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Dorothy Dix Says: Teach Every
Uirl in the World to Be Selt-
Supporting.
By DOKOTHV Dl.V.
A man who hIkiis himself, "A FUther,-'
askes this (iicstlon:
"Uo you not think that before a girl
upends niueh tlmo In thinking of love or
mHirlago !ho should equip lieroelt In
konic useful nio-
cialty say ilotneHtlc
science, for lu
titHiico, so as to tn
Hiire her having
home occupation by
which Mho could
Hilppoit herself if
Mho should ever be
obliged to? Don't
you think Hhn
Hhmild do this le
gardless of the fi
nancial condition
of her parents?"
I hail It as a
glad day when
oven one father
has begun to think
scrlouBly and Intel
ligently of' his
daughter's future. Instead bt.;A Ing -It-to
qhance, ap.Is yio happy-go-lucky cus
tom lu dealing with girls
I have written n thousand times thai
I think it f simply criminal for parents
to iei)d their daughters out Into the world
as helpless to deal with the conditions
that they are bound to face, as a Iamb
would be to fight a horde of wolves.
And this state of affairs prevails
throughout every rank of 'society. The
rich man, who has a fortune to leave
lili daughter, does not teach her one
thing alcut business, so that when he
dies ami she- comes Into her Inheritance
.she has no ability to handle It, and be
comes the victim of. any man unscru
I'Ulous enough to rob her.
Hvcry one of us can cite dozens of
cases of women who were left fortunes
by their fathers, but who ure paupers to
day through having been swindled out
of the money they wera not competent
to manage.
if a girl belongs to the well-to-do class
her " parents think they've done their
full duty by her If they have given her
tlio smattering of an education, and put
all the balance of the money they could
spare on her back. They base all their
hopes for her future welfare on the
chance of hnr marrying. They practi
cally force her into marriage for a live
lihood bccafise she hasn't been taught
any honest way of supporting herself.
Kvcn when a girl Is poor and must
work, her parents do not take the trouble
to think out for her. as they would for a
boy, the occupation for which she dis
plays a natural aptitude, nor do they
lake the trouble to have her thoroughly
taught some trade or profession so thnt
she may get a good salary Instead of a
small wage.
Of course, parents Justify themselves
in till way of treating their daughters
by saying that the girl will soon marry,
and that there's no use In spending a lot
of money iwid time preparing her for
soiiio skilled occupation which she will
not follow, but for a short time. This
apology for a neglected duty was al
ways a poor one, but It grows of less and
loss worth every year as girl's chances
if marrying decline.
It Is not at all certain In these days
that ft gtrl will marry, and If she does
marry that doesn't alter the necessity of
having an anchor thrown out to the
windward In the shape of, a knowledge
of how to make a living for herself.
Husbands die. Husbands become Invalids
and muHt be supported instead of sup
porting their wives. Husbands are some
times good, worth, lovable men. who
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Nature's laws are perfect if only w obey them, but disease follows dlsobed
enee. Go straight to Nature for the cure, to the forest ; there are mysteries there,
some of which we can fathom for you. Take the bark of the Wild-cherry tree,
with mandrake root, Oregon grape root, stone root, queen's root, bloodroot and
golden seal root, make a scientific, ilycerio extract of them, with just the ri(hl
proportions, and you have '
DOCTOR PIERCE'S GOLDEN MEDICAL DISCOVERY.
It took Dr. Pierce, with the assistance ol two learned chemists and pharma
eiits. manv months ol bard work experimenting to perfect
C. W. Pawlsy, Esq,
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do the best they can, but who Just have
the faculty for getting along In tha
world left out of their composition, and
they drng their families down to penury,
unless the wife knows how to put her
shoulder to the wheel.
Kvery girl In the world should be pre
pared for some such contingency as this.
8he should be taught some occupation
by which she can support herself If she
needs to, and sh will make a better wife
if she has practiced It for a year or two
before she .marries.
There would be no need to cry out
agalnft the extravagance of women If
every woman knew by experience what
toil and weariness go Into the making
of every dollar. There would be no more
slipshod, Ill-managed homes If every girl
had had system and order nnd prompt
ness drilled Into her In a business office.
