THE BEE: OMAHA, TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 0, 19Ut. ee a, e Women's Frocks kkMy Own Beauty Secrets" By Anna Held I never had the were bo Impor- By WINNH'RED UIjACK. Well, well, well, what a sensation wo arc? creating, sisters. Talk about the emotional sex! Did you ever tiear the llk&' of the commotion about the women's neflr sort ot frocks? They arrested two perfectly nlco girls In Portland, Or., the other day, and sent them home In a taxi be cause the police man didn't ap prove of their ekirty coats. They fined a woman In Kansas City last week for the cut of 'her dress, and In Now England they aro thinking of 'passim; a law about what shall be 'left off. Dear me' least Idea our clothes tant. How much lcs Interest wo do take In the way men dress. Can you fancy the women calling out tho. pollco because they didn't-think men were dressed properly? They would- look the other way and never even mention brother's eccentric clothes. And unless they were very bath lng sulty Indeed, they would never even know that there was anything- at all peculiar about them. I wonder why. I heard thom talking about It at dinner the other night, the men one middle aged and two young and, ah, tho things they said about us for speaking to the women who wore 'em. And yet do you know I happened to be with, the middle aged man when we met two of the ladles who shocked him so, and I thought he looked rather pleased than otherwise. Still ho seemed so cross at dinner! Isn't It odd? ".But. my wife". said tho middle-aged man. "But my sister" said the young man. "But my sweetheart" said the other young man. And I do believe that every one of tho three was perfectly willing to have somebody else's wife and some body else's sweetheart and somebody else's sister be as modern as the latest fashion plate from Paris. So It to evident that .they do hot think tho now fashions ugly-jsn't It? I wonder what It all means this sudden return to the "altogether" Jn tiro way of dress or undress. Some of tho frocks are reall7 or and when you see tho faces of the women who wear them nice, friendly, decent faces Just the sort of women you'd pick' out to pal with in a long ocean trip, If It wasn't for their astonishing 'frocks-good women, modest -women, kind women, women .who wouldn't think of breaking up -a. .home, 'anil yet what 1n ,tfie wprld floes H" all' mean? ' ' ' ' . ' Are women getting worse and, less mod est?" Have tho ragtime songs really truck in, and do ntce women think of things thoy never used even to know existed? "Or aro they getting nicer and more modest and cleaner .minded so clean -minded that foiey don't see any. thing bo Very Interesting' In a' trim ankle and don't understand Why any one. elso should, and are going to let It go at that? After all, the most Immodest frock I ever saw was a nun's dress at a masked ball. Tho dtess was all right, but the woman who wore it made It a horror. Are we getting so that wo can think of something besides sex, we women, and do we walk abroad clod In these very luggesUve garments without meaning a hint of a suggestion at all? Are we tvoluting or are we sinking back? "Whither," In fact, "are we drifting?" Xhe'nieanest man I know acts exactly like the most generous ones. Sometimes It's hard to know which Is which. It has always been admitted that absolute In nocences and unscrupulous boldness had an amazing' family resemblance. What are. we getting to be, we women bold faced Jades or open browed Innocents? Are" we' reading and working and think ing -'so much that" we've forgotten all about tho primitive facts of lire, or don't wo think about anything but those facts? I niet two women walking right behind each other the other day and they both' wore- a frock of tho same astounding cut Doesn't It mean a thing, the old super stition about the natural modesty of ivomen, or does It mean so much that you simply cari't fathom It at all? "Who'll answer? Who knows? Not the men oh, never, never, the men .-not even those who pride themselves on the fact that they "know women." But really, now, gentlemen and breth (en, iiuvcn i you jun a mile Dlt 01 a faint Inkling of how funny, how out rageously funny all this shocked surprise ' on your parts? Now, if you were all burlesque man. agers! This is the first article of Mss Held's strict, ami in it she instruct girls how to stand and hold themsalveu This article was written in Paris and sent here by the famous French beauty preceding her arrival here within the next few days for a tour of the slata. 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If 1 woro a mnn, a young man, and know what I know today, I would look in tho oyea ot Life undaunted. '. tJf . Hy any Fato that might threaten mo. .. I would glvo to tho world what tho world most wanted; Manhood. that knows it enn do and bo; . 