TT1F WFK: OMAITA, 'IMU'IiSDAV, "NfAKCTr 20, 1013. Beautiful Wife of Exiled King Bewails Loss of Offspring You Can Succeed if You Make Up Contemplating Matrimony Dorothy Dix Writes an Open Letter to the Man Who is Thinking of Marrying and Invalid. i our Mind to Do It; Persist Mrs. Leo Tells How Her Son DiecL A ency is Bound to Win. . le ft ny ELLA AVUEKLEH WILCOX. Copyright, 1913. by Star Co. You will he ,tvhat you will be; Let failure find Ita false content In that poor word "environment.'' nut spirit scorns It, anil Is free. It masters time, It conquers space. It cows that boastful trickster Chance And bids the tyrant Circumstance, Uncrown and fill a servant's place. The human Will, that force unseen. The offspring of a deathless Soul, Can hew the way to any goul, Though walls of granite Intervene. Do not Impatient In delay, But wait as one who understands; When spirit rises and commands, The gods arc ready to obey. The river seeking for the sea Confronts the dam and precipice. Yet knows It cannot fall or miss; You will bo what you will bo! The sooner you put aside the Idea that your failures arc the result of trusts and monopolies, and that a cruel fate has prevented you from achieving any thing, the better for you. There Is a man who was deprived of both arms when a small boy. lie has become expert with hla toes, and makes an excellent living and has be come Independent. A man thrown suddenly out of work, by a trust, set forth after a week of rest and relaxation to find a new occupation. He was 50 years old and had worked In one firm for twenty-five years. A too good heart, an extravagant wife and children, had prevented his saving a com petence. So he was literally starting life anew. He had been told that the world wanted only young men; that he would find noth ing to do; and that his fate was that of thousands of other In these times. But the man said to himself: "I will bo different from the thousands. I will find work. I will succeed." And he did. Not at once; he tried several months to obtain what he wanted with poor success. But after each fail ure ho said, "I am simply being saved for something better. I am In this world for some purpose, and I am not going to be a beggar, or a failure. Success and Independence belong to me. They must come." Of course, with that spirit, .they had to come. , And today the map. Is far better placed than he, wag before the trust arne and throw him 6t of Tils position. Because he has developed new powers ' mentally by this experience. There Is no excuse for Idleness, .despon dency and despair In this world. However hopeless tho outlook may seem to you, however difficult the path before you, you can find the way to Inde pendence and Buccess if you never let go. It may require a long time. But If you had your choice today to start in a dark, foggy valley and slowly starve to death, or to climb a steep, long moun tain road which required years of en deavor and fatigue, yet led to comfort and beauty "at the top, you would, I am sure, start at once up the mountain. No matter what boulders lay aneaa, you would try to climb over. No mat ter what wild animals roamed over the mountain.- you would face all the' trials and dangers sooner than stay In the val ley and die a slow death. That is precisely what you want to do now. To give up all individual effort because there are trusts and monopolies In the land Is' to stay In the valley and die of Inaction. To push on In a determined and never-givo-up state of mind Is to succeed In spite of everything. If you chance to see some other pilgrim on the road, riding In an automobile while you walk, do not at o'e Jump to the conclusion that he is your enemy and that he has robbed and cheated his fel low men to procure his method of easy locomotion. Such thoughts will take your force and vitality away from the object you have in vtow, and will harm you, while they may wrong your neighbor. It would be well for you to find out how he came to own an automobile before you con demn his as a greedy monopolist. Per haps he built it with hla own skill and labor, paying honest dollars for the ma terials. I have known a fisherman to get along tv lifetime with a leaky boat and one oar, and to go about "sculling," thinking it was the only way be could do; while an other fisherman, with no greater ad vantages, used his spare hours In study ing machinery, and built himself a small launch, with which he explored deeper vuters and caught larger fish. 