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    THE HE 13: OMAHA, WEDNESDAY. APRIL J), 1013.
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"Love Not Vanquished by the Strong, Modern Wothan of Today," Says Beatrice Fairfax
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Iy BGATIIICK FA1HFAX.
There'ls a volurhe'whlch has Inter
ested all the posts, philosophers, an
tlata, historians and sages since the
world began.
It has a cover which allures. When
this volume Is fresh from the hands
of the great, printer the- cover Is
dainty, pretty and In bright colors.
The colors soon fade, and the protl
liess and daintiness vanish, but un
like any other volume, the greator
the havoc time works on' the exter
ior, the greater the store of knowl
edge on the Inside.
This volume Is called "Woman."
And every mother's son many times
during his brief span looks casually
at the cover, perhaps turns a page or
two, and claims he has mastered all
the -secrets, the problems, the mys
teries, the volume contains.
Among these sons of Solomon, who
glance and say", "I know," there are
many artists who portray on canvas
all that they have discovered. One,
a Frenchman, Ar. Nemoz, has made
a painting of his discovery which
has excited great applause from
other sons of Solomon, who say,
"Wonderful, wonderful!"
' '. This picture Is called "Expulsion."
and, you are Invited to look at the
copy above. If you are a son of Solo
man, &rt organization to which every
juan believes his wisdom entitles him
to membership, you will also say,
''NYfindertul!"
.' iff you:are ,a woman you will know
' that no man really knows, but that
the woman who has wisdom knows
shmustlet him think he knows.
The picture is supposed to repre
sent the .attitude of the modern
womajvpward the god of love, "for
whom: she' neither has time nor In
clination' With the forehead and
' expression of a Minerva, and.tberpjro
' poVtlVhs of a Juno, sho. sits securely
euthroned' rn" power and knowledge,
wfih "the" arrows wrested from the
god of love In a hand Imperiously,
raised to drive him from her pres
y ence. . .
This Is the picture of the modern
woman as every , man thinks ,ho
V knqwf.her. '.'What every ,wpman
F khottsMslhat If any woman "has ever
stifled the cry of her heart, and bld
.; den love to depart, Bhe'has -called
g upon him to return tiefore he was
out of sight' '
He can tfome In no guise in which
Ella Wheeler
"The More People See of" the-World
Petty Criticisms xney rinu
I
My ELLA WHEELER WILCOX
Copyright, 1913. by the Star Co.
.tt-ns- predicted that vo shall all be
WvWIntf at the -'speed of 160 mites" an
hour In a few raori years: No doubt the
speed of ships will Increase accordingly
and airships will v v
add to the meth
ods of transporting
I human "beings
about the earth.
All this means
, the ultimate edu-
, cation of human
ity, and the
growth of 'liberal
ity and charitable
Judgment.!
The inure people
see of the world
anri'o'f one another
the fewer petty
criticisms they find
time or Inclination
. for.
There are always great souls In every
remote community whose mental and
spiritual horizon Is large, and there are
always narrow gauged beings to be found
Today's Beauty Recipes
By Mine. D'Mllle.
"Now comes spring whin sheer waists
are worn and flat Imsud women will de
precate their lack of Hhapellnesa morn
than ever. The best micalre hdifie
treatment for the correction of scrawnU
ness is made bx stirring an ounce of gal
lol Into a syrup made by dissolving 1U
cupfuls of sugar In a pint of water. Dose
Is two- tcaapoonfuls before meal.
"To correct faulty complexion, sallow
ues, pimple or blotches, dissolve 'an
original package of mayatone In a half
pint of witch hazel, and cover the face,
neck and arms with this solution every
morning. It takes the place of powder
and makes the skin soft, lovely, smooth
and satiny.
"Dull, dead and falling hear the fore
runners of baldness are caused by a
puraalte. To keep the hair healthy and
beautiful you must kill the parasite that
destroys the hair. Mother's Shampoo
does this. It leaves the scalp fresh, clean
and wholesome and makes the hair
fluffy and fine. A supply for many
months costs only 25 cents at your drug
?Ut'a. "A beautiful eye deserves a beautiful
letting. Just as a good picture requires
a good frame. Thin, colorless and strag
gly eyebrows and lashes will grow in
long, even and darker In color If pyroxln
s applied Into the roots dally.
