r I 41 5- v THE WIFES SHARE have a poor opinion of the WE we care not how poor - or how well-to-do he is that r does i not acknowledge that his wife has a share in the income of the farm The man who acknowledges this in words and does not give by actually passing into the wifes hand some of the share does her a rank injustice We are aware some men excuse them selves by saying that it is all in the family anyway or women are no managers Both are very slim excuses What man who has worked hard would like it when the few dollars come in that the toil produced should his wife take them and use them all in buying a sewing machine an extra cloak and half a dozen plated spoons which are all in the family when the liusband has set his mind upon having -a good new jackknife when those hogs are sold She has the right to do it as much so as the man has to buy a feed cutter an extra rubber coat and a whip when the wife had her heart upon having a pair of kid gloves That women are poor managers is proven false every day Many a suc cessful man owes his success to his wifes good management and many more would be successful if they left more of their affairs to the judgment and management of the wife It is a burning shame the treatment some women get in the money matters of the copartnership made at mar riage We do not believe in marriages for a money consideration but hold that many a woman would be happier had the promise to love cherish and keep been carried a little further or made more specific so as to have obli gated to a literal sharing of the money be it little or much An extreme case was brought to our attention a few days ago A farm wTas to be sold and after the deed was made out the wife hesitated before -signing it When asked why she re plied Before signing that paper and lier voice grew steady and firm I want to know what my shares to be Ive worked as hard as father all these years on the farm and Ive pinched and managed and earned whatevers to be paid for it as much as he and I want a set sum thats all mine and that I can hold in my own hands and have belong to me alone The law yer who made out the paper saw deter mination in the tone and manner and acknowledged her right and asked her how much she considered her share I thought of that too she replied Its been forty years a good forty years for we took the farm in the fall and this is spring and it seems to me her voice broke a little at this criti cal moment it seems to me she re plied as if Id ought to have 20 That is a true statement of a recent happening Think of it man A wom an so belittled by forty years unrecom pensed servitude that she called 20 a f air considerationfor her services Man are you degrading your wife to such a position Farm Field and Fireside Revenue Officer in Skirts Miss Lucy E Ball has just been ap pointed chief of the spirits department by Collector Kelly of the Brooklyn in ternal revenue office There is only one other woman in the United States folding a similar position The new chief is a pretty girl with dark hair and blue eyes and a face that is full of wSmttjM MISS LUCT E BALL intelligence She lives with her par ents at 3062 Dean street Brooklyn Four or five years ago she entered the service of the internal revenue depart ment in Greensboro X C the heart of the moonshining district In 1S94 Collector Healey appointed her as a deputy in the Brooklyn office She was -afterward in charge of the income tax department while that law was in op eration Lately she has been keeping acpounts of brewers and cigar manu facturers Her new duties will be in relation to the distilleries of the dis trict The Lovable Woman Tory lovely and lovable is thewoman who has cultivated a disposition angel ic enough the good and not the evil side of human nature who can be severe with her own failings and ex cuse the faults of others We are told that she is a dull uninteresting crea ture and if we take the trouble to look linto the master we find thatshe does not laugh at her neighbors pet weak ness she does not enjoy hitting out right and left at the world at large and is always ready with a plea for unseen and unsuspected reasons which if they could be revealed would go a long way toward modifying harsh judgment Our lovable woman may not be witty she may be a little prosy but she it is to whom we go when in trou ble for sympathy and confide with a feeling that our secret will not be torn to shreds as soon as our back is turned CurJs and Crimps in Profusion If nature has been niggardly in the matter of curls woman must hie her to the hairdresses this season to entreat him to make good the deficiency For curls of all sorts and conditions are all to be popular The only thing which is tabooed is the smoothly drawn Madonna-like coiffure which has beei the solace of the indolent woman for a season or two Pompadour combs help to give the roll its stability They are fastened in the hair in such a way as to press the fluffy puff out toward the face instead of in from it When the hair is worn a la pompadour as far as y IM ffy - HAIRDRESSIXG the facially decorative part is concern ed the back hair is generally gathered up on the top of the head There it is coiled loosely and roundly instead of in the pertly erect and narrow fashion recently prevailing In deference to the rage for curls the ends of the coils are oftentimes free Simultaneously with the announcement from the hair dressers that the hair must be curled comes the declaration from hygienists that the curling iron must go It is branded as the