Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922, June 08, 1913, EDITORIAL, Image 15
The Omaha Sunday Bee Magazine Page - Copyrights ISIS, by the Star Company. Great Britain Rights Keervd. rasols - The New Hands-in-'em Gowns, the Ding-Dong Parasol, the New Little Sun Shades of 00 Years Ago "Tho New Pocket" Cottumo of Dark Blue Charmeuie. The New Hour Glatt Skirt nnd Odd Feather Standard on Hat. t The Bell Sunshade of Heavy Plain Silk Designed to Wear with the High Trimmed Hats. T ADY DUFF-GORDON, the famous "Lucile" of London, and roremost creator ot fashions in the world, writes each week the fashion article for this nrwinani-r rrinl!nT nil InM ! nptATMt and best in styles for well-dressed women. ' Lady Duff-Gordon's new Paris establishment brings her into close touch with that centre of fashion. Lady Duff-Gordon's American establishment is at Nos. 37 and 39 West Fifty-seventh street, New York City. By Lady Duff-Gordon ("Lucile") fOCKETS? But why not? When r will we women adopt this eminently practical privilege that has belonged to man for so long? We want their rights, let us take their privileges, and particular ly pockets. There Is no reason why wg should have our pockets placed like patches on our gowns. How ever, we may, have them Invisible, but -useful, and this Is accomplished I think In the picture of the hip Docket gown that I am sending you this week. This little costume, as you can boo.'Is very simple, but the lines are excellent. It is created in a heavy charmeuse. The shape of the skirt suggests the hour glass and rlght back of the embroidery on the hips are the poikets. They will, be use ful, as well as ornamental. . Some of us may not care lor pock ets, but where Is the woman who does not thrill over the new sun shades? The deep bell-shaped one In plain silk is stunning. It is de signed, of course, for the extremely high trimmed hats of this season. And what a contrast Is the dainty little affairs all made of lace ruf fles on a net foundation. This is to be worn only with one of the very small hats, for there is nothing worse than a hat that appears larg er than the parasol held over it As you can see, the handles are extremely long. Why this sudden change in the shapes of the sunshade? It is all due to the hat trimmings, lot mo tell you. Have you a hat (and. of course, you have!) with a "lightning con ductor" style of trimming in the way of a rigidly erect and aggressively tall arrangement of aigrettes or os trich feathers, flowers or ribbon and if you havo ever been caught in the rain when you were wearing it, and tried (and failed) to hold an umbrella at the right protective angle over your headgear, then you will indeed be truly thankful to know that a new sunshadq has been specially devised to save you from auy such temper trying experiences and failures dur ing the many sunshiny hours to which in spite of many sad disap pointments in tho past wo aro look ing forward hopefully this Summer. It Is really a most ingenious and effective novelty, and, llko most suc cessful things, is quite simple, only you must mako up your mind to spe cially reserve it for use with Just those hats and those hatB only- whlch have their very high trim mings at one side or the back, and provide yourself with another and more ordinarily shaped sunshade for those occasions when your headgear distributes Its adornments rather more evenly and moderately. For this newest shield against tho Bun.ls of the quaintest shape, one side taking a very considerable up ward slope V when it Is opened, though when It is closed there Is no apparent difference of outline. Tho advantage is obvious as of course the proud possessor of the now sun Bhade Ib saved from the constant and difficult manipulation of tho handle, and the hat, feathers or flowers from the frequent and damaging jars and knocks which are the Inevitable re sult of a moment's forgetfulness. It Is all managed by a clever variation of tho shaping and placing of tho ribs, and inasmuch as there Is a certain piquancy as well as a dis tinct convenience and protectiveness in the new shape, it is already and eagerly being acquired by any num ber of smart women who will make the first sign of sunshine their ex cuse to display their new possession and proclaim their up-to-dateness. And as if their shape were not enough to make them distinctive, some of the new models can further boast of being covered in a new ma terialnow, that is, for this particular purpose and draped in a way which is gracefully reminiscent of the latest dress skirts. Let me picture to you, therefore, one such pretty novelty whose sloped surface Is covered with passion- The Small-Hat Sunshade of Net, N ever to Be Worn with a Large Hat flower purple oropo do chine, tho soft fabric being ovontually arranged in festoons which hide all the points of tho ribs, and aro further finished off by a little flatly colled frill. At intervals this frilled fulness is drawn upward into a rOKette-llke knot and then loft to hang in a long handkerchief-shaped end, so you may Imagine that tho resulting effect is very Boft and decorative. And for the rest, it Is nil lined with chiffon, Just a suRKestlon paler in tope, and provided with an enormously tall handlo of snakewood topped with ivory and gold alto gether a sunshade which would mako Its owner pray for fine weather. And by tho way, I must not forget to point out to you that its shape not only eases your wrist and protects your hat, but also brings tho wholo of tho sunshade into vlow in a way which makes it worth your whilo to indulgo in dainty details of this kind. And whllo tho hats havo thus changed tho shape of many of tho sunshades tho fabric fashions in dresses have had just as potent and decorativo an influenco on others', and so it is that for specially smart functions and frocks there nro biiii shades mado In cloth ot silver and gold with boldly and beautifully bro caded designs in shimmering satin. Jib- Manners Indoors and Outdoors By Mr?L EJ IT IS desirable to be beautiful, but It Is equally desirable to have pleasing Aid cultivated manners. Madame Cavallerl gave us last Sunday valuable Information on the care and culture of the voice. To day Mrs. Frank Learned discusses some es sentials' of good manners. This