Valentine Democrat. (Valentine, Neb.) 1900-1930, December 17, 1908, Image 2
TIic Sen * i live AVouinii. Woman's -whole character is formed by the endurance of necessary evils , fcays a clever woman writer in Black and White. The little girl's wishes and predilections are set aside from earliest Pouth in favor of her brother's. It is T' , he who decides the games , who makes t her field , or howl , or run ; who , if thtf i play horses , drives the team ; who has i most money , most presents , most au dacity and most liherty. When they * frow older , it is he who has the best ' . Blasters , the finest education , for whom all is done , on whom the family pride and triumph center , and who scolds his Bister for a milksop if she cries when he pinches her. The mother sets aside her happiness for her children : it is Bhe who wheedles the paterfamilias out Of the necessary money for boots and Rocks , hats and ribbons , who dresses the girls at the cost of her own toilette , und saves up her pin money to increase the sailor boy's allowance. If she is sensitive she conceals the fact , imposes violence on her nerves and bears as scientific tuni of mind interesting them selves in work of this kind. But for the presence of his wife Dr. Seligman would have been unable to secure many of the facts which he has accumulated. The Veddas. who live in caves , are ex tremely averse to having white men visit their families , but Mrs. Seligman was warmly welcomed among them , and among other things she collected records of the soups of the women and girls. They took the greatest delight in the phonograph , and hearing their songs and lullabies repeated by the in strument. IlaiiiMh the Pent her lied. Do you still sleep on feather beds ? You do , because mother gave them to you for a part of your wedding "set- out. " Discard them. They are not sanitary , because they allow the body to sink down so deep that the air can not circulate about it. and that is not for good health. The bed should be set out a little from the walls , so there will be a free circulation of air all ana plainer , with button trimming much In evidence. Opossum fur is the latest cry in Paris for coat collars , cuffs , revers , linings and waistcoats. The automobile is responsible for the array of long coats with which furriers are provided. A feature of empire and directoire evening gowns is a fringe placed exact ly on the edge of the hem. A new combination is brown and gray , but these must have something in common and must not clash. In slippers the tendency is toward lower cuts and trimmings of rosettes and cut steel or rhinestone buckles. One of the prettiest novelties in shirt waists is an almost infinitesimal valen- ciennes insertion ii the yokes. Though directoire styles still govern , they are much softened and toned down by strong forecasts of the early empire. The long mosquetaire and leg-o'-mut- ton sleeves are the most important characteristics of the newest fashion in shirt waists. Dressy black coats come in directoire lines fashioned of ottoman silk , satin , velour , with large revers and rich braidings. If you are in doubt about what kind of a waist to get to go with a good- looking coat and skirt , you cannot go NEW IDEAS FOR WALKING SUITS. & " ' Tl ! best she can the noise and uproar that ttiust never disturb father. The uneducated woman has often the lulckest perception , the finest tact , the most vivid sensibility ; she will feel , Without speaking , she understands your Inmost thoughts , she is en rapport with POU spiritually , she knows without being told. The supremely human tvoman , she who is most alive , most herself , is also the most sensitive. Who floes not know at least one sweet soul to whom everybody turns when in diffi culty , who receives the love confidences of the boy , the whispered worries of the -woman , the diplomatic , political B.nd social annoyances of the man. women who are accused of petticoat government , but to whose exquisite tact dnd unselfishness sensitiveness and del icacy are due the reunion of families , the blnding-up of broken hearts , the forgiveness of sins and the bright hopes f Joy hereafter ? Thought * . It Is very important to cultivate busi nesslike habits. An eminent friend of mine assured me not long airo that when he thought over the many cases he had known of men. even of good ability and high character , who had been unsuccessful in life , by far the most frequent cause of failure was that they were dilatory , unpunctual. unable to work cordially with others , obstinate In small things , and. in fact , what we call unbusinesslike. Lord Avebury. "Women in El Sinology. The recent investigations of Dr. C. < ; . fieligman among the Veddas of Ceylon , and the great