THE BEE: OMAHA, SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 13. 11 f.'fhe ee' jnp Ljafa z i rp p)a Mutt Crossed and Spoiled Everything Drawn for The Bee by "Bud" Fisher r T SfvVj a PAINMSV AMD eesoNTHftT mutt Kept Soaking toe vva, oscausc t 5TOOOPOY. SHf SAID 5 Jght to &er "rojeiH, act -TOUGH, AND "TELL HlrA TO J L Tv GOin fcltHT MOVvf, INt) NVUYT AND "TEL. Mitw t' tough. t TO rAN6LF J AM V. f. SAv I'M V.OOKINO FOP. You. va tough t a(a, I JUST LEAR.Net, HOW Tough i am. x'm a chanced man. IP 1 IV OU lUUbN t'fW AFRAID OP CR-Oiig, Do YOU CGT M6 f NGVeP- CR.OSS ME J 1: Ella Wheeler Wilcox ON Success as a Writer Aspirant with Forceful Ideas, Un flagging Industry and Colossal Patience Can not Be Checked. "Organize for Opportunity,'' She Says How Woman Can Be a Friend to Woman lly HLliA WHKKLKK WILCOX. "1 should be very grateful If you could advise me how to make monev hy my pen. I have occasionally sold stories and urt'.clcs. but as I am capable of .vorli ' think I ought to be muKiiiK a morn reg iilur Income by some other sort of writ ing, only 1 do not know how to ko about It " Dollbtlesn e v e r y man or woman who writes' for newspa peis. magazine or other periodical." re ceives hundreds of letters like the one given above, which came "In the morn ing mull H Is. always a hit discouraging to re ceive such a letter, because It Indicates tho existence of one more leaner In l world;-one more God endowed Individual gradually found her way to micccss. Had any one taken hex manuscripts and sold them for her she would never have, de veloped her own character, or learned the technique, of HUccess. The only Individuals to approach for assistance In a literary career aro the editors and the literary agencies.. ! It is ofttlmes a saving of time to em ploy u good agent. Now, right here comes In your self-reliance; if you want U find out where there is a good liter ary agent, do not write to some busy person and expect to have the address given you. Find out for yourself. Thero is u little magazine published for the purpose of telling peoplo things of this nature. Go to a book store und make Inquiries, and by a little trouble ,you will be ablo Hy ADA I'ATTKHSON. "Organize for opixrtunlty." Miss laura Sedgwick Collins is not a member of a trades unlun or n strike agitator though her word's sounded us though that were her field In the world's activities. Instead she is n composer and a club member, a woman of enormous energy, of a wide outlook and of an amaz ing number of friends. She told me that women are everyday becoming better friends of women and how they might show themselves still better friends. "Wr lmati well and wo aro gaining r our efforts to show ourselves the trun friends of our sex," he said. "We will dn still better when we focus our energies on the essential points of that friendship We best show our friendship for nny one hy 'riving her u cnanco to belt herself In other words, we can help her by aid ing her to turn the key In the door of op. portunlty. That Is what we need to do to find what you desire, We always find what we desire If we Women should organize for opportunity desire It enough. ' , for women." ii you want to be a successful jvrlter. I Casting a smiling glance aoloss the sea ' and if you possess any tulent, or. oven ability, and enormous Industry ' and colossal patience, you will buccetd, and who yet looks out. Instead ot wummo ; oc help, and the army Is so jat Uad t,onOI1 are 8(!tkmK. one dislikes to think of new "'"nits ; , (CopyrlBhted 1913, by tne star Co.) There Is but one way to go about any kind of business, and that way Is to so j And to go about it yourself. No one can help you. no one can hinder 'What "I nm was the iHiiidonwurd sho said: "Not us In a antagonistic way that may put us baclt 100 yenrs or so, but by making ourselves felt as a force for construction and bet torment Kvery woman should organize and be organized In some movement to help her sex. "What movements1' should women favor There Is n droll little story of "Torchy, 1 who was a hustling lad In search of a position as office boy. lie found a lino of applicants waltlus to be admitted to an office which nod ad vertlsed for a boy. tie pUshed past the line, took down tho sign "Boy Wanted" nnd walked Into tne office. The astonished manager asked are you doing with that sign taktner It down: I am the boy, answer. So