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About Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922 | View Entire Issue (Nov. 18, 1911)
. u .5-; ... 19 i -"v rrm bee: cnrAitx sattrpat. xovrcMnim is. thik HI The jeeg (np yaaz,irp SILK HAT HARRY'S DIVORCE SUIT HALTED The Judge Is Fearfully Sick By Tad CewrsM, neoeiu If ABneOltoa. a Of THE 51 EH ! Hollo svaor. ro VN HAT'S GLOfSS ( COIN" METUi? f fco NO 51 VOy HOMOfc, I Fann iNCr Mf A J ' it Jit .1 ,!tS N(XHAmE A BiT Of oSfcFTi ? MAO MO 2 i : a l0 IN' Ht"Hc 1 1 A(HNf Av(Tj v 7 Mm IH&UO 10 ( MAT" (J? - WKVi FANHiOL fc6AvN - I 1 A" 1 . I It SSI1 Jjl I ' --r j i r ii i 1 , V 1 I? uf.is.iJl-iin.K TMt TUC OAiLsJ vi u - i wufi VOW O p.mT A ilff-Y tOlvtOKHOVN ABOUT Wt JVDfrE'J iCXMEil H S VftTty VOX NO1" EPECPSO WV. (XANH -0- OOOO UV ' 'A1 Build Up Your Character by Thinking Agreeable Things If You Know Some One You Dislike Very Much, Begin Today and Look for Some Praiseworthy Quality in That Person. By ELLA WHKKLfcH WILCOX. Thera Is some ono you dislllie; Hume on who Jars upon your nerves; eomo onn of whom you disapprove, and when ever tho ruime of that Individual is men tioned you are con- w0 v 1 ' bcIous of a dlHa Crceablo sonsullon. Jt la never a source of liappiness to dislike any one. There la always a penalty attached to an aversion. And quite un consciously to most of us there is a alow but sure de generation taking placo in our char acters when we give mucli thought to tho people wo dl.illke, because we are grafting upon our natures some portion of those disa greable traits and qualities which oc cupy our ndnds, , "We become, to greater or lews degree, like the things of which we think and talk. If, therefore, you th!ng and talk a great deal about the faults and failings of your friends (or your enemies), you are grafting a branch, of poison ivy on the vine of your own heart. This U a scientific fact. Every thought has Its effect on our natures. Just as every moment spent in practise of music or painting la forming our habits in thoso arts. The art of character building is the greatest and roost Important art and profession in life, so it is a matter of erlous moment how we da this work. No one of us finds it possible, to like every person we moot. There are people 9 unlovable, so aggressive so un pleasant to encounter, that one would be mada of stone who did not recognize their repellent traits. Yet were we to set about looking for some agreeabla quality in those an tagonistic personalities we would find them. This, then, should be our work. The moment we encounter a disagree able or even an unattractive individual if we have time to give that person any thought at all, lot us turn, the mind toward a path of exploration and seek for something worth praising. ' And finding It, let us speak of It. Then having spoken of It, let us think of this quality whenever the person oc curs to us as an object of criticism. It will prove an interesting experiment and wUl help another while we help ourselves. There. Is tiothtng more disastrous la the way of mental proceOH than dwell ing on the iifclv. painful and disagreeable side of lift1. It Is not only a waste of tline and energy, but It U a criminal waste of these precious things. It does no good, and it does great harm. There are occasions and situations where the Odi k and paiutul and disagree able things of life must be mentioned; must be recognized, that tney may be changed. The child who falls In the dirt of the street must b recojrulzed as a soiled child, needing to be washed and clothed In fresh garments. It wpuld be folly to smllo and nay: "Run along, child; you are clean." Tho child mli,-ht not recog nize Its own ned ot a bath, but others would recognize It without rutking the changes neceesary to Its best well being. Put It would be an even greater folly to fit for days and weeks dwelling In thought on the accident which had be fallen the child, and trying to obtain data of other similar accidents to other chil dren, forgetting all tho beautiful throngs of clean, swet children . swarming over the earth. That la precisely what thousands of Intelligent human beings are doing with their minds and voices. They are emphaaing the faults, follies and misdeeds ot the people they know, especially the people they dislike, and they are Ignoring the lovely things which exsit all around us everywhere. They are doing nothing to lessen or change the evils they deplore, but are preparing their own natures to develop the same traits by continually talking of them. If you know some ono you dislike very much, begin today and look for some praiseworthy quality ii, that person to think about and to talk about. It will prove an exctllont disinfectant for your mind, Instead c inviting the contagion of the unpleasant things you find in another, by thinking and talking of them. Pass as lightly and rapidly as posslbli over the ugly and disngreabla traits of human nature. Accent the aif-ceable un? worthy. Bay some good thing every day about some one you do not like. And before you know it you will find you are ceasing to dislike that iudl virtual. Copyright. 