thursday, february 7, 1980 page 4 daily nebraskan pDnMnJ M No one wants to go to war. The word conjures up images of past days, most notably the Vietnam era and its mandatory draft. But President Carter shocked the nation Jan. 23 with a proposal to reinstate selective service registration. In the aftermath, the shock may turn into a quake if Carter's decision, to be made by Saturday includes women. .Since the military became volunteer, the opportunities for women have extended to all sectors except armed combat. Even though that would leave a large sector of the services unopen to women during a war, in peacetime they have proven competent in non-combat jobs. This says much for the Equal Rights Amendment. Some women have claimed they may get pregnant to evade the draft. The threat of a baby boom would appear to be as much a problem as draft evasion itself. Attitudes of students and other eligible draftees today, though, are different than in the days of massive evasion. There is resistance to any kind of draft, but most say they will back the United States in war because the threat is more direct than in Vietnam. Women can support a war effort as well as men. Admittedly, there are physical differences be-, tween the sexes. Most men are physically stronger than most women. Logically, a country will put its best physical offensive forward, and in the case of humans, that weapon is men. However, other differences between the sexes are not as clear, and there is much agreement that the two can serve equally in- positions requiring intelligence and emotional stability. To include women in registration almost would ensure the passage of ERA by its 1983 deadline. Women's equality would be proven in an area that affects the soul of a nation and its unity . But Congress probably will not and should not go a step further and call on women to fight. That issue rises above women's rights and duties to the greater concern about building the strongest possible national defense. Although none of us want a war, we must not be blind to its possibility. We must also make rational decisions about how to fight it. Women do have a voice. ' Alice Hrnicek f mI2' Suicidal pair of seekers cleans up on ritual of life It's a long way to Tipperary when you can't see straight. Another raucous evening on the wires, and Im being re minded that it's a long, long way to Tipperary even when you can see straight. Standing in an alley with our hands jammed tightly into less than adequate coats, it occurs to me that this is not the time ,to discuss the metaphoric possibilities of melancholy World War 1 songs. 0ML Jason is opposite me-and in more ways than one. More often than not he has played a stunning Neal Cassidy to my poor attempts at a Jack Kerouc. He is screamingly drunk, I am passively squished. He keeps yelling rude comments at the women passing by, and I am extremely embarassed. He enjoys seeing me embarassed, but I don't parti cularly like seeing him this drunk. We've both "been terminal cases all month -moody, angry; standing off to' the side taking everything in with a typically cynical eye. Anyway, the wizard is dead. At least that's what Jason has been saying all night. Long live the wizard. The wizard is dead. It s his response to any inquiry about his health, wealth, or plans for the week. It's as good an answer as any, but it doesn't quite answer the hour's pressing question, 'What do we do now?" Jason gets an evil glint in his eye. I'm all too familiar with those eyes, and I instinctively know that f have less than a minute to head home before I do something 111 regret in the morning. "It's time we formed an all new , Bushido code," he begins, "to clarify our purpose in this basketball town, and to confront our hereditary enemies head-on. Sancho Panza,:my sword." "I think you have your traditions a little mixed up...." 'This is no time to bicker about past perfects," he says, "behold." He points a shaking finger at a small, over-stuffed trash' can against the far wall. "Unsheath your tool Partrocio!". "I'm really confused now". . "There lies the garbage that has des poiled your weekend. The filth that has , made you a stranger among men. Don't forget what it did to your mother!" He lunges head long at the can, and with some effort manages to raise it above his head. Before I can stop him, he dashes it to the ground, and begins kicking the contents in every direction. Flushed and panting great clouds of condensed moisture, he looks like Puff the Magic Dragon. "You look like Puff the Magic Dragon,' I say. Suddenly concerned, I add, "You feeling a little better now?" "Yep. Who am I to question the healing qualities of destroying a trash can? I throw a feeble token kick at the trash, and feel much better. "Son of a gun," I say. 'The only problem is that it still stinks, he says. "That is very true, Jason, but what is left to do? "Ritual suicide," he says. 