Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922, September 20, 1913, EDITORIAL, Page 15, Image 15
15 The (ee' Jnvp aga z, i re f)a "Giddapf By Nell Brinkley mm Copyright, 1913, National News Service. THE BEE: OMAHA, SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 20, 1913. f e Hustling L i J r 4 By ELLA WHEELER WILCOX Copyright, 191S, by Star Company. If you are an American you probably have great respect for that American word, "hustle." If you employ help, no doubt you use that expression, "Get a hustle on," which has been dignified f ismW' iJ by ciaasincauon in Mr. Bell'a 'The "Worth of Words." "Getting a hustle on" la supposed to bo the first long stride toward any success In lite. It Is an excellent thing, Indeed, to feel Impelled to put all your powers Into Immediate ac tion. Every human be ing Is a reservoir MM Til or t n e energy which Is back of all creation. The more fully he realizes the fact and the. more earnestly he puis that energy Into ac tion the more positive and Immediate are the results. There Is such a thing, however, as over hustling. The continual "hustler" who never rests and .never allows any ono about him to rest at times defeats his own ends. He breaks down wth the ner vous strain of his own hurry and causes others to break down. Aside from these direct disasters he IS the Indirect causo of Innumerable acci dents and misfortunes, which he attrib utes to "111 luck" or carelessness" of others. This carelessness may In countless casta be traced to the door of the hustler. The scientific men have decided that there is a close relationship between fatigue and accidents; Investigation of the cause and conditions leading to. ac cidents has given an Interesting number of statistics to prove that as a workman grows .more fatigued he becomes more liable to meet with accidents and, to pro duce them. r This'' Is, the scientific argument for shorter hours for man and beast. The Investigators found that In each succeeding hour of the first half of the day's . work accidents became more numerous, while after the. midday rest during the first hours of 'the afternoon they Were fewer. Then later In the after noon, the number of accidents Increased until 'toward the end of the second halt of tho day the proportion was larger than for the latter half of the morning hoUrsjr Therefore the scientists argue that a short.;. rest spell Jn.tthe middle of trie" afternoon would tend to decrease the number of accidents, What- we term nonliving objects are capable of weariners as well as men and animals. It Is a good thing to change i your Implements of labor, whether you ' are In tthe trades, arts 91 professions, - periodically. Science has proven that even 'Inanimate things are capable of a certain amount of feeling. -Take an occasional rest yourself when ever you feel worn and nervous. See to It that your employes are enabled to do ooi Let them relax for five minutes oven after a strain of hard hours of , labor, and you will find they turn out better work and show more Interest In your affairs for this privilege. i Let your horse relax and rest at Inter vals durintr the day. When It Is a possl ble thing to do, even at the cost of a little money, hire a fresh animal for halt r a day and let your own tolling beast rest. Ho will last longer and do better j service as a result. ,-Instead of the continual cry of "Get - a. Jiustle on youl" say to your helpers . occasionally, "All relax and rest five , minute." Bet the example yourself and then rouse to work with your old Amer ( lean battle cry If you like. ,Hut ho mUcli better If the hew gen. s eratlon of Americans would cultivate the. , spirit of earnestness Instead of that of continually "hustling." It Is a great thing to be In earnest. But T terry L W'8 affects ui so v In this swift rushing hour, we crowd, t wo press t And thrust each other backward as :. we go, ttWo "Vt n.ot p80 ! 