importance of the aid which Dr. Sellgnmn's wife was able to give him , led Mr. A. C. Iladdon to point out tlia desirability of women of a around it. And the mattress should not be too soft , if you would sleep com fortably. The covers should be light and not heavy and soggy. Heavy cov ers absorb perspiration and are not as warm as light ones , provided the latter are made of the right kind of material. I believe that many cases of tuberculosis can be traced to feather beds and heavy covers. To Prevent Hunting : . It Is better to use wooden pegs in bath rooms or kitchens where damp towels or cloths are apt to be hung , otherwise the linen may rust from the iron. If iron hooks are already In place and it is not convenient to change them , give them a coat of white enamel paint. It prevents danger of rusting and Is much less unsightly against the paper. If the linen has already boon rusted it may be removed by rubbing with lemon juice and salt. Many of the new skirts are crossed in the front. The neck outline of bodices is likely to grow higher. Sleeves are all long , so long gloves are worn only in the evening. Little neck pieces , composed of fur bands and rufiles , are the thing just now. now.Tailored Tailored suits grow longer , tighter wrong in choosing colored chiffon cloth to match the suit. In spite of the powerful directoire vogue , tunic skirts and Grecian folds still have a distinct place in the styles of the day. A loose coat of showerproof tweed should never be omitted from the school outfit It will prove a boon when the weather is bad. When Forced to Re.st. When one has a resting time forced upon her , is the psychological moment to get busy with the hair. Every worn an knows the benefits of tonic treat ments , but every woman knows equally well what a sight she is during the pro cess. Therefore , Instead of bemoaning when the baby gets the measles or Ruth and Bob come down with chicken pox , shutting you in the house , improve the opportunity to strengthen your locks. You can even resort to crude petroleum without afllicting callers. Separate the hair into strands and ap ply tonics nightly without fear of flat tening ; rub in vaseline often , and let the hair hang for ventilation. Prevent Dampness In Bed. To prevent a bed which is left unused for a week or so becoming damp , lay a blanket on top of the other clothes when the bed is made. Take this blanket off before using , and you will find the bed quite safe to use. Oil Lamps. A small lump of camphor gum in the body of the lamp will greatly improve the light and make the flame clearer and brighter. Some say that occasion ally a few drops of vinegar will give the same results. Oh , brown-eyed boy , with hair of gold , Ah , why this thoughtful pause From games and toys and soldiers bold ? Laddie , Is It because They've tried to rob you of the faith You had In Santa Claus ? Has all the blue gone from the skies , The sunshine from the day ? Must sudden tears start in your eyes At Idle words we say ? Is childhood's fclth Indeed so sweet That years would drive away ? Are thcro no reindeer champing still , . No dream-sleigh flying past ? No sliver bells that throb and ttirill Adown the winter's blast ? Must every dream of boyhood days Have waking time at last ? Ah , laddie , check the sob that chokes. The doubt that overawes. The worldly-wisdom that revokes A faith In childish laws ; 80 long as there are loving hearts There'll be Santa Claus. HOLLY DECOHATIONS. How to Trim the Housn tvith Greens For Christum * . These are the most time honored and the most handsome of all Christ mas decorations , says the Chicago Tribune. The doorway into the dinIng - Ing room may be transformed with a long rope of evergreens and some holly berries. The rope may be draped about the door and perhaps carried over the framework of a window and brought down to the edge of a mantel piece. The other end will perhaps be looped back and brought over a brass sconce , then fastened with a bunch of holly tied with a streaming scarlet rib bon. bon.From From another doorway , also draped with hemlock rope , suspend a Christ mas bell of holly , with mistletoe for a clapper , which will involve many en tertaining complications during the festal day. A coarse fish net tacked along the side of a stairway and stuck with branches of holly and laurel branches of laurel and cedar , becomes charming. Wreaths of laurel and holly tied with scarlet ribbons are beautiful in the windows ; one on the front door just below the knocker , when there is a knocker , is delightful. A row of little pine trees breast high along each side of a wide wall is one woman's effective Christmas treatment of her home. Anywhere and everywhere belong the rope of hemlock and