THE OMAHA DAILY BEE : SI NDAY , JUNE 2J , 1894. 11 TROMPET OF DAME GRUNDY Higher Edncation Influencing the Eolation Between Mother and Daughter. WHAT ONE MOTHER DID WITH HER GIRLS Woman'i Scmre Her Tarantula ProTe to He Only n Ghont of Conscience Mj - t ry of MraDKeVcm n and aLe Lo t Will Feminine > ot . There IB quite a flatter In England over the new relationship between girls and their mothers , caused by higher education and pedal training. This In not * arprl lng In a country where old traditions of maternal supervision am daughterly obedience prevail , where the un married woman of 30 has been , until re cently. nearly as ctoccly chaperoned as the Ctrl of lf > . But even on this side of the Atlantic a murmur of discontent is heard. That most telf-sacriflclng being on the face of the globe the American mother who has been ready to obliterate herself for her children IB be pinning to ponder some things In her heart The old couplet. "A ion IE a ion until be get * him a wife But a daughter U a daughter all the days of her life. " U no longer true ; it needs rewriting. When a girl enters a business or profession earnestly and conscientiously she becomes a absorbed and self-centered as her brother writes Iluth Trcvelyan In the Brooklyn Times. Her mother , her family , her friend : are a secondary consideration. This Is no pleasant to contemplate , but If the glr means to succeed , It Is Inevitable. Mothers are the ones to whom this new I tale of affairs seems the hardest. There re some who have adjusted themselves to modern Idcax , others feel with several "glr bachelors" In the family , like a hen with a brood of ducklings. After all It Is marriage which brings a girl nearest to her mother. "When Laura , my eldest girl , left college and wanted to go to Germany to study music I consented willingly , " observed a hand gome old lady at a woman's club the other day."When Jean , my next daughter , shonec bent for art I encouraged her. was proud of her talent , little dreaming what an In exorable taskmaster I was invoking. Now he lives In her studio , Ignores old friends nubs her relatives , exists for art alone. Ehe might as well be in a nunnery for all personal sympathy between us. "Still I never thought of complaining until Eva , my youngest , brightest and best , de veloped a reforming spirit and has entered a college settlement tovork among the poor. It was a relief to think she did not join the Salvation army. "There's no oneat home now but Mr. A and I we never had any sons and as age brings Its weakness , half the time a trained nurse Is our only companion. " "Where Is your eldest daughter ? " asked one of the ladles sympathetically. "Superintendent of the musical depart ment of a western college. We see her once a year " "If your daughters had married and had families of their own your situation would be precisely the same , " som one ventured to remark. "I don't think so. " replied the old lady. "Our interests would have more in common. M t ast we should ha\e their children to consoh is. " "When my four daughters were young,1 began another speaker , "I studied out their characteristics carefully , scientifically , I may eay , and planned their futures They were educated along the lines I expected them to take. Two , I knew by their even , well bal- tnced temperaments , were admirably fitted to be the centers of happy homes. One was odd and erratic , a bookworm and a scholar she Is the only one I sent to college and the last was a gentle , little thing , delicate from her birth , who couW only thrive In the sunshine of a mother's love.EdV "But nothing turned out as you expected , did It ? 1 ne\er knew such , ii'a succeed. Girls trained lor a career are snapped up directly as wives , and the domes tic , loving , motherly ones , with no inclina tion or capacity for self-support are left without partners. That ru > never fails , hu man's nature is too perverse. "Nevertheless It has Jailed In my family. I did not work against nature , but with It. My queer , unconventional daughter Is the only one unmarried. She studied in France and Germany after leaving \assar , then took a degree at Girton. On her rvturn home she was of fered a professorship at Wellesley , but de clined It ; she could not work In harness she declared. Now she Is principal of a fine school which fits girls for college. She has absolute authority , no one interferes with her , pupils and teachers adore her , she writes and speaks upon educational topics , is useful and happy. As a wife she would never have been a success. From her earli est childhood I could see she was fore-or- flalncd for some other career. Such a try ing child , such a headstrong girl , few moth ers have to endure. Now she is one of the noblest of women and I am unspeakably proud of her. " "But how came It about that your delicate girl married ? That certainly was not upon " your program. "Not at first , but as years passed by she rained health , strength and vigor. Some Elrls develop slowly. She was 29 on her wedding day and did not look more than 19 I had her loving companionship for many delightful years we traveled nearly all over the world together she had a hus band worthy of her , their house Is my A hush fell upon the group. We felt that a thoroughly happy and successful mother had spoken. An oversensitive conscience Is some times a troublesome virtue , as a certain New York lady whom we will call Mrs. A. has often found to tier cost. "Things that she has left undone , " and thought of