Monday, April 25, 1983 Daily Nebraskan tt ti Daily Letters Nothssng veoy peo'sooiaB aboot peirsoinials Some students conic early to class in the morning just to get a copy of the Daily Ne braska!!. They get cranky if they've all been taken. Then, although they have been given sharp hints or even direct scoldings by professors for reading the "rag" in class, they crawl over seats to get one left on the floor. What's worse, when they do finally find one, the first section they turn to is the personals. I vowed to myself never to fall into this obsession. 1 have done well all year until re cently. On the day of an election, I found myself scanning the columns for my name. I noticed names of many others who were running. After double checking, I became angry and upset when 1 realized there wasn't a personal for me. After I got over the initial pain, I started to wonder why 1 was so upset about a two or three line article to boost my confi dence. Should the fact that 1 didn't get a personal ruin my day? When the day is over, most of the Daily Nebraskans are stuffed into garbage cans. What did it matter if I got a personal or not? To ease my mind, I looked up "person al" in the dictionary. The definition it gave was "a brief newspaper advertisement con cerning a personal matter." Who would want a "personal matter" read by peers? Then I realized the answers to this question lie between the lines. Occasionally, you will find a cute rhyme or a sentimental message, but often the personals are advertisements for parties or dates. Party advertisements not only appear too often thus becoming quite expensive, but they get old, tacky and boring. Often their main idea is to brag tha that their party is the best and to make readers feel bad if they are not invited. As for dates, who would want to be asked out through a newspaper article? Some people think personals are a good gift for birthdays, good luck wishes, con gratulations messages, or thank yous. When compared to candy and a card, an ice cream date, or even a single red rose, a per sonal doesn't quite match up. First of all, for us money-conscious students, all three of the former cost the same or less. Furthermore, when one personal says "to the best big brother ever" and another further down the column says the same thing, It loses its effect and the receiver doesn't feel so special. Another strike against personals is the fact that nearly all of them are either for or from Greeks. A non-Greek may not feel Without 72,000 fans, rowing team does best it can This letter is in response to the comp laint (Daily Nebraskan, April 22) concern ing the placement of advertisements for the UNL Row-A-Thon on utility poles in the city. I have been involved in the sport of collegiate rowing for four years as a member of the UNL crew team and it upset me to read of discontent with this organization. The UNL rowing team is a club sport - a self-supporting athletic pro gram on campus. A university where the main sport is football, it is difficult to make people understand that there are those of us who have to earn money the best way we can to keep our programs from constantly being in the red. We don't get 72,000 screaming fans paying money to see us race throughout our rowing season. Without a budget allowance, fund-raisers and clean-ups generate our largest income, not to mention that team members must pay out of their own pockets, all for a few glorious moments on the water. I read the newspapers daily, but I must have overlooked the police chiefs state ment of the illegality of ads on utility poles. It was not the intention of the crew team to break city laws, but at the same time, 1 think that there are too many things happening in Lincoln that are of much greater importance than this particular issue. If it upsets people that much, we will remove the signs. As for the expulsion of people involved, I think such drastic action is 'a little silly. It is a punishment not fitting the crime. By the way, how about a donation? John Dundon former UNL oarsman Foreign students need friendly understanding 1 felt sorry for her as I realized she'd been placed in an unfamiliar world, no family, few friends. Why? She probably doesn't know. I don't know either. I wonder if anyone does, or if there really is a reason. She'd reached the front of the magazine (she'd been paging back to front). She had traveled half way round the world in only a few seconds . . . from China to . . . Nebraska . . . Lincoln, Neb., the other big red. Oft times we are incapable of realizing how difficult it might be for us as well. . . cast into a country without family, friends or even a working knowledge of the language. Stop, look, listen, observe. Appreciate. John P. Grabouski senior, chemistry Plow Through Finals with 10 Coffee and Tea SUNDAY, MAY 1 THROUGH FRIDAY, MAY 6 (with Student I.D.) AT THE CITY AND EAST UNIONS. Extended hours during finals week: City Union :Sunday & Monday Until 12:30a.m. Tuesday, Wednesday Until midnight Thursday Until 11:30p.m. thmuoh Wednesday Until midnight nebraska unions ! ! V right putting a residence hall name or an address in parentheses next to their name. This implies discrimination because it leaves out almost 80 percent of the students. I lie next time you teel an urge to send a personal, consider another gift or means of advertising. You would be doing yourself, the receiver, and your pocketbook a favor. And, the next time you turn directly to the personals, or get upset because you didn't receive one, ask yourself just what is so great about the personals? Who knows, maybe you will start reading the more beneficial information on the preceding Pes. Jill Salbei freshman. Lni'lish EDITOR GENEHAL MANAGER ADVERTISING MANAGER PRODUCTION MANAGER MANAGING EDITOR NEWS EDITOR ASSOCIATE NEWS EDITORS NIGHT NEWS EDITOR ASSISTANT NIGHT NEWS EDITOR ENTERTAINMENT EDITOR SHORTS EDITOR ART DIRECTOR PHOTO CHIEF ASSISTANT PHOTO CHIEF ASSSIS1 ANT ADVERTISING MANAGER Catol Fhr PUBLICATIONS BOARD CHAIHMAN PROFESSIONAL ADVISER Margia Honi D.nial M. tiattll .laity Scott Kitty PolKy Michiala Thuman Sua Jautan Maty Bahitf Duana RalflaM David Wood Lailn BoallitorH Patty Pryor Bob Atmunan David Luabka Dava Banff Ctaig Andrnan Doug Nan, 47? 2454 Don Walton, 473 7301 THE DAILY NEBRASKAN (USPS '44 0801 IS PUB LISHED BY THE UNL PUBLICATIONS BOARD MON DAY THROUGH fRIDAY DURING THE FALL AND SPRING SEMESTERS. 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