'y sufficient stress ? upon that good) strong word, "earnest, pes?." ' In our Impetuous haste, could we but know Its fiM, deep meaning, Its vast Import: on, Then might we grasp the secret of 'success. In that receding age when men were great. v The bone and sinew of their purpose lay In that one word. God loves an earnest soul Too earnest to be eager. Soon or late thaVa "Pnt breathless, by And stands' serene, triumphant, at the goal. Advice to the Lovelorn By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. Dear- Miss Fa;rfax-I am W and In love with a man three years my senior who reciprocates my love, and we expect to become engaged within six months. T have known this man for about seven years, and know all his people very well, lie has been calling at my home for almost a year, during which my folks have treated him very nicely, Suddenly my mother changed her attitude toward him, and says very miserable things I "! him. ft, fact, she wlshen that I give him up. Her reason for this sudden change I do not know, only that, she says she had had a foretelling that ha l mmn and will never make me happy. He Is a very good young man, has no bad habits, smokes very little, and never touches liquor. He has a Steady position with the government. My mother feels that I should be able to get a man with mors money, as I am considered very good looking. She Is a very nervous sort of woman and one with whom you cannot reason. To erlve him . up would kill roe, as I love him very dearly and am only happy when with him, BEATJUCB. As a rule, I advise girls to obey their mothers, but your case Is so exceptional I hope you will not give up your lover. You have known him seven years, and know nothing against him. Your tuoth-r Is nervous, and bases her objection solely on a "foretcjllmr " My dear, love Is too valuable to be sacrificed for the whim or one who Uavei to "sums."" ....... ...'wws-.i..-. nv "ww-ftommuMP rKi. ,t Hero la the driver of all relentless drivers. The baby la your house. He drives with a rose-leaf hand and an urge of Iron. "The hand of steel in a silken glove." Ho if tho greatest of all drlvors because Jie prods even ambition that demonlao little driver -whom Tad pictured a few weeks ago lashing on the human race to labor and dare I The day he first lies between a man and his mate, uo jnatter how poor material they are. the woman begins to dream, and. foV the sake of bringing true these dreams, gallantly goes through the little, daily, grilling services and efforts that make big results; the man dreams, too, and under this new and mighty whip dares and labors and reaches! And as he reach his power grows and lengthens. As when he strives to touch his elbows in the back. At Advice to Girls in Picking By DOROTITCt DIX. I have received a letter signed by thir teen girla who request .my advice in the selection of a husband, and ask what qualities they should look for In plcktng out' their life part ners. Of course, the conventional way to answer this question Is to say to a girl; "My dear. marry a man who Is h6nest and hon orable, who neither drinks nor smokes nor plays poker and who belongs to the Young Men's Christian as sociation, and goes to church every Sunday, and you will bo happy ever after." Unfortunately, this Isn't true. Some of the bsst men on earth are tha meanest husbands. Many a roan who never says anything stronger than "Oh. fudge," can grouch for six weeks at a stretch. Many a man who has moral principles that are as imprernabla m tho Rock of Gibraltar Is as hard and cold also as the said rock. Many a man who Is as honeet as tho day Id as close as a steel trap, and has to ba chloroformed before he can be pried lose from a quarter. Many a philanthropic 10 huu promoting the welfare of tha wprW he has no time to devote to making his own home happy, I am not disparaging the big virtues. Far from It. Every gjrl In selecting a huaband should e that the man she marries Is moral and upright But aha shouldn't stop there. She should sea that well as Ita virtues, that he's got a tew graces as well as a backbone, Now, f I were picking out a husband, after satisfying myaelf that the man waa neither a drunkard nor a thief, jior lead. Ing the double life, the very first thing 1 ' ' '"' " ' ' -..I. .1 ' inr J "- fcv . - ' . r. that, I would take Into consideration would be his temper. I would see whether he was good natured and could meet the ordinary little misadventures of existence with philosophy, or whether he went off Into silent grouches whenever anything crossed his sovereign will, or else flew Into a fury about it. I should know that n tha ordinary run of married life thera would bo plenty of times when things want wrong; when I would make mistakes and dp foolish things, when the soup would be too salty, and tha roast burnt, when a million things woujd happen to vex him, and I shouldn't want a husband who sulked around the house, or said things to mo By WINIFRED BLACK. It's all there-ver bit of It In the Mother Goose book. The little boy showed me the pictures this very morning. "There was a crooked man and he went a crooked mile." Of course ha did, poor, crooked man; ho never could walk a