holly bunches , which are as appropriate to a 2 by 4 flat as to a twenty roomed mansion. A Nuremburg Christinas tree is a distinct beauty on a Christmas drawIng - Ing room or at a children's Christmas table. It is made of stiff green wire , covered with green , and comes in a wooden pot and measures three feet or less. It is a blaze of cheerful glory when lighted aid can be folded and packed away and rise again for many successive Christmases. FESTIVAL OF THE NATIVITY. XVn.s Observed at Very Early Time in History of Church. The festival of Christmas was ob served at a very early period in the church , as Indeed It could hardly but be ; for that which brought the joy of angels within reach of men's ears could not but have been devoutly and joyously remembered by Christians , year by year , when they came fully to understand the greatness of the event. It Is most fit that the season so marked out by angels by songs of joy , such as had not been heard on earth since the creation , should also be observed as a time of festive gladness by the church , and In the social life of Christians. Christ Himself instituted this festival when He sanctified the day by then first revealing His human nature to the eyes of mankind. The holy angels witnessed to its separation forever as a day of days , when they proclaimed the glory that was then offered to God In the highest by the restoration of perfect manhood In the virgin-born Jesus , and the peace that was brought among men on earth through the re union of their nature to God. It Is to the nativity of our Lord that all the pages of the Bible point as the center on which everything there re corded turns. Fnrtana Telling on Xevr Year's Eve. Fortune telling obtains in rural Ger- nany on New Year's eve. The young ocople , who gather to peer together Into the future , melt a little lead in a long ii.-indled ladle. The person who grasps the handle then pours the molten metal Into a pail of water , standing well back BO as not to be scalded by the splash ing water and steam , for the striking of the lead upon the water produces almost the effect of an explosion. If the lead congeals into any shape that can be construed as like a star It is a good augury. If a film gathers on the surface it means money. Any old woman who is an expert seer can see In the metal and water sure signs of coming marriage , long journeys , sick ness or death. The ability to read these riddles Is supposed to descend by in heritance from mother to daughter. Chunked History of World. The history of the world prior to Christ is a history of barbarism , cruel ty and bloodshed. Head the history of Babylon , Persia , Greece and Home and you read a history of vice , deg radation and crime. A history that is written in blood and iniquity. The dassic Greeks and tenacious Romans worshiped a multidude of gods. Even the inhabitants of Syria had gone astray until it was declared by the prophet. Our worthy ancestors , the Teutonics , were a semi-barbarous people ple , without literature , without govern ment , without refinement and without religion , but when they received the glad tidings of the gospel of Christ their habits were changed , their man ners refined and their civilization im proved. Wherever this gospel Is pro claimed it is as a well of water spring ing up Into everlasting life. CAN BE MADE AT HOME. For the deft fingers and quick eye of the practical woman who can sew there are many pretty devices that car. be made In the evening at home , tha't are beautiful as Christmas gifts , at.d are generally prized more highly by their recipients than those bought an GIFTS ACCEl'TAIinE. the stores. Besides this , they are -e-'y much less expensive than the store- made articles. One very simple and inexpensive lit tle affair is a hair receiver , made of white lawn or dimity. It is tucked in clusters , and takes one yard and a half of satin ribbon run throuirh the top. Warm bedroom slippers have for time out of count boon a favorit" holi day present to be made at home. The KEI3S KRINGIE'S TAMD5M. tjBd Last year my carriage ran by steain , The year before by air. And then I used the trolley cars , To take me everywhere. cut shows a pair made of double faced eiderdown flannel , pink and white. Mo tives of point de Venice lace are used to trim the slippers , in connection with tiny blue ribbon bows. Wash-rags made of Turkish toweling either white or colored , are another suggestion to the home-worker for Christmas. These are finished with a crocheted border or edge , made of a small shell stitch , either of cotton or zephyr. The accompanying Illusb'a- tion shows a white wash-rag , with edge of vaciegated blue cotton thread. useful gift is An all-the-year-round the housewife , or