TUK BEE: OMAHA, THURSDAY, AUGUST 21, 1DW. . ( I Happiness What It is, and How to Get It Hy ADA PATTERSON Happiness 13 a gentle exhlleratlon of th soul depending upon deep and frequent draught! of content. It Is largely a habit. In great measure a point of view. Happiness must m not be confounded with Joy. Joys dot pathway of llfo now and then, here and there. Happi ness Is a radiance that sheds Itself upon It and that can be mado con tinual. I was about to say perpetual, and will so say, for the habits of thought formed hero assuredly per sist In another sphere. Joys aro Inseparable! from affections. Happiness at ono time. The secret of getting what we want la to let It bo the ono thine wo ui.s.,1. utiy alter clay, nignt auer nigm, through calm and storm, through suc cessive seasons, and behotdl when wo have watted long enough soma day tho precious things become ours. Life rebukes the greedy gatherer of benefits, but rewards him who counts upon one. Do we want success? Is that the neynoie of our lives, tho craving of our being, tha cry of our hearts? Then, sometime, somehow we win It. Do we want love more than aught else. Then some heart assuredly will answer to the call ot ours. Hut It we ask for success and love, wisdom, fame, we may miss them alt Another clags of persons who enjoy a Science Egypt a Hundred Centuries Ago Brought to Light at Tarkhan may be apart from them and Independent of them, Joys are occasional visitors, rapturously welcomed, and capricious as to their goings and comings. Happiness Is a state of mind that can be attained by any ono. Joys are accidents that, may befall us. Happiness Is a condition we ourselves create. riovlewlng the long procession of per sbns I have known so welt that their soul states were readable to me, I rank as the happiest those who did not depend upon others for their happiness. Some of those were hUBbands. some wives, somo parents, or brothers or sisters. The lives of all were Interwoven with others in the commonest of life's relationships. But they did not lean upon the other Individual in that tie as a ladder against the side of tho house. It Is omnloua for such ladder against the sldo of the house. It Is omnloua for such ladder If the house be a crumbling decaying one. There aro ladders that have supports of their own, that are able to do their work of hoisting humans to higher positions, yet that stand sturdily upon their own support. Persons wise, cither Innately or be cause they aro of tho rare folk who distill wisdom quickly from experience), do not expect to derive the full measure of their happiness from anyone. Having judicial minds, able to put themselves In another's place, they know that It la asking too much from anyone, to keep tho cup of someone's else content full and sweetened exactly to his taste. Tho Ideal hero of a novel may perform this miracle, but no average human be ing ever did, alnd most human beings are average. Except In ono of the tran sient Joy states no one has ever enjoyed being anyone's Ideal, for being some- one's'ldeal entails living up toe the heights established by the dreamer. A young woman complained to me of the Idol atrous feeling she had Inspired In a dis tant relative. "I hate being worshipped," she said. "It Is so hard i to live up to the plans and specifications." Therefore, wise folk do not Idolize others because the wise are' also Just and they do not want to be Idolized. They expect an average of human conduct from the persons closest to their lives, and without making their efforts too plain, try to raise tho average by a good example of their own. To them, friends r.re not a necessity, but a luxury. They enjoy them, but they can get on comfortably wlthput them. Pom. taught by tho defections of Sue or Harry, they have learned to stand alone. Tho first stago In tho evolution that follows is bitterness. The second Is Plain. The last Is happiness, that strong, calm happiness of self-reliance whose price Is experience. Continuing to review the procession of persons I have known close to the front rank of happy folk I see the group of those who know what they want Happi ness attends these because when we know what we want we go after it and get it. The world is crowded with wobble folk. They want this today and that tomorrow and yesterday they wanted something dif ferent from either; wobble folk are greedy folk. They want to corner life's Joys. They would like-to form a merger of all the desirable things of earth and be at the head of the merger. In youth, at the threshold of life, If everyone knew what he wanted everyone would be sure to secure It, (or nothing can resist the continuous attack of the person who wants one good thing from life. We can noe effectually ask of life many things Hy