1911, National New As"n. Stand Back, Boys, and Give Him Air By Tad The Manicure Lady "Now that the base ball season Is over," id the SUnleure Lady to the Head Ilar ber, "I hope and trust that we can turn to all them other and better things of life, such as foot ball and polities. The' fleet has came and went, so there ain't much to say about them, and as far as society la concerned, 1 ain't souu four lines In the paieis lately about the whole Newport bunch. Kuosevelt Is out of the spotlight on account of having become an editor of a weekly and no more than a editor, and Taft Is too fat to stir around much. News Is eearcei George. What shall we talk about this morning. You know, I Jut got to talk about some thing." 'I know," suld the Head Barber, wear ily, "X know, it you gotta tulk about something, why don't yoa talk about liter ature? between you and your brother you must know something about poetry, such an that ot Midler Kipling's about the female of the species being stronger and deadlier than the male. What do you Iluow about that?" "X guess Mister Kipling Is wrong," said the Manicure Lady. "Kemalu ain't deadly these days, George. They Juat want to be supported nice, and have the little comforts ot lite, like sables, etc., and they certainly don't want to get deadly if they can get the winner's end of the bank roll v. hen pay ttay comes. Even when I was a Utile girl I remember bow perfectly dear ila was wlyn the o:a gent forgot to siay away from the house an hour after the time he was due on puy day evenings. Hut i,en the old gent liuppened to fet home l o laie to pre serve the better and i:otler part of Mi weekly ttge, George, tlmi the surface if Father's map, but I mean speaking fig urutive. I mean that then the female ot the spocie was so much more deadly than the male that Father looked like Mister Bryan inuxt have looked after his first or second defsut or the Caulr. He seemed all collapsed, like." "lie ought to get rough treatment v.hen he came home without the roll," ietlarej me ueau iwroer. 1 uou t tiiinK it Is fair to report at home without the kale.' 'Without the what?'' "Without his kale, the money," ex plained the Head Larber. "That's one time that I think a married gent ought to keep away from liume. if a married gent can't bring homo the roll, ho always bhould stay away hng enough to get an other one. He ought to tote home the kale." "I em so glad, -George," exclaimed the Manicure l.ady, "that you have told me what "kale' meutu. Now I know what brother Wilfred meant when he read that poem to me about Mister Kipling's poem the one he wrote that said something about the female of the species. That Is all I remember about it, George: " 'When the poor old earner of the bread comes lioinu to gieet his wlfu And ays. "i haven t got It now, on that i ii iec my lire. " 'The wlf.j reiitonis with cruel words, hoi. In ti aet the kalu The femal." of the (.tcles Is deadlier than mo male. "That's why I was anxious to know what the word 'kale' meant, GeoSKe," con ciuuea the Manicure Lady, "I didn't want to think that Wilfred spoiled one of his poems." "He cou'dn't spoil one of them poems jf tils," fcald the Head HurUr. the map was chuuged-not t!. sj.fucs of J a lit' 3. w J -i i I r it ntr,TMrwMTHfasr rrsr r TMW-rviou CAN oTTCrf- LXiJ. miC"-- vi . .... TQ . 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" f NO THIEF COULD HAVE ANOCCAT RlfiHt) f -f ENTERED THE ftOOM HERE ON THi& J2y l7F( UNPERceiVED.-' THE SSSi A 0& HAT AND OOAr rE nor i itJf) Cfe HU5T BE CONCCAttD retime i came Vja ,y j (x f v-v C visan -: 4- ctStfj" YHT HIDE YOUft. HUSBAKP's - J HAT AND COAT, MRt.MtNPCCKO r-4D. KeEP M,M AT home i An evening r T7L UTN IN A WHILE QT HUtJ The Tragedy of Being a Man Ily FRANCES He la born with but one frbnd, and, after a lifetime of trying to- make more, doesn't have that many when he dies. The firs'. t'-;.g he learns after patty rake Is that mother's kin are superior to father's. In his boyhood day. It his complexion and clothes and pleasures suit his mother, ho Is missing tho fun that is rightfully due him. , 1 He finds as much joy In drowning Kit- rn'it.roin ,WJttA3 THE FISH UOKHN'T liXCUSU TUB UIIIT. tens as his sinters find In hunting violets, and Is called heartless and' soulless when he Indulges In It; when ho goes sway on a visit the kitten has Its first chance to grow up. If he Is given a red wagon all his own his mother and sisters find fault every time they see It because ot the soraubus on It. If lie catches a fish and take H home with pride to his mother she sees his soiled clothes before she sees the fish, and any attempt to love her when she la dressed up and