he secured the place Just by his assurance. This exact action might not always succeed, but that spirit will always suc ceed. Tho very first requisite for a writer aio Ideas and the power to express them in H grammatical, concise. Interesting manner. The Ideas need not be new (for in truth there are no new ideas) Hut there must be something new In th-9 , manner of expression, or at least some thing interesting to readers. .Back of this must He an Intense deslr to be heard, and a determination to make a place In the world of letters, whetho- , ns a reporter, correspondent, author, poet, playwright or essayist. Then the asplr- i ant must himself make all the effort to I arrive at the desired goal. A youth came to New York a year or J two since, with only debts and deslrea j to recommend him. He had made a par tial place. In newspaper work In another portion of the stales, but he wanted u metropolitan field. He asked no aid of any one: some aid waa offered him In the way of letters of introduction, but all llieso letters did for him was to obtain personal Interviews with editors, who told llhn they had nothing for him to do. But undiecouraged, the youth began to write articles and send them to editors, nnd he wrote something every day and rent It fomewhere. Ho read all the magazines and weeklies and dallies which were popular with tho pub ic, und he decided what he was cap aNe of doing for all or tliem. TN n he wrote accordingly, and when an urtlclo came back he sent It out again In the next mall. Today he has regular contracts with several editorial concerns and an assured Income, twislden being a free lance and sndlnc out hU mental freight ships to iow ports continually. j A girl, aged H. on a western prairie. I felt she had a message for the hearts of j nne was Iltr timea Hum u. Our Daily Fashions II 1 u . II . always tht J j J6 a week jas a help to their sex?" I "The most vital is that of a living wr g wag" would insist everywhere unJ that the difference between J3 and that Is generally paid for tin- i saiiieu juoor. anu the z a week that ,i ' girl must have to live on, is the differ ence between right and wrong living. nn align themselves accordingly, they would be helping their. sex. strong public senti ment in that direction would force em- ployers to pay living wages. "Women could throw their powerful In ! fluertce In the scales for trade schools, where girls will be so trained that even 1 In tl)c. domestic field there would be no j unskilled labor. They could work for I vocational schools and for compulsory training In some means of earning a live 1 llhood. In tho public schools. Whatever ! women become thoroughly Interested In they bring about." "How can they throw this influence In the scale as you suggest?" , "By working for It In their club or clubs. And by forming clubs for that ; purpose. Organization Is power, and wo 'Hiould organize more and more, organize ror opportunity for our sex. "We should organize for the spread of the knowledge about the beauty In en- . vlronment. A new paper on the wall, or j hanging, replacing a bad chromo with a j rrood print, may cause a revolution In the lives of persons living who look at It. J Knowing the power of reforming und up j lifting of such inanimate thlmcs. we I ought to give much thought nnd time to i "ringing Instruction about house decora i tinn wlthih the reach of 'ery one. "We could do a great deal with classes j and lectures on sanitary living and sur i roundings. Mothers' clubs are Invaluable, i Wherever you find n club that Is not formed for card playing or for purely , social purposes you find work for hu- maiilty being done. Vou find mistakes I being made of course, for clubs, like all i other mortal manifestations, are human: hut more good than harm Is being done by all these organizations. "We can do more good for our sex If, 1 while organizing, we consider most thoughtfully what our sex most needs. My own Judgment Is that what woman j as such needs more than anything else Is modesty: and that what women most i need Is knowledge of the momentum of a ! word." i "How do Dorothy Dix Says: Life's Great Tragedy is When a Husband or Wife Outgrows the Other. lly DOHOTHY MIX. During this last winter there have been two Interesting and successful plays pre sented in this city that had for their theme the trading of old wives for new. In each