"Persons troubled with superfluous hair
on face or forearms - can quickly and
safely remove the humiliating growth
with delatone. Make a paste by mixing
powdered delatone with water; cover the
. hairs for two or three minutes: then re
move, wash the skin and th? hairs will
Tie gone.
"Spring colds are prevalent. The world
never saw the" equal of --Mother's Salve
as a remedy for caughs, colds In the
head or cheat, catarrh and sore thruat
It 5 easy to un and. quick tn act.
' '.other a Salve la sold In prepared form
In every neighborhood. Advertisement.
ho is not welcome, he can nover be
such a plague or a torment that she
would bid hfm deport.
Sho mny be modern In ovory out
ward expression; she may jeer at
love; she may call those women
weak and spineless who regard love
as worth all the world beside; she
may take pride In her scorn of him,
but In the bottom of her heart there
Is a longing for him which is never
stilled.
All that the giving up means in
the" freedom of self-development and
ambition; all the applause of the
world, all honor, all fame, all the
sweetness of the rewards of self-effort:
nothing the world can orfer la
worth In the final accounting the
cost a woman must pay In driving
out love.
M, Nemoz la a very clever artist,
but his hnnds are quicker than his
earB. The women who decry love
make their protest known with the
blare of trumpets and In strident
tones. They are" few In numbers,
but they ,makea loud noise. At.
Nemoz heard the noise, and thought
he heard, the' Voice f all the women
In the world,.
Love has a language that la low
and swoet and flute-like. It is the
cry of the heart, and the heart never
trumpets its nppeals. Women all
over the world are longing for love,
and all. that love mean!: A husband,
a homo, shelter, the touch of a
baby',s hand, and the Joy of sacrifice
and service.
But1-they do not inarch' with the
'blare of'trumpete to make this want
known:' They do not hire halls and
engage speakers to declare for them
that love ,1s the aim, the beginning,
the ond, the sole existence of woman,
nnd that they want It.
They keep this little. - lohglns hidden
deep in their hearts. Sojne, . frankly
honest, admif It Other's, to conceal their
sorrow thaflovc nan never-come, claim
they don't want' the little god to visit
them. aild, would' drive him away If he
dared appear.
They deceive tho men; they do not de
ceive other women; they do not deceive
tuemselyes. .,, .
Love sends many ambassadors, and
these ambassadors sometimes have poor
credentials, Ihut the wjoman, at,' .the doo
pt whose hfyirt Ihey appear ..oplns ..tho
Voor-ftnd Bets dowrt-b'R'her. knees. She
does not ask to see the riedentlats. Wis
dom; prudence, caution, self-interest, all
arp forgotten, 'Jwhen love appeals.
She Is no longer a "Modern Woman.'
She lias lost the reckoning of time and
Is Just woman.
Wilcox Says:
nd of One Another the Fewer
ahuu ur mviuiuuuu
everywhere who remain small and petty,
no matter how widely . they travel and
jObtcrve. ' Thi" majority ' of persons, how
'ever, are 'widened, and benefited by cm-
;lng in conta'tft wifrV tttclr' kind In differ-
,ent condition.;, . .
Hundreds of men. ana women who have
been brought up In a. locality, which does
not'approvp of dancing make themselves
miserable and obnoxious1 "by trying to
prevent others, with -opposite ideas, from
Indulging In that delightful pastime.
1 do not recall ever hearing" a cosmo
politan denounce the social -dance. ' It is
always tho man or wgmau who has
walked In a circumscribed orbit. To the
man 4vho has passed his whole life In
the backwoods' a. "blltd" ahrrt Is the In
signia of a dude, and a dress suit brands
one of his sex as a conceited fool and
worldling.
Women who hnve lived with limited
social opportunities cover their eyes at
eight of a decollete gown, and waste
breath in denouncing Its wearer as Im
modest and Immoral. They believe their
narrow view Is the only proper one,
merely because they have seen and
learned-little,, of any life beyond their
small world.
It Is all very pitiful when we stop to
consider how large the world Is, and
how old, and what: vast' concourses of
human beings have lived good, useful,
moral live s and worn "blled shirts,"
drrss suits, low-necked gowns and In
dulged In dancing, games, cards and
other worldly amusements.