straight one to save his life, "And he found a crooked six-pence" c rooked to be sura It waa. If It had been straight It would have been In a good, sensible, straight purse somewhere or In a U or anywhere else where good straight money goes. And it lay "against a crooked stile." "Ha bought a crooked cat which caught a crooked mouse" that's the only kind the poor, crooked cat ever -does think of catching. "And they all lived together in the little crooked house" poor, crooked .things, poor, warped, twsted-oub-ot-hon s iH first they are wide apart and tho muscles crack under the strain. Day by day the elbows grow nearer mpro supple they accommo date and strengthen themselves to this new, surprising effort, So the man's talent grows more supple answers "right up" to his resistent call. For the call here is "I must!" And the urgo behind these two human beings Is the biggest dream the futuro of their baby and love of him I Ho drives sundered people back into one another's lives; drives under the great impulso of tenderness. For his sako the man steps over the busy ant on the pavement. Thinking of him, tha woman feeds a forlorn kitten and stops to tip a carriage top between tho sun and the eyes of a stranger's baby. Through hjm ancient feuds have Husbands teat In anger that cut like the lash of a whip every time there was a bitch In the do mestic machinery. Nor should I want to spend my ttfe, as many wveS do, going In mortal terror of doing or saying something that would rouso the slumbering devil In their hus bands. Believe me, temper has wrecked more homes than the demon rum ever has, and between a man with a temper hung on a haU trigger and one who goes off on an occasional Jag the choice Is with the Jagclit. The second quality that I should look for In a husband Is tenderness. It I were thinking of picking out a man to spend the next thirty or forty years with, r And He Found a est-proportlon creatures! I wonder If they thought they were happy, living In their crooked way In tha little crooked houseT I suppose so. I know a crooked man who's so proud ot being crooked that he never lets you forget It for one minute. Jle's always talking about "fools" and "easy marks" and something he calls com ons." By theso names ho means, I have discovered, honest men and women who believe what they are told Unless they have strong reasons for dltbeuevng It Ha waa rich when I ftrt knew tha crooked man. He lived In a fine house In the fine part of a fine city. He had a stable full of fine horses, two automo biles, a French chef and a little black eyed Wife who wore a many diamonds as a Hindoo idol. He's poor now, the crooked man-oh, very poor. Bo poor (hat he can't even hire anyone to send special meals to him at the prison where he Is. And the black-eyed wife has run away with the chef. And the crooked man Is quite alone, for all of tha poople who flattered Cir be ,a 111 T should watch like a lynx to see how he treated old women and little children and servants. If he let an old woman stand while he satt If ha called children "brats" and knocked them out of his way; If he was Insolent to servants I should say "no" to him, no matter how attractive he was In other ways. For I should know that he had no pity nor sympathy for tha weakness and the helplessness ot humanity, and that when the day came when I waa no longer young nor strong nor vivacious and able to' entertain and amuse him he would for. sake me for somebody able to minister to his pleasure. The third quality that I should look for Crooked Six-pence him and laughed at his strange talk of "coma ons" and "easy marks" aro busy laughing at the jokes ot the man who bought the crooked man's house tha day he went to the penitentiary, I went to see the crooked man tho other day, He once did a favor for one I love and I can't quite forgot that crooked though he is or may be. "Poor thing," I thought when I waited In the gray gloom of the warden's-gray office for the crooked man to come from W cell, roor thing. He'll want to talk about straight things and straight people now, I suppose . But he didn't. He's crooked yet. tha crooked man; born so and WW stay so as lone as he lives. I don't think the crooked man like straight money or honest prosperity. I believe he'd rather cheat someone put of 110 than earn fl.COO fairly and honestly. That's how he Is made. He Isn't sorry for what he did that got him into the penitentiary not ha He Isn't a bit ashamed of It He's ashamed ot being caught that's all. He feels foolish abqut that; but never mind, when