afterwards , form a constant trial of her Not long ago , while traveling in the west , the stopped at a hotel In Cincinnati , and on the morning of her departure she had some bananas , figs , etc. . brought to her room with her breakfast Just before leav ing , says the New York Tribune , as she gave a last glance abcut to see that nothing was forgotten , she happened to see a large , hairy looking object slowly crawl ng up the wall. "It was so large I thought It was a mouse at first , " she said afterward"and then I discovered It was a horrible looking Insect , but I had no time to examine It. and only gathered tip my things and fled. Y But an hour later , when 1 had made myself A comfortable In my section on the express for New York , and was speeding away to ward home , my ever-.magtnatlve con clence began to trouble me Why had I not sum moned assistance and attacked the beast ? Perhaps It was poisonous ; and then a sudden thought struck me. 'It must be1 Yes , there is no doubt about It ! It undoubtedly came from that plate of southern fruit , and was one of those venomous Insects one readi > about. Most likely it was a tarantula. In fact , I think I have heard that tarantulas looked just like that , and the next ptrson that come * into the room will be stung and die. all because I did not give the alarm ! ' And so on. and so on. I kepi worrying and worrying about It until I could not stand It any longer. So I wrote out a long telegram , which cost a small fortune , explaining all about the dreadful creature , and asking that it might be looked for and killed at once. "This I wired to the hotel keeper , and felt much easier in consequence , and afterward foreot all about the occurrence until a few months later , when I again stopped in Cin cinnati en route with tome friends to Cali fornia. I remembered my scare and , although rather ashamed of the fuss I had made- sum moned up courage to ask the proprietor what he had done about It , and If the tarantula had been found. " 'Why. were- you the lady that sent that long telegram ? ' heatked , smiling at me in kindly , tolerant fashion , as If I were a small child , or some curious freak. 'It was the longest message I ever received. Did we find the' tarantula ? Why , madam , it was only a water bottle. We have lots of them here ; the- are nasty-looking bugs , but , bless yeu. they don't bun any one ! ' " One ef the mourners at the funeral ot Lieutenant Colonel Daniel Mahin , was a liprt , fragile , bystfrtwl 7011115 jacnuu. ii' a New York dlipstrh to a prominent western journal Few In the room knew her but all remarktl that the bore a striking res m blanc * to th dead man A gentleman pref ect , and an oM time friend of the family , told enough of h r to bow that Lfevte- ant Mahaas life was not antlngwl with ro mance. This friend Mid that twenty.two years ago , upon returning home one evening tn lieutenant found a baby on bis doorstep The child was brought up by the colonel and his wife , and was christened Edith , but she was never adopted by legal process. When Edith was 30 , be fell In loraod Clandes tinely married a Japanese designer name Komerl. who lodged at Mahan's. After the ! marriage they quarreled and parted. Komer concluded to return to Japan , and be > am Edith signed papers by which they mutually agreed to part and have no claim upon each other or upon s cb other's estate. Edith , w tt Is very erratic. Is DOW living with Mr Kothe. a wholesale grocer of Newark Some thlhk that Bdlth If the daughter of Kotbe ami others are ItrfpresMd by her striking re semblance to Colonel Mahan. A test will figures also in the cat * . Mrs Maban died chlldlees two years ago. Col one ! Mahan left Jlit.OOO In personal am real ettate. but no will was found and he was said to have no will. Lawjer Gulon of Coudcrt Ilrof. , says , however , that the colonel made one at on time. What hai become of It no one knows , but come be lleve that Colonel Mahan tore It up when Edith became a Catholic last Easter. Hi was greatly offended at this. This Is the story that a New York jewele tells a Sun reporter : "A man came In here the other morning and took out a mag nlflcent .stone , which he put on the counter and asked me what I thought of It. Well I thought it was a ruby worth { 700 or JSCK ) The color was a deep piseon's blood , am while a magnifier showed little spots Ilk bubbles in the stone , they dldn t interfen with Us transparency or brightness. " 'What's It worth'1 I askfd. " 'Sixty dollars a carat , ' said he. I lookec at him In amazement. " 'Then It's paste , ' raid I. " 'Not a bit of It. ' said he. I tested It for hardness and it was all right. Then the man explained that , while it was a real ruby. I was produced by artificial means. A French chemist mode It. Very few of these stones have come to this country so far , and In most of those that have there was no ma terial that could be used for jewelry , the crystals were so small. This puts a differ ent phase on the business. " Artificial crystallization of alumina was ac cotnpllsbed several years ago. The color In the resulting mineral was superb , but the Indhldual crystals were io minute that a microscope was needed to distinguish their angles. They were united by their bases tea a crust of amorphous alumina , and sparkle ; like tiny red stars w henever the light playec across them. The natural ruby doubtless took years , and very likely centuries to form. The chemical ruby , which Is precisely the same as the natural ruby. Is made in a few weeks. It