deadliest foe to softness and fineness of the locks This would be a particularly discouraging conflict but for the fact that the makers of kid curlers have devised an almost pictur esque method of curling the hair The little inoffensive kid curlers are all provided with narrow ribbons which tie in dainty little bows all over the head Louisiana Bachelors in Peril The palladium of the Louisiana bach elors liberty has been ruthlessly swept away by a recent decision in the Uni ted States Circuit Court and if he has not taken to the woods he is at least as circumspect in his dealings with the fair sex as a Quaker The civil law in that State has always frowned on breach of promise suits and refused to recognize them A certain Mrs Cheek however finding that her vener able suitor Herman Pilger would not fulfill his promise to many her brought suit against him in the Federal courts and recovered heavy damages against him The decision may bring to light many hundred breach of promise suits which have lain dormant for years be cause the State law recognized no dan ages for a bruised heart Equality of Sexes The new woman should take her way to Burmah There travelers say is the only place on earth where true equality between the sexes exists In spite of this it is claimed no women are more womanly than the Burmese -women whose good sense enables them to perceive the line where they ought to stop In the higher classes a woman has property of her own and manages it herself In the lower classes she al ways has a trade and runs her busi ness on her own responsibility The sexes choose their own occupations and it is curious to see the men times sewing and embroidering while the women have nearly all the retail trade of the island on their hands Ex change 1 Make It Yourself Lanoline cream which is considered excellent as an emollient for the skin may be made as follows Obtain half a pint of lanoline and half a pint of pure oil of sweet almonds Then put ting a tablespoonful on a china plate add an equal quantity of almond oil mix thoroughly and add from half a teaspoonf ul to a teaspoonf ul of tincture of benzoin until the paste drips from the knife a steel caseknife is best for the mixing process in about the con sistency of thick cream All three of these ingredients are absolutely harm less It should be rubbed in at night American Girl Who Surprised Paris The fete recently given by the Coun tess Castellane formerly Miss Anna Gould was one of the most elaborate ever seen in Paris Three thousand in vitations were issued and the cost of the fete was not far from 100000 The event was planned to reproduce the fifth day of the fetes celebrated at Ver sailles on the occasion of the marriage of Louis XIV with Maria Theresa of Austria Whist is as dissipated as whisky and less fun - EDUCATI0NALC0LUMN NOTES ABOUT SCHOOLS AND THEIR MANAGEMENT Importance of Guarding the Health of School Children Whole Number of PupilB in the United States Child Should Not Be Crowded with Work Health in the Public Schools The recent action of the San Fran cisco Board of Education in excluding children of consumptive tendencies from the public schools has naturally provoked much comment That the board is justified in taking all possible precautions to protect the health of school children no one will question That the dread disease consumption is remarkably prevalent among all classes of the population is also admit ted but that at present there is any more reason to fear consumptive con tagion in the schools than there has been during past years is a matter that only detailed investigation may dis close The health office records for the fiscal year 1894 95 show that the per centage of deaths from consumption during that period of children of school age was about 1 in 1000 Those fig ures are not alarming but the school authorities act wisely in making ju dicious restrictions which may operate to check any increase in that percent age The common sense view of the mat ter is says the Examiner tint children of apparent consumptive tendencies should not be confined in a school room Health should ever take precedence over learning and the sound body must go with the sound mind Entirely for reasons of self protection such chil dren should secure the panacea cf open air life The ill ventilated often overcrowded school room is not the place for a child to battle with the germs of inherited disease And this suggests that the school directors may wisely look into other sanitary prob lems of fully as great concern There should be absolutely no opportunity for the germ of typhoid to gain a lodg ment School rooms should not be over crowded Ventilation that architec tural problem which up to the past ten 3ears received but little attention in the erection of school structures should be looked into most carefully Calisthenics and a general and system atic course in physical culture should be given more attention than at pres ent These suggestions are only in liue with reforms in the best Eastern public schools such as those of Boston and Cleveland In the primary and second ary schools as well as in the college the pale faced dig is no longer the fash ion The best body produces the best mind The Use of Got A writer some months ago in a West ern school journal said So much has been said and written on the word got that many a pupil thinks it is a word to be shunned Much of the teaching concerning this word is intemperate teaching therefore untrue with all of which I agree There is no doubt that got is a much