'We've been commiting ritual suicide all night," I say. "All month, he sighs. Together we pick up the garbage in the alley. We also pick up the smell, and unfortunately are unable to shake it. Fight for women's rights has lost sight of 'equality' As a long-time supporter of various "Women's Rights" movements, it pains me more- than a little to find myself holding the view that the world is pushing on me. I am a near 27-year -old and, being a veteran of the upheavals of the 60s, and wondering whatever happened to those lovely goals of equality that my female friends used to espouse. - Note the word "equality". It has eight letters and comes from the root word "equal." Its idea is (or so I always thought) the same as that indicated by the "" symbol in mathematical equations. Believe it or not, the male of the species will not simply vanish because women bond together in various ways. The answer to a problem is not to ignore it (this is call ed 'suppression' in psychological parlance a word right-wing female activists seem very fond of using and whose real meaning they might do well to ponder) but rather .to deal with it. The devaluation of a human being because of sex is suppression, which. ever gender happens to be performing it. In That many women are unhappy and un fulfilled is doubtless true. That many men find .themselves equally unhappy and unfulfilled is equally true. And that no single group, male or female, sat down one day and plotted new and imaginative ways to ruin the other groups' lives should be obvious. - ' If you, the reader are at this point nodding your head and thinking, "I know, I know"; congratulations. If however, you are mentally mouthing the words ". . .male chauvinist pig", "silly male" or some such gibberish, then it is to you, precisely, that I am addressing this letter. Let me speak to you directly if you find all of what I have said obviously untrue. Please leave me alone. If your object is to create more of your "enemy", let me tell you that you're doing a fine job. You should remember that if you tell someone almost anything often enough, they'll begin to believe it. I only wish that you'd go off somewhere by yourselves and find mat un so perfect society without men" short, I and a growing number of males are that you seem to believe in and leave the rest of us in peace. If, however, you sincerely wan t to solve the problem of male-female relations and or women's social and economic status, I think you're blowing it. There is a very large, and very real, reaction to extremist women's rights movements hovering in the wings. Several men I know have given up sex almost entirely because of boredom wkh the "lib" rhetoric. Male homosexu- is on the increase, and there are sick of the title of growing very 'chauvinist . To me, and to many other men, it is a self-evident fact that woman is man's caual in all ways, and that the reverse also holds auty true. If women's riehts movements are to people like myself who are auite hetcro- be, and stay, successful, it is about time to sexual, but quite bored. We like intelligent drop the catchword of 'chauvinist' (a word women but don't need . any more applied to any male who has the temerity repetitious "lib" rhetoric, to differ with female activists and in any If you happen to be a woman, and find way) as well as the boringly repetitive yourself somewhat offended by this letter, classification of all men as insensitive to GOOD. And if you don't enjoy this feel- the needs of women and incapable of ing, perhaps you now realize how little I understanding their problems. enjoy my tax and tuition dollars being used Such statements seem to me to reflect t0 finance institutions and events whose the assumption that men have no problems purpose, it sometimes seems, it to spread and, since we all know women are not out the gospel of sexism of the female variety, to hurt men's feelings, that men have none Exactly why is the very concept so to worry about. Well, surprise! We do. The foreign? word "equality," by its very nature, There is a definite problem here which implies differences but sameness and as j i . . , . Maurice Chevalier used to say, 'Viva la 4nLeeds Pnly be looked at properly. That difference!'. tnere 1S a difference between men and I think a bit of caution regarding the women is quite obvious' This however, is type and scope of coverage of the progress not. neressarily a hindrance to communi- of women's rights groups is in order Tout- catlon Qlc the reverse is true. According ing female sensitivity in the face of men's t0 most systems of logic, objectivity is brutishness is not the best way to get our neccssary a problem is to be clearly (men's) cooperation toward women's goals defined Arid rce properly defined, the of equality. And such cooperation is answer to a problem can be arrived at. necessary. So how about using this difference If the preceding statement seems an between men and women, rather than exaggeration to anyone reading this letter "fbling aout it? Being too closed, too think for a moment how many news stories' subjective with problem-solving has been on television, in magazines, newspapers cause many a ridiculous mistake, etc., you have seen in which men are re' Tat women face problems in our presented, directly or indirectly, as evil gar- sciety ,s self-evident. The question is, are goyles brandishing the whips and chains of ese Pr0Dlcms to be solved, or exploited? the oppressor. And oh, the poor suiTerinff . a housewives who, by defmition. are so v5 . Jick ? A"dc"on unsatisfied hnth .yiik, ..rJ .ry Junior. Teachers College rawnionauy. Enclish Maior 0