GARHETT 1. SERV1SS. Civilised people lived In Egypt ten thousand ycarB agoso long ago that the North Star, which, ftom tho days of the Phoenician navigators, when com merce was young, until our time, has guided ships at sea, was then many degrees from tho pole of the heavens while another and a brighter star glittered not far from the north point of tho ce lestial sphere! The excavations recently made by Prof. Petrlc of tho British School of A chaeol gy have serene happiness Is those who havo the established this fact, which must uj.p a consciousness of having done their best very astonishing to those who still i with the equipment which nature has tain the old belief that tho world Itsell gven them. Every man and woman has n gift. If only for shoeing horses or mak ing cheeses. Ho is happy who knows when evening sets Its grey seal of silence upon his labors, that he has made good shoes and that each horse has gone forth from his blacksmith shop well shod. Tho woman who pushes back the lost mpuhl has the pleasant pride of having fash ioned her cheeses as richly and firmly and cleanly as she could, The pleasure of the work consciously done Is one of the greatest that life affords. Moreover, It Is a permanent ono. The rewards ot our work nrny not seem to be what it deserves. But the deep satisfaction of doing our own work In our own way, no better perhaps, but a little different than any other has done It, no power nor combination of powers In the world can take from us. Happy are those persons who are un lonely. Among the concepts of the statu of perpetual punishment Is that of an utter hopeless and perpetual loneliness. A great teacher used to say: "Let mo never hear one of my pupils complain ot being lonely. No Intelligent person ever need be lonely. The resources ot tho developed intellect are so many, thoughts are such good fellows, we should never sorely miss frequent association with other persons," An old clergyman said In my hearing, "My child, whatever sor rows the world may heap upon you, bo comforted by the fact that you havo a wett trained mind." We lean always to ward pty for tho only child in a family. We think of htm as self-centered, Intro spective, of an age far In advance ot his years, a child that has been cheated of most ot his childhood because his com panions have been those ot another gen eration. Tet there la compensation for this state even In a child, and that Is his seit-aurnciency. sucn a cnua win never know loneliness. He will never fear the bogles ot the less Belt-reliant. The speotre of loneliness will never stalk through his soul. The Restless Spirit J To The Young Expectant Mother Women of Experience Advise) tho UiO) of Mother's Friend. There Is a certain degree of trepidation In cubjoct of motherhood. the minds of most wumen in regard to the ana longing 10 poiaeis Is often contradicted by the Inher ent fear of a period ot distress. But there need be no such dread In vie ot the fact that we hart a most noble remedy In what Is known as Mothers Friend. Thin la an external application that bas & wonderful Influence and control over the muscular tissues ot the abdomen. By lis dally uie the muscles, cordi, tendons and ligaments all gently expand without the slightest strain; there la no pain, no nausea, no nervousness: what waa dreaded as a severe physical ordeal becomes a calm, Keren, joyful anticipation that has IU lav press such as our foremost teachers of Ihigeolcs are strUIng to drill Into the Binds of the present generation. Jn almost erery community there are iromcii who bare used Mother's Friend, and they are tbfc ones that recovered quickly, conserved ttaetr health and strength to thus preside over families destined by every rule if physiology and the history of succtsi 'ul men a- women to repeat the Story of rrrater at ment . Mothar's tfrleed Is prepared after the formula of a noted famllr doctor bf the Uradfleld Ilegulator Co, 138 Lamar Bldg., "'writ' tblra for tbtlr instructive book to ripectaot mothers. You will find Mother's Wend sale by all drug stoics at H.00 t oottte. By MRS. FRANK LEARNED. Author of "The Etiquette of New York Today." Early in llfo it Is wejl to realize that the spirit of restlessness must be resisted as an enemy to a normal condition ot mind or body. Many people think that to achieve results they must hurry mako a stir. Good work and hurry do not go together. Clear thought and flurry can not dwell In the mind at the samo time. Tho person who succeeds In life has steadiness, ot mind, self-dlsclpllne ana quiet thinking. Tho mind that Is not flurried by eventB or activities balances the person who achieves good results. The mind that is clouded by flurry can hot face opportunities or solve problems. Some persons think that they