It Is a pity and a mistake to go through
the. world trying to compel others to
tt'tnk, believe and act exactly as we do.
It Is this spirit of petty tyranny which
keeps, the whole human race from mak
ing the progress It might make were each
one of us to live according to our own
highest Ideals, and to let others do the
tame, unmolested, so long as the great
principles were not outraged nor the
commandments broken.
The Turkish woman thinks the ox
poauro of tho faca In the presence of men
highly improper. It Is her thoughts alone,
we know, which make It so.
The woman who has been reared to
the wearing of the evening gown has no
more Immodest thought in her mind than
the Turkish woman hides under her veil.
It Is all a matter of bringing up. The
Turk will assure you that no man can
look on the faces of women without
covetous thoughts and Improper desires.
We all know how absurd Is that idea.
Just a absurd Is the Idea of theVrovln
clai prude, male or female,, that no man
Jean look on the lace framed neck or
encircle a waist In the ballroon without
evil thoughts.
Remember to the harem. reared woman
you, madame, are .bold and Immodest
because you walk the street with your
ace uncovered. You think her Ignorant.
Try to not be as Ignorant as she Is In
your criticisms of your sisters who dress
differently from- you,
Til" THE FTtHNCH AHTtST, WHICH TkNIXS TO SHOW THAT TUB WOMAN OP
- TODAY HAS OVERCOME AL.1. IIHIt SUSCKI'TIBILITY'TO IX)VB,
II I II . "WOtti
orothy
A Man Who Has Provided for His Family, Held
His Wife's Love and Kept Peace at Home
Has Made a Success of Life
.By UOROTllV 1IX. living for himself and those dependent
A man writes: "Do ;ou think 1 liaVo ' upon him. But this living does not In
made a success or a failure of life? I elude- diamond tiaras and: limousines and
am a poor man, who works hard for a Imported gowns. It means Just ordinary
small salary. I have never been, able to 'oo ant clothes and lodging; enough to
j www .w
make much money
or to give my fam
ily the luxuiies of
life. Sometimes
they have not even
had tho comfortH,
But my, homo, al
though It has al
ways been shabby,
has been filled with
peace and love and
happiness.
"I had '-a wife
wliomI adored and
who I am sure
.never regretted!
marrying rrie, al
though from her
wedding day to the
day of her death
t
r
her lot was the hard one of a poor man's rlcllf-at man , ,he communlty ,8 a),vay
wlfBi ';' the, most hated man. He's a failure as a
"After her mother's death my .oldest I frjnj, because he has always thought
daughter, then only 16. took her mother's ( nrst of hmelf nnd because ho distrusts
Pluce, and has filled It splendidly ever , everybody, believing everybody to be as
since, growing Into a noble and capable Belflsh and self-seeking as he la. It li
womanhood. My other chlldren-tltcro j the i enalty of wealth that it Is friend
are five of them aro fine little chaps. ' lens and lonely.
healthy, hardy and Intelligent, and when ' The very successful money maker Is
they see their old dad coming they swarm nearly always a failure as a hunbnnd.
over him with yells of delight, ,for he's It takes all of his time and thought and
their best pal, and the one who 'helps Interest to aocumulate a fortune, and
them In their work and play. he has .ng leisure in which to be sym-
"Hut I'm not ne of the men who pathetlo and tender to his wife,
know how to make money, or get on In Divorce Is far more common among the
the world. I began life humbly and I, ,r'ch th:in it i among tint poor, andi'lhare
shall end it humbly, and when I see l. " probably no other women, as a dans,
other people who have been more success- ! who" are mole unhappy than the" poor
ful than I-some ot'ttiem od friends who r'en women who are married to our
began on the same level "as myself n Kreat flnancUrs.' " '
mv bovhood-r wonder If I am not a fall- I. 1,6 0""T woman envies a millionairess
ure. Then I look at my chlldrth and think
that I haye got a right to Bcore' some
thing to my account, after all. What do
you say? Am I a failure or a success?"