Is the second of a series of useful and Interesting articles which Mrs. Learned Is writing upon manners, good form, social etiquette, the art of conversation and cognate topics. She Is a member of New York and Newport society, and Is a recognized author ity on the subjects on which she writes. By Mrs. FRANK LEARNED JUST as tho well-drilled soldier is finer than the raw recruit, so is the cultivated person trained in observing each law adopted in social life which distinguishes him from the uncultivated. Correct attitudes In standing, walking and sitting cannot be learned without practise, "mere will be no (race in standing If the body sinks back on the heels, or the shoulders are stooping, or the chest sinks in, or the chin is poked for ward. Standing is merely an interrupted Uep. To walk well there must be evenness jf motion, with smooth, regular steps. There ihould be no jerking, mincing steps, no long itrldes. The foot is placed almost straight, turned slightly outward. It is awkward to turn the feet in and very bad form to spread the feet out The arms should fall easily, he elbows being near tho body. To swing (ho arms Is not good form. When sitting down the knees should be ear together. The shoulders may lean against the chair if the hips are well back. hut it is more graceful to sit erect and bend slightly forward from the waist. It s awk ward to draw both feet back, and very ugly to cross one knee over the other. It Is in correct to drop suddenly into a chair or to clutch the sides or arms of the chair when rising from it. When rising from a chair one foot is in advance and the other is kept well back. If one rises quickly, holding the body erect, straightening the knees, letting the weight of the body fall on the foot In advance, there will be grace and ease in the movement and no desire to propel one's self out of the chair by the assistances the hands. A man should never stand with his hands in nte pockets when talking to a lady. Of course, every man knows he should re move bis hat immediately on entering an other person's house, but good manners also require him to take it off on entering his own house. A lady may accompany to the door a lady The "Debutante llend." Noyt So I'os. ular and In Such nnd Taatc. The Prn",WiT to who la leaving after a call, if there Is no servant at hand to open tho door, but sbo may not leave other guests to do this. If tho host is at home ho should accompany a lady to the door or a man who is leaylng. A lady never goes to tho hall or to the door with a man, nor does she ever offer any assistance in finding his hat, stick or overcoat Of course, she never assists a man in putting on his overcoat. In fact, all of theso belongings are left in the hall by a man when entering the house. A lady takes leave of a man who is calling by shaking hands with him in the drawing room and letting him depart without other attentions. There are certain essential things to re member about behavior. It is extremely ruda to yawn without making some effort to sup press it or without concealing the mouth, to whistle or hum, to make monotonous noises with the hands or feet, to fidget about in a chair, to pick up paper knives or other ar ticles and play with them when talking, to sit or stand opposite to a mirror and look at one's self while talking, to whisper or hide the mouth with the hand while speaking to point at any onoi or anything, or to loungo anywhere in the presence of guests. Always when entering or leaving a room or house a man allows a woman to precedo him. He opens a door for her to pass. Ho does not precede a woman when entering a churcji or theatre, or any public place, unless thoro Is a crowd and he can add to her convenience by so doing. Ho may precedo her for this reason In tho aislo of a theatre, but ho must stand aside for her to pass first to a seat. In a theatre or other place whore peoplo have occasion to pass thoso who are seated they should bog pardon for disturbing them, passing with their faces toward them. In any public placo if a man opens a door for a lady or picks up & purse she has dropped, or offers a seat in a public convey ance, ho raises his hat and she acknowledges the civility by a slight bow, without smiling-, and mayfcay, "Thank you very much." Tula ends tho matter and does not constitute any sort or acquaintance. When accompanying a lady It is usual for a man to walk pn tho outside of tho street. If with two ladlos, ho does the same, It Is extremely provincial for a man to walk be tween two women, and very bad form for a man to take a woman by the arm or elbow, or to help her up or down stairs or over a cross ing unless she is old or infirm or there is some sudden or special danger from which he must protect her. In tho street the strlok rulo Is to keep to the right In passing. Other rules are not to turn and look at any ono who has passed, not to call to another person across the street, not to stand talking to an acou doorway of a shop or other public place, preventing others from passing In or out, It Is almost Inexcusable to brush against any ono In passing, but it this accident happens In a crowd, one should say, "I beg your par don," or "Pardon me." A man lifts Bis hat when making this apology to a woman. It Is rude for three or four persons to walk abreast, thus inconveniencing others who wish to pass. It is not good manners to loiter near hop windows or to look In the .windows for more than a glance. One should walk quick ly from place to place. If a man wishes to speak to a lady whom ha knows well enough to join her, he raises his hat and turns and asks her permission to walk with her In the direction In which she) Is going. It is contrary to good manners to stand talking in the streot. He is not obliged to accompany her to her destination, but If ho leaves her he raises his hat It he walks homo wltn her, be waits until shs Is admitted before leaving her. In a street car well-bred people avoid crowding or pushing against others. They do not sit sldewlse or take up more than their share of space. A man does not carry a lighted cigar into a public conveyance ex cept In a part reserved for smokers. If ho should bo standing on a crowded platform he gets off the steps when a lady is about to leave the ! v