TUB BKK: OMAHA, Tlll'ESDAY, PBBIH'AUV III, 1!1.1. 9 St Bringing Up Father Copyright. 1913, National Now Association Drawn for The Bee by George McManus 7 V Please dcmV TONICHT M9, K. ' WHAT AB YP ALL JUMPIN' ON FQRP r i i V 1 I m I I " r Q1 My ' n I T Pu,EAt,E Mt VAN ZlMK ( HELLO ' LAOY V ' ,i CEE' Box MY C0.IV 15 ITCHY FtJOM "MVT NEW UNOERbHIRT' h r. 1 I LIKE. Y' OH I f DIDN'T t rurD l " nOTHE.0. . v ' SH,'J I'M I I I I I II II I II k?V& t I I II ba.'V II c-. I I II II Mill VMAT6 THE MATTER NOW? DIDN'T YE CVCR VEM NtW UNDEft?rllRY0 Children at Play Show Where Talents Lie Elders Should Plan Congenial Vacations tlunal Items without Interest. I don't be llovo that crime, as U shown In the newspapers, has any bad effect upon a natural, normal 'shlld. For tljey look upon murder a.s they would on the death of the slunt In the fairy stories. It elm ply means nothing to them. In the mean tlmo mv little niece Is getting a thorouKh bushiest training, through play. 'This is what I call vocational playing. A child with a definite talent, or trend, if It Is allowed to play with materials thut It wants, will generally construct toys which express Its own Individuality nnd shquld be of utmost importance In the study of the child's character and of its future possibilities, Indicating the lino of education to take." "I wish you would tell me something about your 60,000 little correspondents." t begged of Miss Bailey. "They are scattered till over the world, ami few of them know me bj name, for I write under many different signatures. I Bet very pathetic Uttlo letters from ELLA WHEELER WILCOX SAYS: Let Perfume Be a Part of Your Persohality But Beware of a Punefent Scent Uy MAHGAKKT IILBliAKl) AYKH. Watch your children at play if you WHiit fo know what their future voca tion should, be, for all unconsciously the child Is showing you Just where his taU cnts Ho and the natural trend of his mind as he plays with his toys. If you are a. discerning: parent you will bo able to see that the hard bargains little Jimmlo drives with his customers over the counter of his card board play store bIiirIc him out as a future com mercial power, while the way the diminu tive ISrmyntrude dissects her sawdust doll proclaims that she will either bo u cele brated surgeon or a writer onsycology. According to Jllss Carolyn S, Bailey the lmportunco of vocational playing Is something that tho modern parent has not yet quite grasped. "To tho normal modern child playing means doing: It means action; It means creating something, and It's only by glv Jng tho ohlld the means of creating, or making, or doing something himself that you ' really satisfy the child and Inci dentally learn the child's Inclinations and talents, which direct the attention to his woiVin life." Thus Miss Bailey, who Is young and pretty, and you wouldn't believe her to be counsellor und udvlser of many hun dreds of thousands of children. Through the children's columns of magazines last rjr she wrote to 00,000 of them, and they look upon her ns their own particu lar chum and friend. Miss BAlley probably knows more about , GRAY HAIR BANISHED It Can Ho Nicely Darkened by a Simplo Homo Mnrio Preparation. A very simple preparation to darken Eray hair, which can bo made in your own house at very little expense, Is made fom one ounoo of bay rum, a quarter ouifee of glycerine and a small box of Hatha Compound. Theso Ingredients can be procured at any drug store. You d.s kolve tne Harbo Compound In 7 ounces of water, then add tho other two ingre. Ulantsv applying it onco a Week until the half Is darkened and then every two wovks to preserve tho color and keep the kouIii healthy. It l an excellent remedy ftir dandruff and other scalp disorders und krtips the lialr soft and glossy. un like manv storn preparations, It does not rub off, make the hall sticky or color tu scalp It gives the hair a natural "young look.' and there Is realy no oc casion to have nry hair whjn this prep aration ran b so eawily mail. Insist on your druggist giving '' Uurbo Com pound, for there is no other tngrvdlent that takes It" pla- I" H'd mixture lie tan ala Ket It for you If jou Insist on It Adi.rrti nunt Noted GhJId Writer Who Favors Directing Talent or Chlldron Along the Lines Thoy Show In Dally Play. playing than any other "grown-up," for she is the wonderful person wno can make a perfectly delightful lady or gen tleman doll out of a