So, even If you think your daughter Is
going to marry, you can do nothing more
! efficacious toward helping her make her
' marriage a succees than to make her a
thorough-going business woman.
We don't like to face facts about our
girls, but It's nothing more than the
"truth that' the woman who marries for
anything but love the woman who mar
ries for a home, and clothes, and a sup
porthas no rlsht to draw her skirts
away from the woman of the street.
Morally, they are in tb.e same class; and
you can protect your daughter from this
crudest of all fates a marriage of neces
sityby having her taught some way to
support herself. The Independent work
ing girl and the ' heiress are the only
women who are free to follow their own
hearts.
Glvo a woman a good trade and you
put in her hands the wipon that Is
going to reform matrimony. There are
tens of thousands of wives who put up
with every sort of Insult and mistreat
ment from their hsubands. because they
i.re dependent on them. These women
are treated with Inconceivable cruelty,
but they have to . t the bread of de
pendence or starve, because they have
no way uf supporting themselves.
The woman who has a good profession
or trade will not submit to this humilia
tion. She will simply get up and leave
and go back to her old Job. The woman
uhu -i n earn a fine salary will not
stand lor having pennies doled out to her
as If she was a beggar. She will turn
htr back on the cook stove' und repair
to hc.r typewriter or counter, and for
this reason there will bo a leformatlon
among husbands. Tho r .n who Is mar
ilcd to an Independent .oirmi will re
spect her Independence.
Above all the woman who has had ;it
her fingers' ends some trade whereby
ilie cun make a living will be saved
from that most piteous lot on earth that
of the middle-aged woman who Is sud
denly thrown out helpless iir.d penniless
on the world, Incompetent, unskilled, as
Ignorant as a baby of any gainful occu
pation, and too old to learn one.
Kvery girl In the world should be taught
mme way of supporting herseir and every
father should see to It that his 'iighter
Is that far protected against the mis
fortunes of life. For none of us can tell
what the turn of the wheel Is going to
bring uf. 1
Thr Old Man Hint,
.Mother (at 11:30 p. m.) What s the
matter, John? You look disturbed.
Father I thought I'd give that young
man calling on our daughter a vigorous
hint It was time to go, so I walked right
Into the parlor and deliberately turned
out the gas.
Slother Oh. my! And did he get angry?
Father Angry? The young jackanapes
said "Thank you." Boston Transcript.
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this vegetable alterative and tonie extract of the greatest
efficiency.
Ma C. W. Pawlity, of Mitlville, CalfC. write i " I wish
to tell you that I have used your 'Goldtn Medical Discovery'
in my family for twenty years. We have had a doctor called
in but once during that time, I have a family of ten chil
dren, all well and hearty, for which, to a gTeat extent, we owe
thanks to you and your 'Golden Medical Discovery' and
Pellets, which we use when sick."
Dr. Pierce's Pleasant Pellets regulate and invigoraU
stomach, liver and bowils. Sugar-coated, tiny granules.
SOLD BY ALL DRUGGISTS.
World' Dispensary Medical Association, Buffalo, N.Y.
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BV MARCiAKKT HIBBAUO AYIOK.
Bishop Ulckey's in ralgnincnt of mod
eru women whom hi' rulls "tinseled
with farhlou. slaves to custom nnd wli
do not blush when modesty Is outrnwd
In print, In song nnd on the street." has
raised a storm of criticism from defend
ers of tho sex who see thu othur Mile
of the picture.
"Women of this kind are greatly In tii
minority. They are In evidence because
they have nothing to do, but parml :
around and advertise their lack of braina
and luart. Hut the great mass ofcwcvu.-n
uphold the high standard of morals 1
spite constant temptation. No one heir
o' them because they arc too bus lu
exploit themselves as the "tinseled"
woman does.
"Miss Katheriue Ird thus took excep
tion lo the bishop's words from tlm full
ness) of many years' experience with tilt;
young women which she gained as a
worker In tho Greenwich Village settle
ment and as a teacher. Sitting lu the
yellow glow of the Cosmopolitan elm
which was founded for and by young
I professional women Hkn herself, sne
I spoko of her experience In social won.
umd tho difficulties that confront ti.e
I young people In their natural desire l.,
obtain some enjoyment.