abused word and that it is often incor rectly used especially in the sense of have How often we hear it used in this way How much money have you got I have got only a dollar I havent any change Have you got a match about you are familiar examples of a common but erroneous use of the word got in the sense of have or possess and it is right that this use of the word should be criticised and condemned The true use of got is that in which the word signifies to get or acquire It is therefore correct to say I have got ten or I have got my lesson A pupil is told to get a book or a pencil he may reply correctly I got it or I ave gotten it In a similar manner ne may say I got a chair for the teacher I got my lesson or even I have got a chair for the teacher and be strictly correct in his use of language because in each case the word has the sense of secured or acquired I am not one of those who believe that because an incorrect form is used by a writer who is usually correct that it should therefore be sanctioned and I therefore cannot indorse the expres sion credited to Emerson nd pres ently because they have got the taste etc It is not good English even though it be Emersonian When Thackeray says What have men of letters jot in our time he uses the word correctly for here it signifies acquired Of course there are many uses of got which do not fall under either of the cases so far discussed Thus Dickens sayjs Th guard shot thron dead and then got shot cfead by the other four The meaning here is was In the sen tence He got appointed we have the same meaning if it indeed is not an abridgment of He got himself ap pointed as we would say He got himself a new suit of cloches This idiomatic use of got may not be incorrect and indeed I have no serious objections to the use of got in the sen e of obligation as We have got to go We have got to swim or we shall drown though I prefer the form We must swim or we shall drown The use of got to which all gram marians will however agree to make objection is that in wnich it is made to denote possession as in the sentences before quoted In teaching our pupils the correct use of rhis word like all others let us see that they understand the reason for the doctrine they be lieve Ex Teacher in Educational Xews Dont Crowd Do not crowd the child with work take things slowly and steer clear of any forcing process Long lessons and an endless repetition of the same kind of work will be sure to crush the inter jest and sympathy of the young mind The system of education that sacrifices the child for the glory of the school or the teacher Is radically wrong in prin ciple and a danger to society To dig nify such clumsy attempts in the schoolroom by the name of teaching is a burning shame The whole business of sending children home at night to worry over lessons for the next day should be wiped out Parents should not tolerate a practice that is grinding the system of the child into a bundle of nerves Six hours in school closely confined to work and several hours more at home at night fretting over tasl to receive the coveted merit mark from the teacher may do for the of Dickens that blow the boys and girls at every sweep clean out of the region of childhood but it will not do in a rational system of teaching where the heart and the mind of the child are permitted to grow in a natural way in the knowl edge of truth and understanding No one will make a mistake upon this point if he remembers that the child is not made for the school but the school for the child To preserve and properly encourage the childs interest and the germ of sympathy in his moral nature will be worth infiaitely more to the child than technical ability to solve intricate processes or for that matter than any kind of knovledgo from books School Forum Importance of Seat Work Seat work must bear a direct relation to the occupation of the day for its own educational value rather than to merely occupy time The end is to get knowledge or skill or to create a prop er habit of doing work Ingenious nov elties or devices merely to kill time are inadmissible as only the thing that in and for themselves need to be done have sufficient vitality to command the interest of the children All merely mechanical exercises should be reduced to the minimum ex cept where the desired result is merely mechanical dexterity The teacher rhould provide suitable work and give directions in doing it when necessary she should also inspire a child or give him a proper motive to act The importance of seat work cannot be overestimated as what a child does actively with the instruction he has le ceived has more to do with his real education and character than has even the very important period when he merely passively receives help from others Mary F Hall in the Mil wan kee Course of Study Great Number of Pupils The report of the Commissioner of Education for the year lS92 93 shows that the whole number of pupils en rolled in schools and colleges public and private in the United States was 150S3G39 or 225 per cent of the en tire population This was an increase over the preceding year of 370567 The enrollment of public in the public schools for the year numbered 12510 719 an increase of 1G2 per cent over the preceding year while the average attendance increased 345 per cent There were employed in the year 122 OoG male and 2G0954 female teachers The number of schoolhouses was 23G 427 valued with their contents and appurtenances at 39S435039 The school revenue for that year was 105 000000 the total