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But it Is well to remember tlmt there are also honest, noble, unselfish people with fortunes, and capitalists who are a bless inp to the world, to the laboring classes and to humanity. No more unjust and absurd Idea ever existed than that mistaken Impression of the very poor1 that nil rich or even com fortable people nre their enemies and tholr dcspollcrs, Kqually erroneous Is the Idea that only j the poor havo troubles, cares or hard I ships. j There aro wealthy people who work I fourteen hours a day with their brains and hands, trying to do good to human- ' lty I There are men who become the pos 1 sessors of large fortunes through honest Industry and perseverance, and who are I bowed to the earth by the cures and re- sronslbllltlcs of life, and who lie awake nights while poorer men sleep, trying to ; ileclde Just what is the kindest, wisest j and most unselfish course of action to , pursue. To bo the possessor of a comfortable bum of money docs nut mean to be dis honest or unkind, any more than poverty means honesty and unselfishness. There are all kinds of people In both classes. However poor you are, try at least to be Just and fair In your cstlmatu of others. Justice Is one of the pillars of char acter building. Make yourself everything that Is hon est, noble. Just and deserving, as you climb the mountain of life, and bo care ful before you condemn your fellow men. The best criticism and rebuko to dishonesty and Idleness Is honesty and Industry. Stilicho and the Goths By ItEV. THOMAS U. GRKOUKV. Fifteen hundred and ten yars ago, March 11, 403-the great Stilicho won the title of the "Second Marlus," by turn ing back the great barbarian mass at Pollentta. ' The hordes of Marie and the le gions of Stilicho fought alj day, the fortune of the., day Veering now to one side and now to the other, and when the darkness of plght put an end to the carnage the Oothlo hosts were still on the field, defiant as ever. But w h o n tho morning camo and the legionaries were preparing them selves for a renewal of the combat It waa discovered that the Barbarians had "folded their tents like the Arabs, and silently slipped away." They had had enough. The terrible pounding that Stilicho gave them, with the fear of a worse one to follow, was more than they had bargained for, and the Eternal city was saved. To have won the victory of Pollentta was glory enough for any man, but four years later Stilicho was called upon to give the second proof of his military prowess and to win another famous vic tory. In 4W there poured down upon the sunny plains of Italy a mighty multi tude of "Vandals, Suevl, Burgundians and other barbarians, led by the fierce Dada galsus, one of the most terrible charac ters of history,' who, Is seems, had bound himself by a solemn vow to his pagan deities to reduce Rome to "a heap of stones and ashes." Crossing the Alps, the Po and the Apennlnc, tho vast tide of savage hu manity foamed and frothed toward Home. City after city was sacked and pillaged and their inhabitants put to the sword, and presently the wave reached Flor ence. That beautiful place was as strong as it was fair, and refusing to bui rentier, the barbarian king resolved to take it by siege. With Radagalsus at Florence, only 180 miles away, tho senate and people of Rome trembled as they had not trembled since the time of Hannibal, and all eyes turned Imploringly towurd the hero of Pollentla. If he could not save them their case was hopeless. In the meantime, Stilicho was on. the way to Florence, where he arrived In good time. Instead of attacking the bar barians In the open field, however, Stilicho, with consummate tact and ex pedition, encompassed the enemy with strong lines of clrcumvalatlon, and in- m mmmLmmmmmmt aagw,. i mmz WJI Jt V HBSmHiHraHBSBBHSHK .W 1 t.ttK&b"9 HUH MAJi:ST. Ql'lilSN HKL.KN. AND Til H T1IR15H PKINC1CS. (INK OF WHOM (l'OMI'F.Y) DIliD HF.CBNTl Y I'NUult THUS SI HO BON H KNIFK. lly MARUARKT lllBUARD AYUR. "They though It was meningitis, but decided It was appendicitis, and opel ated anyhow. You know what happens when doctors disagree. Poor, dear Pom peyl" The handsome wife of the only king now In exile In New York, wiped her largo hazel eyes. ..Sitting In lior stylish apartment In tho house especially built for the royut family In Central Park. 1 had a long talk with their majesties and got considerable Inside In formation Into the troubles of FoIIh Leo and his wife, Helen, king "and queen 'of the ani mal kingdom. Poor Pompey, one of three cubs, I mean princes, born ten months ugo to the august couple, has succumbed to a variety of diseases. William Snyder, first lord of the bed chamber and high keeper of the Inner seal, told me that possibly Pompey had had appendicitis, or