1 . . . . ll.nl r. n .1 tft uourngo tnnt unrcs, mm mm. .u'. . . . Clear into tho dopths of tho human soul, . ,',t. And find God thero, and tho ultimate goal, If I woro a man, a young man, and know what, I k,now, oday. . If I woro a man, a young man, and know what Iknow todayrV I would think of mysolf as tho masterful creaturarx tS )' Of all tho Masterful plan J " Tho Formless Cauao, with form and feature; ' ' Tho Power that hcods not limit or ban; Man, wonderful man. ' ' j-:. I would do good deeds, nnd forget thom straightway;-4 V I would woavo my woea Into ropos'and climb' y Up to heights ot tho holpor's gateway; -:' And Llfo should servo mo, and Tlmo, . And I would sail out, nnd out, and tlnd '5 Tho treasures that, Uo In tho doop oca, Mind. (' I would dream, nnd thlnK, nnu not, I would work, nnd lovo, and pray, Till each dream and vision, grew into a tact,..- , . ' . . It I were xv man, a young man, nnd knew whot I. know today. If I wero a man, n young man, and know what I know t6UyV I would guard my passlona as KingB guard treasures, , And keep thom high and clean. , (For tho will ot a man, with his passions, measures; it I. iimnir mi flinv nra'koen.) ' ' 1, nuuttQ " - - . . , I 'i "would think of each woman as someone a mother; . .. I would think of oach man aB my own blood urotnor, . . And Bpaod him along. on hla-way. v And tho glory of llfo In this wonderful hour . .' 4i . Should till nio and thrill lilo with Cohsoious power, I woro a man, a young man, anu khuw wm -.J It ' i ff A Girl's Fear of "G-Maidism" iw nt,'.,TitinK KAirtPAX. Dear Miss Fairfax: I am H ycarB old, a trained nurse. I have Ufon nuniiiK woman for six months, and her ion Iim fallen in love whu mo. o nmrrv me: ho l very r)oh and. would give mo everything.- I nm not in love "villi him, but fl k'.ndly toward him. Ought I to lot this chanco go? I may never navo anomcr una w ; ". ; if 1 never fail really In lovoj Won't I bo sorry that I did not grasp this chMioe beforo It was too late? I dont want to bo on old maid. PUItPUEXED. Oh, for goodness Bake, "Perplexed," whero do you llvo and what sort of peo plo do you know to talk about hating to bo an old maid. Why, there aren't any such things any more, didn't you know that? Old maids wont out of existence when tho bachelor girls camo- lnj-look around you a little, Use your eyes and ears. Think for yoursolf; don't keep repeating overt some silly phrase you've let soma ,ono olso get Into your head. , You've seen a bit ot tho world, or ought to have seen soma of It, In your business..' Who's' the woman you aro sorriest for. on earth? A woman you know, I mean, not ono you'vo read about or scon In Meaning and Expression. By ANNA UEIJ). , . , (Copyright. 1913. International Nowa Service.1) " ,, How do you stand, madams orsmade motselle? . How do you walk? How do you enter a room? Probably you have neverSAVen. much thought to tho matter; and y'et'jto bo able to tand well, to move well, to .entei or leave a room gracefully Is the whole social Etock In trado of women who gets on astonishing well in society, It you stand well, If It 1b a pleasure; to see you move, these two gractS'Wlll not only glvo you an air of breeding that will help you win your way anywhere, but they will make you picturesque,, at tractive and a notable figure wherever you go. This Is quite true, as -ycu must con. ftss. If you give the matter any thought . and yet how do you stand, madame how dees each woman of our day and gen eration stand, walk, move? You sit gracefully and. easily, you, look very charming then you rise, and -sink your weight on one hip In p, way that makes your figure a distorted caricature You walk and your,ttr(lo Is the. most hideous motion womankind, ever- evolved. A few years ago you djd the golf-links stride, which was too long for anatoms and which showed with, painful plainness J how foolish you were to try to Imitate (he motions of men. You put your feet as If you were try. Ing to Imitate the old miracles whereby I tin saints left the Imprint of their foot I steps In solid rock. -And the standing position, the walk ot 1 today, Is only less painful to describe than to se. Women follow the unpleasant 'outlines of the Botticelli figure chest sunken, shoulders bent and back rounded; while: .the healthy upheld chest and "straight front" have given way to the- awkward outline of sagging and unconflned abdo men. You do not like It, do you? You are not going to be. a -slave to an ugly fashion thut must' oon die, and that will hurt your health as well as your natural beauty figure? , We must all grow) older; and what