Miss Iord. who Is a Wellesley graduate,
and well known as u writer, especially uf
children's plays, Is responsible for many
of the most beautiful children's pageunts
New York has ever seen.
"When you realize how luudL-quulch
young people are provided with n nut'.u.tl
outlet foi their exuberant animal splntj,
especially amon& tho cvcr-firow'lng class
of girls who work for their living. :t is
remarkable how' high the standard of
morals Is. and how strict their tense i f
propriety, " she said.
"Of courae, I admit I am a confirniHl
opmlst. hut I believe that I have aume
right to my opinions, because I have peo i
all kinds of people, both rich and uuo.-,
and the standards set by the women ol
both kinds was extremely high.
"While I was In settlement work. I
supplied the 'frivolous' clement because
I saw the need of the young girls mil
boys as well as of tho children for f' n
and amusement.
"Young people have got to have It.
and I have always noted how good nnd
sweet the girls remain even when they
are denied all the neutral pleasures of
youth.
"The parents of one very pietty girl.
Insisted on her werklng In a factory be
cause they could be sum where she was
all day. At night she was expected to
come right home (no loitering), eat her
supper, read for a little whll and go to
bed. That was her daily life The
parents allowed ho amusement of any
kind, excepting church and a walk on
Sunday. She had no friends, and none
were encouraged.
"I am sure that many parents, for
fear of their daughters going wrong, aro
treating them In the same way, forget
ting that they were young themselves
and craved innocent pleasure as all
young things do. Fortunately, this girl
got Interested In the settlement nnd, atter
much persuasion, she was allowed to take
up more congenial work and .make a few
friends among her own sex.
"Thousands of young people havu no
places to go, n place where they can be
with other young people, except the dance
halls. The girl's have no place to receive
callers, and parents do not encourage
the visits of daughters' beaux.
"I remember watching a very beauti
ful girl who always received her callers
in the doorway of her home. They would
stand there for hours, and vary tho mo
notony with a walk around the, block.
I got to know her, and she was one of
the sweetest and finest characters.
"Once she told me that she had been
to a dance with a young man. nnd, at
It was 'Just after the opening of the
Hudson tunnel, the couple had spent
several hours after the ball going back
ward and forward under the river for
fun, finishing up with a feast of buns
In the park, and then both to early mass.
Certainly nothing could have beon more
Innocent or looked wiirse to the suspi
cious. "We are too apt to Judge by the most
superficial evidence. Kvll Is loud-voiced,
while goodness Is silent.
"You can no more say that the modern
woman Is devoid of modesty than you
can say that Broadway Is New York.
Miss Ixird, In trying to supply the re
creation and Interest needed by the youni;
people, started different handicraft
rlasaes, notably the lace-making classei
that are now quite famous, but she
found that the publlr pageants provided
young and old with the tnost fun ami
afforded and educational alui as u ll
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M1KS K VniKIMNK i.Ultli
llefore we had finished our talk I asked
her If she were a suffiugist.
"I'm certainly not an null." she pro
tested, "but X feel very much like the
furmer'8 wife to whom tho necessity of
'Votea for Women' was being explained
She w-as a very hard working woman,
and for years had boon tho drudge and
the bnckbom! of tho family.
Hy nHV. THOMAS H. (JKKt.OKY.
John liradshaw, the man whu presided
over the court that trlod King Clmrlei
the First, was born 311 years ago, Febru
ary 21, we.
Whin thu famous "Hump I'ailiument
casecd Its resolu
tions for thP trial of
the King jsnd tin
IVe.i r 1 j e c t d
them, tho lluiiue f
Irda went down
like a' house of
cards before this
broadside from the
Commons: "The
people are undei
God, the fountuln
uf nil Just power
Tha Commons of
Kngland. In Par
liament ustemhled.
being chosen lit hihI nprct Ming tin
people, have the supreme powei in thi
nation, and whatsoever 1m enacted and ile
c'jtfrd by the I'olnmoiiK hath the force n'
law, and all the people or this nation
are governed thereby, although the con
sent uf the House of Irds lie not ha.t
thereunto. ' It Is said that this ex
tinguisher lame from the brain and hear:
uf John liradshaw.
