page 14 daily nebraskan Wednesday, march 9, 1977 Men coaching woman athletes; are there really differences? By Mike McCarthy A slap on the behind or a squeezing bear hug, often characterizes a coach's pleasure with an athlete's performance. And a humiliating scolding often shows his dis pleasure with the ballplayer, , But if George Nicodemus was seen giving one of his players an aggressive bear hug, some eyebrows might be raised. - Nicodemus is UNL's women basketball and Softball coach. But Nicodemus, who coached boys for 17 years, said the "gen der" problems that occur are minor. , He is joined by UNL women's swim ming coach Ray Huppert. ; Nicodemus said he has a female manager that notifies, him when the women are done putting on their uniforms before a practice or a game. "But if the manager isnt around, I just yell 'Are you ready?' and knock on the locker room door," Nicodemus added. "It's no problem at all," And what does he do at halftime? "Well, I usually wont go to ihe locker room for about four minutes," he said. X)ne reason is to regroup my thinking so I can calm down and don't say something s off the top of my head. The second reason is to let the girls do what they have to do." "I know where I stand when it conies to the lockerroom." Never 'slapped a rump' But Nicodemus said he has never "slap ped a rump" or "bear-hugged" a girl at UNL or when he coached at the now de funct John F. Kennedy College in Wahoo. "I don't do that," he said. "In my excitement during games at JFK. I think more girls have grabbed me than I did them." Nicodemus said he has used foul lan guage only once. "I said 'damn' to the girls when I first started coaching (at JFK), he said, "and I apologized to them for saying it." Nicodemus said he treats girls the same as boys, and he sees no difference between coaching the two. v "I don't expect girls to dunk a basket ball, but I do expect them to play up to their abilities," he added. Training rules forbidding liquor and smoking also might present difficulty for a coach to enforce. But Nicodemus has the same punishment for. boys and girls, if they're caught breaking regulations. They are off the team, he said. "I learned a lesson from a coach of mine a long time ago," Nicodemus said. "He said 'You can run the beer out of them, but not the nicotine'." . Kicked player off team Nicodemus said he kicked an all-Ameri-can woman basketball player off the team for breaking regulations, and the team went on to a championship season. He added he" doesn't think women necessarily coach women sports better than men. "I'm not saying women can't do a good job of coaching sports, but you don't see men saying, Oh, let's get this practice over, I got a hair appointment at 5." "Women coaches are not yet willing to place their coaching ahead of their home," he added. However, Nicodemus said, he thinks that trend will change as women's sports become as widespread as men's. "The point is that a coaching job should go to the best qualified person, regard less of sex, he added. 'I make this comparison. If women should be coached by women, then why dont women go to women bankers, doc tors or lawyers?" - Ray Huppert, UNL women's swimming and diving coach, agreed with Nicodemus that women's and men's sports require similar coaching. But Huppert said women are more emotional. "They cry when they're happy and when they're sad. Yet, a good coach should understand, whether its boys or girls, that they are dealing with individuals," Hup pert said. Huppert added that he has never resort ed to physical or verbal abuse when dis ciplining a woman swimmer. Watches his language "I most certainly watch my language, whether it's a girl or a boy," he said. U i1- ' ' n . - o t J V i . Husker women's basketball coach George coaching women. "I'm not a saint, and I have used damn be fore, but I catch myself and get upset, "I've seen male coaches at this univer sity use four-letter words right and left with guys," he said. "But what are they accomplishing." Huppert said he never walked into an embarrassing situation in the girls locker room, but he 1ias to be very careful." like Nicodemus, Huppert uses the man ager and knockon-the-door system when entering the dressing room. However, unlike Nicodemus, Huppert said he "shakes and slaps hands when a swimmer has a good swimming time. When there is sorrow, I put an arm around her shoulder " i . - . Training rules are the same for Huppert, Photo by Ted Kiric Nicodemus talks of the problems of men whether he is coaching men or women. "Just because I coach girls, I dont 'change the rules," he said, "My policy stands," "On road trips, we represent the univer sity use four-letter words right and Jeft Girls should recognize they shouldntgo overboard. "They wont be able to handle our pro gram and 6 a.m. practices if they're in the bars drinking all night." Huppert said he is uncertain how much to expect from a woman swimmer. "I wonder how far and how much I can demand out of a girl. I