Is almost pure alumina the earth of the meta aluminum the red color being due to a fraction of 1 per cent of Iron. The sapphire is the same as a ruby , except for its colorIng - Ing matter , and it has quite a range of color yellow , purple , Pink , gray and white. Co rundum Is the common variety of alumina and Is much used In the arts , emery being Its commercial form. The ruby is the most costly of all gems a stone of deep color far outranking the diamond In value , so the discovery that It can be made In a laboratory Is disquieting to people who deal in this esteemed mineral. Artificial means are employed to produce it. but it is nature , assisted by the chemist , to be sure , that shapes and colors anc hardens it. It would be absurd to say that machine-made Ice is not ice because It wa not taken from the- surface of a pond. The artificial ruby , to allow the term , is as dura ble and beautiful as the best product of the Burmah mines , and it is only the magnifier that shows the little bubbles In It. When Mrs. Peary of Arctic fame was asked , after her return two jears ago , how- she endured in her northern solitude the three months that Mr. Peary was away on his trip over the ice cap. she replied signifi cantly. "It was better than sixteen months. " And { ipw another woman , Mrs. Herbert L. Bridgman of Brooklyn , is about to dem onstrate that she , too , possesses the courage of her wifely deotlon lnthe _ same high de gree , says the New York Times' Before Lieutenant Peary sailed away last July he invited his friend , Mr Bridgman , to go up in the Falcon this summer on its trip northward. Mr. Bridgman accepted the tempting invitation , but locked his decision away in the inmost recesses of his mind , having a conviction that Mrs. Bridgman would not regard the proposed trip with the same cheerful anticipations that filled his own breast. A month ago , however , the news was broken to her and Mrs. Bridgman , like Mrs. Peary , promptly decided that of the two evils she would choose the less and go with her husband. What adds to the heroism of this resolve is the fact that she does not bra\e the ex perience of an Arctic journey at her hus band's side , but only at the same time with him. Mr. and Mrs. Bridgman sail this week for St. John's , where Mr. Bridg man boards the Falcon and goes on north , leaving Mrs. Bridgman to follow in the Miranda with Dr. Cook and his party. The vessels will probably meet In Inglefield bay , but there Is even a slight uncertainty about this , as the Miranda's crossing Mel ville bay Is contingent upon the condition of the Ice pack. The Falcon goes through at all hazards , the Miranda only under favor able circumstances. Mrs. Bridgman goes up on the Miranda because of this very con tingency. Should the two vessels not meet , the cramped quarters of the Falcon on the homeward trip , after receiving the members of the Peary party , will hardly stretch to accommodate an extra person. The proba bility Is strong , however , that both vessels will lie in Inglefield bay in late July , a de light to the eyes of the little band of south erners who hate had no such welcome break In their vision for many months. And tt is to be hoped , for Mrs. Peary's sake as well as for Mrs. Bridgman's , that this other woman who is * o bravely following her lead will greet her sister Arctic explorer under the shadow of the house that has sheltered the pioneer of her sex through a long polar winter. The queen of misers Is Mrs. Hetty Green , the richest woman In Amerfca. If figures do not lie , says the Boston Herald , and U can't be said that Boston papers don't know beans , especially of a passion so opposed to culture. Hers Is a singular passion , and It would be Interesting to trace its origin Inhe family to wnlch she belongs. Believers In heredity , and who does not believe In If might find some Interesting data among the records of New Bedford sea captains and the Quakers , from whom this woman descends. Shrewd to the point of financial genius , with an all- absorbing lo\e for gain. Mrs. Hetty Green has distinguished herself in a way that causes grief because the ejes of the world are drawn to the vast wealth she has accumu lated. Publicity Is obnoxious to the miser. To blazon the amount of fortune Is to call down the vengeance of the gods , In other words , the tax commissioners , and to avoid taxation Is the dearest wish of this anxious , self-denying , penurious millionaire. Mrs. Hetty Green , instead of being ashamed of ler extraordlnarj "economies , " glories in the closest cheese parings. To save a penny is more beautiful In her sight than the ac quisition of a JIO.OW ) picture or ex en a pair of 12 gloves. ! Many years ago. when Hetty was a young woman , the heiress of her aunt , and what would be called today "a wealthy soclet ) bud. ' " she made a visit In Boston , and was entertained by the smartest families , who afterward admitted that she was eccentric n her manners. Much was excused then on account of her family connections and the money which she would Inherit , but since time has hardened the peculiarities , then distinguishing her. and marriage and mother- lood have failed to eradicate the strain of miserliness , many Incidents hate been re called by thoee knowing her in those early days. The tendenc > of the- day is to admire any trait of character which pushes its pos- teoor to the extreme point. Nothing Is so unlovely that It Is not spoken of with tolera- lon , alwajs provided It Is sufficiently exces