OPINION Net?raskan Thursday, August 11,1994 Nebraskan Editorial Board University of Nebraska-Lincoln Deborah D. McAdams. Malt Woody ..,. Martha Dunn . . . ... Derek Samson .. Brian Sharp... • ... EDI IOKI \l Editor, 472-1766 . Features Editor Cppy Desk ChieJ . . . Staff Reporter Sta ff Reporter Students lose Getting educated becomes greater struggle This is our final issue of the Summer Daily Nebraskan tor 1994, and some of the news was good news. Students arc getting a new family health program, improved computer rooms and more financial aid options. The university received over S4 million in donations, and the earth wasn’t wiped out by a potential fusion reaction caused by a scries of comets that hit Jupiter in July. The bad news is that higher education, me gateway ot sen improvement, is never going to get any cheaper. Unfortunately, as the price of education rises, so docs the inaccessibility of educa tion for those who need it the most. In June, we reported the cost of attending a four-year college increased 77 percent between 1980 and 1990. More recently, the cost of financial aid has also increased as total grant hinds were reduced in favor of loan programs. Education always gets caught in the crossfire ot administrators and legislators. School officials demand more money. Legislators refuse. School officials threaten to cut essential programs. If legislators don’t bend, students lose. School officials rarely consider the superfluity of their own substantially paid positions. From the minimum wage vantage point of many students, very few people actually deserve over $ 100,000 a year. Particularly in Lincoln, where the cost of living is still a well-kept secret. The students who take their College education for granted will probably be least affected by rising costs. Some people arc destined to go to college, even if they arc brain dead, because they have wealth. A few will attend college by virtue of academic or athletic skills. For a very large number of people, college will always be a struggle. They will struggle with finances, home work, fatigue and doubt. They have the least to lose and the most to gain. Spiraling education costs simply compound the struggle. The individuals who can’t overcome the surmounting obstacles of education may not be reflected in enrollment statistics, but their potential contribution to society will be wasted on the self-interest of politicians and school administrators. P.S. Write Back The Daily Nebraskan wants to hear from you. If you want to voice your opinion about an article that appears in the newspaper, let us know. Just write a brief letter to the editor and sign it (don’t forget your student ID number) and mail it to the Daily Nebraskan, 34 Nebraska Union. 1400 R Street, Lincoln, NE 68588-0448, or stop by the office in the basement of the Nebraska Union and visit with us. We’re all ears. I lit lout \i l’< >1 i< \ Staff editorial s represent the official policy of the Summer 1994 Daily Nebraskan Policy is set by the Daily Nebraskan Editorial Board. Editorials do not necessarily reflect the views of the university, its employees, the students or the NU Board of Regents. Editorial columns represent the opinion of the author. The regents publish the Daily Nebraskan They establish the UNL Publications Board to supervise the daily production of the paper According to policy set by the regents, responsibility for the editorial content of the newspaper lies solely in the hands of its students I I I 11 l< l*i H l< \ The Daily Nebraskan welcomes brief letters to the editor from all readers and interested others Letters will be selected for publication on the basis of clarity, originality, timeliness and space available. The Daily Nebraskan retains the right to edit or reject all material submitted Readers also are welcome to submit material as guest opinions. The editor decides whether material should run as a guest opinion. Letters and guest opinions sent to the newspaper become the property oftbe Daily Nebraskan and cannot be returned. Anonymous submissions will not be published. Letters should included (be author's name, year in school, major and group affiliation, if any. Requests to withhold names will not be granted. Submit material to the Daily Nebraskan, 34 Nebraska Union, 1400 R St., Lincoln, Neb. 68588-0448. MD-'bOO . OP OS.^ Mi ii vmmad Moiiii ddin Money can’t buy you happiness What is happiness? tveryone wants to be happy,everyone is in search of that lost pearl. If you ask someone who is penniless, he would say the wealthy man is the happy man. A prisoner’s reply would be happiness is freedom, and the sick man’s response is health is happiness. It means that the happiest must be the one who has all of these things. Unfortunately mostofthe time it is not true, and it’s human nature for every one to believe that he or she is the biggest sufferer on this planet earth. One philosopher beautifully portrays this status quo: “If all the worries of the world arc accumulated and everyone is allowed toexchange his worries, noonc will be satisfied.” He goes further to say that if the worries arc equally distributed evenly, then everyone, no matter how great his problems, will consider him self the biggest loser. One of those monstrous problems is the virtual disintegration of family structure. The author Clare Boothe Luce succinctly summarized it, “To day half of all the marriages end in divorce, separation, or desertion. The marriage rate and birth rate are fall ing. The number of one-parent and one-child families is rising, more and more young people are 1 iving together without the benefit of marriage. Pre marital and extramarital sex no long er raise parental or conjugal eyebrows. The rate of reported incest, child mo lestation, rape and child and wife abuse is steadily mounting. Runaway chil dren, teenage prostitution, youthful drug addiction and alcoholism have become great, ugly, new phenome na.” This phenomena is caused by the immense influence of television, mov ies and advertisements. Everyone’s life is unknowingly being dictated by these brainwashers. Whenever a per son watches an advertisement in which a very beautiful, seemingly happily, If we just ponder the repercus sions of the felling of a beautiful, fragile family tree nurtured with so much care, love and com promise, we will be astonished to see that most of the social prob Ilems enumerated by Clare Booth emanate from this single social disease. married couple is driving in a most luxurious car or living in an ornate palace-like house, they begin to bc 1 ieve happiness is the outcome of such attainments. So they set goals that are invariably hard to meet and begin a wild goose chase. They arc always obsessed with the thought of earning more and more money, al though when they started out their sole objective was to be happy. Obviously they didn ’ t want wealth for its own sake. They wanted to use it as a means to an end. On their way to make dreams come true, they work fifteen hours a day, leave the bed early in the morning and hit it late at night. Maybe at work they successfully pretend to be the most smiling personality, but within there is always a burning desire to amass wealth. Severe family problems arc a natu ral aftermath of such a hectic life. Every other day they get mad at their spouse or kid and the verbal abuse may end up physical. What could be expected of someone who stays in his or her house not more than a few hours a day, including sleep. Finally, dis gusted with these daily quarrels, peo ple decide to get rid of all this. Divorce or at least separation comes to mind as the only way out. The crux of the story comes when people come to own the things that they used to believe essential for hap pi ness and find that they paid too much for them. Such things can never give permanent happiness. The hap piness sacrificed in the course of at taining these trivial material posses sions is much more than pleasure of such attainments. It is always a happy family 1 ifc that gives permanent, ncv cr-ending love. Happiness is the source of comfort in hours of distress. Noth ing can compare to the enjoyment a childlike mistake of your kid can bring, except the comfort that words of en couragement and love from your spouse can bring. The apparently ver bose. overused words of advice from your mother, which may seem to be worthless, reflect affection, sincerity and thoughtfulness. These are the lit tle things that count. If we just ponder the repercussions of the felling of a beautiful, fragile family tree nurtured with so much care, love and compromise, we will be astonished to see that most of the social problems enumerated by Clare Booth emanate from this single social disease. . The moral of the story is while evaluating one’s progress, one should always keep in view these little things that arc not so little. Muhaaiaiad Mohiuddia I* a graduate »tudeat la electrical eaglaeeriag aad a Dally Nebras kaa coluaialst.