expenditures 1G3 000000 There were 1549S9 persons attending educational institutions above the high school grade 510420 pupils were enrolled in high school and schools of similar grade A Slight Defect The teacher was Jow voieed and pleasant mannered The pupils were courteous and well behaved and the timbre of the school was at least 90 on the scale of 100 The class on the reci tation seats were spelling by sound and were doing a laud office business at it Thus far all was satisfactoiy but here was the fault It was one of these slate banging desk thumping schools Theslatesand shoes made noise enough for a cooper shop or a blacksmith bbop Say girls and boys noise is not neces sarily the sign of a busy workman Some business shows the skill of the workman by the quietness with which he does his work school business is of that kind Only the apprentices in this branch of business make much noise with their tools Dont spoilt an other wise good record by careless habits in the use of slates or swing ol feet- Moderator The Road to School In winter when it freezes In winter when it snows The road to school seems long and drear Oer which the school girl goes 3 But when the pleasant summer comes With birds and fruit and flowers The road to school how short it is And short the sunny hours Bnt to the girl who loves to learn And wisdom strives to gain The road to school is always short In sunshine snow or rain When Li Hung Chang reached Hong Kong on his way to Russia not a sound was heard from the immense crowd of natives who seemed to look on in awe mingled with intense curiosity at the celebrated statesman There was nc outward manifestation from the mass es but the strictest silence which is the Chinese sign for great respect was preserved no one daring to speak loudly until Lis chair had passed to a considerable distance Cambridge University proposes to confer an honorary degree upon Simon Xewcomb professor of mathematics and astronomy of Johns Hopkins Uni versity Baltimore Md and upon Fran cis Andrew March professor of the English languages at Lafayette Col lege Gen Sir John Adye in pleading that old soldiers should be employed in the postal setwiee of Great Britain says that about 15000 men every year re turn from the army to civil life at an av erage age of 2G M I u I BLUE AND THE GEAY BRAVE MEN WHO MET ON THE FIELD OF BATTLE Thrilling Stories of the Rebellion Old tiddlers Bnd Sailors Relate Interesting Reminiscences of Life In Camp snd 01 the field Incidents of the War In Memory of Gen Philip Kearney Close his eyes his work is done What to him is friend or foeman Rise of moon or set of sun Hand of man or kiss of woman Lay him low lay him low In the clover or the snow What cares he he cannot know Lay him low As man may he fought his fight Proved his truth by his endeavor Let him sleep in solemn night Sleep forever and forever Lay him low lay him low In the clover or the snow What cares he he cannot know Lay him low Fold him in his countrys stars Roll the drum and fire the volley What to him are all our wars What but death bemocking folly Lay him low lay him low In the clover or the snow What cares he he cannot know Lay him low Leave him to Gods watching eye Trust him to the Hand that made him Mortal love sweeps idly by God alone has power to aid him Lay him low lay him low In the clover or the snow What cares he he cannot know Lay him low George H Boker My Old Commission I met Captain Richard Carter the ex Mayor of Dodgeville at the depart ment encampment He was recently appointed a member of Governor Up hams staff with the rank of Colonel It is not a matter of very great im portance but it makes me recall a pair of young fellows of the long ago Maybe some of the results of the recall will afford two or three minutes of pleasure to the Times Herald readers Ill try them anyhow In 1S61 as soon as they could get into the service after Lincolns first call for troops a couple of boys one in Racine where the encampment met last month and the other in Grant County were soldier material in the Second Wiscon sin Infantry the late General Fair childs regiment The Racine boy was William H Upham now the Governor and the Grant County boy was Richard Carter now aprominentlawyerand gen eral all around good citizen of Dodge ville I congratulate both Upham left the army at the end of seven or eight months to go to West Point Carter Private Carter stayed until the end of the war and was a captain when he came home If he is like other colonels and generals on governors staffs he is pleased with his commission but it means ever so little when compared with the yellowing paper given him in the war days that says he is a captain that he won the commission by faith ful service in actual war Ask Colonel Carter to trade his old captains com missionto obliterate all record of his war service for any kind of a modern commission that of Governor minis ter to St James Chief Justice of the United States Supreme Court or even President and see how ouieklv he will place the yellow commission over his thumping old heart and say Thank you not if you were to make me ruler of the world to give me the Bank of England not if you were to pass to my keeping the treasures of all of the governments of the earth I have not overstated From what I have said does the new generation get an idea of the satisfac tion with which soldiers look back up on their service in the war that gave the world its greatest most promising best government I hope so for that is the object in writing of the old cap tain