Impress ethers with their importance by" talking about being terribly busy and telling ot the rush In which they live. There Is no time for any pleasant, friendly Inter change of thought They are "going on'' somewhere and have not a moment to stop. One feels, when talking with them,' as though one were whirling along In a motor or on an express train. To live In a state of unrtkt and rever- lih excitement is not conducive to happi ness. It is better to try to do a few little things which are Worth white than many ot the things which require a continual drive and are a waste ot energy or time, and certainly waste of peace of mind. There are numberless llttlo tasks ot every-day life which need to be done. A good way to cure restlessness Is to do them, and to do them as well as we can. It Is a very pleasant thought that there Is generally something that each ono ot us can do, some very little thing, per haps, some small, lowly task or act, but which no one else can doi or there Is ei roe one to whom no one can be qulto as useful as we may be. Too efetn we ncsjicck mose 111110 tnings which are plainly before us, almost asking to be done. A girl who Is on the watch for the little duties at home and does them cheer fully and gladly will find that they help to make happiness. It may not seem a great thing to go on an errand for a mother, or to spend an hour In mending, or In arranging a room, or putting a desk In order, or making a delicious dessert to please a father; but perhaps these are some of the little dally things demanding to he done. Any form of work is worth doing, and if It is donfc In the right spirit It Is sure to brighten our own Jives and the lives ot others. The trouble Is that the spirit of rest lessness creates a desire to do anything else but what Is the affair of the mo ment. There is a, discontent with present surroundings, a visionary longing for which one may be totally unqualified. A girl must try to see very clearly what are her duties at home and whether slid Is needed there before she determines on on Independent career away from home. A very old and sweet saying la a great help In time of doubt as to action: "Do the duty that la nearest. The second duty will already have become clearer." i ,M null -w 'if - -?J!sfi'',tMi.rL 1 I Ten Commandments of The Summer Wife uy nonoriiv nix. Arlxo sister. gird up thy straight front, put glad raiment upon thyself nnd take thy vacation; yea, tuke It though thou hast to fight for It with tooth nnd nail for she that hath wrestled with tho rob ber thot lleth In wait In the butcher shop and the despollcr who nbldeth In the grocery store and who hath provided the wherewithal her family Is fod three times a day for 306 days, needeth to slip tho yoko for a space whlto the gulled place uenlth. x, When thou takest thy vacation, go It atone. Be not as thoso foolish wives who say, "I have never been parted from my husband, and to, where he gocth there will 1 also go," for bel'ka thou hast got ten on thy husbnud's nerves nnd ho would full) lmvo a rest from thoe. 3. Ucflcct that nine months ot the year can a man rejolco nnd be exceeding glnd to be married. Ten months can ho stco liltt heart with fortitude to endure. It, but on the twelfth month he notlceth that hi wife's noKo Is crooked, and ho knocket1 hor cooking. Thereto e, get theo henco on tho twc.'fti month, and when thou shall return to him nnd ho will make a feast it thy coming. 4. Stay not too long, though, on thy vacation, for it In not good that a huAhaml should bo loft alone to Ills own devices until ho can find tho ne crct spot wherein tho clean shirt hldcth Itself and tho fresh collars aro accreted. Ver ily It was written In tho Book of tho Prophets that a little absence mak cth tho heart grow fonder, hut too much nbsonce Incllneth It to another skirt. 5. When thou roeke.it In the chair that swayeth back nnd forth on tho Bummer hotel gallery, boast not thyself of thine automobile, and thy butter, and thy social prostlge, and the diamonds thou hast left behind theo In thy hushand'e safe; for the women thou braggest to aro the Daughters of Missouri, that oven require to bo shown, and they shall mock thee behind thy back as a liar. C. Toll not the secret ot tliy life. Ilevenl THEY SHAM MOCK THEE, Upper Picture Carved Table of Stone from Egypt of 10,000 yentu Ago Middle Picture Skeleton as Found by Prof. Petrio Lower Picture Carvings and Remains of the Ancieuta. Is only about six thousand years old. But such Investigations as those ot Prof. Petrle carry the same over whelming conviction to the reasoning mind as that which has caused all In telligent persons to accept tho conclu. slons of geAlogy concerning the millions, upon millions of years that the earth has been Inhabited by