sive. A woman brc-d In affluence who will- ngly denies herself even the necessaries of Ife to Increase her board , and by sacrificing ever ) ' luxury dear to the feminine soul , be comes the most conspicuous capitalist In the country , assuredly deserves all the glory Its reputation can give her. No one will envy ler , that U sure. Some of the difficult ! * * ot living up to a e are Illustrated In an old story reprinted - printed la DUitY. < K > 4't ma iilav , It ' If part of a lady i journal kept In tbe yetr 1 13 * and tell tit her experience of Yl | t > ng I tb < Tennyson family m the guise of a hvly a maid Her friend , Mrs Neville , who wa * in vited to make tbe visit , could not afford a maid or a nnrte ( or her little girl , so the j-oflng woman volBOteered to act In that capacity under the name ot "Marlon Lang- lali " They both belonged to the Mm * lit erary elnb which Included Mary and Emily J TMinyton. bat ai she had never met them tbe considered herself Mfe from wtplclon She arranged her pretty tresses under a coaree black wig. and quite transformed her self Into a conventional lady's maid. As soon as they arrived at tbe poet's boa * her troubles bgan She was expected ti sleep with tbe housemaid , and aside from be unwelcome company she found It awkward to dlpoe of her black wig. and had to wat for the wondering girl to fall asleep before she could settle herself for tbe night. Afte a few days she was called upon to appear In the dining room as waitress , and bad he first glimpse of the poet. Her Journal says "I was to wait at table , and my heart bea so fast as I went In that I could bear rtoth Ing else for a few minutes , for on entering th room I saw Alfred Tennyson at last1 Am Frederick. Horatio. Emily. Mary and the ! mother. Was U a delusion that I stood there behind them , changing their plates , helping them , and they so little dreaming of m ; Identity with the servant 'Marlon ? " Was asleep when the tnaJd-of-all-work thrust a handful of dirty forks In my hand and bade me 'cut and wash 'em quick and bring 'em up' ' I did do all this many times before dinner was over , and though 1 did it very well , my hand shook so the first time I took Alfred Tennyson's plate that I thought I must be seen The romance of the affair rurhed over me. " The poet began to observe her very closely after this , and she became so nervou that she nearly forgot her part. One day a she was passing the open door of his room where be lay smoking and reading , he called her in and asked her to bring him a book from down stairs. He attempted to de scribe It. but It was a German work , and hi thought she could not read It. "I know , ' she said , and quickly went down and brough it to him. "So you understand German. " he said , and she gave an evasive reply and lef the room. That evening at dinner Tennyson could no draw a cork from a bottle , and after every one had tried and failed , he said to Mrs Neville "Where is your Marlon , she can do U , she can do everything , from reading Ger man to waiting at table. Let her try- ' Marlon came , and , amid a chorus of apolo gies and explanations , she drew the cork. "Did you ever think , " asked a woman writ ing In tbe Chicago Tribune , "how many homeless women there are In Chicago' Women who never know what it Is to sit down and expect a visit , or hang up a pic ture , or fix a screen , or arrange a corner the same as other women whose lives are rounded by home ? Women who have to turn out so early and so hastily In the morn ing that they have no time to arrange their room before going to the shop ? Who have no one to say as they leave for the day's trials. 'Good-by1 Take care of yourself' ' Who go back to these same rooms at night and find them dark , and often still as they were left in the morning' Who. when Sun day co-nes. have to utilize the day for mendIng - Ing and stitching and fixing up the rents and the pinned-up places of the week ? Wh have to work Sunday nights on the 'only de cent gown , ' which they laugh at when H is fixed , for they wonder when they can wear it , and where ? "Of course tHere are many of the shop women of the city who live at home , and their mothers and sisters tend to the little wants. But the majority of them have no homes except the little hall room or the back room on the top floor. And when they wash out a pocket handkerchief In their room the landlady glares at them if she knows U , as she Is apt to , and they dare not speak. As they are tired out after their day's work they have no time for company in the evening , and if they had , they have no place to receive such company , except the parlor in the boarding house , and any woman who has ever tried that knows what it Is. " The recent dedication at Fredcricksburg of the monument to Mary Washington has brought out many interesting statements and comments upon her life and character. The Rochester Post-Express finds that she was a curious woman. If she had not been the mother of George many slighting remarks might have been made of her. As she was , of course , we are Inclined to judge her very kindly , anj therp WE _ . muclj in her " nature thaj was gosd and noble. Her hus"- band died whe'n she was 37 years old , leaving her with a large family of chil dren , of whom five. Including George , were under 12. Life became at once a seri ous matter , but she was a woman fitted for her task. She educated her children , per sonally managed two estates and superin tended the plantations as well as the house hold affairs. It was