Wednesday, October 23, 1033 Pcgo4 Dally Nsbreskan o a jiiiUas3iia as am ewswi Afghanistan, a Soviet "satellite," wa Invaded by the Soviet Union in 1G7D when its puppet dictator began to stretch the strings which bound him to Moscow. - . The Soviets, with the aid of the Afghani army, overran the country and installed a new dictator, one more responds to their demands. The United States raised a great hue and cry about the invasion by the evil Soviet Empire and slapped an embargo on American grain shipments to the Soviet Union. The U.S. government attacked the Soviets for expansionism and intervention into the affairs of another nation. Early Tuesday morning 1,900 American soldiers and a handful of soldiers from member countries of the Organization of Eastern Caribbean States (OECS) invaded the Carribean island of Grenada, the site of a military coup last week which replaced one Marx ist leader with another. The forces took control of Grenada's two airports and attacked the camps of Cuban construction workers, killing several Cubans and taking prisoner an undetermined number of the workers. Two questions are immediately brought to mind by the American invasion. First, how does it differ from the Soviet occupation of Afghanistan, and second, what does the United States hope to gain from it? A quick response to the first question miht be that they asked us to come. Who are they? Not the' people of Grenada, or even the estimated 1,000 Americans living there. "They" are the members of OECS, a group of nations sympathetic to the United States. , Another response, of course, could be that the Soviet invasion was an act of aggression by a Com munist nation bent on world domination, while the American invasion is an act by an altruistic free country which has the best interest of the people of Grenada and the entire Free World at heart. But American support of totalitarian regimes like Anastazio Somoza's in Nicaragua, the Shah's in Iran, and the current El Salvadoran government indi cates just whose interest the United States has at heart. It appears that the Soviet and American inva-' sions are quite similar. In both cases, a superpower perceived that a relatively weak nation positioned near their borders was a potential threat to their interests, and responded with military occupation of that nation. The Soviets told the world it wa3 for Afghanistan's own good, and it is predictable that the United States will tell the world it's for Grenada's own good as well Both invasions violated the rights of those nations to determine for themselves what is their own good. TWnnd the Question of ethics of the UJS. invasion lies a query which may be even more difficult to answer. What is the American mission there? If the American citizens in Grenada want (or need) to be rescued, if our liarincs rescue them and leave the island, the invasion possibly could be justi fied as an act undertaken only to protect American citizens, although it would be very difficult to prove that such action was ncccesery. Perhaps the United States will employ the catch phrase it has been using to excuse military interven tion in Nicaragua, El Salvador and Lebanon "checking Soviet expanicnbin." True, Grenada has ideological ties to the Soviet Union and was host to 30 Soviet and 60 Cuban military advisers. But El Salvador is host of a large number of U.S. military advisers. Would the Soviets be justified in a military occupation of that country aimed at "checking capitalist expansionism?" Of course not, they Ye Communists. The people of Grenada are no better off under American military rule today than they were under Grenadan martial law Monday. U.3. military inter vention b not serving the people of Grenada, and it is highly questionable whether the intervention truly will serve anyone else especially the United States. Anger Paging epidemic' that has everyone upset I don't know if you've noticed it, but everyone seems to be on the verge of blowing up these days. People are walking around in a constant state of being ticked off. You can see it as you're walking down the street' men and women have iheir jaws clenched. Their faces are purpl&Yoi ivbiildri'f be surprised" cT see steam start coming out of their ears. At a traffic light, you can actually see drivers' complexions change colors 1 as they become more and more frus trated by the wait. Bob is. Greene It turns out that the anger floating around our streets has become so widespread that one family counselor has even started to specialize in ana lyzing and treating it. He's a fellow named Mitchell Messer, and he con ducts weekly meetings called Anger Clinics. Messer seemed like as good a person as any to ask about the pent-up fury among our friends and neighbors. "It's an epidemic, there's no doubt about that," said Messer, 52. "None of us were here in previous centuries, so there's no way to say if things today are the worst they've ever been. But it's hard for me to imagine them being any worse." Messer said you don't have to be