a great variety ot animals, some ot whose descendants, but little changed In their forms, are co dwellers with us today upon this an cient planet. The nature of the excavations made by Prof. Petrle in Egypt may be clearly seen In the photographs which are here reproduced. There you nee the beautifully carved tables of stone and of alabaster, tho animal figures, the spltuixes, the speci mens of pottery, and the irranlte an. ccplmgl, or coffins, which that wonder ful, prehlstorla people mado for them selves. There, too, you see somo of tho ikelo tonn of tho "sacred" animals which they honored with burial oeretnonlea hardly less elaborate than those which weru do voted to their kings, queens and rulers. Prof. Petrle and his asslstunta havo un covered not less than 800 ancient grayes, none of which aro loss than about ,000 years old. All of them tell the same story, viz: thut ho long ago as that men had al reudy learned many ot tho arts which wo often, think aro peculiar to tlme In cluded within tho limits of written his tory. They could not merely build atrong and beautliul structures of masonry nnd carve stqtues and shape vases nnd sx clte tho admlrntlon of architects and ar tists today, but thoy knew tho use of the most precious metals, and formed exquisite ornaments of gold nnd silver. Theso things must set one to thinking, for wo know that arts and sciences are long In being developed, requiring thou sands ot years, and that no civilisation can grow up except as tho result of many centuries of slow advance How far back, then, should wo have to go n order to find the real beginning of Egypt? Ten thousund years must be but a Htuu In that long march of human progress! The poles of the heavens may havo nwung more than once completely round tholr great 20,000-year orbit since tho land of tho Nllo began to bloom with cultiva tion, nnd Its human inhabitants started on their upward courso. Nothing can bo mure Interesting that: these delvlngs Into tho past history of the globo slnco innn cumo upon It, and tho farther that Unwritten, but still not unrecorded, history strut a lies hack the more the wonder growH, for every now discovery plunging deeper Into the age shows thut wo ure yet far from the start, lug point. HE 18 AS A PHONOOHAPH. not the weaknesses ot thy husband, nnd pull not forth from thy closet tho skele ton whero It Is hidden because thou hap penest to stroll In the twilight with a. sympathetic sister, for lo she shall tell that tale to another, nnd she shall repent It to still another, and soandal Imll bo heaped upon thy name. 7. When thou play est bridge, get theo a Btrangle hold upon thy purse, for perad venturo the society dames with whom thou sportest shall shear theo even as a lamb Is sheared on Wall Street, and thou shalt havo to wrlto homo for more money. 8. Take not the lono Bummer man away from tho maid ens when ho floest to thee as to a tem ple of refuge, be causo thou already hast a husband and cannot expect him to marry theo. Flirt nt with such an one, but stand thou to e,no sldo and glvo the virgins their chance, for lo In these days husband Is acarco and nara to come at. 0. Listen not to the man who wnndereth on tho beach with thee In tho moonlight and who sayeth, "Would Ood I had met thee In time." for behold he Is nut a phonograph with one record, and hntn already said tho same thing to 6St,735 other women. Also he draweth but twen- ty-flvo bones per In a department ntorc, whilst thy husband hath aklll with tho shekels, so that thou adornest thyself In purplo and split skirts therewithal. 10. Forget not that gossip staiuem through tho halts of a Summer hotel, seeking whom It may destroy: thereforo bear thyself as though thou posest In a moving picture film and converse as though thou consortest with a dictagraph. So shalt thou meet thy husband with a glad smile when ho cometh down on thei Saturday afternon train, and thy heart shalt not quoko with fear when thou thlnkeat ot what one of the old caU who knit pink sweaters In the hotel lobby may roveal Unto him, ' Sc'ah. im im at o VT Ii- m If rr The Manicure Lady Evolution Again By WJXIilAM U. KIRK. "I eee In the papers that the prince of Wales got a call down from King George for Indorsing a note and getting stung for 2,600," said the Head Barber. "That's nothing," raid the. Manicure Lady, "Lots of princes hao got stung for Indorsing notes, and they wasn't all princes oi royal blood, either. I seen that same piece in the paper, but It was quite a while ago. dee. Qeorge, I'll bet he felt awful when the king of England bawled hi in out. A king's anger must be terrible to behold. That's what the his torical novels tells, anyhow." "I don't see how a king can .ho any madder at his son for monkeying with Indorsed notes