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About Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922 | View Entire Issue (June 19, 1913)
V V Tllti BEE: OMAHA, THURSDAY, JUNE 10. 1913. Bringing Up Father CorrrlKht. MIS. IrftemiUloni ?Jews-0rlo. Drawn for The Bee by George McManus i KU THt LVTE-.T 1 V r" - N . . . V V .'itiT THAT . J6, T1 look -.viotnix sNTTHVk : O CTl I 'fii". T '.f-Vft -I . , ' U ' "N. t MINUTE, FRIErtb - ' ' ' i ... ... . . : " t i " ' ' ' ' 1 " ' I ".''"'' ' " - -1- v- ' . ( . e y; S- -fc . 0 ' SJW . if - v II: The Devil Oh the StUiiih E The Girl a Married Swe'BffligfflPfc Tears and Sor row Are the Price She is Bound to Pay 1 By DOROTHY Ti. A young girl wrlteato me .to,J, Is very much In lovo with a married 'piahV who tells her that he is devoted lo' her, but that he does npt Intend to divorce his wife In order to marry her. She says that she has lost all Interest In her young com panions, -and Is very unhappy and f she doesn't know 1 what to do, and she will take my advice as to , whether to, give her married sweetheart up or not. I am afraid that It Is too good to be true that this poor, silly child will be .guided by my coun jsel in this matter, ..but In case It should be possible that any word of mine 'could Influence her or any 'other girl In 'such a dilemma, I urge her with all the earnestness that I can p,oasbly command to break with the man before1 another hour rolls over her head. Time and again I have, written. on .this subject, trying to make girls realize not only how wrong, but how foolish they were to waste their youth, their .sweet rtess, their chance In life In love' affairs with married men. Again and again have- I pointed out to them what a sorry bar gain It is when a girl gives all and gets nothing. -in, .rtturn, I ask this girl who writes tme to sit down and to calnly figure jbut ,her jase. Ori one side of 'ho page lt her write dpwn Morality, A..,, Clear bonsclence,, A Good Name, Self-Hspect, Tjie jRespec of Friends and Neighbors, D.uiy to "Qne'a Family, Husband, Home, Children, Thse are things that sfye forfeits (jf .sho con tinues her affair with the .married man. She may not' think, much' of morality, but a gnawing conscience is" a bad com panion to have ivitH you rllght and day, and what about, .selfrespct,. and the respect of one's circle of acquaintance, and he black mortification of knowing that pno has brought dishonor on one' namoT Do ypu believe, h'at the. love.pf any,inan on earth ever pays a girl for knowing that her family lsj",asham'ed pf, her, or thatany dagger could, pierce a soul wjth such, an agony ,a.s1'eelngi.lp,the.r,' Womfi draw, their .skirt: away from her? And do you think that any worthy young ma)i, the sort of a young man you would Jlkcto marry, would care to mary a, girl, whpBelname has been bandied about asv thq, Idiner sweetheart of some married manj MoralltyXa cjear cpnsclence, a, good name, self-respect, tho respect pf friends and neighbors, duty to one's famllytlhua band, home, children these are pretty good things, for a woman to have, flttle sister, you throw them over the wind mill If jrpu continue youj;love a,ffar,wtli a marred man. "What ore you going tp wrltg on th other side of the ledger? BcandaJ? Oh, ys, you are. Don't thlnfc youcan Jeep it hlddei and secret. BUch things always come but. Don't think Mmmty S&etms&f Mm&tiM Women "Cultivate Harmonious 'Surfduhctings, ' Sdjys Doris Keane -J Staple ;Wdy To Darken Gray Hair You Can Prepare a Mixture at Home That Does It Nicely If every' person knew what a simple matter it Is to darken their gray hair this sign of advancing years would be a rarity. The ordinary dye or stain Is not at alj. satisfactory and Is astly detected, leaving the'halr jitlcky, rub off or col ors the, Scaip, but hl simple recipe, whiciy you' an make-up at home at it tie cost, overcomes Ul Ihcj.pbjfcUons and is certain to $lve Bnlendjd. satis faction, To 7 pi. of water add pnp small box of Barbo Compound, 1 oz. of bay rum and U of. of. glycerine. Tills makes a mixture that gradually darkens the balr or beard to ji rich, glosy brown, removes dandruff and other Ills of the scalp "and promotes ttje growth ot Ihe hair. 