even meningitis, but anyhow It began with his teeth, as It so often does with princes of the Jungle who have to live in their town houses owing to clroumHtanccs over which they have no control. "Tho entire trouble of my family is lion to the luslness of tho age," an nounced his majesty the king In deep tones. "For generations my ancestors havo refused to succumb to the degrad ing influences of clvllizutlon. But the rising generation Is not what Its forbears were. In thorn I see tho same tonuency to greed and Bloth that makes my royal family look down with disgust on the human bloed. Mke tho puny home sa- plents, my sons and daughters no longer deign to hunt tlieir own ioou wm "Now, pa. remember you havo dyspep Fla yourself and you eat anything tho chef cooks for you rcgaroiesB ui . It If," put In the mild and purring queen. "Hush, madam." returned her consort. "When I speak for publication don't dis turb me. To proceed-my stalwart son Ackbart"- , "You should see him. He Is the finest stead of being the besiegers the bar barians found themselves besieged. With desperate courage the men from the north threw -themselves time and again against the Roman lines, but In every Instance they were beaten back, and In duo course of time famine, aided by the Roman spears, battle axes and catapults, did Its work. It is said by tho authorities that more than 240,000 fighting men perished upon the barren ridge of hills at Iesule. Rada galsus was most effectually disposed of and once more the people of Rome breathed freely. It Is not pleasant to remember that the great man who had twice saved Rome from the barbarians was. two years after his defeat of Radagalsus, put to death by his sovereign upon the hollow charge of treason to tho state. Cnlm 'n hit consciousness of Innocence, and per haps stunned by the character of the ac cusation, Stilicho, with a firmness not unworthy of the last of the Roman gen erals, submitted his neck to tho sword of Heraclean. EXPERTS IN LITERATURE A little party of Irishmen, represent Ing different walks of life, were discuss ing momentous questions, when the tulk drifted to literature. "This reminds me of somi of my Irish friends of the 'ould sod' with whom I was talking some days ago." said Frank Fogarty of New York to the Rev. Father T, J Malone of Denver. 'How's that7" asked Father Malone. "They also were discussing literature. O'Brien and Kerrigan were In tho party. Fays O'Brien to Kerrigan, 'How do you like Omar Khayyam?' " 'Oh. replied Kerrlgun. 'I'd Just ar lief have a drink of Chlantl wine.' "The party broke up, and only Kerrl- (.an and O'Brien remained, and ther O'Brien, turning a withering look upon j Kerrlgun, remarked. 'Kerrigan. I'm , ashamed of you. You were trying to talk 1 literature and lvery time you opened your mouth you put your foot in It Don't you know thut Omar Khuyyain Is nut a I drink but u tlucse. WuehliiBtuii Post I Tho picture nt tho top Is of King princess, whilo underneath Is anothor about to have his nails munlcurcd In thing, only 2 years old, and simply per fect, a real cxunipl.e of the law , of. eugenics that the Homos have , copied from us," lnterrruptod Helen. "My son," continued King Leo, apelng your race, no longer sharpens his nntU as of yore, but has to bo manicured at great expense to the royal exchequer nnd much trouble to the attendants. When I see a mighty prince of blood giving way to tho effeminate pursuits I wonder what tho age is coming to." King Leo leaned Ms head upon hla velvet paw nnd lookod thoughtful. 'Thon I take, sir, that your family have all the ailments of tho human famlly7" I asked. "We have, only we havo them harder and wo had them first." "Why, none of the babies that come to seo us here In the park havo a worse time than my poor dears do with their teeth," said the queen, "and we get ull tho fashionable troubles, too grips and appendicitis. Poor, dear Pompey died of that or something similar the doctors don't quite know yet. But. anyhow, it's all the climate. New York does not ngreo with me, and I tell Pa that if he were only not so engrossed In business wo would bis able to go south for the winters at least." "My duty Is to remain here. 