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unday Bee f ART III. HALF-TOilE SECTIOil. PACES 1 TO 4. VOL. XXXVIII NO. 24. OMAHA, SUNDAY MOHNINO, NOVEMBER '29, 1908. SINGLE COPY FIVE CENTS. WORK OF WOMAN'S CHRISTIAN ASSOCIATION IN OMAHA The Omaha tfgut Ofcrw10s THE OMAHA DEC Best & West How a Great Charity Has Been Built Up and Sustained by the Unremitting Efforts of Some Enegretic Women Whom Adversity Has Never Daunted in Their Undertakings ( 1 WENTY-F1VE years come Friday, December 4, the first or ganized charity la Omaha came Into being and on the sixth day of the present week, that charity, the Women's Chris tian association, will celebrate its sliver Jubilee. .The his tory of this Institution, its memories of days and erents passed, are dearest to the members of the association, and particu larly so to the women who have with abiding seal and enthusiasm worked for all this quarter century; but because they have worked so long, so hard and so successfully, the story of their labor and achieve ment belongs In a measure to the city of Omaha, and In their success all Its citizens may and do feel proud. A lale of long continued, well directed benevolence Is a pleasant thing to hesr, a pleasure to recount. None but he In whom the milk of human kindliness has soured completely, he in whom "there Is no more mercy than milk In a male tiger," can feel otherwise than glad when he comes to think of the well nigh countless deeds of ministry and mercy which have come to pass In twenty-five years of human life, of human suffering and misery. Particularly to those whese tally routine bring them In frequent contact with the seamy side, with thieves and "hop" or "coke" fiends, with "stickup" men or shoplifters, with all the men and women who have made shipwreck of their lives, to one who sees overmuch of this phase of human exigence, a chapter like the history of the Women's Christian asso ciation gives new zest and inspiration to the reading of the book of life. It was In the parlors of the First Methodist Episcopal church that a great work had, like most great works, its seemingly small beginning. As the fifth annual report of the association says In re counting the history of the charity's Inception, there was little but seal with which to begin: "At our first meeting one woman promised to give 5 with which to pay the rent of three rooms In the city hall building. With this small amount of money, but with a larger amount of faith, we commenced our work In this apology for a home. Efficient committees were appointed In every ward In the city, and all cases of need were thoroughly Investigated before help was given. The dispensing or public charities has been from the beginning a prominent feature of our work there being then no organised charity In the city. However, since the organization of the Bureau of Charities last winter (1888), the work of the relief department has been dropped in a measure, although that work will ever remain prominent In the labors of the association." Two Serve Long Time Mrs. P. L. Perine was then president of the association and Mrs. George Tiluen one of the trustees. The latter is now president. She and Mrs. Perine, who served as the executive head until illness necv.sslta.ed her resignation, have been officers of the association all through its existence. It is worthy of note that three of the early prominent workers in the charity have celebrated their golden wed dings, these three being Mrs. Perine, Mrs. J. J. McLaln and Mrs. 'O. W. Clark. By force of circumstances and Its own desire the association, whkh started to administer outdoor relief only, came to broaden Its activities and the Old People's Home was Instituted. Old women were at first solely received there. Speaking of them In her annual report of 1889. Mrs. Perine said: "I speak first of our Christian association home on Burt street. The elderly women there are now In a comfortable condition; and did we need any reward for our work and anxiety, we surely have it as they press our hands and say, with tearful earnestness. 'I thank God for what you have done for u.' Dear old friends! May we never grow weary while we have the power to brighten the dismal pathway now so wearily trodden by faltering footsteps. ' - ' ' " ." "Little children, too, claim a large share of our sympathy In that home so amall yet so full. . Dear little things! whose lives have kftwn nothing of a home where love is the ruling power. WTt is saddei tl rn a Joyless childhood? Let us take them into our hearts as veil as into the home, and give them an experience which shall heln Uiem through the early years, when temptations are strong and the little hearts are weak to resist" By this time the Women's Christian association was also con duc ng a home for young jromen, which supplied the necessity later filled by the Young Women's Christian association. Of this work, Mrs. Ferir.e reported: "" ho Young Women's home Is a delight to us all; so many dear girls tiere sheltered from the intrigues of strangers, and a home where they may come when the wearisome day and the monotonous tread rre over a home of brightness, warmth and genial comfort, with g od