'Apply once a week and wh'en It Is sufficiently darkened usa once every two weeks. You will find if you try this ,x.celent formula that there Is nothing tba can Uke Us place. people won t talk about you. Gossip has n thousand tonguej, and not one of them' win spare yuu, ine iirsi iimo u. gin goes pyt.tq dlpnfcr In a cafe with a mar ried man, sho leaves ner good name be' hind her. A gHllty copsclcnce? Yes, no matter1 how you He ,tp yourself, you will al ways nave mat on your soul, tnat win wake you up In the night with a cold sweat on- your forehead. You know that you re dolnp your best to rob a woman oi her husband, and little . children of their fathor. You are breaking up t home and .slaving the happiness of an other woman, and beside thoso crimes. burglary Is i, pommendablc pastime and murder, a tuning, misdemeanor. .perhaps. U19 mpn Is tired of his wife a'nd'untr.uo to her, anyway. That isn't your affair. You' don't have to steal and kill because thero are degenerates that do. . Be sure of this, little girl no woman ever bHt .any .secure happiness on an otner woman s misery. Then write down waiting. Years and years of hopeless, aimless waiting for a man wjva has, no right to love you, ft npn. whpmyiu have no right to lovo, one who can glve,,you only stolen minutes of his uoclety, who cannot be seen out With you, or. visit you without shame to vquw both,, Anything attractive In that P'spect.jiUle" sfer? " Then 'write fear. Fear of desertion. 'The hideous fear that gnaws at tho heart of the wpman who has given everything to a man and has no way by which Bhe can bind hlhi to her Bide. Tho wife has tho, bond that the law and society has forged, that holds her husband to her. Ho cannot break this tie with Impunity, buc between the married man and his unmarried love there Is nothing but his fickle fancy. No other womani knows such tortur ing Jealousy, (no other, woman knows such deadly fear as ths woman who realizes that nothTng but her beauty and hr, youth and. her charm holds her mar ried sweetheart, and .that some day these must go, and that then lie will turn to a fresher and fairer face. foraUty, a clear conscience, a good name, self-respect, the respect of friends an neIgVbors(,,d,'uiJx to one's family, hus band, home, children, on the one side. On the othjr, scandal,, a guilty con science, waltlnjg, fear, no home nor hus band nor children of, one's own, no, set tled place ,ln spcletv, to be looked at as kance Instead of being welcome among the people .pnp wquld like to know. How docs the account balance, Uttlo sister? ton you, inintt, mai .you win nave to pay a pYctty high price ylth a married rnah? And look at tho man squarely. Don't you think that any man, who would win the heart of a young girl when he knew that hq, couldn't marry her, Is about the most consummate cad that ever came down, the pike? Arid doesn't he deserve a .rn.eu.ai as me moif seuisn man on earth when he asks you to do a thing .that will niake ypu the target for all the mud sllnclnK In vour circle? Ii w'o'n't hUrt him to take you abotit n ,ils automobile. People will simply shrug their shoulders and say that he's a devil of . a fellow with women, and that fast little girl he has got a fllrta tlon with U a,, peach. But It will ruin you, and as long as you live there will always be a cloud of scandal on your name That's Ihe prfce you will pay for your married syeethe'artjs attention. That's J;he rfce ejery woman pays, and she pays It in tears and sorrow. Have notli- jng to dp with any jTiarrlsd man who for your romance makes ive to Tpu. Sijph romances are ine loooggan suae to peraition. ueware of them. Advice to the Lovelorn By REV. THOMAS B. GREGOR Propose to Her. Dear Miss Fairfax: lam ketDins- corru pary with a young lady; who Is 71 years of age and I am 27, and I have known