said that no planta tions in Virginia were more ably or econom ically managed , and she was Independent. Intellectual and resolute. It was In her old age. when her children had grown up , that her eccentricities became more marked A Tribune writer records that even up to the age of 78 years Mary Washington crossed the ferry from Frederlcksburg every morn ing , and "drove about In an old gig , Inspect ing fields , gardens barns , and slave quarters , with a keen eye for neglect or waste or dis order. They say she was a very hard mis tress As age and weakness Increased , she abandoned the old gig and made her tours of Inspection In an old , low-hung victoria , which had been provided for her comfort by tbe general. " She is reported to have had a sharp tongue , and the same writer says that she did not change the fashion of her rai ment for more than twenty years , and cut and made her own garments , in defiance of public opinion and changing styles. "When she went visiting , the sight of her approach caused every member of the household to seize a broom or dustbrush , or In some man ner to assist in straightening up things so that her fastidious and critical taste might not be offended. She performed her dally duties at precisely the same hour , In pre cisely the same manner , every morning , re gardless of changing conditions and circum stances , and the neighbors always set their clocks and watches by the ringing of her dinner bell. " But all the same she was Washington's mother The general , after the battle of York-town , paid her a visit with all his staff of French and American officers , and on the tery day when he received notice of his election to the presidency he galloped over to Mount Vernon to carry his mother the news , and remained with her until It was necessary for him to start for New York. Lafayette , too. paid her a visit of re spect , and when she died the whole country mourned , the members of the senate and bousa wore crape on their arms , and there were services in the various churches. FASHION NOTES. Dust cloaks are made of glace surah In red- brown or violet shades. There is a growing tendency toward box- plaited and kilted dress skirts. The newest linen shirts are embroidered all over In sprays of white or color. Tbe plain swltel silks In light tints are used for lining diaphanous toilets. It Is rumored that quite large bonnets are to be worn , but they bate not yet put In an appearance. Mohair is gaining In favor , especially in light colors , and tbo new ones ore soft and ; lossy as silk. A rival of the popular black-and-white check comes In a new- woolen armure In diamond points of black and white. Tulle , silk gauze and crepe de chine are the only trimming on many of the leghorn hats , while others bate flowers or fwithers In addition. Plain white organdies , made up of slips of rose or green , make dainty frocks for young girls. Sashes of varying widths of ribbon and .hose of soft silk and chiffon are an especial feature of summer gowns. Among the numerous accessories of dress are the "Falstaff" and "Cromwell" collars of point de Venlse laoe. Great marquise rings of moonstone or tur quoise bold groups of ostrich feathers In place on the Gainsborough hats. Two lengths ot ribbon or double silk , ter minating In rosettes , ara placed In epaulet fashion on the corsages of drecay frocks. The most stylish sailor to wear with tbe drill gowns must exactly match the color of tbe dress and hate a band and bow of the color In the blouse. Very little jewelry U worn with outdoor dress , but the shirt waists and neckties afford an excuse for pretty scarfptnc and le ve buttons. giro * we at all pretty bar wreaths of tiny flowrr * " ' i embroidered on Natural Bower * are h Ing u cd again ta decorate ball to4Wl * , although pai and beat are so trying to t erti'that ' the brtte t sorts shook ! be t le ted. ' " When duck gown"fre made by tae dr M > maker and trlmn d ttith embroidered mull , they amome an afr ot el * ince quite foreign to the Ullor-milecoji ana -Vtrt Black rllk draper- nets > r mMramme wear show gotd and , nllver i angled effects Yoke * and balfk vc * of r * net will be made over apple-green and pate yellow Mtln. i - , , Card cases to m Uh tolfou have been In use for some time. a mi n w the extra edlc ls iMUed to tbe JcHurcfe woman that be : prayer book raustl bn n cas to harmonlzi with her gown , i * ' < Very lovely are * tk open-fronted Parisian teagown * In dlretMrfc style , made of flow ered taffeta or China silk , and worn eve : petticoats and bloore vests ot white or yel low guipure lace. A pretty Idea for a gray crepon gown Is a cape of primrose moire , cut square aero * the back , elongated In front , and turnec down on the shoulders after the fashion o Marie Stuart , and trimmed n the edge with lace. lace.As As In the case of lace garnitures , th vogu for crisp , pretty ribbon trlmmlncs Is likely to prevail all summer. They will be lavishly used as ornaments on thin gowns and fancy silk for both day and evening wear. FEMININE NOTES. Miss Kate Myrlck has been appointed river observer at Glrard , La. The latest musical prodigy In Germany Is a girl violinist , 13 years old , named Jo sephine Gerwlng. Oulda dislikes Intensely to shake hands a salutation she pronounces to be of at forms the most vulgar. Chief Justice Beasley has decided that the legislature of New Jersey cannot confer upon women the right to vote for any public officers. Dr. Emily A. Bruce declares that more women In New England die from