tuesday, September 15, 1981 daily nebraskan page 7 Professor says marriage unpredictable, changing By Tom Shelton Professor Werner Leinfellner found a surprise when he came back to Lincoln after spending the summer in his native Vienna, Austria - far more students than he expected. Leinfellner, who teaches a philosophy class dealing with the ethics of marriage, was surprised to find 160 stu dents enrolled in his five-week mini-course, 20 more than planned. Leinfellner said the rapid alteration of the institution of marriage probably accounts for the large class enroll ment. "Marriage is in change," he said. "Nobody knows where it wOl go in 10 or 15 years. Some say it will become more traditional, more puritanic, but I don't think so." But, he said, "I didn't expect so many students. Over 200 would have joined if we had let them." Leinfellner said this is the first time he has taught the course although it was first offered last semester. He said interest in marriage is at an all-time high because of its unpredictable and changing nature. "Why talk about an institution that's in good stand ing?" said. The philosophy class explores several aspects of marri age and includes the views of several philosophers on the subject, but Leinfellner has his own views too. "Marriage in America has turned away from the puritanic, traditional life," he said, "away from absolute and rigid forms of marriage. It's loosened up." Last longer The professor said the marriages of couples with several children tend to last longer. "A marriage with one kid is socially different " he said. "If you have three or more, you have to live with the family."" Leinfellner said the presence of children often forces parents to stay at home more, causing both marriage part ners to spend more time together. He said big families are less prevalent today because of economics. "Look at the economic pinch," he said. "In China, three or four children and you don't get money from the government. In India, big families are prevented by the lack of food." Leinfellner said the economy of the United States has made large families less common. He said marriages do not last as long as they used to. "Marriage doesn't last as long - that's a fact," he said. "But it is as common as it used to be." However, he said, the structure of marriage is flexible. "Old-fashioned marriage where marriage is absolute and without any infidelity is not possible," he said. "We don't need and we don't want it." Leinfellner, who said his special interest is social philosophy, has had considerable experience in studying social relations on a world-wide basis. Wittgenstein Symposium For the past several years he has attended the Wittgen stein Symposium, a yearly gathering in Vienna of over 600 philosophers from around the world. He attended the 1981 symposium Aug. 23 through 30 before returning to teach this semester. He has frequently taught philosophy courses in Europe. Leinfellner has taught in Germany, Austria, Switzerland, and Czechoslavakia. He first came to Nebraska in 1967 and since then has found several social differences between the United States and European countries. "Europe is so liberalized now," he said. "In Vienna, in Germany, everywhere, there is legalized topless swimming in public areas," he said. "The reasoning is if men can swim topless, why can't women? "There is even public nude swimming in Europe, it's legal. If people want to take it all off, nobody cares. Most don't, but about 15 to 20 percent do," he said. Leinfellner said nudity in some public parks in Europe is an example of changing social attitudes. Book exchange turns best fall profits More than $3,000 was made by students during this semester's ASUN Book Exchange, but Dan Renn, ASUN director of records, says he is still disappointed by the turnout. According to Renn, ASUN acts as an intermediary, sell ing the books for students and giving them the money, less 5 percent for advertising expenses. Renn, said this, seme st ex's exchange was ASUK's most successful fall exchange. More than 500 sales were made. But Renn says the figure should be much higher. Library offers tours Tours of Love Library will be offered for the next two weeks, said Kay Crawford, of the Bibliographical Services Staff. The tours, conducted by staff members, are designed to familiarize students with the building layout and the services the library offers. "But if a student comes to the tour with a specific problem - as on a term paper, perhaps - we will be happy to help," Crawford said. The tours replace those formerly conducted by the English department, which have been discontinued, she said. Interested people should meet on the first floor of Love South, to the left of the circulation desk. The tours will be offered twice daily on the following dates: today at 9 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.; Thursday at 10 ajn. and 4 p.m.; Sept. 21, at 10:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.; Sept. 23, at 8:30 ajn. and 3 p.m.; and Sept. 25, at 10:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m. "We're still not getting the word out to the students," he said, "especially the incoming freshmen. "We need to get the message across that students can buy and sell books at the best prices with us, especially paperbacks. "Students are not being paid what they should for their paperbacks. It's a disgrace." But Renn. says he has. higher goals set fox the second, semester book exchange. Among them is to reach between $5,000 and $6,000 in sales. "It's (turnout) usually greater in the spring because more people have heard about it," Renn said. "We're going to go all out and try to contact as many people as possible and convince them to bring in their books during finals week," he said. 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Leinfellner said he approves of couples living together before marriage, provided it is done in the hope of firming a relationship before actual marriage. He said unmarried couples living together actually practice a form of "trial marriage" which can lead to the legal version if the couple is compatible. "My general idea of a 'trial marriage' is where you talk to your partner," he said. "You have to be open minded to your partner to avoid unnecessary suffering. You should maximize your pleasure, but not at the expense of your partner," he said. Leinfellner said communication about social problems is the best way to become informed about them. He said he encourages his students to share their views and experi ences in his class. "If students talk about what's going on, they'll know how to handle things better," he said. fOR CSC6 OF 01D6 6IQiA!2D FlSl? & Q)IPS Jh I 19 7 "O" SC. k f i l t r --"v mi tin r jtn&w 31 C VX.rvT-ir. 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