this girl for the past five years. Lately. X notice she keeps company wlthne of mv friends. Do you think that r should give her UP? She told me thut she loves me, but she made an appointment with me and went out wun my inena. WALLACE. It seems to me that if you have been devoted to her so long and have not asked her to marry you, she does right to accept invitations from others. Make her a proposal of marriage and, if she accepts, this will give you the right of objection. HB9HHHHHgH9HE ''sasafessw BBasBBiBBIBB sk HbbssssbIssbsM 2 Ik . k Rr SlAUIrJ O. .JONES. jlfrraA-irandnKttter xaiad to fedy Tu'e BcTfl. &ith SrEs nrll, JAmL fertni: aat Car "ils'Iat. i&jV wtea T sec 6fito hciSida Hkitt, I mitk. 'lie thsirITs vrpt enanih ; 'i'tk lcaa Car nlm 'to qdlt. sfilte of her well-bred palso, In spite of tho keon, power. tu , I'lhaJy'xo n!i(l aip"ral'm llfo that glows In the doep files of her great brown eyes, Miss KelUic Is a girlish and apVonllrfgMtlo flKuVe. In her Junoesaue costuino in "Tho Af fairs of Ahntol," enHy thlH winter, she managed to lUok tall and stately, In her present play sho s an exotic llullali, but In propria persona Miss kcuno is a brown-haired American girl, whoso earn estness or purpose and ambttlo"us xdllltig ness to work add o the feryer p.f.'&rtjsVo Inspiration and mako her beautiful 'whh n charm that surmovnls me'ro jprettjness of fmturo jbi a way that at fords u Uttlo sermon nil Its oyn. "Surroundjngs are sp hhportnnt," went on Miss ICcArte. "One pvonlrig retently n party of friends look nip tp a rpjsldVi lant all (lotto In hcilvy plush hangings and oppressive gilt, Jui; ierBdnnllty wus Bpibthered, (i'nd tiocamon. Qllpt, 'de pressed c'reaturo qullo illfforont ?ro'm fie animated porsdh I had been Just before. "That ' mttdo iflo "flpdlW sure of hiy theory, ftgrroppd yoursair w)0 , fr'fsli, clean, hlry, wholesome surroundings For piirpoic'M df sttmulatirig mind 'and spirit a day In tho eouniry far( iurpaiscs a kIbbs of champagne. Tio, putdpprs trees, green growing things and a charted (h nitluro atd solltudo vp know ybUr own oul riro the most wonScr'f'ul tomes I know. aU thy soul' aro tho things J llfto best Just ndW tio Dovll sits ontlirpribd In the world. "Slnco I was 0 years old I have known what I wanted tp Up,,ln tho worjd., Tjiat is young, perhapsbu't ever since I can remember I ftaVo been working toward a Wlin Biiury hoBo an fl6boloto, IndfcBB and i6tik-n-boo, I think tho DovII'b got thn stylos, A'rid got tho women, too, Alas! Alas, tho sad, sad fact: when women fall his firoy, Through tliom lib knows Its easy To l3ad Iho mon astray. work The Head Waitress Upon his "stump" fh 'Franco, And through styles ho pulls tfil That hVnltcs ihe peoplo dance. I si; 1 wish tho wotnbn wotlld retuso To bow and bond and jump To Satan's whims, and then, per haps, Ho'd abdlcato tho "stuhip." And then hiaybo wo would bo fre6 Prom Satan arid Ills wiles, And once again Intelligence. WoUld glvo Us slfnplo styles. witchery, charm Incarnate, the luro of "the eternal wpman," aro to becomu living and tangible qualities through Doris Keane's portrayal of Margarita Cavalllnl in "Romapcq" modo real at Mexlne Elliott's theater. Of course you have often read a book or seen a play In which oarnest author and striving characters tell you. again and again how charming Is the fair heroine All their Insistence1 never rnqkes tf)o. For the witchery of moonught 'and the appeal, of lovely woman are subtle things you must reel in stirring nearu ine wnue ypu see wlh rapt eyes. ,,,, But the Italian prima donna of "ho mance" fascinates and ' bewitches even when yoil disapprove of the saucjy Jade and at last she wins you heart and soul as with brimming eyes you sit rapt and thrilled the while she rises to he sacred realization pt ner woman's sout ana pleads with Jier adorer, "let me be good." The curtain fell on an old man's dream pf ybu'th or romance and I was whisked' back to the realm of glaring lights, of rouge pots and cold orcam Jars, of wigs and