It all depends upon how 1'9" rate suc
cess. If you think that the. dollar mark
Is the high-water mark of human achieve
ment, then you are a failure. Ilut, Judg
ing iSy the same standard, you would be
In pretty good company.. Any grafting
police lieutenant could have given Abra
ham Lincoln points on how to become a
successful money-maker. And thousands
of other great statesmen have died poor,
although they had In their possession
knowledge of legislation that was to be
enacted that would have made .them
millions had they been "successful politi
cians." A man It a failure who cannot make a
Dix
i - " " - -
Insure a decent Independence. Ileyond
'that the making of money la no criterion
of the real success of a life.
' 'mat consists in doing something for
your fellow creatures, not Jn doing some
thing t- them, and the real failures nre
those who, at the end of their lives, have
nothing to show liut a little pile of metal
I and a little bunch of printed paper, both
I worthless at the Judgment bar.
Of course, the success that proclaims
Itsoir by the honking of automobile
horns and the rustle of silks -Js of tho
spectacular kind that catches the public
eye, but the man who Is successful uh a
money-maker has the narrowest success
Sin the world because hp Is' nearly always
a failure at everything 'else. , '
He's a failure as a neighbor, becauso
. he has taken advantage of his superior
shrewdness to those about him. Ti,
her relationship" to-her husband. There
have be.cn. too rtany. cases; of where a
man celebrates Jila succecs es a money
maker by trading off his od wife for a
fresh one to match his new drawing room
furniture.
The men who are the most, successful
financially are tha greatest failures as
fathers.. In place of personal affection
and guidance they give their children
money. The result I. disaster. They Mr. oraU.Us he)(Jt Another of the ladle
raise up wasters and spenders, who are wn, ,, ,n nome Rnd ehe Men the knUo
are curse to themselves nnd a- disgrace I that Casea used on Julius Caesar. It will
t.. the parents that bore them. There be a very interesting eevnlng. all In all.
Is scarcely a rich man who has not had (,,,, Mo, an(1 j ftm shuro you wlli not
to pay a son out of. some shameful crpe. , reBret laying at home tonight Now go
or to buy a divorce for a daughter What- ' plU OI your eevnlng doc. Ma sed.
ever else wo may envy" the nlan who haolall(1 nobble will find your shirt studs,
made a great success as a money maker. , Wen Pa & m was in the next room,
none of us envies the man his children, 1 Pa looked at me klnda ad and sed, well.
ays:
The man who has given his, family
nothing but money ts a failure as a husv
rr-
D
Little BobWs Pa
. By WILLIAM F. KIUH, .
Ma told ra almost a year ago that she
would never ask any more of them club
ladles, up to the house. Ma kept her
world till lust night, which Is longer than
Pa kep, his word on any promise he made
to her.
Deerest luv sed Ma I have a surprise
In store for you -tonight. I'm going to
entertain six of the most buttful wlmmcn
that you have . ever saw. I do not
mean. Ma ised, that they are butlful In
face and form, but I do mean that they
have wunderful Intellacks. TVs face got
klnda long. Isn't there one of the six
that has n -butlful face sed Pa? No sed
Ma. Well uefl Pa, Isn't there one of the
six., that h,as. a' butlful form? You might
not think so' ied ,Ma) 1 cud see that Ma
was getting klnda peevifih.
The newspaper artists. & speshul writ
ers Is going to have a banquet to-nlte
ted Pa and wanted me to be sure to
come. Thay have got a seat reserved
for Tow Power and' me. Mr. Powers Is
going. to be the glqom and I am going to
be the Joy. bekaus I have a round fat
face, Pa sed. The boys thought that
would be a fine tnhlo. I gess I will leave
at eight o'clock Pa sed. If that will be all
right.
Ma began to grin at Pa klnda meen.
You have, got, a fat chanst Ma sed to
put your foot outside this door this eve.
You don't seem to realise that I am going
to entertain the Roman Reginas. What
Is Reginas sed Pa? Reginas la queens
In latin sed Ma, and It would be a darect
Insult to them six lii'-l- "
husband wusn't here to help me receive
them.
Well, sed Pn, what Is the progrum? I
suppose they are going to spout Latin
potry all the eevnlng. No. sed Ma, but
they are going Into sum of the deetalls
o(, the rise and. fall of An)iunt Rome.