potato, or a peanut or a parsnip and her cardboard rabbit, who can move all his legs, his tail and his head, and wlgglo his ears besides, In the most popular of her home-made nur sery playthings. "Children shouldn't be given the elab orate and complicated toys which elimi nate all Incentive to originate and create on the part of the child. What they really want b better play material and more of It. Most children feel like the little boy who was glv'eii tho very elab orate toy railway with signals lighted and run by electricity. When It was all ert up and running he stood In the middle of the perfect toy nnd sobbed, 'What Is there for me to do-?' "The main thing about playing is the doing and the great thing about that Is to find out what a child Is Interested In and arrange his play along those lines so that his play will toach him something. "I Bupposo I can Bhow you what I mean better by an Illustration," Mis Bailey went on. "I have a small nleoa of 8 years who shows a distinct Inclina tion to become a writer. "For Christmas she was given ft desk, a little typewriter, a pair of silver handled clipping shears, and her play business consists In going through all the Sunday newspapers and cutting out every Item concerning children and children's play things. For this she gets a little salary from me every Week, "She Is learning to ba orderly and ac curate, for the dippings must be care fully cut and each one must be dattd. And her .pride In her achievement Is superb. She has now hired an assistant whom she pays out pf her own salary, and she also buys her own supplies in the way of wilting paper, for she ustis vast quantities of that in her literary efforts. "8he is so Intent upon getting the chll drrn'a news out of the paper that she passes by the murders and children who are homesick or lonesome and have only tho companionship of tho magazine children's corner to turn to. "A Uttlo boy wrote me from China that ho had cherished a personal letter 1 wrote to him and during the Manchu uprising h'e had burled It In the garden for safe keeping. He was the child of a mis sionary and frightfully homesick. "But to return to the child hero In the city. While It has a great many oppor tunities, it has no place to play and noth ing to play with. Generally speaking, In the so-called play centers there Is too much pluy direction and children are not allowed to express themselves In play as they should, "I should like to advocate playrooms In every one the congested neighborhoods, where the children would find plenty of simple materials from which to construct their own toys, and where there would be no play direction to speak of. And, eventually, I think we shall have such Playrooms on the roofs of the new tene ment houses, which are the only place for city children to play in safety." I'urfume always sasms to me liko muslu arown still. There Is somtthluK vitally wrong with the temperament of u man or woman who dislikes muilo or perfume. Did you ever , think how much of --m or life would be mlsslnx If that least respected of the five senses, tho sense of smell, were lostT Never to be able to enjoy the breath of roses on a June day; the salt smell of the sea al low tide In August; the odors of the pine woods In early Au tumn, alth never to experience that emotional rush of the tides of mem- pry which certain perfumes produce. The wlff from a lady's lace handkerchief can for the moment restore lost youth, and bring back drad faces to life and beauty for the passerby. Perfumes always have -played, and always will play a large pari In the romance of life among temperamental people of refinement. The word "perfume" Is derived from the Latin words "per." which means "by" or "through," and, v'fumus," meaning 'smoke," referring to Incense, which was the first form of perfume used In religious ceremonies. The Egyptians revelled In the bath, and employed porfumos In their religious and state ceremonies and at funerals nbout forty centuries before Christ, Their priests monc ted tho compounding of the spices . (umi, and were conse quently tho oi .Klnal manufacturing per fumers. The city of Alexandria con tained perfumery factories. Cleopatra used perfumes lavishly; they were(among the means she employed to fascinate Mark Antony. Men are curious creatures; they like the flirtatious woman and tho woman who uses subtle odors; but both perfume and flirtatious methods