than any dad Is with his boy," Bald the Head Barber, "A man can only get about so mad without get ting apoplexy. A king can't call yoU down no harder than Paddy the Pig, There Is only so many words In the ISn gtleh language, and a roughneck can say them as loud and as often as a king." "Yes, thore Is a good deal in that," agreed the Manicure Lady. "You re member when I lost my purse last' week, Qeorge. I was Just as mad aa a humari being could be when I seen I had lost It. No king could have been madder. I coutd have bit the head off unybody that said I misplaced It, until I found it and knew J had been careless. Oh, well, what Ss money anyhowT WJiy should the king or England bo sore at his son? The kid's grandfather was the same sort ot a sport , magazine editor will let It got nt that. Anyhow, them sentiments of hi Is about Hie same as mlno. I don't know how much like him, with all his court doings and pomp, hut I am glad to know lilt grunuson is a Mnnun being." "Here, too," said the Head Barber. "I wish somebody would endorse a note for me. The landlord Is barking like a hound." Ho was more than a king, Qeorge, that Edward man. Ho was a regular guy. He knew more about the value ot money than people thinks he did. He knew so much about the value of money that ho knew It didn't have no great valuo at all. He had friends tbut was rich and friends that was poor, and he would stick to a friend that was poor Just as surely as he would walk away from a pest that was rich. "Wilfred says that he would have did the same an young prince of Walea did, only It wouldn't do tho poor kid no good to endorse a J2,W0 note. It makes an awful difference whose name la on the back ot a piece ot paper, George, It ain't the color ot the Ink or the penmanship or the pen It was wrote with. But I didn't have the heart to tell Wilfred that be would never be nble to endorse a note, and I gUess ho don't care much for what little money he ever made, except to be happy with It. He wrote a poem yesterday and sent It to a magazine and this Is the copy ot It; ' 'I do not care for boundless wealth Or. r.ny thing it brings to me, Just so long as I have my good health And vvery songbird rlnus to me. The richest brewer In the land Is only rich In gold and silver. And I, who have friends on every hnnd, Their love all gold I wpuld not kill for.1 "Wilfred said thot he knew 'silver and 'kill for" was a bum rhyme, but he ex plained to me that there wasn't no real rbyme for 'silver,' and I suppose tho 'tired of waiting too long. Hy KDOAll LUCIEN LAUKIN. a,i now what has happenod, or oc curred, taken plaoe or appeared? My mall Is changing again; questions on evolution aro comng with Increasing rapidity. What has once moro started up the doctrine 3f ovolutton? No hypo thesis over encountered so many uv downs. The roarings ot warB ot words surge In tho papers, magazlnesand books of tho world, for a time, uie oui mm main quloscent during an Interval and then lurid flames of conflict burst forth. And now the serenity ot this summit Is disturbed and tho tumult Is heard abovu tho clouds. These nro the flying shells: Q. "Ia tho theory ot evolution true?" "Has the doctrine of evolution been proved7" "la evolution settled In BClenco?" "! Dar winism a teaching of science?" "Do col leges nnd university courses lncludo evo lution?" "Do animals really change Into other kinds?" "Havo nil agreed to evolu tion, or are there thoso who oppose?" And these aro the woes, not in Pan dora's box, but in the Mount Lowo mall sack, Tho answer Is that there are those who still oppose the teaching of evolu tion In many of Us branches. Tor evolu tluntsta ore divided among themselves. For Bomo write that they believe In tho existence of a Creator, while others say virtually that all things evolved them selves. Still others hold that the Creator started the process of volution, and then I retired, leaving all th'ngs to evolve by ' means of laws Impressed upon matter, I A few believe that matter itself, or tho properties thereof, are a law unto them- aelvbs a refinement or this Deing mat tho properties uru tho laws. Having been asked for an opinion, I give this: Nothing exists but electrons these wero created by a Creator, and tho J much money Kdward the Seventh had Zly mentaV. Urnta All V'hen ho died, and I don't care, but there . mttttcr( whatever be It- nature, all ob- ,0.t f1,,eop e ln,the wa Jects, wero formed later of tho created wm hi T ,6" " Wa" hfr' nnd he electrons, also by mental force. All at w 1 be talked about us a regular mall trIUutM mmitle., properties and specific o,ttw.lJ,B Tft" h ,1Ike?1n,'0Ut M characteristics of all types, phase,, cle ,?ri ,il V. "m..n r.?,U hl" on oln,t ments or kinds of mnttor wero imparted Advice to Lovelorn Iy IJEVIHICK