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Jake BLEED Jump in Group affiliations often beat out desire for individuality JAKE BLEED is a news-editorial graduate student and a Daily Nebraskan columnist Americans like to pride themselves on individualism We see ourselves as individuals, work within an entrepre neurial system that rewards the individual and look to a past interpreted through the eyes of the individual. But in our effort to define the individual, we seem to forget that we are essentially members of a group or many groups. More often than not, our outward personalities are dictated by the social groups of which we are a part. We interpret information and events more through the eyes of the group than through the eyes of an individual. And often, our identity as a group is based off what makes our group unique. And confrontation between groups vindicates the identities of diose involved. We can all relate with college football. It is a domi nant feature of life in Nebraska. I have never been that great of a fan, but when I visit friends in Michigan, I am immediately a Husker. Whether or not I am a Husker doesn’t matter, my friends from up north don’t give me much choice. Because I am from Nebraska, and they are very much from Michigan, I am a Comhusker and, more importantly, had a hand in rob bing their team of a national championship. Frankly, I don’t care who won and who lost But having pride in my home state, I will quickly sing the praises of coach Tom and the rest of die boys, vehemently defend my identity as a Nebraskan and in general become the Husker they had originally accused me of being. Am I a Husker now? My opinion doesn’t really matter. I identify myself with the state of Nebraska and, in the eyes of otters, am therefore a Husker. This happens to everyone in every sort of group. We cling to group identities and group conflicts in everything we do. There are plenty of examples: peo ple who use PCs over Macintosh, drive Fords over Chevys, or vote Democrat or Republican. Why we choose this side or that isn’t very obvious, or in many cases, a necessary question to answer. And resolution of conflict between groups needs to be as decisive as the conflict itself. One side must WIN and the other must LOSE. There are few things more un-American than a tie game. Baseball games will go to extra innings until the cows come home. The heart and soul of a true fan will come out for sudden death overtime, and how could the tie-ridden game of soccer ever make the leagues in America? Going back to Nebraska football, look at how controversial the decision to award the National Championship to both US and THEM was. Fans can only shake their fists, put the last nails in the coffin of the Bowl system and wait for next year. The sports analogy is a good one to use because it is relatively benign and we can all relate to it Were I to have used a current situation in the Congo, where ethnic violence between Hutus and Tutsis has broken Letter Policy The Daily Nebraskan welcomes brief letters to the editor and guest columns, but does not guarantee their publication. The Daily Nebraskan retains the right to edit or reject any material submitted. Submitted material becomes property of the DaHy Nebraskan and cannot be returned. Anonymous submissions will not be published. Those who submit letters must identify themselves by name, year in school, major and/or group affiliation if any. Submit material to: Daily Nebraskan, 34 Nebraska Union, 1400 R St. Lincoln, NE. 68588-0448. E-mail: letters@imlinfo.unl.eclu. I I Barb CHURCHILL It takes two Blame shouldn’t rest solely on Clinton’s shoulders CHURCHILL is a graduate student in saxophone per formance and a Daily Nebraskan columnist If you are a public figure, you give up your right to privacy under the law. This is what the Chnton-Lewinsky sex scandal is all about. The lack of pri vacy, combined with President Clinton’s atypical version of morality and Monica Lewinsky’s supposed youth and inexperience, has given most media organizations a new lease on life. Pity poor Monica Lewinsky. How could she be taken in by that evil man, who just happens to be the President of the United States? At least, this is what everyone wants us to believe—Lewinsky’s lawyers, Ken Starr, most major news organizations. Every single one of them has used Lewinsky’s relative youth (she’s 24) and lack of experience to exonerate her, and excoriate Clinton. But is this angle really right? Linda Tripp believes so. Tripp wants evervone to know what a hack. Lewinsky and Clinton are possible sex addicts. And sexual addiction, according to Sex Addicts Anonymous, includes die feeling of powerlessness over debilita tive, compulsive behavior relating to sex. And, on Lewinsky’s part, how could anything be more debilitating, not to mention demoralizing and just plain stupid, than to have oral sex in the White House? With a married man? One who has had affairs before? This is not the rational, assured behavior of an adult And isn’t Lewinsky supposed to be an adult, someone who is supposed to be able to make her own choices? Look at die choices Lewinsky has made. She chose to live on her own, in Washington, D.C., in order to positively promote growth and change in her own life. She wanted to be in the most power ful place in the world, to associate with the most powerful people and hopefully make a difference in the world. But die fact is, life doesn’t give you what you want We start out with acciimntinnc cnmp nfwhirh nmw tn tion to Lewinsky’s mistakes. And by my count, she’s made several whoppers. Number one: She (allegedly) had oral sex with a married man. Number two: she bragged about it to “loose lips” Tripp, not exactly the most trust worthy person in the entire universe. Number three: she can’t seem to realize her problems are of her own making. Lewinsky is a deeply flawed indi vidual, which makes her just like the rest of us. And, no lie, it must be diffi cult for her to have her peccadilloes flaunted before every major newscast, on the Internet and everywhere else there is a media outlet As this week’s Time Online story “Ova-to You, Bill” says, the whole Levvinsky-Clinton scandal may come down to an aigument over the definition of what, exactly, is sex. Marty men do not consider oral sex to be in the same cate gory as full-fledged sexual intercourse. So, if Clinton said he never had sex with her, he could very well have been telling the truth—from a certain point of view. Hie polls haven’t been kind to be true, some of which prove to be false. And one of the curses of being a public figure is that you must make your mistakes in public, which adds to die pain and suffering you feel. But sometimes, making mistakes is a gift, although it can seem to be a curse. Making mistakes and living through them, living with the pain, disappoint ment and the disillusionment, is part of being human. And we all make mistakes, Lewinsky and Clinton among than. Everyone knows the mistakes Clinton has made. But no one has paid any atten stabbing, wife-abusing adulterous lowlife Clinton really is. That’s why, she says, she’s told everyone everything poor old Monica said to her. Just to set die record straight The possible book deal had nothing to do with it Why is it, anyway, that Lewinsky’s behavior has gone unchallenged? Why has she “gotten of!?’ both literally and figuratively, if she’s to be believed, with bad behavior at the least, and sexual addiction at the worst? I mean, think about it Both LewinsKy, euner. /vunougn inany people in the United States believe she is telling the truth as she sees it, they also see her as flighty, flaky and extremely light weight The American public believes she deserves everything she gets, from political cartoons to the unauthorized explicit Wfeb sites hawking nude pic tures. One lawmaker, quoted anony mously in Time^ story, said “The President is going to say ‘I didn’t do it’. And ills going to go down to, who do you trust, the President or some floozy who wants to get herself out of trouble?”