Is quaint at twenty will ie ugly at forty. A Position of Relaxation. bugaboo of chest trouble I was anaemic my friend's felt that my dower of youth and vitality (was being attacked. I AjjdI'wen't to naturo for my cure. , 1. practiced standing with upheld chest. with expanded -lungs. I stood-lightly-poised -on tho balls of my feet. I walked with an elastic spring as chil dren naturally, do. Result? I am my best and most vital self again. Youth can carry off-a certain amount of awkwardness 'simply "by fr'cShness and briskiiAssr-but that may mean a middle age without grace and an old ago of antique uncouthness, " When, a, woman ,ha,s, .loft . the, freshness pf youth there' are just three tilings that will make her socially tolerable grace, cleverness and kindness. And the greatest of these Is grace. I have told you "why'' ut sonio length now let me follow up my preaching with an account of my practice. I will tell you "how." I am Illustrating what I mean by three of my new photographs. In the one at the right I show you Just what my Ideal Is of a natural stand ing position. Balance your weight so lightly on the balls of your feet that you could easily rock back and forward If you chose. But you will not choose. You must cultivate perfect repose when you are In repose. Divide your weight equally 'between Tho Ideal Position. your feet, so that the flowing lines ofl your flguro will bo equal, unbroken and graceful aB Is any flowing Hue. Carry your shoulders down, straight and even, neither sunk forward nor strained back. As your shoulders aro down, so keep your chost high. Thus every vital organ Iior Its fair chanco of room to breathe for ltsclt and air to breath, too. Carry your head lightly and high. Feel in every musclo a willingness to spring into action. Ue conscious of vitality llko that of an athlete ready to start Into motion. And yet for your womanly grace bo as light as a flower the lightest breeze may set a-swaylng. Difficult? Perhaps If your Idea of standing has boon to relax Into meaningless shape. But when you have mastered this first position all that follow will be simplicity Itself. The center picture gives you a side view of this standing figure. This posi tion Is the next step In advance ' I am relaxing a bit as the coat Is doffed, and my weight Is slipping slowly to ouo foot In anticipation of sinking with gentle relaxation Into a chair. Hear me, mademoiselle, "Make haste slowly." Never Jerk novor bo abrupt. Study tho "lazy grace" of slow, .contained movomont which I have tried to Illustrate for you here. In the plcturo at the left I am trying to lllustrato for you tho meaning and some play. Is it an "old maid" making her own living, living her own peacotul, happy llfo, or hor married sister with an indifferent husband, three children and not a. day In tho year or an hour to call her own? Coma right down to common sense now who looks tho youngest, the married, women you know or tho "old maids," as you call them? Which has tho most money to spend, which travels tho most, which has th best tlmo. altogether? Ixok for yoursell now and seo what you shall see. Llttlo Mrs. Somebody there, In the flat nbovo yours hor husband drinks a little. Mrs. Nobody thero In the flat across the hall, her huaband Is pleasant to you whon you meet him on tho stairs; you can hear him growlingit hla wjfo tho mlnuto ho gets. Inside the dbar .Llttlo Mrs. What k of It down tho lmll, her hUsband Is too good looking, ho spends all his money on clothes and lots his wife look like a rag bag; you look younger and happier this very minute than any of these ordi nary, ovory-day women, Why don't you Uu'vo sonso enough to realize It and be grateful? Marriage Is tho finest, happiest, best tiling in .tho wprldl; When If Is .the right marriage When It Is the wrong ono or tho; morely halt way right ono, the old maid haB tho best of tho bargain every day. In .thp' year. Love Is "tho one thlnir that 'makes marrlago posMbVp, not respect, not admiration, not tolerance, not gratitude Just old-fashioned,, fool ish, bind, unreasonable love. If you haven't got that stay an -old- maid as long as you llvo and bo glad yoti had sonso onougli to do It Why haven't you walrcd up to tho faot that. the .majority of tho old maids spend half of their time pitying tho 'married wo'mcn and tho other half lending them money to make Up back payments on the grocory bills so Xhoyca.n get nowjiate and things? Who goes to tbalecAelue In August; who has little runs down to Coney or over to Man- Jinttan BjSoeh?' ho has the latest hat anu me newest ining in giovesr wno wears tho .neatest boots and goes to the best restaurants? Sister Sallje, the old lnnld with iter awn bank account and her own friends and her own good times. If Sister Mary loves her husband and Bister Mary's huuband Jqvcb her, sho's better off than all "'tho 'old maids on earth; but It Sister Mary Just married Hrother John to ''got a homo" and stop being an old maid, she's so much worso oft than Sister Sallle that It almost makes mo cry to think about her at all. Bid tho young man goodby, "Per plexed," pack your little valUo, tie on expression that may bo put into a simple standing position. The arms aro clasped your mtle j,onnet and go on down the loosely In front. Thero Is no awkward relaxation here but attention. Talk to a standing woman and see how ungrace.