'Ich Dlen' Is the royal motto!" said his majesty, se.ntentloualy. "Qo and see grandpa If you really want to know how to bring up children," urgod Queen Helen, and being properly Intro duced by Chamberlain Snyder, I inquired of the famous dowager queen how sho had managed to raise threo generations of children In the rigorous climate of this city. Tho magnificent downger was dressed In a yellow plush dress, which is tho favorite color of the Leo family. "Cleanliness, my good girl, cleanliness, that is the secret of my success," ad Song By WILLIAM V. KIRK. I. Let's draw to tho fire, Bessie darling, While we dream of the days we wero young, When the mornings were long and the blrdlo's Spring song Seemed tho sweotast that over was sung. Let's pretend that we're courting once more, dear; Let's pretend that wo watch the stream flow Ad wo did when wo stood on tho shore, dear, By the old wooden bridge, Jong ago. CHORUS. By the old wooden bridge, Bessie darling; By tho old wooden bridge that we know When we stood In love's dream near the ullvqry stroma Where the primrose and watercress grow. You were only a shy little maid, dear, But your cheeks had the strawberry's glow, And I kissed your fair head when you said you would wed, By the old wooden bridge, long ago. II. Now thoro'o snow in your hair, Bessie darling, And I trace little lines on your face, nut your heart Is all gold and can never grow old, ' And your form cannot Iobo Its soft grace. One by one all our dear ones have vanished, r Lilt our love cannot vanish, I know, i or I love you as much as I loved you By tho old wooden bridge, long ago. Foils 1-co, rather of tho llttlu son of King Leo, named Ackluirt, tho latest stylo of humans. mitted the dowager with supreme con descension. "1 liuvu trained this entire retinue to tho most mlnuto earn of our apartments. Not a speck of grease Is over allowed to spot our garments. My cousins In Uerlln, at the Thlergnrden, aro mangy because they nre so careless In their habits. But with Lllllam Russell and the other prophets I place cleanli ness above all. else In the care of children and adults." 'With that she turned her back on me, nnd I Judged that the audience was ended. Returning to the chambers of tho king nnd qucon I was nrrested by tho eobs of her majesty us she complained to tho king.! "There, I told you t.o. She has n hrand new palace. Thero Is a perfectly grand landscape painted In the back of her boudoir, a landscape with a lighthouse that has u real llgjit In It nnd a moon that really shines. Why should she have that when I havo to stay In this old placo where I have lived for years and years nnd she only a mean, crawly python nnd mo the mother of your child ran nnd a real queen. If you were any kind of u iiihii you wouldn't stand for your wlfo not to have as good a home as any other woman." "My dear, my denr," pleaded the lion In his most soothing tones, "don't air the family troubles before a reporter. Walt until I'm through with tho Inter view, Bho might print it." Then turning to me; "Must you really go? Well, charmed, I'm vsure. Hay anything you like) of course, I rely on jyou. Bo sure and say that I think tho American woman the most beautiful In tho world. And how does your paper stand on the suffrage question? For It? Oh, then, say I'm a hearty advocate of votes for women. Good morning." lly DOROTHY DIX. My Oear Hilly: And so you are 111 love I with Annette and you are thinking of I nsklng her to marry you. 1 don't bla-ne you for being bewitched by her, son. J She's as pretty and an dainty and as fragile as a Dres den statuette. And I And Just alxiut at practical and use fu! I you her. on don I blame for wanting You want tier the eternal human principle I ttiut ImlltiM 11m nil prefer the luxuries to the necessities of life; but If you get her. what are you going to do with her. son? What place has a 'Dresden statuette In your scheme of life? Annette would make a perfectly lovely parlor ornament for some rich nmn's home, hut the only homo you can offer your wife Is the I homo of h poor man, where there will bo. no space for a parlor ornament for many a year to come, but where there will be u crying need for serviceable It lichen ware. Try, at least. In selecting a wife to nhow as much Intelligence ns you would display In buying your clothes, or order 'UK a meal. You wouldn't s4nd your money for silk socks and patent leather rhoeM If you were purchasing footwear In which to tramp a thousand miles. J either would you expect to be nblo to stay your stomach on a dUt composed wl oily of chocolate eclairs. Yet theso would not he more Incongruous ami Idiotic performances than for a poor man, who has his way to make In the world, to pick out for himself a society butterfly for h wlfo. Tho kind of a wife you need Is one that will be a help and not n hindrance to you; that will be a booster and not a millstone about your nock. What you need Is not nit ethereal being to whom you can quote poetry, hut a husky help mum wno can wren.c wun mo pois ano , nam aim ouicoer un.s . icu b , I babies without bothering you