The daily Nebraskan. ([Lincoln, Neb.) 1901-current, January 16, 1992, Page 7, Image 7

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    Life after death
Lincolnites’ opinions about heaven and hell cover the spectrum
By Lisa Pytlik
Staff Reporter
“I don’t know.”
That was the most common an
swer given by various Lincolnites
in response to the question, "What
happens after death?” People have
wondered about this question since
prehistoric times ana their opin
ions on the matter still vary.
Many agree with Karen Wiese, a
graduate student in health educa
tion.
“I’ve chosen to believe the tradi
tional Judeo-Christian view of
heaven and hell,” she said. “Either
you live in eternal bliss or eternal
separation from God.”
However, she said she did not
know for certain.
“It’s the great ‘eternal joke,’” she
said. “You choose something, and
if you are wrong, then the joke is
on you.”
Although many students and min
isters shared a belief in the exis
tence of heaven and hell, they had
different ideas about the details.
Pastor Larry Meyer of the ELCA
Lutheran Student Center said that
believers “will live eternally by being
resurrected,” and described hell as
“very painful because of the ab
sence of God.
“Hell is also never having an
other chance,” he said.
Father Don Hanway of St. Mark’s
on-the-Campus Episcopal Church
defined heaven and hell by the
presence or absence of God.
He said he believed in the con
cept of a “life review” at death, in
which people would be able to
look back on their lives and see the
significance of their choices.,
Scott Pixler, campus minister at
the College-Career Christian Fel
lowship, expressed his view by
saying, “I definitely believe in life
after death. But I’m not sure if we
go straight into eternity or if there’s
a waiting period.”
Others said they did believe in
an afterlife, but said they doubted
the existence of hell.
“I don’t think there’s a hell,” said
Chris McCord, a graduate student
in philosophy. “If you think about
it long enough, you will see that
hell is not compatible with most of
what Jesus taught.”
Jacquelyne Fong, a finance ma
jor, said she hoped the same.
"I hope that everyone is judged
leniently,” she said, “and that no
one will go to a place that’s scary
and harsn like hell."
John Carlini, a graduate student
in music, said, "I think we are
composed of energy and, after we
die, our energy goes back to the
main pool of energy . . . then that
energy is recycled.”
Annie Yin-Yen Loo, an advertis
ing major who described herself as
a “free thinker,” summed up her
philosophy by saying that the after
life is “just like what I saw in ‘Flat
liners.’” "—1 "r~—
Finally, there were those who
said they were dubious about the
concept of life after death.
“It may sound terribly unroman
tic,” said Lise Osvold, who re
ceived her degree in counseling
psychology last December. “But I
don’t think there’s anything after
death. I think that you just lie in the
ground and decay."
Perhaps accounting major Melissa
Arnold said it best when she^said,
“We’ll find out when we
get there.” But, she said, “I p&|l
don’t want to find out yet.” mfiml
Time griefs cure, expert says
uy jeremy MizpaincK
Senior Reporter
Time heals all when it comes to
grief caused by the death of a loved
one, accordingto Vernon Williams,
director of UNL’s Counseling Cen
ter.
Williams said there is no magic
cure for dealing with grief. An anal
ogy, he said, is the measles: It
affects everyone differently and must
simply be allowed to ru n its course.
“Your body and emotions will
react how they are going to react,”
he said. “I don’t think you have a
lot of control over it."
There are five stages of grief that
most people go through, Williams
said.
The first is a stunned, numb, dis
believing stage that resembles shock.
It is followed by grief, or an out
pouring of tears and sadness, and
of missing the person.
. Next comes anger, at least some
oi wnicn is airecieu ai me person
who died, because he or she has
left survivors alone to deal with
their obligations and feelings.
After anger, people feel what
Williams described as “false accep
tance,” or believing that they have
recovered from the loss, only to
find that they have not when
something such as a birthday or
anniversary brings back painful
memories.
Eventually, he said, a person
will reach “true acceptance,” where
he or she will never stop missing
the person, but is able to cope with
memories of him or her.
The process takes about six
months. Williams said it was im
portant to understand the stages so
a person wouldn’t be shocked when
they occur.
Staying active is a good way to
better endure the grieving process,
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TUESDAY, JANUARY 21
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• KANSAS CITY, MISSOURI
SATURDAY, JANUARY 18
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