here they are. iBoth together! NELL BIUNKiirr. sP- ' T Xi7 J l D! T..M!l.M He Is the 'Comet Catcher" of the Universe Were WOnCieifS OI tile rianel JUpiter It Not for the Sun, Earth Would Go Around Jupiter Riva s Her Daughter m Youthful Beauty CFrom Social Kegister) a well-known society matron whose youthful beauty la so well preserved that IheU regarded as her daughter's rival fn this respect-though she does not po m such-attributes her girlish complex- fSn chiefly to tillnga 8ne 5ay,! "l am convinced that creams, by over, imSc the skin and pores, tend to age Iht comorRMercoW w has lust IS! nnSoalte effect, it Jceeps the pores li'An Poerm1ttlng them to breathe, and cl;.rSa4 particles of clitlcU which omAtanEy appearing and which give mnilSon that faded lo6k. When Ivlr CmyPikln bel?S to Cet te, least bit if vif 1 so to" my druggist's for an oft-color. f i i i u: 1 apply this This is so-- fresh, r'ghtly like cold cream for washing It off morn ngs. what keeP my complexion 25h absinbe of wrinkles, and flabbl neii I oe-fto the use of a simple face E.Jh nrenared by d ssolvlng one ounce of Mwdf saiollte in a half Pint witch Kkxel. This' keeps the skin tight and flrnfe'-Advertisraeni. 1 The Old Ones Bf JAMKS JH MONTAGUE. I do not caro for problem plays,. I do not yoarn to see The erring and luxurious ways of high society. I am not keen for strutting dukes who stand Bround, and sneer. , Or belted carls, who bawl "Oftdsooks," wljeneyervthey appear, , T lllra thn old-time stuff thn best, where vtrtMTscorned and. spurned. Knocks plotting badness galley west when MvuSjtle las turned. ) I llko to 800 a maiden wan bqfore her fatherfs door Instructed harshly to ,moye on and to return n more., . . , . , I llko to hear her murmur then, wth many a' shivering qunko, . That rKs aro royal raiment when they'ro worn for virtue's sake. I like to watch the villain try to luro her off by stealth! And simply Joy to hear her cry: "Away, I scorn your wealth I" I llko to see the hero thrust aside tho proffered wine, - . And say with' beautiful disgust, "No demon rum for minel"' . I like to hear the villain say, m his dank brow he mops, , A .. A J He has escaped mo for todays he ducked my knockout dropslf- . I like to hear the villalnew in accents tense with sorrow, :.J&" Obserro, "Oh, can that bum distress. We'll get the 2guy tomorrowl" ' I llko to see tho lightning flash and hear the wild wind wall, : . ' And listen to the thunder crash along tho lonely trail: Where heroine and hero meet and never seem to mind The sound of the pursuers' feet about two Jumps behind. I like to wonder what they'll do when he arrests their flight, , . Although I know, wad so dp you, that It will be all right. Oh, glorious plays of by-gone, days; of meeting at old mills,- - 1 Of heinous oHmes and wedding chimes, and thrills arid thrills arid thrill.' . . 1 n . s You always knew just who was who and just wnat tney wouia aay; In doping out how they'd turn out you never went astray. lour heart beat fast Until the last, and when toward home' you west You didn't find it fagged your' AJnd to find out what they meahtt ' ' ' Art Hindsiii Mir Yili? J 117 BliXf.lC'K FJUBFAX. Little Bobbie's Pa 1 By WILLIAM F. KI5tK By GAJBRETT P. HERVIB8. If you look toward tho south In the early evening you will see the planet Jupiter glowing placidly among the con stellations like a great super-star which has no need to twinkle in oWet to call attention to It self. You will under stand at a glance why the ancients gavq to (his frieg nlficent planet the name of the chief of their gods,, whft the Chlne called it the "Regulator" and the Egyptians "Horus. the Gujder of the Sphere" In our scientifio way we have found more accurately descriptive terms for this big planet, which exceeds the earth about 1,800 times In magnitude, Arapng other things, we call Jupiter the "Comet Catcher," Its power of attraction is so great (moro thai SOO times that of the earth) and its position in the uolar-system Is so commanding (about five times as far from tho sun as the earth is), that it often draws wandering comets out of their paths as they approach the- sun from outer space and turns them Into smaUer, shorter orbit, so that,- hence forth, thev are unable to go very far