a psychiatrist or a psychologist to notice the increasing signs of everyday anger. "I see people walking down the streets talking to themselves, mutter ing under their breath," he said. "I see poeple pushing other people on the subway. I see people walking into a department store and yelling at the salesclerk, and the salesclerk yelling back. "Somebody says something we don't like, a motorist cuts us off, we miss an elevator by one second things that small eet the anger oft We ignite. When we mic3 that elevator, we dont think about why a tiny thing like that should make us so angry. We perceive mining the elevator as a sign cf being victim- me.' We to think the world b . unfair." . - What's behind thb, !: :r crid, b - the feet that Arr;cr:er."3 hr.ve treii tsozir! fciw wi iw 3 o fcv-dl thing to be an;y. to be nice at" rll tlv:.:zr 1 r;e are tau'ht be angry arid if we are angry, we should never let it show. The ideal was for all of us to behave as if we were in a Norman Rockwell painting. No one ever got angry in a Norman Rockwell painting. j "As a result, you have a whole nation of people walking erc-urid with 3Qy?.EP.i of anger built up inside of them. All of the anger from the third, fourth; fifth, and sixth grade is still in there. When people are very young, they learn from their parents that if they get angry, they'll be sent to their room They're taught that being angry is unpleasant that it's unacceptable in polite society. And they never forget that les son." Blowing up is riot the answer to this, Messer said. Blowing up does not "let off steam-" instead, it often makes things worse. "People think that by slamming a door or kicking the dog, they will release some of their anger," he said. "It doesnt help. It just adds more anger. The next day, the same thing happens again. "Those kinds of responses are inap propriate responses to anger. Holler ing and screaming, taking out the anger you feel toward your superior at work on your wife and kids, sarcasm, cruelty those are all inappropriate re sponses to anger. Vindictiveness, bit terness, sulking and pouting more ; inappropriate responses." So how should a person who's walk ing around red-faced and muttering respond to his inner anger? One of the simplest and most effective methods, Messer said, b to simply confess the anger to the person one b angry at. "Think about it," Messer said. "People almost never directly admit their anger. They say they're 'hurt' or upset' or a thousand other code words. But'it helps tremendously to go up to the person who has made ycji angry, and to say: 'I am angry at you. Here's why.' . "People are reluctant to 1 that. They don't like to let ether people have the satisfaction: cf Lr.oring 1 they've gotten to them. So they carry the ar.ger around inside and never admit it out loud.- : 1 ; . 1 ; "I also recommend writing an 'angry letter.' Sitting down and putting down on psper, fci a letter to the persen who has made you angry, just why ycu feel so angry. It doesn't even matter if the perecn b stl alive. The pereen could : write, 'Dear Horn I'm very tryy at .' what happened CD years Even if . ri'-i.-...,,-,,,, . , j -, - ' r w v V I a - a ' : " , - 1V1 L i r x re Grenada intervention' - sesn ; ' as governmental intervention More than anything ebe, I feel de ceived. . " ' I feel deceived because my govern ment, when it should have been mourning the loss of hundreds of UJS. Marines, instead was secretly plotting to rbk the lives of hundreds more in combat in Grenada. . 1 ' ' . mm- cnt icr t:.e c cnywey. It's izr the vritcr"! I feel deceived because I felt indig nant when the Soviets shot down (ac cidently, our government belatedly has admitted) a Korean airliner. Yet, I now find myself a citizen of a country that engages in similar barbaric tactics. . ' ". I feel deceived because I stCl dont believe we are being told the truth by . cur president and hb administration. They have told U3 the incursion into Grenada has to rcetcre peace; bstead ithas caueed war. They tcld us the -aetiin cicd to pretest Ameri czns fci Grenada; fcrtcad, it hn en t..: -i :zx If cur r i tn.'jwn to r.r,..t.;2-Ar:e:::-;.j c'thrt Vir l 7' l.i-.g tLi h:? - v. e murt havs h- d ceme ether r-th yet the. prceier.t h ur.wnng' todij- I f;:l deceived fcccaiics after the 1::r.-;.m .War, I believed car govern-' ment would never act o militarily irre:- encible cgia Yet, v.-e row find Arr.rriean tlarir.cs ctaif-sed in no less than three trouble reta (CI Salvador, Grenada and Ix:r:;nen). Supposedly, they ere "peacekeepers," yet wherever they go, death and vieler.ee tseem to follow closely behind. And there b no sign that any of then are clout to go home. I feel deceived became this adminb tratien assured us that thii generation would be one cf peree. And said it would never be mvclved ti cnr.ed con flict unless absolutely neeceeary. Yet, men my age, men r. ho e:e!u ted from hih eehocl the ear e ye :r I did, are dring o Grenada cr.d ti Le'rir.cn. . . 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