books, music and all that Is attractive. "Our Woman's exchange, though only of recent organization, has already through the go6d management and perseverance of Its committee, become one of the most successful departments of our work. It helps people to help themselves, and opens avenues for irany branches of art and Industry to become a medium of support to our burdened women who might shrink from coming in contact with the heartless public." Ti'e Old People's home Is unique among Institutions of the kind, beratts" the title "home" Is not In this case a misnomer. It Is not sn ers- tafk to prevent a large Institution, in which methodical sys . ten- m-st needs be followed, from acquiring an air and atmosphere so j -Id rnd formal that even the chance visitor feels something of con trrlnt on entering the doors. Except In military barracks such severity of aspect is a thing which matrons and superintendents of bor s and asylums, etc., know that they ahould avoid, but find ther Helves generally powerless. The reason for this Is not hard to dlscrvrr Unless such strict and methodical formalities be the cus tom, things are apt to grow confused, all semblance of discipline Is lost, cost of operation increases and the whole Institution becomes den orallzed. Difficulty Skillfully Avoided This difficulty, peculiar to such Institutions as the Old People's bor e, has been skillfully avoided In this almost single Instance. Faitly this has been accomplished through the plain, but not homely ncr bevere furnishing of the home; partly through the spirit In which Mrr. Scott, the matron, and the executive board conduct the institu tion; iart!y through the fact that many of the members of the horns have paid or had paid by relatives and friends a life tee wnen me oia roan or oiu wumu In question became a resident there. . The first factor is more Important than would appear at first sight, because to even more than ordi nary j ersens dois the nature of their physical environment, the furniture, carpets and pictures, affect these whjo pass practically every hour of tht-lr lives within the four walls of a single building. To such the differences between a cheery room and a drab surrounding Is of prims consideration, tor they are by reason of age una ble to escape. The youth, male or female, con strained to sleep In a ball bed room need not sperd all his time there. Bright and cheerful theaters and cafes or hospitable Young Men's or Young Women's Christian associations hold open the door for him or her of an evening, but for the aged and infirm these attractions might well not exist at all. One need not emphasise the fact that kindli ness and consideration from those In charge of aa Institution are vital factors In the equation of the happiness of those living under their dis pensation. 8 u fflce It to say that at the Old Peo ple's home this consideration and kindliness Is meted out to aU alike, whether the old man or woman be appreciative or not, and whether or not he or she is an easy person to care for. The third reason cited la also worthy of note. os wno nave neon a Die 10 pay uus siuo life fee ana Justly feel that N they ax not - ;--... . . ''K.J - v MRS. IDA V. TTLDEN. President Omaha W. C. A. you think so?" she appealed to her caller. That person agreed with ease, being a Hawkeye-born. Mrs. Scott, also born across the river, proved more loysl to Nebraska, however, and protested indignantly in behalf of the state of her adoption. "Iowa's all right." said she, "but it Is not any Better not so good. In fact as Nebraska." Mrs. Parker's lire reaches back over all the Important periods In American history after the revolutionary war, tor the echoes of the war of 1811 bad hardly died away when ahe was a child. She wss a slip of a girl when John Qulncy Adams sat in the Whits House and 20 years of age when Andrew Jackson caused the first panle which the United States had known. She was a grown woman, a wlfs and mother of several children when the Mexican war came In 1848. By 1894, when she removed from Ohio to Iowa, the slavery question was the great and burning Issue and Charlton, near her home, was a depot for the great "underground railway," the secret relay system by which escaped slaves were helped to Canada and freedom. In the state in which she Is probably to end her days, and In Kansas, the question was beginning to be agitated as to whether they should come into the union free or slave and bands of Mlssourisns for the , one side snd New Englanders for the other were enrout to flgnt for their conviction. Comparison of Events When the fall of Sumter electrified the north, Mrs. Parker was 64, a score of years older than the average longevity. The civil war Is now forty-three years past and Mrs. Parker Is baler and heartier than the average man or woman of 85 years. August 17 last her 92d birthday was celebrated at the Old People's home with elaborate ceremony. Prediction is a vain thing and prophecy a snare and delusion, but It may safely be said that there seems every likelihood that Mrs. Parker will tor quite a number of years to come continue to cheer, the home with her bright mind and youthful spirit. She may indeed live to see