Ono of the ladles was In Rome onst on a
i Cook's Touwr & seen the bridge' which
0
Advice to
My IIKATKICK KAIKKAX.
It Need Not He n IHnmnnri.
I am 24. hnlillns- n nosltlon unvlnc me
a salary of 110 per month. 1 am engated
to a young man receiving M.OW per an-
num. and lie is now desirous 01 present
Ing mo with a beautiful diamond ring,
llecause of the .fact that he Is receiving
nt this time but Jl.OOn a tea- my parents
tvlll nnl rnmpnt tn hla slvlnrr lie the
tlnir. He linn been calling nn me for the
last two years without ohctlon en thr'r i
Iffactory until this question nf giving me
nn engagement ting came up.
V' luid not nlanned tn be niarilcd for !
a IHtle time vet. but M ""e 'm';,'
little time vet. bit ni ,wn"r".'V,t'
en this course I d"lr to be married
5.n'.Rnii.kM,,;,mLL0afr2Mr?rif.rt n
''h '."hTi'I1 lll.l A1m.r Vt JieJ??dm -
r'J"'?.'...
linn
soon
Th
ini'iin i.m.( hi... v..,. n - v .-. -r
fnn a ...ii r ,- i il ll'nliiin in hfk ll'iirultlir III I
help out flnunclallv. Our combined sal-
arles would make us flnanelallv Indepon-
lcnt and enable us to put quite n nice
little sum awny for future need.
OJHCOlTItAOKD.
If he has been ealllns on you for two
veara ho owes yon an eiiKnccment rlnz.
but It need not necessarily be a diamond,
iovo la Just ai true and Instlns when ex
pressed In a less expensive slone. Your
parents are rlKht In thlnklnft such a stone
an extravaRnnce.
It la not deRindliiR for a woman to
work after marrlaeja, though It Is not de
sirable. This Is whore the rlnimer lies.
The husband Is an unusual man If he
doesn't continued tn exnet It when the
necessity no lonter exists.
Most Certainly .Vol.
Dear Miss Kalrfax: I have been keen.
Ins company with a man who lias been
separated from his wife about a year. We
intend to marry when he secures n di
vorce, wnion is now pending, la It
proper rnr ma to appear In nubile with
thlB man? A REAPI2H.
It Is not only Improper for you to ap
pear with him In public, but equally
wronc to see htm at any time.
No man honors a woman by wooing her
when he Is bound to another woman, lie
should be free first. He Is compromising
your pood name by paying you attention
so long as he ts another woman'n hus
band.
Don't Do It.
Dear Alius Kalrfax: I am a youiiK Kirl
17 years of use, and am In love with a
man four years my senior. We have
been Kolnr together for the last seven
months, and he has never had the
opportunity or occasion to present nie
with a gift of any kind. Hla Twenty
first annlversury Is now approaching, and
1 would like to present him with a sig
net ring. H. O. U
There Is no reaaon for making him a
gift of any kind, and If there were, you
should not give him a ring.
Write him n note of congratulation.
I.Utcn to Your Mother,
T-i.rtH nil- r.-1 .. . t n , a .. -j t
oeen going with a young man of 19 forhl ul '
a little over u year, lie claims ho love
me and I lovo lilni dearly. Ho promised
mo a diamond ring for an engagement
ling, but now his mother saya he can't
band and a father. The man who has
made his wife so happy that her heart
sang for Joy alt her days, and whose
children love and clng to him and make
of him their best friend, is a success, no
matter It they have only had bread and
butter to eat. Instead of cafie and ale.
Such a man Is a success as a cltlsen,
because he has given to his country boya
and girls who grow up Into useful men
and women.
The most successful man or woman Is
the one who has the most Influence for
good, and who gives the greatest uplift
to those whoso Uvea touch his or hers.
The moat suocesstul man I know la
the one who will leave no fortune to
build memorial libraries or hospitals
w)icn he Is gone, because he paid
hla employes such good wages and found
Robbie, when do you expect to walk up
the Isle? Jest think, Pa sed, of a full
grown man that cud be having a grate
sesshun 'with the artists and writers,
every one of them a speed boy. helnir
cooped up here all the eevnlng with seven
Roman ReglnBs, Including your queen
Mother. Take It from me, Robbie, sed
Pa, that they will find me a kind of a
bull In the china shop this eevnlng, when
they begin talking of the rise and fall
tf Rome. Jest wach me, that's all, sed
ra. Your Ma gave me lier wurd that
thar would be no more wlmmln clubs In
the house A I guess after tonight she will
keep It forever.