must be delicately Advice to Lovelorn By BKATIUCE KAIKFAX. Thought Ife IIa.il Biu. Farmer Brown-Hello, John! .How you feeiin' Fanner Jones Poorly. I felt all rlht yesterday, but 1 kinder think today somethln'a the matter with me. I feel some o' the symptoms of sciatica, lum bago, dyspepsia, ringworm, bronchitis an' a few other ser'us ailments. Farmer Brown-Dq tell! What In th' name o' Tophet did you do last night T Farmer Jones W'y. I read the new Farmers' Almanac till near mornln'." Judge. tall ex- Thrown Amr, "What's doing?" asked the plumber. "You're all dolled up." "Had a date wjth my best girl," I'laiuru mo anon uricKiaytr. "But aren't you going to keep ItT" "1 showed up all right, but she wasn't there." "That was pretty tough." "I wouldn't care," said the short brick. Jayer, Vonly I went and had my shoes ahlned all for nothing." Voungstown Telegram. Key to, the Situation Bee Advertlnlne. Don't nivf It. Hear Miss Fairfax: There Is a young man who loves mo "as he has never loveo before," and I reciprocated his love with all my heart. This young man has asked me many times to be kind enough to give htm a picture of mine; but I always told him that I could not comply with his wish before having another dress made. He I thinks that any picture will do, for he does not want the plctirre of my dress, but the picturn of myself. I know that this young man Is Just rrazy about having my picture. Under the circumstances, do you think that I ought to satisfy his honest desire, re- ! gardless of the fact that my new dress Is not yet ready T He has been waiting since last Raster time. EMMA, Ho la right about the new dress being of little Importance, and you will be wrong If you give him a picture. If he sincerely loves you, an engagement will follow. That will give you the right to have your picture taken for him as often as he demands. Walt till then I Write nnd Explain. Pear Miss Fairfax: Not long ago I went to a dance and there met .a young man I'd never seen before. We were not In troduced, but he asked me fur the danoe and so became acquainted. He wrote to me and asked If he couldn't call and talk over things, as he wants to take me to a dance In two weeks. Now I do not like to accept his Invitation as he doesn t know any one I know. JlSTINE. You do not know him and must not accept any Invitations from him till you do. If ho falls to perceive this, write and make the situation plain. Hafetr In Numbers. Dear Miss Fairfax: I am a young man II years old and am deeply In lovo with a young lady who Is about three years my senior. There are six others besldoa my self that she goes with. Bhn pays as much attention to one aa to the others. Please let tne know as soon as passible how I con win her away from the other. 8. O. I. Your task Is not as great as If tho re WerV only one lover besides yourself. There Is safety In numbers. Seven lovers will not remain true lovers. If you are the last one left that will be due to your courage and persistence. K Memory9 s River lly KLLA WIlKKMMt WILCOX. (Copyright, 1013, by tho Star Publishing Company.) In iiiituro'a bright blossoms not always reposes That strange Bubtlo essence, moro rare than their bloom, Which lies In tho hearts of carnatlous and roses That tinoxplalnod somothlng by men callod perfume. Though modest tho flower, yet great Is Its power, And prognant with meaning each pistil and loaf, If only it hides thore, if only abldos there, Tho fragrance suggestive of lovo, joy and grief. Not always tho air that a master composes ' Can Btlr human heart-strings with ploasuro or putn; But strange, subtle chords, like tho scent of tho roses, Dreathe out of some measures, though alniplo the strain. And lo! when you hear them, you lovo thorn and fear them, You tremblo with anguish, you thrill with delight. For back of them slumber old dreams without number , And faces long vanished peer out Into sight. Jf employed or they are repelled. One associates raro odors with the Far East and ono finds thorn there. But at what exorbitant prices. And It Is a bit disconcerting, after having searched the perfume bagaars of the Orient and of Franco for rare scents and having paid largo sums for small bottles, to come homo nnd find the very same perfumes manufactured In America at much less cost, because of the duty, and then to learn that our country ex ports them, a rent Is the America! The more one learns about the making