away, but continue to revolve around the sun in elliptical curves, whose form has been; Imposed by the interference of Jupiter. Nearly thirty comets are now known ABee want ad does the bwBi- Jjjgjnh lbUB been y "ocs. ."ExrcrvVr.V JiadS themJ It u not Powerful enough to keep them for himself, but is compelled to hand them over to the sun, He is like one of the great, feudal barons of the mlddlo ages, who had to surrender his prisoners to his lord, the king. Still, ho sometimes interferes with them a second time, if they venture near him, and sends them scurrying off In new orbits. Ho has also created havoc among the orbits of the hundreds of tittle planets, called "asteroids," which he has trained Into groups, and he Is even suspected of having "turned some of them into his own retainers, in the character of little "moopff." In fact, Jupiter Is so powerful that he would make the earth revolve around htm if the sun were absent. One of his four principal moons Is larger than the around him onoo every week, making it travel in that spaco of time moro than 4,000,000 , nlles. The nearest of them, which la considerably larger than our moon, is whipped around him at a speed of 40,000 miles per hour. Everything goes fast about Jupiter, He turns on his own axis so rapidly that'hta day is only ten hours long, and it we were situated on his equator wo shouja find ourselves whirled round at the rate of more than 27,000 miles per hour. One consequence of this is that he has flattened h)s own poles and swelled out his own equator by Centrifugal' force to such an extent that he measures about 6,000 miles less throuah tho poles than through the equator. His equatorial diameter Is about fc,000, miles, and his planet Jfscomy. aad ytS. Its awlnga it polar diameter only about 83.0(0 miles. A FICTIONI1E8I? FAHLB FAHW FOR TUB 11 By LtLIATt liAUFEIlTY. There was once & woman whom life hurt. It drained her heart of Joy, and left it empty and throbbing. 8be bore it moaning for a time, and then the set about filling the empty shell. She velsed upon aL Una things that lay near at hand arid packed them tightly into the throb bing loneliness of her barren heart. There were cards and song and dancing and -wine and gay companions and -loud, merrymaking, and she forced them all o motley company Into the void? emptiness of her desolation. Oblivion and the for- getfulness she sought did pot come', but fever and excitement kept her brain whirling far away from the sadness of reality 1 It chanced one day that true love passed by, and he stopped at the door of her heart, lie knocked, but the ears of her soul were dulled with minstrelsy and its eyea were blinded by the glare end glitter of Jewelry, so neither heart nor soul could tell the woman that ho who stood without was true love. - At last and timidly love opened tho door of the heart that offered him no welcome, but when ho saW how" crowded that heart was with tinsel and paste Jewels, he sighed, "Alas I there Is ho room for me," and went his way. And the woman went on playing1 that she was happy and content But love hurt and slighted would not pass that way again for evermore- Thin difference is so striking that you can nee (t easily if you look at Jupiter through a telescope. He is not round llko a bete ball, but elongated like a foot ball, or, rather, flattened (Ike a pumpkin. Another consequence of hit mad energy of motion, which you wilt see If you Inspect him with a telescope, la that his whole surface is covered with Parallel belts of clouds drawn out into bands by tho swift rotation. These clouds vary in color and in form, and while you are watohlng them you wll aotually see the planet turning, if you continue your observations for an hour or two. Another thing of fascinating interest which a teescoplo view of Jupiter af fords is the motion of the four nearby rnoons, It was Galileo's discovery cf these moons that upset tho ancient sys tem of astronomy. They seem to fly as If terrified at tho possibility of being drawn down into tho grasp pf their re lentlees master. In the couroo.of a single evening you can see them cross hla disk or pass Into and out of ha shadow, and often' you can watch their own Uttlo round shadows, as black as Ink drops, moving