After we had our dinner the Roman
Reginas alt came. Ma sod the truth when
sho sed they was butlful excep In face
nnd form. Pa got In his Morris Chair
over In the corner after he had bin In
terduced A: I set neer him waiting for
the show to begin.
We will first heer, sed Ma, from the
talented young poetls. Mlsi Anabel Ames.
sne has prepared a butlful poem about
the monster Nero, who drenched all
Rome In blood, Ma sed, and fiddled when
the town was burned down.
Then Miss Ames got up and recited:
Cruelty, thy name ts Nero. I,ong
ago
Much blood and anguish thou
didst make the world no.
Brave gladiators when their limbs
grew nurn,
looked up at thee & thou turned
down thy thum.
Thou tyrant who didst spnin each
sacred law
Thou wast tho worst the world
ever saw.
Wonderful sed all of the other Roman
Reginas. Don't you think so said one of
them turning to Pa.
I think It In an awful lot of tripe
myself sed Pa Let me recite you a
little pome Pa sed, which X composed
this minltt;
Mark Antony was quite a gent
His fame did not diminish
Til Cleopatria came along
& trimmed him to a finish.
Then Pa got up and yawned. I have
a awful pain over my right eye he sed
and I think It Is nuraljl. I'm sure you
ladles will excuse my little ion and my
self 'til we skip over to tha drugstore.
Then Pa and me skipped over to the
drugstore, but we didn't skip back.
1;
J
the Lovelorn
mnrrv until his sinter Rets married, and
ehe has no tellow vet. My mother scolds
mf every day. Tell me what I shall do.
f. n.
A scolding every day Is a try In fir ordeal,
both for your mother and yourself.
Khd It by putting n stop to all need for
rebuke. There Is no prospect of mar
iIkc; he can't afford a ring. Lt there
be no engagement.
in five yearn he will bo. I hobe. In a
t.osltion to buy you a ring, regardless of
hl lter a, unappreciated rlsht.
Thrri- Are tlnnr Wn-ra.
"laa Fairfax: If. while out waik-
, t f whom you do
!,lot cnr- nd yu " "t are to walk
! ,,omn wlt1' hlmi. Plee tell me how to
rid of hlmV VKItPLBXED.
1Mr M, Ka)rfnJt. ,r, whlIe out WBjk,
' The most honorable way would be to
1 tell him you do not want hla company.
, . .. , rk lh ,nnI..,i ,.,,,.. A di
, ""l ,r ynl lacl ilna tnorJ courw to oo
hht, you may turn In at aomo trland'a
house, or turn hack to your home, or
I "top the next cur that Is passing and ut
'on. Theio are majiy pretexts you might
ilee. but the best way la to tell him tho
truth. If ho persists. It will finally oom
to that.
Monnlnlm tint of Molehill.
Dear Miss Fllrfair: 1 am a young boy
17 years or age. Hecently a lady friend
of riiliiB wax luvltvd to a social gather
ing and asked me to be her escort, t
censonted ami wo attended the affair.
The next day 1 noticed ehe wu vary
argry at me. I think I know the reaaon.
Is It proper to bring a present to a
sociable? Was It proper for me to brine
my lady friend a bouquet of rosea or
only a low? Aro roses the right kind
of rlowcra for a sociable? Was It proper
for me to dunce with anol,j B
You paid her a pleasant attention by
takTng her roseer ,ho flower is mom ap
propriate, and you did no wrong In dano
Ing with another girl.
Certainty.
Dear Miss Fairfax- I am 18 and In lovo
With, a young man Just my age.
Uebently ha Introduced mi to a friend
of hla and 1 wan taken seriously by his
friend. Whenever his trlend calls he
would encott him "over to the house, but
"would not come In, nnd neither wouia
ho walk with us. 1 don't think that ho
Is Jealous, but ul Urn kumu lime i can t
quite make out what the trouble U, as
1 have always treated him with respect.