-. fully she relaxes and how she shifts un easily from foot to foot. But in light poleu and simple -focussing of attention I find It .possible to glva hoed to a con versation without losing all muscular control ot my oody In the Interests of my mind. From any ot these standing positions as must always boi tho case when you stand correctly It- Is- possible to start forward easily Into a light graceful walk. If . Every Map His Own Photographer ny dAtutUrr p. serviss. i A French Inventor has .contrived an Im proved' means of flattering-human vanity, irt the form of an auto-photographl? ma chine, with vfljose (ald tho sitter can choose his own pose and arrange his own expiesilon, without the-intervention of a' third person.- All he has to do Is to place thlm helf on a stool be fore the machine, look Into a mirror, fix his, hair and his necktie, and graduate his smile to suit his mood ; or his fancy, and i than Arcm n pnin In To keep young, to keep the .slender out- , a (j0t or, if it Is lines Df glrlsh grace and, above' all, to u private' machine keep well and strpng with the supreme owned by himself, charm of womanhood, you must begin touch a button, today mademoiselle, and learn to stand whereupon the me'hlr.Ism s-.ts to work One I feel attacked by the dangerous i ykm his nhotoirraob iluvfl-us it trans- fers It to a card, fixes It and at the end of three minutes, delivers the finished photograph; In 'a permanent form, In a box at the bottom of the aparatus, and Is ready for another pose. The entire process Is effected by means of a system of electro-magnets, and nearly all the steps aro .visible to the sitter, who can amuse himself by re maining In his chair ahd watching the operation through the windows In the enclosing box. The machine also possesses a system of lighting which Imitates the effects produced by tho photographer's shades and reflecting screens, so that the sub ject Is properly Illuminated, and the photograph comes out as delicately mod. eled with regard to light and shadow as If an expert poier had superintended the operation. Few persons aro quite satisfied with the proceedings of a photographer, or are willing to admit that notwlthstand. ing al) his experience, he can choose for them the exact poso, but with this mr chl-.e all can arrange such things W i please themselves. One often says to him self, when looking Into a mirror. "Now, If I could only get that expres sion that lighting In a photograph, how much better It would bol Uut I can't seo how I look whon tho photographer has posed mo, and I don't know how I am going to look until tho picture is fin ished," It Is to avoid this kind of disappoint ment that the Invention described has been mode. The pictures are made on tho regular platlno-bromlde paper and laolc nothing but . tho photographer's touohlng up ot the negative, which often does-as muoh harm as good. They aro also made on prepared post cards. In Its usual form, tho maahlne vis .In tended to bo placed in publlo 'places, llko thoso that deliver candles, but it can also be Used without the devtco ot dropping money In tho slot, and then the meohanlsm can be set In motion by simply pressing a button. Thus it becomes a private photograph ing apaiatus for the home. In such coun tries as France, where photographs are often demanded on "cards of identifica tion" for many purposes, Its usefulness Is apparent No detail -Moms to have bcon neglocted In tho automatic action of -tho machine. Ah soon as It has' bean set ln'motlon a bell rings and thsroup on a placard ap pears beforo tho sitter readlngr "Attention! Fix your expression.-"- In a few moments another signs ap pears: "Don't move!" . - Immediately afterward the pltturo Is takon by Instantaneous exposure, where upon a third sign makes It appearance: "Thanks." The sitting Is finished. In three minutes you 'will find your portrait In tho box at the bottom." After that, as before said, the sitter can watch many of the automatlo pro ceedings ot the machine through the windows. 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