swiftly across his brpad, oval, shining fate or disk. If ypu have not yet studied astronomy a subject that every intelligent human being should know something a) out be gin at ones with the planet Jupiter, If you' cannot get a chance to look at blm witn a telescope, watch him With the. naked eye, observe his place among the stars-rho I now In. the .constellation Sagittarius and see how that place slowly changes from week to week. Then got a book on astronomy, and (earn from It all you can, not only about Jupiter, but about other things in the sky, and the result, in the broadening of your nitnl and the tranqullltxlng of your spirit, will be both of delight and a surprise to you. Are handsome men vain is that What you want to know, young woman-and you ask because oh, I know why you ask. He la handsome or you thlnK he is, or maybe he thinks he Is and brother baa warned you against him and mother says he thlnka too muchvof himself and you're, afraid and o Welt, now, I don't know whether this particular It and so Ma man Is vain or nob but If he Isn't hft'a a freak of nature there never was a man on earth, hand some or ugly who wasn't vain. The valaeot woman who aver kept you waiting for an hour wMla she settle kr Hbbom and dabbed ea Just a bit . mm powder 1 a medoti violet eowsarea to the average man Sgty or ?Wb, Kaven't you notices 4 hat Open your eyes, frtepaf spen yeur.evos. Look at that kow.leggtd little man with th faded eyer-Jet' Wft about fifty odd. Isn't hot Pretty hvy to be out In.auah a sun, don't you thinkf 84 htm look at tho fadleo old. young, M-oky, ugly thoy. are al) of Interest to him and' ne tmnxa n a or interest is every eev of them. The queen of 8hba could stop down off her throne and tell the fat Uttlo man that she was dying of love for hl&.and he wouldn't be a bit suprUed not he. He'd Just sparkle hla tifsS eyea and twist hla faded- mustache and look as much like a conquering hero as ho could and never wonder once what asylum tho lady had escaped from. Once I lived in the house with a poor little man-orlppled, " a dwarf, hideously ugly and so weak and IH that you couldn't look at him without pity. There were several othor gtrle In th same house and we all felt sorry for tho poor Utile distorted fellow, and we. made It a point to be unusually nice te Him till wo found out that he was worried' .to death for fear some of ua would eemtwtt suicide for love oThlm. Since that time X have never counted on the shrinking modesty of a man of any age, .condition or state of mind. The fere woman In the factory down there she's handMsne, capable, clever, well dressed, good ak ajota a fine salary as salaries gok her about M, ghe'U tell you that every ether men la the factory has asked her to marry him young fellows getting, half her wages', old men about to ba laid on tho .shelf and every one of them woo astonished that she didn't chortle with Joy at the idea of giving Up hef good Salary and going to work washing dishes for a man not half as clever or aa good looking or as good as she Is, Vain la your man vajnt If he Isn't he ought to go somewhere and take tickets for 'being on exhibition, for ha la a stranger In a strangq worjd-and that's tho truth, from my point of observation. Vain men vainl Just tell t, man you know than another man la good looking, and see btm'wince, Tl him that another man has fine eyes, and watch him; shud der and warn you against the other man. Tell htm that you think he Is the hand somest man that ever lived and see how faintly he will deny the sweet accusa tion to that. Dear fellow, how can ho whether he's handsome or not, he's vain anyway; so, I wouldn't pay much atten tion to tnot, .Pear fellow, haw can he help being vain with alt the ladles telling hlra in words and out of them how dearly they would love to have hint llko them Just a little. And at that he's probably something to be proud of If he, a real man for an earnest ceeker for truth never forget this. A decent man Is a pretty decent sort of thing1, and well worth the loving day and night, and always and ever, even If h Is volrr Jusl a bit. Let WrtS be vain It he'll Just be good and kind and generous and steadfast and honest and courageous and gentle, and that's what the majority ef mn really try to bo, I believe, and really are, too, most of them, ao wbafs the difference? -Potato Faffs. 