the effects of faulty dress than from all contagious diseases combined. In Tlverton , R. I. , all the members of the school board are .women and the superin tendent says the schools of that town are better conducted than any others In the state. In Holland a lady. Is expected to retire precipitately If she should enter a store era a resturant where men are congregated She waits until they have transacted their business and departed. LadVs seldom rise In Spain to receive a male visitor and they rarely accompany him to the door For a Spaniard to give a lady even his wife his arm when out walking Is looked upon as a decided violation of propriety. Mme. Ribl-Radya-Kouldboularow , the first M&hommedan woman to pass the examina tions and receive a diploma as doctor of medicine , has been appointed by the Russian government as the principal medical officer of the town of Kasieman. Miss Grace Chrlsholm of Cambridge uni versity. Miss Maltby , formerly of Wellesley college , and Mary F. Winston of Chicago have received special permission from the German government to enter the University of Gottlngen with the same privileges as the men enjoy. Eighty-five women in all entered for vari ous tripos examinations at Cambridge university , England , Thirty-eight were from Girton and fort-seven from Newnham. The preference was evident among this num ber for mathematics-jind modern languages , while classics , natural science and history each had nine or ten .devotees. At the closing reception to Miss Wlllard in England , as she-pas about to sail for America , there was presented to her some what oddly , it would seem , a loving cup. Of course , one may drink lemonade or rasp berry shrub from a. loving cup , but It Is rather more associated with a brew , and certainly a brew and. Miss Willard are as widely separated as the poles. It is related of Miss ilargot Tennant , who was married recently to Mr. Asqulth , the British home secretary , that , on being con gratulated on her engagement , she remarked- "Yes , two souls yrifb but a single thought for a time. " If , 'as , asserted , that extra ordinary young woman. ' Dodo , " IE a proUK tyge jj J'Jff ' T.1 * ! 11' ! tne qualification Say not be undeserved. ; 3 * 3- * * " * ' * " Says an eastern" observer : I heard a man the other night enlarging most enthusiasti cally upon the tremendous obligation of the host who Is entertaining to his guests , and said he , by the way of illustration. "If I were giving a dinner and my wife should suddenly expire and drop from her place at the table. I should say to the butler. "James , remove Mrs. Brown and bring on the salad. " An English woman physician , Dr. Ander son Brown , has established an Industrial farm for Inebriate women , an experiment that T * til bewatched with Interest by all students of social economics , as well as the world of law and order. The test is to be made under the auspices of the Women's Temperance association , and one of Its chief features is to be the number of outdoor occupations to be provided. COXSUJtI.ILITIES. No man ever complains that a woman talks too much when she's a. girl , and he's engaged to her. Mrs. Jackson-Parke You'd never guess what the organist played at the Simpson- Sampson wedding. Mr. Parke No. What was It ? "How Long , O Lord , How Long ? " Mrs. Nellie Grant Sartorls Is engaged to marry H K. Douglas , adjutant general of Maryland , and an ex-confederate soldier. By marrying again the fortune left her by her English husband will be forfeited to her children. Bishop Quintard ot Tennessee officiated the other day at the marriage of Miss Kitty Cheatham. tbe actress , formerly In Daly's company.But he went through the cere mony In a way so unsatisfactory to the bride and groom that they called In a Meth odist minister , and were marired over again. The retail Jewelers of Boston report there are fewer weddings this season than for many years past. If these tempters had their way the whole world should marry , and be given In marriage , for the/ unselfish reason : hat wedding presents are essential to the vow that binds. With the shops so full of beautiful Jewels and art silver ware , what a mean , thing It is of congress to be fiddling away on tbe tariff and keeping business men n such a state of mind that they can't ask their best girls to name the day ! The Jewelers - elers are quite right about It. The marriage of West Point Cadet Lang and Miss Kenkle. the daughter of an enlisted man at the garrison , developed a disgraceful condition ot snobbishness among our future defenders. Lang married the girl , who Is described as pretty , modest and well edu cated. on the day that he was graduated. Thereupon he and hits bride were boycotted ) } ' bis classmates , who affected to believe that he had disgraced himself by marrying the girl. Emperor William pf Germany has shown his versatility In .many ways and It was not until a few weeks. . 