The daily Nebraskan. ([Lincoln, Neb.) 1901-current, October 12, 1999, Page 3, Image 3
Speaker warns of alcohol danger Joel Goldman tells students to avoid mixing alcohol with sexual choices By Christina Fechner Staff writer Students may make different deci sions about sex when they are drunk than they would otherwise, and those decisions could be deadly, said Joel Goldman, this year’s Do It Sober speaker. The speech kicked off National Collegiate Alcohol Awareness Week. It was sponsored by Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity and Delta Delta Delta Sorority. Goldman spoke to a full crowd in the Lied Center for Performing Arts for the event, which is in its 17™ year at the University of Nebraska Lincoln. Goldman, who travels to colleges nationwide to share his experiences' with HIV, used humor and personal stories to better relate to the students. The program began with a video of Goldman’s experiences in college. It portrayed nights of his drinking and mornings of his hangovers. Goldman admitted that on some of the morn ings he could not remember the night before. He spoke about the risks of drink ing and engaging in sexual activities, including the possibilities of sexual assault and HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases. Jon Bunning, a senior advertising major, and Chrissy Campbell, a junior business administration major, worked as organizers of the program. Bunning said he felt that the pro gram was powerful for students. He said he also thinks Goldman’s approach was a good way for students to learn the effects of alcohol. “We’re not trying to preach. We’re dying to educate,” Bunning said. “It is something that students need to think about, and they may not pay attention when they should.” Goldman used an interactive exer cise that got students giggling, but at the same time realizing they are at risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. Students were given pieces of paper at the beginning of the program that had the information about the sexual choices the students would make at a pretend party. Students were told to shake hands with three people in the Lied Center crowd. Shaking hands symbolized having sex. ' Some people had drank that night, others had unprotected sex, and some had used drugs. Those students were asked to stand. tJy the end ot the exercise more than half of the auditorium was stand ing because there was a possibility that they had contracted HIV or another STD. Goldman told the students the exercise showed that anyone could get an STD, and personal decisions make a difference in whether that happens. Campbell said that the program went well and that she hoped it had an impact on students. “No one can make other people’s decisions for them, but the program can help get information to them,” Campbell said. Stacey Mendlik, a sophomore nursing major, attended the program and said that it was interesting to hear the message from a personal view point. “I think it will only affect people for a week, but if it affects even a few people it was worth it,” Mendlik said. Mayor supports holiday HOLIDAY from page 1 community” the proclamation read. Unlike the previous mayor, Wesely is dedicated to making the city more inclusive, Quenzer said. “This is a whole new administra tion,” she said. “The focus of the administration is to be inclusive, to provide a better quality of life for all of Lincoln’s citizens. When some body is doing something positive, it is our job to commend them on those positive aspects.” Quenzer said the mayor’s office has received nothing but positive reac tions to the decision to issue the proclamation. “The feedback we’ve gotten has been very, very positive,” she said. “The community seems to be very excited about it.” Corrections The Aaron Zimmer Band and Blacklight Sunshine will play in the Nebraska Union ballroom Thursday night. Blacklight Sunshine will play from 10 to 11 p.m. Because of a ! reporting error, die location and time were listed incorrectly in Monday’s Daily Nebraskan. Jeremy Patrick, a University of Nebraska law student who was at the rally, thought the proclamation was a very positive step for Lincoln’s gay community. “I know Johanns wouldn’t support us, so I’m glad that the city has a much better environment,” he said. “It is certainly much more progressive now.” Patrick said he was pleased that he could be part of the memorable expe rience. “I’m very happy, very proud,” he said. “This was a very emotional day, and I am glad to be part of it.” Genevieve Critel, a sophomore women’s studies major at UNL, echoed Patrick’s comments. “I am really excited,” she said. “It has been a long time coming, and it is one more important step to equality.” The Nebraska Court of Appeals affirmed the ruling of a Lancaster County District Court in dismissing evidence seized from a Lincoln man during a drug arrest. Because of a reporting error in Monday’s law and order briefs, the court was listed incorrectly. I Students given financial advice CONFERENCE from page 1 they consistently saved money and avoided extravagant spending. “My advice to you is: If you can’t afford it, don’t buy it,” Buffett said. Buffett cautioned students to avoid credit card debt. He said stu dents could never “get ahead of the game” while making monthly pay ments at high interest. Jackson told the students that financial decisions must be based on morals. “The question is: Are we spiritu ally sound enough to be making investing decisions?” he said. Jackson said financial empower ment for all Americans was the next fundamental struggle in American history. He named ending slavery, end ing segregation and universal voting rights as other fundamental strug gles in American history. ii My advice to you is: If you can’t afford it, don’t buy it ” Warren Buffett Omaha millionaire He said stereotypes about poor people being minorities and unem ployed were simply not true. “Most poor people in this coun try are young, white and female,” Jackson said. “Most poor people work every day. They cook, they clean. They are farmers or waiters.” Kerrey said he became interest ed in personal finance and invest ment issues when he began working on saving the Social Security pro gram. He said he hadn’t had much per sonal experience in planning for retirement. “I didn’t plan for mine,” he said. “I got lucky in business. 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