artifice, to vlsft our new alar In her npnrjwlnkllng daylight environment thp dressing room. All around me were flowered curtains and dratferles of qifaint old (chlnU and everywhere, on stray shelves, on th dressing table, in free corners were glow. Ing. fragrant flowers. And In the' midst of this beauty and light sat Doris Keane still pulsing with the emotion she had felt the while she portrayed it. "You love beauty?" I ventured. "I love beautiful surroundings and the personality they must develop," said Miss Keane. "You see, I have a sister ever since our childhood I had known and felt and admired her radiant beauty. ) knew I could never bo like that and iM acpU th imposslUa WtUoiy fiXWr Doris Kenno, Ouo of America's Most Popular Actresses. a time. I accepted beauty and did not analyze, it. I began to think inore about personality and the power that brings. AH, is not personam a wunuenui thine? That almost all wotnen can de velop tiie force, the magnetism that a rare and evenly doveloped personality brings. are-to me more lpyfely than beauty. Though, of course, tho daughters of Kve do try to Pok as well as possible, to maKe tnat quick nine appeaimai kivi'b personality a hearing. "The most charming women have vary ing personalities. Do ydu know when I am most popular with myself? It Is when I have 'a sudden realization that I looked like a girl of IS In tho morn ing, and that now in sophisticated even ing clothes I look suddenly 'grande dame' elderly even " df course Miss Kearto would have some I difficulty In looking "tdrly." far, la By HANK. "I'm sure get,t)n' o. bo pomp popular with all the advertising you're giving c." Said the Head Waitress to tho citdy Customer In the fafo d'Enfant. "Yes," ho replied, " a newsptiper man, Louise, is a good friend tp have. I am mad you appreciate, .that filet," "I den't know whether l ao or not, repaid tho Head Waitress. ya like to itiiow wfiat your object Is. Thero ain't nobody now-a-aays mat. uorn anyinuii. without ah dblect. Every kindly word haaila sflriu In these parlor limes." ' rarious times, corrocicu mo menu Irfllntftrnep. "IZ you new wnai i nieani you uiun fiave to correct mo," sijap'ped tho ileeul Waitress., "You newspaper guys are al- witysjshpwlng off. And let me tell you jsomeuiinK, iiiuiic, mu viuv. bc,nu sore at you, You had her In the paper saying 'bloke' the other day. Sh.e, don't call no guy bloke. She comes from In diana, jvhere they don't use them kind of expressions." What does she call therri?" asked the Stoady Customer. I'ellers," .said the Head Waitress, "and thVt's proper, too. You wouldn't say, 'I'm golpg out with my best bloko tonight,' wpuld you? No, you'd say, 'my Best rener.'" ... ! . i . . . . . J.t -1 .". . 1 1 ..' l t '1 am QMi Grusneu Uliu uiiaaiiocu, a- plltd the Steady Customer. "Anything else?" Yes, me and Marie, would like to know where you aHd your dark friend go every day after unch4' said tne Head waitress, cnance 10 uci m inierpriji onaraoicr. i , B j i. C. Wpmcn mu find themselves aM thd oecau.e nq.u JUU u. fn tl,lr nr, If tl,.v mnnt t Otner way every UttJ . I. l,ot,nvn.,rt whnt.Oee nhlirm lrirln "JVny, WP BP U a IIIOVIUB I'luurt, ,.iiv i. d, inim- nf Un show," cxfllklned the SteSdy Customer. foul working toward a goal Is more ap. "We 'lnd that "tlrring western pealing to the world-and men, scenes or rekless dee3s of daring takes "But while I like men-tho man Is not our P"n(U 011 lne vioiem enons oi our come-I think for tho actress who i noniMni mm r moinwn huh u afire with her att nil olse must be sec ondary," To rite above tho tawdry plush and gilt facts of life, to ventilate your soul," and open it to the loveliness of nature, sinkers that you hand us In hero." "Hm-m," sniffed the Head Waitr how you can see go ess. to such "I cdn't places." "Well, to be truthful," said the Steady First thing in the morning Last thing at night Godd Teethkeepin& a vita .habit that your boy or girl cannot cultivate tob sbon. 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