of these play tho hero was n self-made mn- He had begun life as a poor hoy of humble social station, und by his own brains and hrnwn. nnd grit, and determi nation he h a d worked himself up lo fame and for tune, so that nt middle life he snt among kings, as It were. And In his climbing up tho ladder this man had educated himself, nnd had been edu cated by llfo until be took his place anion the highest In the land as an equal. He was fitted for the place he filled. Kucli of these men hud married a girl of his own people when ho was very young. She had been a devoted and fiilthful wife to him, md In the stress of his beginnings had tolled with him. she had washed his clothes and patched his trousers, and cooked his dlnnors, anft had been perfectly happy In doing so, but sho could not climb with him, . or she j would not climb with him. So It) the end she was left ut the bottom of the lad der, while he was at the top, and the l play resolved Itself around the man's effort to find some answer to this com mon and Insoluble problem of matri mony where one of n couple outgrows the other Of course. In a play, melodrama and sentimentality demanded that the hus band should be faithful to his dull and MISS I-JV.UHA SKUQWICK COl.MNB. learn not to bubble, not to talk us an hysterical .vent, but to neigh her worus,' knowing that ouch uue has a strong piopulsive powur, that words ure things. Hho should utter no word that meuns nothing und she should speak no word that hurts unless It Is u hurt that, like the wound inflicted by the surge jii s knife. Is necessary. "Men nre- fur ahead of us In this knowl edge A group of them can gather and discuss a mutter In a purely luiperson.il wuy. Women find this hard to do. They must leurn it. and a good wuy to leurn It Is to organize. If you belong to a club, sny organization, you must recognize tlu power or parliamentary law." .Hinlllngly she repeated her motto, the inqUo she would have all womanhood follow: "Organize for opportunity." The Case of Cassie Chadwick lly HliUHUT Hl UItAHl). which she carried with her and held ChssIh Oiudwlck's business wns to bor- caiefully In her lup. row. Just that and nothing more i ''he banker did not know the contents Her specialty uus the uiun or fio-the ' "f box- There was no necessity of deacon in a church the man who wore JIB - Thn widow did not usk for you T "V Hy lu ItACONTKL'SE. distinguish between . woman and women In making- that state. ' inent?" 1 "In an abstract sense I think of woman , as representing the sum of our sex quail j ties. Viewing us all as one, I should My that our great need Is modesty. It would seem that we appear to have lost It, and Afternoon costume of light gray char- the best first step toward regalnlns it 11. nAtnla Snp UH B I 1 r 111 11 1IUI11 U. . !!otofflce 'and mi" came and went only meuse with eoat of chestnut "frappl" j would seem to be to remove all trace of thrre times a weeK. I velvet. make-up except when you are dressing for the evening. Once we could tell at a nee an estimable woman from one irticles and verses, and sent them to edi- waist line, is fastened by a huge stress ;m me mer . now we cant, i-rev-. i .v,, o.,.t verv time the mall went ! button, ond the sleeves are long and alence of make-up on the street Is to 1 1 j hi '- -- , She had never seen an editor or a liter- ! The smart little Jackal opened In front 'or '', person, yet she wrote her crude I In "V" shopo and down'the front to the I Kla ' . ... . '....(- 11.... j . ... i. .... t r. ... 1 nf fitted tightly. The small square collar Is , blame for this We should set the ex ample and work, organize If necessary to nn mnzazlne in the East she sent , of battle. a manuscript every month for five years. '. The gown Is decollate, V shaped. Ixird- .Mirpress thi follv. We should Impress And t the end of five years one was ac- 1 ered by deep Valenciennes lace. Three (upon woman that no or Is fooled by It. rlp,ej buttons trim the front of the waist I The most causal recognizes tho om- Meawl'lle others began to accept and The skirt ta: gng perfectly straight ' plexlon that Is cot out of a box. can to grew In nb llt ot express-on nas a nux ri i i " ir"ni wmi u row ir vt nai women, i ,.i ia. pvcrj nuu-ni u't wl.i writrs ci"l-iuaMy lT Uo at- t i- t W- I .U'-n irl I w of fins c-rsice c-t neeas, is 10 Know inn .. . , ., i jL-a 'uu of the. word she utt?r