John Bradshaw
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aazme
Drawn
"'iim the men dn It iftouo''" she deftly
asked.
"They lone always attended to II stlon?
that's what wit object to." tho suffru
geto told her.
"Well If (hero's one thlug.in thr world
that tho men can accomplish by llieni
clvos, for heavon'a e&ke let thctn do It,"
'm replied.
It was quite natural, therefore, that the
Parliament, In looking for some one to
pirsldc over the body of commissioners
who wore to try the king should pitch
uxm HrHdslmw, b inun rough and ill'cct
In his methods, but honest as tho du,
and absolutely fearless when It came lo
doing what ho believed to bo his duty.
It is unnecessary to dwell upon the
iiiciiKjiablc trial which ended, on the
fifth ,ty. with the condemnation of the
King a.- "a traitor, murderer Htid enemy
if his country." Hradshaw's conscience
i.tvcr troubled him for tho part that he
took In the trial. -
When, with the turn of fortuno'i
wheel. Cromwell began to loom up Hrad--li.iw
wus one of the very few men lu
1 1 j id who had tho courage to wltli
istui. Inm when, In his ludgment. he
n 11 stepped the mark. II was Hiadshaw
win), af'er Cromwell had dissolved th
Long I'arPuinent. looked the gi neial .!
'ho Iioimides wimrcly In the i- a ill
aid to til 111 ' "We lj e heard what you
did this morning hi the lluiite, and in
home houm ail KiHitRnd will hear or it
Hut you mistake, sir, if you think tli
l'nitiament dissolved. No power on eurth
1 .111 dissolve the I'm Ilium lit but Itself
He siiie u ib.t " 1'ietly bold words f . T
i' inm in 'i"Uk tu t'riiinwcll
Hut I In man w.im not t In Hiuuil ,.f
wlwm Juuu itiudsluw wus ofruid, and
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My IXI.A WIIKKI.KK WIM'OX.
"HE THAT L00KETH."
'opyilglit. 11113, by the Htnr I'pmpnnv.
Yen, she mid I have broken Hod's com
mand. And In lilt fight tiro branded with our
rhallll'.
And yet I do not oven know her tmnio.
Nor ever In my Wv Ihivp touched her
hand
lor brushed her Mirmcnls. Hut I clmuccd
to stand,
lielde her In Hip throng! A sweet.
swift flame
Shot, friuii her flesh to mine unit hrrs
tno blame i
of willing looks that fed If. nye. that
fanned
The Klou within mo to n hungry fire,
I There was tin Invltntloii In hor ryes.
i lud sin met mine with coldness or sur
prlfe, I hud tint plunged down headlong In the
mire
of amounts thought. Tho flump lenped
high and higher;
Her breath nnd initio pulsated Into
SlgllK,
And wott glance, nidlcd Into glance
kins-wise.
And In tlod's sight both yielded to dc-
felt'l'.
UurltiK the lHt twelve months four,
wretched, self-Indulgent people, who be
llevid lu following every Impulse of th-s
lurnnl body, or weak mind, have com
mitted Hiilcldn (or inunler and .ulrldei :n
tho result of their
a tt fin pi h to find
liapptncas lu taw
lcfu ways.
liuch one of these
Individuals caused
imln and lasting
sorrow and sliauic
to those hound to
thuin by ties of luw
or blood.
Olio was the
Wife of a good muii
of wealth and high
social position: und
shu wan the mother
of a little uhlld.
Sha had It In
her power to make
her home a center of attraction, to glvo
help to striving' urtlsts tuid muslcluns, by
putronlzltig their win It; to give pleasure
to young people by entertaining them In
wholeaumu and happy wuya, to do wlso
ami good deeds of charity; to aid every
worthy cause, and to study und grow hi
UHCfiiliif si for years to come.