of perfumes tho moro wonderful It all seems. A man whoso business It Is to ransack tho world for new flowers and shrubs which yield themselves to toilet purpose. Bent a lady a tiny bottle, no larger than her little finger, full of tho oil of Jassemlne. With It came a little note saying; "I send you the breath of 1,000 Jasse mlne blossoms In this little bottle." It had really taken as many flowers as that to fill this tiny bottle, besides weeks of work of many hands. The method of extracting tho odorifer ous properties from flowers, plants and fruits are by enfleurago process, by dis tillation. But some flowers are refactory to distillation; micli as Jassemlne, tube rote, Jonqulll, The odor of these Is ex hausted by tho enfleurago process. The process of extracting odors by en fleurnge and maperatlon are accom plished by means of purified grease or oils which havo a strong affinity for odor nnd draw It all nut of the flowers, Solomon wroto: "Ointment and per fume rejoice the hnnrt." Tho u bo of perfumery Is natural, not an acquired taste. The crudities of the few simple odorn at command by the ancient doctors and alchemists have gradually given place in tho world's development to tho perfection of tho art today, vperhaps more subtle and nt least as wonderful us any othor department of human progress. There are unworthy "perfumes" made by the oheap amateur, of common ma terials, Just o there are In the voca tionspoor musicians, painters, cooks, writers and what not. Why condemn music, literature, art because of them? For many years progressive physi cians have, been studying the curative powers of music nnd colors. Now they are beginning the realize that there Is healing In certain odors. A Paris physician nns started a clinic for fashionable patients, In which tho treatment Is entirely carried on with per fumes. He has discovered that certain perfumes, If constantly used, have a marked effect upon the constitution, and, more than that, they have a strong power over the mental and nervous sys tem. For Instance, the continual use of geranium gives audacity and self-confidence; mint gives the user a clear bust ness head; opopanax brings on madness; russla leather encourages Indolence; ver bona stimulates a sense for the fine arts, and violet predisposes to devotion. Perfumo soems In our wentorn land to bo a Wholly feminine accessory nt tho toilet. Some twenty yearn ago fashion declared that men might uko toilet water, but no extracts. Over In England, how over, fashion has taken a swerve toward tho oriental Idea, and each man of thn mode Is expected to have his Individual soent, usually In the form of uti Inccnco burner, In his personal apartments. Henry VII 1 of Englatvl was passion ately fond of perfumos; Napoleon de lighted In them; Decatur mado a business of gathering oriental perfumes as ho cruised about eastern seas; Charles Dickens doted on perfumes, nnd General Grant bathed his face In a certain kind of cologne water day after his bath. As for Solomon, tho wisest of wlso men, history has preserved the names of six perfumes which ,ie presented to tho queen of Sheba. They were:: Knnant, myat, meurlgo, sohln, sollhot, sellka. What n pity that the ajiemlsts of his day did nbt leave us the formula for all these. They wero supposed to possess tremen dous power over all who smelted them. Perhaps It was by no means of- these perfumes that Solomon won so many wives. It Is a curious fact that tliera Is some thing unbalanced and out of harmony with thoso peoplo who go to extremes In muBle or perfume madness, and that thero Is something lacking,. something cold and repellant, In those who dlsllko either. It Is easy for one who loves music pas sionately to become a bore to others un less the passion Is governed by good sense. In the same way, It Is easy for ono who loves perfumes to become a nulsnnco to others unless good' taste and refinement govern tho taste. But may our world never become so commonplace, so dull, so devoid of tem perament, that It ceases to care or com prehend perfumes. They havo their place In life with .the great arts. In fact, they havo been known to lnsplro great arts, great llteraturo, great poems, great music, groat pitlnttngs. And It would bo difficult to find a man or woman who hod experienced a great lovo who was not susccptlblo to tho In fluence of perfumes. 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