1 Four cups hot mashed potatoes, four tablespoons mlk, one teaspoon salt, two tgg, two tablespoons butter, one-quarter teaspoon pepper, wooe, drain, ry anx I was reeding a ortlkel In a theatrical megaxeen, Ma sod last nlto,' thht led the day of rel llteratur In the' drama was summing back. I guess it VIII cum back about the aatm way Jeffries did', s"d Fa. This la a ftne age for resl llteratur. Why, the poeaul nowa4ys think fekpwr was a awful boob beekauo ho dtdont rite sons like. Tkat HoMymooc) pW4. I tMnk the feepwt are Mvkc so feet now', Fa sd, wl(h all et the evening p&lpers c all of tho magaseetis to re4 think about, that they are siowty ting nutty, at Jeat Wt tko Mg, .; It 4 they atnt sitting nutty, Pa aodi why , thay tklak 'I Skua Worry i funny T I doant aeo anything eRMMt akovt H. t thM artlkol says' tHo ct r .euntlng bask to taare nafeor sonooo just as a man gtt oaver'-a wfeM dinner. . am awfully mUkA to keor It, beskstSJ!! have a yung trend who ka rote at'o act sketch. Sh t a vary1' gul Ma boA A the sketch is alt rittwt in blank vero. Tho scowi loM at ifco: time the Fershuns was trying to matte Oreeoe quit, that was many yeers aev urn of tho lines Is butlful. A yung tirooK captain, f alia. In luy-with om of the wtvea or. a, .grate Fcrsaun general & the UUi to malk a tool & coax Km te toll th secrets of tho Greek army. She soya to him: . This strange -wiid feoling-yea. It mt bo loye, r every other pasahun havo 'X krtownl every other Imjpuloe Hav I ttit vo that of loveTuVuHToX XHoduUu. Tho dawnflj krsaklar an tko sougi , Wrs trill , 1 Their matin to tko .tkfons of jrow vod1 Ypu told mo oaoo I had swootor Voeott tnan any sonasiM. p yew hoa it mow Jgtag you to bo both my lord aadl ISt'Sf Tho strongest lord shud -fcd taoss'sitisoi Whohta fina w rofloeko thm firrt,.o Veil ms'.tk soekrots of the Ofeeskaa AM Xorzos will reward' tko asdoadMlarli Aka tht we two ohall Awefl In :' staoy r " . Upon sum woaerous itls of sM ad pearl. Hew o you like tkOM fiat's t -ed Ma. That ain't pestry at .alt. W Fa, Why. doftnt yure. yunT lady frHMd '.ouif jafcdj soO' m Jo ho wnts to.rUte uttMfig. thai Is reel Utetatur. I think the lir.es aro fine, Ma. Theai the . yung Oraf k captain says to tkol fctemlng woman: Frato not to ma of love, thou sbrowol Bpeak of no strange; wild feeling' tJtt thou hat. HoWeouldot thou love TJoad diol noDorea, Vtlsod of his medals, disinherits? One seckret only oanst thou drag- tnmti that theol mo. And that is this I have no time 13 Awful, atd Pa, Who la yure yung laflijl frend that thinks she con rltaT Then kfa laffed at Pa. There aint anyi yung lady, she sod. I found them Unea in an old play you started to rito yoerj' ago. in ay was in a trunK up In tho attic. Now how do you feelt Pa looked cheeper than a S & 10 cent etoar, but he dldent say, a Word., Gray Hstfr Becomes Dark, ThickrGloBSy Look years yeaert 'Try Onussaaa) recHra of Sageravd flKlghiar and nobody will lcaew. Almost everyone knows lha't iigo Tea, and Sulphur, properly oampouaded, htlngs, back the natural color and. lustre io tho hair whan faded, atreaked or ,gryi lao ends dandruff,' 'itoyc(r scahs aM stops, falling, hair. v Tears ag6 the only way tot get this mixture was to mal(o Jt kV home, whjJanuMy and .trouMeeorne. HeVs ye. simply k. at any drug etoro tor '"yyethis feWa, and fculahur Hair Remedy." Ton wfal tB'a Jargo bottle fe-r about 'eoats. JJvofjody uss this old, famous VoettVliiekwj no mash potatoes. Then add seasoning, milk cn can poaolkly tu Uut ,y oVissu4uuica and, butter. Separate eggs and add well-1 W' hair, as It does it so qtisser aad neaien youcs ana Deat well. Thon add evemy. xou aampen a sponge or rOf t brush, with. It aad draw thU WiwugU your hair, taking one small straM at a tlmaVby mo-rnlng) the gray 'har dtoa. pears, and after andther" soi.k or two.'' your katr soooimo hokisVfuily oak, thick ana gdossy aad you look y'oorsj, youBftea whites of ekgs which have been beaten stiff. Turn into a buttered dish and bako in a quick u?tn until brown, Kote-About kla ntedlum-alsed potatoes for above amount, If cold potatoes sura used, heat In. double boiler before using. Have hot whAn put Into pvn.