She, m l whiskers and shaved his upper lip, bo aa to eat apples comfort ably. This digni fied pillar of ho cluty was un cus mark for Cassie Through Ohio Indiana and west ern I'emislyvanla Casslo carried on her gentle machin ations for ten years. Her scheme was to go Into a town of five, ten or fifteen thousand Inhabitants, stop at the best hotel and let tho news get out that she was a rich widow who was thinking of buying n home aiiyt'ilng merely that the kind hunker would take care of this box for her. ho, here wan n widow, evidently very , rich. Innocent und, withal, Intelligent and fairly Kood looking, j And so she fishes out 1. lays It on i the box and asked the banker to tukn this money as fee for storing the tin box This be gladly does, and the woman goes away. Of course, she conuw back in a weult or two. Incidentally, she needs u little money, und i In doubt whether to sell one of 'thousund-dolUr Steel corporation bonds or borrow the money tor thirty days until her next Interest comes due. She explains that shu has private In- formation from Wall street that ste, I bonds are going up. She hates to make a racrlflce. If she knew of some kl person who would loan her 11,000 sho would not mind paying INA bonus. And when she mentions the word "bonus" the deacon becomes quite Interested. And To this end she looked at various places out of her reticule, us she glibly and that wore for sale and Interv.eued varlou-, ' Innocently talks, Cassie fishes a one-hun- buslnes men as to real estate value ; srrd-nonar cm. Among others she culled on was the banker Having located her mun. sh called in h!m the second time. 8" e (xplftlned that she was about take his advice and bu u home: that i Hare was great psychology. I have noticed that Insurance and railroad ad justers are apt to display their nione when th want to get a quick com promise In uxa of possible damage sun she Ital J200.W) in bonds in the tin bo , have your money with you A iackae of one hundred one-dollar bills makes a big wad. Throw It out on the table. Or have a hundred-dollar bill, puss It over and uk the man to examine tho engraving. The mun will show It to his wife, and It will go around the room. Co Cossey. with clever psychology, fishes out a hundred-dollar bill and says: "This Is the bonus foi the loan of 1,WW for thirty days Ht 6 per cent Interest." Tho bank president thinks of (he tin box. safe In the vault; of th big In vestment in real estate that this woman Is about to make for a permanent homo Hut, principally, the man It revolvlm? over and over the sweet word "bonus." The hundred. dollnr bill that this woman has and that Is now pii'hed toward hlin Is his own. He pockets tho hundred dollar bill und grants the loan. At the end of tblrtv days Cassie conies ii round with a thousund-dollur steel bond. The banker has been u bit siibplclous of the woman up to this point. But now he is relieved, lie lb ashamed of himself lor ever having doubted her. He has nlwuys wanted to see the Inside of that tin box. but he had no business to ask, b(.cause the box was not left as collateral or even suggested as such. And so when she pays her note with a thousand. dollar steel bond the man is convinced that sho Is all light. Of course she returns. Tho next time, she borrows S23.0OO, with the usual 10 per cent bonus to pupa. These loans In creased until In severul Instances they ran up to JIO.Oi. t-W.COO and $76,000. All of the bankers who rnuke up the bankers' colonies In penitentiaries wero men who worked for themselves and not the bank. The bonus was In tlu-lr mind. No man goes to the penitentiary when he works for tho good of the Institution. When he works for himself the Interests of hi employer fall Into abeyance. Nobody knows how mmy Cassie Chad wick victimized. Wo only know of thoso who squealed. Bankers now no longer wear gumshoe ud do business behind closed doors. You will find bank managers, vice presidents and cashiers right out in tlui lobby. You go right up to them, state your ca and then they state theirs. The whole trans action Is frank, full, free, right out in the sunlight. No finesse or cleverness goes. Hankers now loan money on character, on clear Lyes, on good teeth, good breath, honesty, right Intent. A banker wants to know only two things about you: What ioit of business you conduct and what kind of a man your ure Copyright 1912, International