KAHIFAX. Leave Thut to Ifer, Dear Mlw Kalr- T am 21 and In lovo with a girl 19, nnd she lovos me. Another mon, whp Is much older. Is trying to win her love, but she doesn't care for him At present I am not settled, and it may tnko about three years before I can marry, while the other man ran support l er quite nicely. Havo I tho right to ask her to wait? a. J. Sho loves you. She doesn't love tho other man. If alio Is worthy ot a good man's lore she will wait Indefinitely for him In preference to marrying a man she does not core for. Glvo her the right to decide, and xee that you don't make her or Impressed hy the Creator of electrons, beBlde which all other things In existence are secondary. Evolution referred to In these questions relates to changes, advances, recessions and again advances In plants nnd animals that is, in the organic world. Tho change of one kind, typo or plant of one animal Into another has not been proved. Take hundreds of kinds of pigeons as mentioned on page fifteen of Darwin's "Origin of Species." They vary most remarkably, but they are all pigeons. Horses are widely varied, but no matter how they differ, tho horse plan exists' In all. Now, I assert, dogmatically, If the reader pleases, that the first cell that pro duced a pigeon was created by a creator, entire mental; likewise the horse and every other living being from an animal so small that 60,000 of them sldo by side would fill out a line one inch long, to the largest geologic period fifty-ton beasts, terrestlal or aquatic. And not ono In original cell structure, nttribute or quality has changed, evoluted, developed, mutated or merged! Into another ot different type or kind. It is within primordial cells thut tru mutation or change is to be searched utter. This search has been made, but cullutar evolution has not been dlncov ered. The great founders of tho doctrlno of evolution do not make extreme claims Uke some of their followers: Complete materialists, those who believe that matter Is eternal, therefore not ere ated, will find the significant words "cre ation" and "created" on page 83, volume II of "Origin of Species," thus: "Slnglo Center of Supposed Creation.' We aro thus brought to the question whtoh has been largely discussed by naturalists, namely, whether speclos have been cre ated at one or more points of the earth's surface. Undoubtedly there are many cases ot extreme difficulty in under standing how the same species could poo slb.y have migrated from some one point to the several distant isolated points whero now found, "Nevertheless, the simplicity ot the view that each species was first produced within the slnglo region captivates tha mind. Ho who rejects It rejects the vera, causa of ordinary generation with subse quent migration and calls In tho agency of a miracle." I would erase tho word, "supposed" nnd substitute the word "cre ation" for the word "mlrac)e in tho above. The theory of ovotutlon of one kind ot plant or animal into another kind is not true. I am out ot touch with colleges at present, but believe that all teach evolu tion, mutation, variation, selection and changes in many of their forms, but doubt If any professor, if asked by a student this question, would ansker "No." Q. "Does a Creator exist?" Some might reply: "I do not know-thls Is unknowable" Or. If the word "know" is not desirable, the word "aware" may be substituted oy those who do not like the stronger word. Man, normal, is nware that a Creator ex ists. I said this to n, questioner once, and he replied, " 'Aware' Is a stronger word than 'know.' " Now let me "dogma tize:" I know that a Creator exists and that It Is mind. Lowe Observatory. California. How to Wash Face to Preserve Its: Beauty (From Beauty's Mirror.) The face should never be washed mora than once a day, that In the morning, ac cording to an eminent London physician. There's nothing like rain water tor this, he sayB. It the skin Is not over-sensative, cola water Is better than warm. Dashing it over the faco with the palms of the hands, aids In toning up relaxed skin. The face should be dried with u soit towel and not exposed to tho outdoor air tor at least a halt hour. Nqver use soap, but at night smear over the face some preeolated buttermilk paste, rubbing It in gently and removing in the morning with cold water. It Is more cleansing than any soap and con tains no alkali. Its value as a tkln soft ener and whltener Is well recognized, and of courso this applies to nock and hands as well as tho face. Any druggist can supply good preaolutcd bufterfmilk paste, and It is far more convenient to use than u dally wash ot buttermilk, it Is more economical, too, bq large an amount of the beautifying elements being concen trated In tlui paste Advertisement,