he sets cut healed ovor. Tho man wrltea great stories because ho needed money and ho needed money because of this driver. And, oddly enough, men have drawn out the greatest and tho sweetest of them selves undor a lash. This picture until yourtbink ceetns something too mild and Paradlsal and blissful to show tho driver of all relentless drivers at work, But a toy harness is all he seem to use. Knit close to one another, they nover know they aro driven. Their way is soras-tlmes pretty rough, but it seems to stand lovely around them painted by the hand of tho Joys they know. And his spurrlng-cry is the babyish wbrd "Qlddapt" Bo the picture seems to tell the story to e. NELL BRINKLEY. 7,r7-Ttnd,rMM In a husband Is liberality, I should watch to sco how he spent his money. It he haggled over the price of everything, if he shooed away every beggar, and gave the waiter the least possible tip, I should know that ho would mako the kind of a husband who doles out car fare to his wife, goes over the grocery book, and snoops around the kitchen to see the thickness ot the pqtato parings. And I wouldn't marry him If he was tho last call to the dining car I was ever likely to get. No woman on earth works as hard for their living as those who have to chisel it out of a tightwad husband. The fourth thing that I would take into consideration In a man Is his ability he'll show 'em he'll fool 'em the "hon est men" who put him behind tho bars. There must be something crooked about them. There Is about everyone, He'll find it out, he'll track 'em down, he'll get even see If he doesn't. Turn stra!ght7 Keep honestT Do the square thlngT Why, ho can't poor, crooked man he couldn't to save his life. That's why he thinks no one else can, either. It buys so little tha crooked money and It's always crooked, too, the thing tho crooked money buys, and nobody wants anything to do with It but crooked people. I'd rather be poor than have any of It wouldn't you poor and honeet and self-respecting arid light hearted? It's a kind of disease, the crooked way ot looking at things. A disease like nenlngitls or lockjaw or anything e!e dreadful and mysterious, Let's hop we never catch It. And If any friend of mine ever sees me stopping In my path to look even a little longingly at a crooked sixpence1 that happens to fall in my way, I hopo that friend will love me well enough to turn mo around In my tracks and keep turning me till I como to my senses. For I do not want to live In a "crooked house" or have anything to do with what a crooked six pence will buy-do you? Ivw T,mpK U get along In the world. Ho wouldn't need to be rich. I would rather marry a man. and take my chances for futuro comfort with him, f ho was getting 13.600 a year that ho made by his own ef fort than one who had an Income of 126,009 a year that he had Inherited from papa, and who had never mado a dollar of his own. The b?st luck that can aver fall to a woman Is to marry an energetic, capable young fellow and help him mk his fortune, but the worst fata that vr befalls a girl Is to be tied to a shiftless ne'er-do-well, .who falls at everything h tries to do. Therefore, before I married a man I'd make It my business to find out whether he had strength enough to stand on his own feet, or whether he would be one of those clinging vino men that some body else has to support all of his days. I'd know, for one thing, that I should bo hungry and need clothes after marriage just as much as I did before, and also thatj I shouldn't have much respect for a husband who wasn't man enough to hold his place among other men. Then I should positively refuse to marry any man who wasn't a suffragist, and who didn't believe that women had a right to have a half of the pleasures and perquisites of the world, X should know that the man who thought that women In general were only fit to be classed with criminals, Idiots and tho Insane, would make the sort of a husband who derides his wife's opinions, refuses to give tr an allowance, and who regards her as an upper servant to minister to hi lordly self. That's what I'd do, girls. I'd look aut for a man who waa good-natured and good-tempered and generous and sympa thetic), and who thought that a women, even a wife, was a human being with a right to her own opinion and pocket book, and when I'd found that aort of a roan I'd tnarry him, If he asked rn. no matter what other fault he might have, For I'd know he'd make tha kind of n, husband that Is lovable and easy to. liva with And that's the thing that ceunU in matrlmopv