'ago that he made his THE ,6F BEAUTY evriywVr * TrctitntyeA rimutj and an ac l appearance are imtKKsiWt One woman In a million l pretty wtUt praj lialr Th * others must preserve thwr- hair uad their beauty by unine IMPERIAL HAIR REGENERATOR. t 1 not a dye , but a. col'Tlnc clean , healthful. efficient It not only rnt rc > > th" hair to u rich. wautlful color and luotie but acts as a hair onlc ul . feven rtieJoi from I'tfitett ' ash blonJ o raven black. Mad | iy ) by IMPERIAL ( M1CAL MFG. CO. , 292 5'h Avo. . New York- Bold b ) ilruge'.nH and hair dca ! r § . ( From V , S. Journal cf Prof.W. H.Pckewho makce a rpeclalt j of EpBepey , tu without docbt treated and cnrtl more caret than any IITID ; Physician ; hi * larcczs li utOBUkm ; . We tivc heard of curs of Wyfan'aundmg cored by him. lie poWubt-sa rsloabto wotk on lUi dlitaie whkb h < sendj v Ho a liijc bottle of bit abtolatc cure , free tc any loSerer who nuy tend thtfr P.O. &cd Expteu id- reu. Vie d lte nn joi.e Rithtag a care to addrcu , tot w , u , rcsssr,5. , * $ s& EviEs * ? * debut ni m&fr.mnntal agent Th" drut w t * u' c t ful Rrntlr a roan ; ; rnun and | two nosir ; . from Btrlin went tc fotnilam to I Tlew the Park of 9ait-Sk > uci , tb firorlte one of Frederick the Great. Tbrr Irat tb lr way , honeter , ami wrf obliged to accept the SMlatanc * of a mMtfr who wis familiar with the ground * He ho wed them cverythlrs W Interest and anally bade them farewell at the nation Dot one of the Tonne women bad taken a fancy to the private aod began to lone to see him again. After days of Indecloton he wrote to the emperor , asking htm to find out the name of the roldler ho had been so kind to her. Hit maetr began the Investiga tion at once , coon learned the name ot the roong man and granted him a leave ot absence to fpend In Berlin. The roung woman is well-to-do and the polite guide Is to become her husband In a fen weeks. Cure Indigestion and btlltouanesi wits De Witt's Little ' intiLt. i vjt . SOt'TH OMAHA , June 21. To the Editor of The Dee in your Sunday lutue I noticed a communication from Mr. Philip Andres. In which he criticised the introduction ot mili tary drill Into public schools In place of other athletic exercises. While I am In some re spects Inclined to apree with Mr. Andres , Inasmuch as I do not tjlnk military drill should take the place of work that should be done In the gymnasium. > et. on the other hand , I think Mr. Andres has misconstrued the Intent of those who are most earnestly advocating the Introduction of military drill In the public schools. During the past five years I have given quite a little attention to what Is not. called the military school movement. It has been my observation , and I have written for the press on this subject several times , the most recent , a magazine article , entitled , "The Growth of the Military Spirit. " that military drill benefited most largely when Introduced Into schools that permitted the commandant to exercise control over the students , further than during the short time that they were under his Immediate command for drill However earnest or eager the commandant may be. If he has only a limited time with the students , and has no control of them beyond the mere half-hour devotion to tliclr dally drill , but little benefit can follow. The best type of military schools , and those wherein the benefits of military drill Is best shown , are the incorporated or private schools , wherein the military system is a part of the regular school work. In such schools the advantages of military discipline and drill Is evident on e\ery hand. The awkward boy soon becomes erect , his shoul ders thrown back , head erect , e > es to the front , his shuffling gait Is changed Into a graceful carriage , and In fact. In a few months he seems to be quite another boy , and has taken on a good many of the char acteristics of a trained soldier. Further than this , there is a discipline of mind ; he has learned what it Is to obey , also the neces sity of quickness of thought and eye. and has. In fact , recehed an all-round benefit that can be obtained In no other way. If in connection with the pure military work , the cadet has received a thorough set-up , such as can only be obtained by the set-up drill , he has also bad a marked physical devel opment , but where military drill Is simply Introduced Into public schools In order to give the students some amusement , or an officer an easy detail , the benefit Is but very slight. Therefore , when we come to com pare the work done by officers detailed to day schools with the work possible in real military schools , the difference Is startling. The work of the gymnasium , a connectlon with public schools , should not be entirely supplanted by the military drill , the reasons heretofore given do not make It advisable , but In schools where the commandant has sufficient time , opportunity and control , there Is but very little occasion to use a gymna sium , no more so , in fact , than there Is to use one at the regular army posts While I am not In any way opposed to their use. still practical experience has demonstrated that they are not needed. The military school movement , that has during the last two years been given such a decided stimulus , resulting In military drill being introduced Into the public schools , Is , I believe. In many respects beneficial. It certainly gives the young students some employment for their Idle time ; It teaches them at least a portion of the military drill ; something about walkIng - Ing , and something about obedience , even if we do not go sa far as to consider what ad vantage It might be to our country In having several hundred thousand boys with some of the rudiments of a military educa tion i 2 < lS < } Ipl ? tbenj lS _ liS'JL ' boyhood " daPs. \nile this is not a military "nation , yet In time of peace we should prepare for war , and the signs of the times Indicate that one Is not far distant. The day may com © when the meager military Instruction given In about 150 schools will not be with out its advantage to the nation , perhaps even to the saving