the Old People's home established In a building better suited to its needs. The present home is a good one In many ways, but it Is four stories, counting a basement, and the stairs are a trial to stiff and elderly knee hinges. An elevator is an Impossibility because of the construction of the building and would be a considerable expense besides. Some day or other there will be built a large two-story building and then the Old People's home will be ideally located, provided that considerable ground sur rounds the building, the lack of which Is another fault In the present situation. The membership roll of the early days of the association la Interesting, not only because of the fact that it reaches back to a by gone portion of Omaha history, hut many well-known names are there Inscribed. The life membership In 1889, five years after the beginning of the work. Included Mesdames Guy C. Barton, Virgil O. Bogue, Samuel Brown, H. C. Cady, R. H. Clarkson, Frank Colpetser, Thomas Crelgh, O. F. Davis, M. A. Detwiller, P. H. Hlmebaugh. N. Merriam, J. H. Millard, Exra Millard, W. V. Morse. C. Oskamp, A. J. Poppleton, E. H. Sherwood, E. L. Stone. A. P. Wood, Clark Wood man and Mrs. James Woolworth. Mrs. Byron Reed and Mrs. John M. Thurston, first wife of the former senator, were honorary members, while the active member ship list was as follows: Mesdames P. H. Allen. W. N. Babcock, L. L. Bolts. R. P. Bosworth. D. J. Collins, A. Carlisle, H. M. Clayton, George Darrow, 8. J. Ferris. C. J. Fisher, William Flemrng, Charles Gardner, T. S. Grlgor, W. Hanchett. J. A. Haines, James A. Haynes. L. S. Haller. John L. Heth. R. D. Hills. A. P. Hopkins, Philip Igoe, J. B. Jardlne, George A. Joslyn, George A. Joplin, F. B. Johnson, L. B. Knight, George Little, Horace Ludlngton, George L. Lyman, 3. 3. McLaln, J. H. Miller," Thomas McCague, James H. McConnell, P. L. Perine, O. H. Pratt, A. Roberts, Robert Rlngwalt, Robert L. Rey nolds, J. A. Robinson, A. S. Stlger, C. E. SUlsbee, A. B. Somen, R. M. Stone, W. B. Taylor, Cadet Taylor", George Tllden, 8. R. Towns, John M. Thurston, H. Van Gelaen, W. J. Welshans, James Woolworth, E. B. Wood and Wilbur. entirely charges upon the bounty of others and that their personal pride need suffer no sting because they are living in the home. Pride of thla sort is of the kind which is most desirable, for unless It be carried too far, it Is nothing else than proper self-respect. It Is a fact that the amsll sum named, will not do much more than pay the cost to the home of the one person's keep for a single year, but this is beside the point, for it Is the principle which is Involved and not. the actual figures. It is sn unfortunate fact that the words "one big family," have grown to be a cant phrase, so much so that It is almost a Joke now adays. In much the same fashion that maudlin usage of the sentiment of devotion to one's maternal ancestor has caused the phrase, "good to his mother," to become the butt of near-humorists. For were the "big family" phrase not worn threadbare it would more aptly than any other combination of words describe the Old People's home. It Is true that as In other families some of the component mem bers are easier to serve and aid than otters; some cheerful snd appreciative in all circumstances; some grumpy and growl y occa sionally. But of the latter, the matron will teU you there are but few, and these not complaining all the time by any means. In fact, some naturally cross-grained elderly personages hsve notably grown better natured since they came to live and move and have their being at the home. , The oldest resident of the institution happens to be the one farthest from the occasionally grumpy class. Mrs. Lucy Parker, a young old woman of 92 summers and winters, Is the cheeriest soul In the home, not even excepting the matron, Mrs. Scott, whose face Is significant of a kind and thoughtful nature. All who have met Mrs. Parker once at the home ask for her when chance or design leads their footsteps thither a second time. Mrs. Parker, In fact, has callers numerous enough to make Jealous even a debutante, one of the Just-out, on-a-mad-hunt-for-a-good-time kind. Thanksgiving day as one caller, a young man, left Mrs. Parker's presence, other callers were announced. "Yon are a regular belle, aren't yout" suggested the departing caller. "Yon ought to be ashamed to say flattering things to one's face," retorted Mrs. Parker with spirit, and the other left abashed. Mrs. Parker first saw the light of day in county, near New Albany, N. Y. She was born in 1817, when James Monroe was president and "the era of good feeling" was on. It Is not likely that this fact has anything to do with the sunniness of her disposi tion, but It may be said that she has remained true to the good omen of hei birth time all her life. Leaves New Home in Infancy Her residence in the Empire state waa not long continued, for when she was 2 years old her parents moved in the dead of winter to the vicinity of Zanesrllle, O. They made the trip by wagon through country still thoroughly wild. Some parts of the Pennsyl vania mountains which they traversed are not even yet free from wolves and bear, and In 1820 