Instead of any of these things, this
Miunt; and beautiful and wealthy woman
Iiohc to allow a iNisslllg attraction gun"
Into ii lawless passion; to permit tin ul
mlrathin of a young man to usiumo thu
dciIou foim of ii criminal niuoiir, to
lime and . ( in during the prolcctniutc
Ilimlxhaw t .iwcd liliiwcir the imcom
r remising adversary of tho man nt whoso
voice all Kui ope trembled. An anleiil re
publican, and u core" , I hater of every
form of undemocratic rule, Hiadshuw
withdrew fiom Parliament, but re-entered
public life after the abdication of Itlchard
Cromwell. He died In November. Wfi'l.
and w.us burled In the Great Abbey. At
the restoration his body was dlslntened
and exposed on a gibbet, nlong with llioso
of Ireton nnd Cromwell
It may he or some Interest to readers
of Knailsh history to note the fact that,
atiout a , - ago, at Coolree Farm
Lodge, on '.no southern slope of the
rnmous three rocks, near Wexro'd. thert
paseed awav Mr Hubert Armstrong
Hradsluiw. tho lnt llncil d.-. c.laiii uf
the j ti who presided 01 et Hie couit that
sent 1 hurlcs the I'Mist I., his execution
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desert her husband and child nnd go with
her lover Into 11 life which ended after u
brief polled In double sulrldc.
The other womnn ,it uti older woin-in,
nshorlntloti.
And these nro but six people out of
hundreds whoxe wretched stories till
our dally pi ess with evil odors.
Theie is always a first moment when
uny man ami any woman knows that
danger lies In the continuance of an as
sociation with one of the opposite sex
It does not require great sacrifice or
self-control to prevent that first mo
ment fiom being followed bv other more
possessing money, lum'e and 11 daughter
IS years old; jet she, too. followed her
worst Impulses and ended by being killed
by her husband, who pursued a slmllnr
route thiiiiigh sensual pleasure and self
Indulgence tu death.
Two other people n man and wlfe
hte left with the scars of shameful mem
ories to spoil their lives, because or their
dangeious moments. It only require",
a little common sense nnd self-respect
All any woman, possessing conscience
or reasoning power, need do Is to say
to herself:
"That in, in attracts me to a greater
degree than 1 should like my husband
or his wife to know.
' There is nothing but misery for all
oncormd In pei milting tho acquaintance
to pioceed any further.
"Hvcry woman whoever ended In ills,
giaco or death through a lawless love
affair began as I am beginning this mo
ment, and she did not resolve to stop as
I nin resolved and to prevent the danger
ous little flame from bursting Into a con
flagration. "1 will not clieupen my womanhood by
doing what every humaii derelict of pas
hIiiii lias dune.
I will keep my solf-rcspect. I will
heei) my good name; I will occupy my
lire with good work nnd helpful acts;
I will study, nnd work, and grow, nnd 1
will not full hy the wnyslde."
There is so much for good women to do
today. '
There Is work for tho uplifting of
humanity; work for the protection of
Mirferlmr animals; work for the saving of
oppressed children and enslaved women.
There U the making of beautiful homes -
the Ideal home, which Is so rarely found
on earth.
If you, whose eyes read theso words,
are In temptation and In danger of Join
ing the great horde of weak und foolish
women who Intve gone down Into dis
grace or death thiough following thr'r
weak Inclinations, draw back this mo
ment, nnd turn your attention to the
Horse Aid society; to the Society for
Investlgaotlon of Vivisection; to the
single tax work, which means eventually
giving homes and a bit uf earth to tho
wretched uhildreu of tho slums, or to
educational work for yourself. In study
lug languages, arts or professions, so to
enlarge your outlook nnd Increase yout
powers of self-entertnlnment.
Htudy hoinemaklng und decorating, nut
homo breaking, dear madam.
And you, sir stop and ask yourself
what Is to be the end of this path of
folly which you are treading? What hap
piness are you to find for yourself, or
give to others, by tempting other men's
wives, or by being untrue to your own?
Is It worth while? And In this big
world are there not occupations better
worth while for your tlmo and energy
nnd purse" Any man can be u libertine
Why not trv being something more dif
ficult '
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For young and old alike.
Armour's Bouillon comes in
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