he Is proud of tier Is met by a soream about his dirty hands. All his amusements lose their fascina tion It he has any one's permission to In dulge In them, and u one caa couvlnce him that the time will ever come when he will think wm' of a girl than of a dog. If he Is hungry and opens the Icebox door, his mothers and sisters icream and run for cloths to wipe up what re la 'going to spill; the only tlma his sister sees any Hand lu the world for him Is when she stands under a walnut tite, and from the thno he plays marbles under the stret light until he is old and toothless he hus to account to some woman why he didn't come home earlier. When ho Is a grown man and thought- lexsly tells a glil be enjoys being with nor, he wakes up to find himself ongugud, and In a brief period lie hears tiie wd- ditig march the women thlnlt la so. sweet and It rings lu his ears like a war whoop. If he ciotkii't hold the baby he Ii a brute, and If he holds It and it cries his wife looks at him as It he had pinched It; his children are dUigutibflml with hm becaute lu doesn't Keep a cunjy tore, I G,ILSIDE. i$ Tq be an ideal husband, ha must g home on purpose la kiss M wife, th meals are only an Incident, and If he I as polite In serving a meal as hla wit demand he starves to death Most of his troubles are vaused by j Imagination tea active, or a ttver that I not active enough, and all his Ufa, fron his boyhood days up, ha baa to be t mighty blii rag around a. mighty Uttl tore to get any sympathy, AH ho gets out of Oirlstma is th bibs to pay; alt the glorious Caster tkl- means to him la that he has his old pant pressed, and after the children are-growi and hin wife doesn't have stay a home evenings to put them t bed, he I left alone so much that he- feel a friendly to- any una who is kind to- him a if he were a lost pup. It ho telU hla wlf ot .an Increase ti hla wages she doesu't rongratulat him she gels a tar-away look in her oyes a It calculating how masy yards t wl) t e for a now dress, and It be tells-.he Ihoy must cconomhtq sjie la reminded o, Ula cigars, i ) All th broken furniture In tn. haun ts put In a room called his den, and Ii haa so- little room In any of the closet tor his clothes that Ulue Heard become his ideal ot a really great man. He, a! least, had closets lu which he had roonl to hang things. If he doe something aoteworthy am the world applauds, his wife' relative look wisa aAd say nothing. Kvery time be pulls hi money out o his pocket he iiiIsno a dollar, and In th same way as he grows older evory he counts his friends he find ha short, and be never know how be either of them. It la a loving, but bewildering; spirit he enter a dry good store to buy hi.-, wife a present, all the appreciation hi get Is her dekre to know what on eartt poaaesaed hint to buy a thing Ilka tliatl out l in th, V ry tlnn I Is on I be los. I , rrrT , ii IF DAET CIUES, iy3 S A BUUTB. I and there Isn't at any time anything oi such litllo linportanca around hi home as the underwear of th raaa who liven Ihero. 11a suffer and fight and oi reward , Is that the figure of l'eace Is represented by a woman; he never satisfies Li wife because be lack appreciation ot what he calls art. There is no one to that he has worked so hard and vmiured so. much that tho artlstlo tumpwa.mnt In htm has been smnhed as flat as If s rock crusher bud rol!4 over t. He never gets credit. If, a a boy, h Is good to his mother, every one says, "lie ought to be. She Is hla motl-ur." H kind to his wife, they suy: "He ou-;ht tc be. isn't she his wifo?" And i! good tc his children, every on tays; "Why shouldn't he bo? isn't ha thlr tatberr' And should he, on his deathbed, tails ol seeing the pearly gutes there would he suspicion tl.al ho didn't see them. Thai he talked that v.uy tJ fool liia wife lu the lai-t. Hi: WAKKS UP EN'OAGED. nd when lie goe home at ntht to for t'et the worries of the day he hear so many new wonle that ho Is glad to get back to his work next morning. He discovers early In his married life that he says the wrong thing, and after his daughter have ben In school a tew ) ears he also discovers that lie hay i It the wrong way. , When u child in the family Jies, there are thoso who accuse him of coldness. but in a short time his friends Iciiiurk that ha la looking o'-d. A Modern Hero J Senator La Toilette, at a plcnio In MadUon, was praising a young Mil waukee couple that has Just got married. "They'll have a rather hard time ot It. too," )i said thoughtfully, "with price t the height they are, and Beit's salary in the office so ridiculous. "A g!rl once lifted her head from aer young man's bosom and murmured! " 'If It were but possible In these prosalo days, for you to do something heroic, something brave and knlght-Uke, to prove jour love!" " 'Why, gracious goodn! tirled the young fellow, 'aint 1 goin' to marry you next mull th on a salary ef U Per v.ttkl' 6