Pittsburg was still an outpost of civilization. It may seem something of an ordeal to expose a child of 2 years to the rigor of a winter In a covered wagon, but Mrs. Parker endured little more on that trip than did the children of most men and women of that day. Bometblng of a selective process re sulted, too, from these hardships, and the hardier children lived and the weaker went to early graves. Read the old family Bibles if this statement Is not believed and one will find there that while our great grandparents had many children a dozen waa the aver age all did not grow to adult years. It Is no wonder then that those who survived, being the hardier ones, have often lived to a green old age as has Mrs. Parker. Pioneer life seems to have been her destiny in life. "We came to Iowa In 1854," said Mrs. Parker, "and settled near Charlton and there I lived until seventeen years ago, when I went to Oregon for some years. Iowa was then In its infancy, you know. My brother remained In Chariton, and I mean to write him a letter Thanksgiving, though I am not sure that he Is alive yet. I have not heard from him In some time." This thought caused the first expression other than cheerful to flit across the old woman's face. She quickly re covered herself and went on: '-Iowa's a great state. It's the best state In the country. Don't 4 I i t j ! irrrFcnf""" if""'" . :i , 'f'.i r;'y,'-'.'"'- ; - -rW'- ' FIRST BOaCB Or THE W. C A. IN OMAH Banner Year Was 1903 In an Institutional way the most eventful year In the history of the Women's Christian association was that of 190S, for during that twelve months' period the removal took place of the Old People's home from the Burt street building to a new and commodious build ing in Kountze place. December 8 of that year the association cele brated Its twenlteth anniversary and the Inauguration of a period of larger benevolence by an elaborate program preceded by a luncheon In the parlors of the First Methodist Episcopal church, at which the ministers of the city and their wives were guests. The program In cluded two interesting historical sketches of the association's work, one by Mrs. Perine, for upwards of a decade the chairman of the borne committee, as well as former president, and the other by Mrs. William Fleming, whose mother, the late Mrs. W. V. Doollttle, had been the beloved second president of the association. This was a significant annual meeting, too, because during the preceding year the articles of Incorporation had been so amended as to admit men as well as women, and the name accordingly changed from "The Old Ladles' Home" to "The Old People's Home." At the head of the association at th present time Is a womsn whose record for public usefulness In Omaha ts unexcelled. On Mrs. George Tilden has rested through these years most of the work of the financing of the association, aside from active labors on her part in active benevolent direction, and to her goes much of the credit for th,e present large size and efficiency of the work. Likewise active for five and twenty years In the association Is the first vice president, Mrs. G. W. Clark.' Mrs. 8. R. Wilcox Is now second vice president, and the other officers are as follows:. Recording Secretary Mrs. John W. Gill. Corresponding Secretary Mildred Merriam. Treasurer Mrs. Clinton Miller. Trustees Mesdames F. H. Cole. Edward Johnson. Cadet Taylor, A. K. Cault. W. B. Taylor, Charles Van Court, Jeff W. Bedford, C. M. Fowler, Andrew Traynor, J. J. McLaln, M. A Elliott. L. L Bolts, L. O. Connor and P. L. Perine. Any and all of these good women can tell the inquirer some interesting events which have come within their experience In benevo lent work. Like all other organized charity workers of recent years they have had to exercise care lest kindliness be imposed upon and care lest those capable of self support too willingly permit themselves to be pauperized. They have heard untrue tales which are pathetle enough in recital to wring tears from a statue of lago and have been the targets at which the shafts of the most elaborate deceit have been aimed. They have seen those too proud to receive aid which circumstances necessitated that they should receive and have seen pain at the suffering of chick and child to humble the haughtiest spirit. , They .have discovered what every charity worker flndB: That alms are sometimes given out of sll proportion to Income; that those In pinched circumstances sre occasionally the most liberal of purse, but they have also learned that the reverse is far from an Invariable habit and that some of the biggest-hearted, most free handed men and women in Omaha are of Its wealthiest citizens. Chariteble workers come snd go. As the years elapse the names of thoe now most active will perforce vanish from the roll of members of the Women's Christian association. But It must be a source of pleasure to those now prosecuting a good work, and a great work, that the fruit of their labors will not perish with tbem; that an Institution like this will not die and that In time tar to come the work will be carried on as zealously and as affective! m U in this year of grace 1101. old people's nam ON wirt street.