News Service. uninteresting and commonplace old wife, and he was held up to our bitter scorn because he was tempted to forsake her for tho brilliant women of the new world Into which he had passed, and we only forgave him when for the sak of ths fool happy conclusion that they say plays must have ho went back to his faithful old Mario, In these, plays It was Intended that the pathetic figure should be that of the for saken wife, but the one thut I wanted to bedew with my tears was the lonel.v man who wan tied to the corpse 'of a dead love that hn must d.rug about with him as long as he lived, and whose success was made, dust and ashes In his teeth because he had no one with whom lo savor It. For the woman who does not under standthe woman who never can under-stand-Is not always of the vampire type. Bhe Is oftcnest Just the narrow, stupid, prejudiced woman who cannot see an Inch beyond her nose, who cannot com prehend a thing outside nf her own little range of personal experiences, and who can no morn change her point of view than the leopard can change his spots or the ethenplan his skin. It Is thin woman that strips the man who achieves "to his foolish hide." to borrow Kipling's phruso, and makes alt that he has done of no account, so far ns bringing hlrn any happiness Is concerned, because she has not grown with his growth, nor strengthened with hi strength. She has sat supinely down and let him go forward while she stayed put. and because he Is bound .to her hand and foot by the most unbreakable fetter In the world the fetter that Is forged by honor. We have a phruso that describes such a woman. We speak of her as "ths wife ot his youth." In that Is the tragedy ot many a successful man's life. The woman he Is married to Is the wife of his youth. Hlie Is the wlfo of his callow Immoturity. Blio is tho wife of his uneducated, un read, uncultivated youth. Jlut at middle uge he Is no more that crude, gawky, unlettered boy than his Immaculate broadcloth Is the blue denim of the overalls he used to wear. He has worked, and studied, and Improved, and polished himself In mind and body, and the Woman who has stayed Just as she wus, who hy not advanced an Inch In any way, and who was the wlfo of hi youth. Is the wife of his maturitr In name only. They have not one single thing- In com mon, not one taste, not one Interest, not one idea, and in the pathos of their lot he Is Just as much to be P I tied as she. Noy. more, for It Is always the one with the keener Intellect, the more far seeing eye that suffers most. The groundling can. to a large extent, be satisfied with material things, but the one who soars aloft is tortured by the vision of w(lmt Ufa might be In the rap? turo of u perfect companionship. , In all the world there Is nothinr more terrible or more sorrowful than this .de velopment of one of a married pair, whllo the other Is stunted. Nor Is It al wuys the husband that grows away from his wife. Sometimes It Is the woman whose mind and.htart get bigger, and broader, and wiser as the years go by until she walks In-green pastures and on I upianns. wnere ner nuspand does not even attempt to follow her. In such cases the woman who. has out grown her husband clanks the chains of her marriage, which - l.i- nothing- 'but a bondage, after her. Just as does the man who has outgrown his wife. She, too, knows the lonllness und the dreariness of a life In which husband and wife speak different languages, have differ-, ernnt standards ot measurement and look at life from the point of view of aliens. She too. sups on the husks of affection and dreams of what4the full meal might be with an equal. And the worst of this tragedy of de velopment Is thut It cannot be helped, nor remedied. The mind that has thn germ of growth In It must unfold and attain Its full stature, no matter whether It brings hapiHness or misery. The cold cannot aspire and uchlove, no matter how It might wish to. The "clod cannot aspire and achieve, no hare, nor may they run the race together. There are those who are forever tell ing the dull wife of the brilliant man that she must strain herself to keep up with him. Doubtedless this Is good ad-i vice. At least It probably mltlgatM the situation for them both, for they are ! oqual sharers In the calamity that be ' falls a marriage in which either the hus- band of the wife outgrows 'the other