needle case , made of silk or velvet. Striped stuffs or Dolly Varden ribbon are both pretty to make these of. Pale colored silk or satin is used for the lining and very narrow ribbon to tie it with , for the binding of the case. The needle case in the cut shows a pocket for thread , made of satin like the lining , and the emery roll and needle book of gray flannel , brier stitch ed with silk. Straps , buttonholed with silk , are made to hold the thimble and scissors. Dainty little accessories for the gen eral costume can be made at home. Something of the milliner's skill wouM be required to make the- pretty sa h bow shown here. The stock shown in the cut illustrates very acceptable gift ? for any dainty maid or matron to give or receive. A Ilemiiider for lnpn. 'ihe children were making their plans for Christmas , and their mother was helping them , while their father was deep in his evening paper. But he could hear , and this what he heard : "What are you going to give papa ? " asked the mother. "I think , " said the eldest , thought fully , "that I will give him an alarm clock. " "An alarm clock ! " exclaimed the mother. "Why do you want to give him an alarm clock ? " "Because , " answered the child , with an earnestness that showed she had given the matter some thought , "if he clock at the office has an alarm is time to come it when he will know Evening home to dinners-Chicago Post. \ THE NEW YEAK ZN JAPAN. MH 1 ° Ha to the The Dav When o'ClocU. Oei Up at 5 New Year : customs Quaint and curious the 1st or toms exist in Japan , where with a religions commences January festival celebrated at 5 in the morning. dressed In At this time the Mikado , from tne Japanese costume , proceeds palace , followed by his deputies arrayed in ancient style and.the foreign diplomats . He enters a mats in regalia dress. small building or temple , prostrates . west , north and himself to th ? east. south , and all present pray for the prosperity of the nation. breakfast the ceremonial loiter at a their Emperor and Empress receive family and court for three hours , the rooms being thronged. At the expira tion of that time the real year begins , and a formal luncheon is served from which each guest is expected to take a cup and saucer as a souvenir. Among the people the earth and heaven are propitiated by offerings of rice and vegetables , and strips of red paper are pasted on the doors as a sign of good luck. This color is used exclusively save in cases where a death has occurred within a year , when blue paper is used instead of red. The day ends with people still saluting each other and attending the plays at the theaters , where gorgeous robes and monotonous voices are the distinguishing features. New York World. IIiN Three Chrlstmase.s. Bethlehem is the only place on earth which celebrates Christmastide three times each year. The inhabitants of the . -ity are almost all Latins , Greeks and Armenians. The Latins keep the festival < m December LT . The Greek Catholics celebrate it 1- days later , maintaining the old style calendar. The Armenians observe Epiphany in place of Christmas. Thus the people of the "Inil City" enjoy a prolonged fete as the old year is ending and the new be- ginntntr. But the processions of pil grims of each of the faiths alike re pair < ! Christmas eve to the hallo-.ved traditional fields where the angelic hof-ts saluted the shepherds. Tnlkiiiv ; ij Christina * . They're talking of the Christmas "Hovv loni : isit. . an' when Will Sjinty Clans be eomin' down the ' himney place asjain ? " For the toy stores are open their glit But now I'm old and mean to use My old-time sleigh and deer To carry proems far and wide And scatter Christmas cheer. toriiig : wares in line. And they win their hearts , old fellow , like they once did yours and mine ! They're talking of the Christmas "To morrow will it be ? Is Santy Clans in Greenland ? Is he comin * 'crost the sea ? Will he have a heap more reindeer ? A bigger load of toys ? " The time files fast , old fellow , but th boys are still the boys ! They're talkin1 of the Christmas its glories and its gleams ; It's with them in their waking , it sings to them in dreams ; And the Christmas stars will twinkle the Christmas skies aglow Same stars and skies , old fellow , we loved so long ago ! Atlanta Constitution. TIME IS MONEY. 'fe ! : iMpfA : J i fl . ® ji - tti / ? - : a = iS j is'sa ; > > < Chimniie ( of Bleecker street ) o dis I hear ' 'bout yer joinm' a Sunday school class , Slobsy ? Slobsy ( of Baxter street-Dat's ) aHnght See ' ? Clirls'mus is ' a-comin' . Chimmie Yes ' ' ; an' w'ile ' yer wastin' yer good time in a church ' waitin' for a candy-cane yer mlgllt bc luakin , two dollars in col-3 cash sobbin' on a street corner.