nbout them j Bcllovo me, son, that while tcnilH-m-inenl Is very alluring In a lady love, It is excess Ua?guge In a wife, and the less hhe has of It the faster you will travel. ' You will havo your work n gutting on In the world cut out for you without having to stop to smooth down tho sensi bilities of a wife who Is too fluo and good for humnu nnture's dally food. Consider Annette and the way she has been brought) nip. f(I atp not i saying a word against tho glrf. She has my earn est pity, for sho Is the victim of the fool American custom that makes fond parents cultivate champagne tastes and habits In their daughters, on beer In comes. Hhe Is a dollar princess without even a dollar. She will go to the man Advice to the Lovelorn By 11HATRICH FAIRFAX. You .11 lull t Try. Dear Miss Fairfax: I have been keen ing company with a map 45 years old for lour years, i am 20 years old. Wo are engaged. He Is a Door man anil has been Indifferent recently. Would you advise mo to rorgot him? F. P. D. There are. these facts In tho scales ngnllist hlin: At 45 years he Is still a financial failure, and ha Is growing In different to you. 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You will stand It for a little while, hoping that she will learn the things nbout housework that you thought all women were bom knowing, trusting that she will comprehend that I your whole future success In life depends upon vour having a comfortable and ss-u-no home, and upon your working and (living when you're young. Hut sho will never learn. Things will go from bad to worse, and then In desperation, beaten, you will give up th i fight and Join the army of mlserabU loafers nbout hotels, whoso wives are too lazy to do anything but press a button to have their wants supplied, and who spend their days hunting bargains, golmr to matinees and plnylng bridge. And th husbands of thc-o women aro Just one lap ahead of the wolf, and are bound Mr poor house. If you marry Annette that will be your fate, son. but I comjuro you. be a sport. Don't complain. A woman Is more or less entitled to kick nbout the sort of hits- band she gete, because she had to take what was offered her. A man's wlfo is of his own picking. She represents his tastes and his Judgment, and If he de liberately selects a fashion plate, or a parlor ornament, he haan'J any right to complain that she Isn't a washing .ma chine, or a gas range, when he gots her home, Marrlnge works no miracles In a woman'R character, my boy. What she was . before the wedding ceremony was read over her she Is after marriage. Only more so. For marriage Is like a mor dant. It sets the dye of a woman's na ture. If a girl is pretty and silly and frivolous i before marriage, sho will bo silly and frivolous and pot pretty nftor marriage. If n(foro lnBrrnBC, no Rpends ner dRy, recnng on a couch reading novels while her mother does thn cooking, nfter mar riage she'll still recline on a couch while her husnhnd goes out to the delicatessen store and buys n pick-up dinner after he comes home from work. And If n girl Is so selfish she will let her old father work himself to death for her, be sure she will bo a slave driver to her husband, And, by the same token, tho girl who Is sensible nnd helpful nnd practical and competent, who Is a good daughter, and a good sister before marriage, will make a wife whose price is beyond ruble?. Furthermore, son, I would call your attention to the fact thnt Annette ! as dellcato and fragile as a hot house flower. There's something In that very weakness that strikes a chlvalrlo chord In a strong man's breast, and makes hitn wunt to shelter her from all tho storms or life. It's n lovely sentiment, my boy, but fatal to act upon, for all misfortunes thnt can happen to a man tho very worst Is to bo tied down to a sickly wife. It means nerves, which In turp maus temper nnd bitter, unjust speeches. It means working your fingers to tho bone to pay doctors. It means never having one minute's peace or freedom. It means going from n hard day's work to a home thnt Is full of querulous complaints and whining. It means a life that la a night mare. If sickness comes after marriage, and the wlfo becomes an Invalid, a husband's duty Is to comfort Rnd sustain her as well uh ho cnn. That Is an unavoidable misfortune, and must be borne as such, but no man need 'hunt for trouble as lr& does when he picks out a delicate woman for a wife, Tho moral of nil which Is, son, to select the kind of a wlfo you need and can afford. If you've got a parlor man telpiece, then the Dresden statuette may bo all right. Otherwise stick to service able delft. DOROTHY DIX.