am not sure how far you can push a girl. You can push a boy nine to 10,000 yards in swimming in two hours. But with girls, I just dont know." UNL runner now recognized for more than red socks By Rob Barney He said the red socks were supposed to make him more recognizable. " The socks might not be the answer, but senior track ster Matt Reckmeyer has become one of the most notable figures on this year's UNL team. "The socks were just something I joked about. I said I would wear them because I was finishing where people couldnt see me," Reckmeyer said. "They've been a good luck charm for me. They set me apart as an individual. I dont know if that's why I'm doing better, but IU keep wearing them for now." Reckmeyer has come into his own this season. He fin ished second in the 1 ,000-yard run at the Big 8 Confer ence meet two weeks ago at the UNL Sports Complex. "That was my highest finish ever," he said. "Last year I failed to qualify (in the 1 JD00). I did place sixth or seventh in the mile." He qualified for the NCAA indoor championship in the 1,000-yard run last weekend in Detroit. His 2:10.4 time in the event in a triangular against the Air Force Academy and Drake University beat the national qualifying time of 2:105. 0 However, the Mt. Morris, El., native said he does not think hell compete in that rice this weekend. He plans to compete just in the two-mile relay event. "Both of the events have prelims and finals. That would be four races in two days and that would be pretty taxing so 111 just run in the relay. Reckmeyer has had success running in relays at De troit's Cobr via. Last year, he was a member of the distance medley relay team that finished fifth at the meet, "This year there are four different guys in the dis tance medley," Reckmeyer said. "My goal is to place high in the two-mile relay. I think we should be right in there." Reckmeyer said the Huskers' two-mile relay team had the fourth fastest time in the nation when it qualified for the nationals. Two consecutive years at nationals cannot be too bad for a person who was not even going to run track in col lege. T originally hadnt considered running track in col lege," Reckmeyer said. "Things fell together my senior year in high school and when I was offered a scholarship to help finance my education, I decided to run. I'm glad I did." He said he chose Nebraska because of the Pharmacy College and a partial scholarship offered to him by head track coach Frank Sevigne. Reckmeyer has postponed Pharmacy College plans for now, but he has been accepted to the University of Neb raska Medical Center. "When they transferred the Pharmacy College to Omaha I didn't want to commute and I wanted to run my r 1 fV; - o Vie szzior llxtt Reckmeyer, wearkg Lis favorite red rcki, crosses CctiSzTzzss Izioct Tisdc tnd FkU CkzrploTs&'. i Photo by Tf Kifit the firJJi line to second place a the V.g 8 senior year, so I requested a year leave of absence. "I'm going to forego pharmacy for now and try medi cine. I was accepted to med school at Omaha and I plan to start in July." Myles joins Buckeyes UNL lost its third assistant football coach in as many months Monday when linebacker coach Bill Myles an nounced his resignation from head football coach Tom Osborne's staff. Myles, a five-year member of the Husker coaching staff, accepted the offensive line coaching job at Ohio State University under head coach Woody Hayes. Two months ago, defensive back coach Warren Powers left UNL to become the head coach at Washington State University, and defensive coordinator Monte Kiffin accepted the post of defensive coordinator at the Univer sity of Arkansas. . "I was surprised that coach Hayes contacted me," Myles said. "I wasn't seeking the job. Coach Hayes got a hold of me a week ago last Friday and then he and Coach Osborne got together. "Ohio State is one of the few places you'd leave Neb raska to go to," Myles said. "Professionally you cant coach at two finer schools." Myles, whose duties at UNL included , coaching the offensive line for two years, will leave for the Buckeye campus next week. "I think its a great move professionally, for my family andfor educational opportunities," Myles said. "It will give me a chance to coach in another confer ence and to learn another system. And I know I was hired " as a coach because there is already a black coach on coach Hayes' staff." Ohio State will be Myles second college job. He coached high school ball for seven years in Kansas Gty, Mo., compiling a 45-20-3 record. Myles said his slay at UNL was a pleasant one. "It was a pleasure to work with the fine coaching staff," he said. '1 think I benefitted from being able to work with ail of the coaches on the staff. And it was a privilege to work with the great athletes here." Woog, not Wilcox The remarks in Monday's Daily Nebraikan tennis arti cle, Husker tennis players snare weekend victories" were incorrect attributed to Chris Wilcox. The remarks were made by Phil Woog, not Wilcox.