The daily Nebraskan. ([Lincoln, Neb.) 1901-current, September 10, 1996, Page 5, Image 5
C f I .Jgcj.. - - WILDGEN Give or take % Survival is our instinct; selfishness, a virtue In February 1995, two young boys decided to go play on frozen Osier Lake, Iowa, near Omaha. Highs had been in the 50s and 60s for several days. The ice was getting thin. Without warning, the beys fell through the ice into the frigid waters below. A passing stranger decided to try to rescue the boys. However, the maae me mice s surface even more unstable, and the man plunged to his death during the attempt. One of the two boys survived. For several days the man was lauded as a heartland hero. Is that really what “heroism” is about? Sacrificing one’s life to save total strangers who are foolish enough to risk their own? I was flipping through the channels after classes one day last week when I noticed that “Oprah” was on. They were talking to some teen-age boys who were suffering from the eating disorder anorexia. These boys were literally starving themselves sick, but they didn’t know why they had no desire to eat. Of course, a therapist appeared on the show, and she gave an interesting explanation of the psychology behind anorexia. She said that the bpys were trying to live up to & standard Of “moral perfection.” They were so «-— The most basic requirements of life are inherently selfish actions. You breathe only for yourself, not for the benefit of someone else.” concerned about helping others that they were neglecting their own needs. But is this really what “moral perfection” is about? Concern with others to the point of self-neglect? These two cases are symptomatic of the current moral climate in America. Self-sacrifice is extolled as a moral virtue in this country. The Carter Lake tragedy makes that very clear. But something else is also clear: When self-sacrifice is consid ered a virtue, hypocrisy is the key to survival, and sincerity is a death knell. The most basic requirements of life are inherently selfish actions. You breathe only for yourself, not for the benefit of someone else. You eat to quell your hunger; you drink to quench your thirst. You don’t help anyone else by sitting down to dinner. j.1 *-■ '-j -K : Aw4$ars wherc the ethics of self-sacrifice—also known as altruism—come into direct conflict with the requirements of life. To be consistent in your practice of self-sacrifice, you must relinquish your food to someone else. Anyone else. And you had better not breathe either, for that is selfish and flies in the face of self-sacrifice. Offer your breath to someone else—preferably a stranger, since helping someone you love would just perpetuate your selfish enjoyment of their company. Of course that course of action is absurd and will lead to your death, but what is the alternative? You must breathe and consume food to survive. Philosophically, you have two options: either continue to accept the ethics of self-sacrifice, or reject self sacrifice and accept self-interest as a virtue. If you choose to acknowledge self-sacrifice as a virtue, you have two more options. You can be consistent with your beliefs and face the consequence of ignoring the requirements of life—death, the : w uhjmate self-sacrifice. Or you can sneak a few breaths and a little food and feel the overwhelming guilt and uncertainty that your hypocrisy brings. If you choose to reject the ethics of self-sacrifice, and to accept self interest as your guide, you are free to eat and breathe without guilt. You can realize the joy and happiness of fulfilling your real-world needs through your own abilities and without depending on the sacrifices of others. You can have the self esteem of knowing that your life is your own and no one else can lay claim to it. The same ideas apply to the far more complex activities of human life, such as economics. Notice that the chief sponsors of self-sacrifice— the devout religionists—condemn ambition, pride and achievement. They scorn the rich—the business men, producers, and entrepreneurs who have earned fortunes making life’s requirements easier to fulfill. Instead, the religionists hold up as examples of virtue those who fast and pray their lives away, those who act “without desire for material reward,” those who preach that happiness is not possible in this world and that humans are depraved sinners. Well, if self-sacrifice is a virtue, no wonder we’re all “depraved sinners”—good grief, we’re still alive! ■ - ' - ; J fa$3 <: if •if fflftrtrwhpijiiidr iwli % Daily Nebraskan columnist. | R Survey says... It’s a fact: Statistics are getting pretty silly Let’s talk facts and figures. Did you know that one in 10 boys has been kicked in the testicles by another boy? I didn’t. Although, I’m not exactly sure that I wanted to know that one in 10 boys has been kicked in the testicles. Yet a survey by the University of New Hampshire made sure that I did. I’m just curious to know who in that fine university came up with the idea * for the survey. BOB: DangitJim! We need an idea for a survey by 4p.m. and you haven’t come up with a bloody thing! JIM: Neither have you you bloody, snickering little.. OUCH! You just kicked me in the testicles! That hurt Bob! BOB: Hmmm..J think I’ve got something.... And thus another useless survey statistic is bom. There are tons of them out there— just pick up any piece of writing and you will probably find diem. Some are rather pathetic. The American Hospital Association’s Fifth Annual'Pet Owners' Survey, (pick a shorter name for crying out loud!) found that 57 percent of pet . owners, if stranded on a desert U The American Hospital Association’s Fifth Annual Pet Owners’ Survey (pick a shorter name for crying out loud!) found that 57 percent of pet owners, if stranded on a desert island, would choose their pet over a sexy celebrity for companionship.” island, would choose their pet over a sexy celebrity for companionship. Huh? The only thing this tells me is that 57 percent of pet owners spend too much time with their pets. Honestly, why wouldn’t you choose another human over a four-legged companion with the name of Fido? What is there to do with a pet? Candlelight dinners are out, un less.... BOB: "Fido, you look nice tonight The candlelight plays well off your shaggy face...” FIDO: "ARFH!" BOB: "I mean, I’m glad you’re here with me... ” FIDO: "ARFH!’’ BOB: "You have no idea what your companionship means tome.” FOy&jtaUnKJiabinapto) BOB: “Oh to bloody hell with it, I should have picked Jim!" Here's one final useless statistic, brought to you by Fruit of the Loom: 82 percent of women say an uncom fortable pear of panties ruins their entire day. Being a guy, I would never know if it does or not. But I'll be daring and go as fer as to say that it’s common knowledge that no one likes wearing an ^uncomfortaUepairof panties,” guy or girl. Thus, that survey is pretty useless as well. However, I will never jump off the deep end and say feat statistics are useless. Many are essential to us, while still others are sad. Want a sad statistic? How about The National Science Foundation's, which found that only 4? percent of adult Americans knew that the Earth revolved around the sun once in a year. Or maybe U.S. News and World Report’s survey that discovered 89 percent of all current smokers had started their habit by age 18. We learn from these facts and figures and countless more, yet more often, we just get drowned by them. So should the media and industry lay off stats? Maybe. I think they should simply ask if their surveys or statistics will benefit humankind in someway. Ask Union Products Inc. It is the maker of a famous product that hundreds of thousands of people buy each year. Its founder first made the product out of a foam material, which dogs found edible and frankly, ate it. What extremely worthwhile product does Union Pacific make, prompting them to give out the statistic that they sell 250,000 of themayear? Pink flamingoes. Ihe kind you stick in your lawn. Sigh— may that useless statistic die with 250,000 people’s sense of taste.... Kerber is a sophomore aews edttorial major aad a Daily Nebraskan cotumaist