of the nation's life- While there are certainly advantages in military drill in connection with public schools , still I look upon the cause as only In Its Infancy , and that as it progresses the work will be done more and more thoroughly , so that at some time In the near future the students will be benefited , not only physically and mentally , as well as from a military standpoint. So far as the mental development is concerned. It is no longer open to question that a stu dent In a military school is capable of doing more and better scholastic work than In the schools that do not have the military system , and the history of the United States Military academy at West Pclnt proves conclusively that young men do not break down , but secure an all-around bene fit by the thorough -work that they have to do In that model school. While the conditions surrounding the cadets at the United States Military acad emy may never be rivaled , yet they can , in a measure , be Imitated , and they are imitated successfully In such school * as are to be found at Orchard Lake. Chester , Bor- dentown , Faribault , Sweet Springs , etc. A. E. DICKINSON . Do you really believe a low priced substitute can possibly be as good as the genuine article ? You know by experience that it can not be so ! Therefore be deaf to specious arguments , avoid substitutes at any price , and always insist on having the genuine Murray & Lanman'e ' FLORIDA WATER. THE EXCELSIOR COMPLEXION REMEDIES HONORED WITH World's Fair Medal and Diploma. INDORSED HY CONGRESS. t 4 PUBLIC NOTICE. Mme. Yale hereby gives notice that her genuine Complexion Remedies cat } be had only of Druggists. She has no agents in this city at the present time and-will not have in the future. Anyone representing themslves as such makd false statements and should be reported to Mmo. Yale. All first-class druggists sell and endorse Mme. Yale's remedies All mail orders should bo sent direct to MME. YALt'S TEMPLS OF BEAUTY , 146 State St. , Chicago. ' .M.ME. M. YALE thc Pioneer of KEAUTY Ct'LTL'RE. ThP w hole world bow * down to hfr mam . loin bmuty ami np < rlor InU-lloct At 41 Mm do " no * lookmort > thanl.ahtt H-trhlldhf.-w-c.of ivmnrknble brlirhtm o. ami fn-olnatlne rxj'rffcMon llcdid fi" of it fathomlessdepth fasti-n tlirirrazcDii on mumon for all ttn - for xmtMfii th - \ can never ! * forcottfn It would b - lmpo Mblr fur thi' - - irtv itt-M arilsi ih-it t-rt-r lUisI to do JUMtav to Mine Yaln B exoitWte anil the ploriuns sbi-cu of her roldrn hair Mich tints exlut tu nature only and Mme M YaloH KxcoNlor Poml > lc\lnn nrmtillrM are the only mrans by which natural bcautr can be cultivated. 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Yale s Excelsior Hair Tonic has the maneloui power of Kiting the natural colortnc matter circulation , consequently rtstorlnB the eni > hairs to their ortclnal color Its complete mastery o\er the human hair ha * created a sensation all oxer the world that will nexer be forgotten , as Its dlseoxtry has lieen hailed with endless Jo > no more Era } hair to worr ) oxer and no more necessity of urtnc In jurious hair des. Mme. Yale's skill as a chem ist has nexer bten equaled by man or xxomnn she stands alone a queen and a conquerer The whole world bows donn to her as a pioneer and scientist. Excelsior Hair Tonic xx 111 stop an } case of falling hair In from tweny-four hours to one week. It Is a guaranteed cure for EJiJ ailment of the hair or disease ot the scalp. PARROTS ! PARROTS ! We have received the flrst lot la this Reason of Yonng1 Mexican Yellowheaded Parrote. Which we offer at the special price of only SIC 00 each Weha\e never Mild thl kind before for lens than $ ' . ' 0 and $22 and after thl lot hau IMHMI cold ttie price will OM the name acain As Mexi can Yellow tMudb are known to karu to talk th eabieht and ulaluem 'their voice twin ; thu tumn ah a human rlni : > we will bell every parrot xitth a written rnarautee to turn out as an A No. 1 talker Order noon , beforu all are gone. GEISLER'S BIRD STORE. 4O < ; Xorth JCith btrtrt. E. A Woman Destined to Lead. Her Beauty is a Living Tnbvte to Her Owti DisciK-crics. IT IS AB OH'TELY PfRE and can be taken ? Internal ] } without Injury It contains nothing- Ereasy or stli.k > . has n delightful delicate odor , and makes the most perfect hair dressing knowif for frenernl-use It will keep the hair In curl for dajg and creates a luxuriant. clow- growth an < I preserves Its natural color until the end of your da } n. After the hair has tn restored to it * natcral color It Is not necessary to continue It * use except for peneral us . ni the hair Brows out Us natural color from the roots the tame a * when a child Eierj bottle Is cuarantecd genu ine. IJBWAHE OK IMITATIONS. Make sura that ex > ry bottle Is lalwled Mme. M. Vnle's Ex celsior Hair Tonic Price , 11.00 per bet tie. C for S3. ( XX 146 SLaLe Street , Chicago , ill. SOLD BY ALL DRUGGISTS , FULL LINE CARRIED BY CO. , IGth nn l Iloiiirlno Sfs. . .AfKJfC//.VXT \ ! 1'ICKEItS. JOtb and llo\vtirilt KIXSLiER DRUd CO , , Hit It ntnl Piirnamt 11" . / . HUGHES , S&tli and 1'nrnnin ; G/iO. . D..1V/S. Council Utufti , . nntl Ity nil DruirsrlatB. By i IS. BRUCE it CO. . and RJCll.lRUSOX DRUG CO..Oznnhn. A POLL AND COMPLETE LINE OF idame Yale's Goods ALWAYS TO BE HAD AT KCJHN'S DRUG STORE , 15th and Douglas Streets , SUMMER RESORTS. IflFAYETTE Lake 5TInnftontK , Benson of IWi begins June KrJ. Leading Samner Hotel of the \Vr U tul location. 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