Hut do you think I ought to continue
my frlenushlp With his mend? ANNA.
The frlond has committed no offense,
and the friendship may be mutually
profitable. As for your first friend, I
think hn acts as It he were trying to
efface himself from the situation.
Thnt SInkea n Difference.
Dear Msa Fairfax: Which Is proper
For a Voung woman to ask a young man
to call, or a young man to ask the
young woman If he may call, assuming;
that tho miss has asked htm the first
II. Lt.
It Is tho wdman'a privilege to ask tho
man to call the first time. The second
call should be on his solicitation.
so much poverty to alleviate as he went
along that he has never been able to
accumulate much money, in his old ago
he Is comparatively noor. and h inm.
times says to me that he feels that ha
has been a failure.
Yet his life has been an example of
right living to all about him.
Wherever he has gono he has carries
hope and cheer, and given fraeh
and Inspiration, and his presence has been
like a benediction upon every house
he entered. As hushand, as father, a
son nnd brother, as friend and neighbor,
he has been true and tender, im iar,AH
and loyal. None has known him who haa
not been the better for It Tcace has
followed In his footsteps and hop
bloomed where he trod, and the good
that ho has accomplished Is not to b
measured in terms of money. 3od alone
can calculate that sum.
Tho renl test of success Is not what
you have got, but the goM you hav
done.
Are You
I Was
ONCE.
I Reduced
MYSELF
i r'l IntomlortaUr, I-ookM Old, Flt lili
rriblc, iul!rod wild itheumilUm. Aithm, Nta.
rilgli When I worked or wkd. I tmtrt Ilk a
PcirpolM I took everr tdrtrtUed nxilltlne I could
tied. I Marred, gtted, Kierclitd. tlocured tad
chinitd ellmitc, but I ruined my dlcutioa, f.lt
llkt n Invalid, but lUadllr (ilnd wlthl Ttur
i not t ilngl plan or druf that t heard of that
I did not try I failed to redur mr wtliht I
dropped aoulrty, aa I did not ear to be the butt
of all the lokea. It was tmbarrajulni to ham mr
frtanda tell m. 1 waa settlnc Stout, as no on
knew It better than myaelf.
SOMETHING HAD TO BE DONE
I bum to etudj the cauae of PAT. Whan I dla
covered tha cauae I round tho remedy Tho French
Method gave me an Inaliht. I Improved dn that,
Uemoved lh objectlonat featurei. added mora
pleaaant onea, and then I tried my plan on myaelf
for a week It worked Ilk Malc. 1 could har.
SCKKA.MKD WITH JOV
at the end o( the drat week when th acalea told
me I had loat ten pounds by my almpl. ay. harm
leaa, I)rulaa Method. It waa a plaaiur. tbn to
ontl""8 nll I regained my normal wit In alia.
I rl tlfteen yeere youmer. I look flRa years
younger. My Double Chin has entirely dlaapeear
d. 1 can walk or work now. I can climb a moun
tain m normal In alt, I can wlh tun what
I want to weigh. 1 am nutter of my own body now.
I did not atarr. but eat all I wanted to. did net
Uke Sweat Bathe. I did not Drue I uaed no Elee.
IMeUy. er harmful eierclae. but I round tn sim
ple, Bine. Common senae WAY ot reducing- mr
weight and applied It 1 har tried It on other.
My Doctor tayr I am a perfect picture ot health
now. 1 am no longer ailing. I am now a happy,
healthy wuruam Now 1 am going to help others
to b happy I hart written a book on tie ub.
Ject If you ar fat. I wast you to bay It It
will tell you all about my llarmleea. Drugt
Method. To all who tend me their asm and ad
dreaa I mall It PltKK. aa long aa the preaent tup-
?ly laata. It will late you Money, Say you front
larmful Drug, Sai you from Starvation Diet,
Harmful Bierclaeo, poaalbly ear TOUR 14KB,
It la youra for the aakluf without a paay juat
and your name and addreaa. A tVatal Cfcrc will
do and I'll b glad to aod It o that yon taa
quickly learn how to reduce yoaraalt and be as
happy aa I am Writ today as this advertleemeole
may not appear again In thl paper
HATTia ii i Kit in.Twi.., nan.r o1h