and the new Colonel Ask any volunteer who helped to make up the vast Union army what would induce him to have all knowl edge of his soldiership removed from muster rolls and other records in Wash ington and at his State capitol so that it might never be known that he had a part in the struggle under Commander-in-chief Abraham Lincoln and see what he would do what he would say Our brigade newsboy got hold of some Baltimore and Washington pa pers and brought them up to the line of battle the third day at Gettysburg He was sitting on his horse counting ouf and selling papers as fast as he could take the change When the great ar tillery duel that preceded Picketts fa mous charge began he happened to be on Cemetery Ridge near the archway in the cemetery Solid shot and shell flew about him as thick as Green Bay flies in June The little fellow threw away his papers wheeled his horse and pretty nearly outflew the Confederate missiles When asked why he depart ed that day so abruptly he said he had forgotten his revolver and went back to hunt for it and that on the way to the front General Meade had halted him and told him to stay in the rear as his army could not afford to lose any more of its best men I want you to look at this old Testa ment said C B Aubery There is my name written by Lieutenant Leach Company H Second Vermont He bought it in Washington in July 1SG1 and presented it to me What memor ies that Testament brings back I re member the hour he gave it to me How solemn I felt and how homesick too How I wanted to throw my arms about my mothers neck and have her talk to me the dear mother I had run away from Lieutenant Leach was a Christian a real one There were prayers in his tent everv night and morning and on Sunday there was a prayer meeting as a oy of 12 jxssau who had taken French leare to qo to the war and needed just such care as Lieutenant Leach extended to me He gave me that Testament at the close of one of the prayer meetings and with a hand resting on my head said My lad read something in that book ev ery day as long as you live and you will never get into serious trouble I read it daily until I was made a prison eruntil I got into what I thought was mighty serious trouble when it was impossible for me to read the Bible Bible agents didnt come to see us at Libby Prison I guess my too frequent ly vacant stomach demanded more at tention than religious training and Bible reading in those prison days Prayers in the soldiers tents were not infrequent General Howard al ways had prayers General Lee regu larly prayed and Stonewall Jackson several times a day Probably there was not a company In the war that did not have its praying men Go with me to night through the com pany street said Private E C Jones of whom I have spoken in these let l ters We will see what the boys are doing It was about six months after the company had gone to the seat of war We went up one side of the street i and down the other In three of the1 tents that night just before taps the voices of men in prayer were heard In seven tents the language of seven T up euchre and poker came to our ears In the balance of the tents the soldier J statesmen and army commanders were discussing the best way to settle the great lamny tiuuuie mtu ivuiuu iu North and the South had allowed them selves to be drawn Jones at that time was a man of piety He was shocked atthe few prayers and much worldiness of the company Two years later Jones could lose his pay at poker a little l quicker than any other man in Com- pany E J A Watraus in Chicago Times Herald Grant and the Stableman While Gen Grant was a student at West Point his parents moved to Beth- el Ohio and when theyoung man was on a visit to them in uniform of course the boys of the town made game of him Long years afterward in writing his autobiography he remembered this un pleasant experience Opposite our house he wrote stood the old stage tavern where man and beast found ac commodation The stableman was rather dissipated but a man of some humor On my return I found him par ading the streets and attending in the stable barefooted but in a pair of sky blue nankeen pantaloons just the color of my uniform trousers with a stripe of white cotton sheeting sewed down the outside seams in imitation of mine The joke was a huge one in the minds of many people and was much enjoyed by them but I did not appreciate it so highly To this occurrence there was an amus ing sequel not related by Gen Grant but gathered by Mr Hamlin Garland on a recent visit to Bethel and told by him to the Washington Post The name of the jocose stableman was Harrison Scott and during the war after Grant had captured Donel son and Vicksburg and was recognized as a mighty commander of men he was riding along the lines one night hearing abstractedly the roll call Suddenly the name Harrison Scott was called and a voice answered Here Grant pulled up his horse The cap tain saluted The General faced the company His voice was heard by every man Harrison Scott step forward The man came forward briskly but- nervously The Generals low voice seemed menacing as he said Harrison Scott of Bethel Ohio Yes sir Report to me at headquarters to morrow morning Harrison was too scared to reply or salute and the General rode away Youre in for it my boy was the unfeeling comment of Harrisons com rades and it certainly looked like it Its a case of court martial and a ball and chain That little joke of yours which youve bragged about has got another end to it The hostler had strong thoughts of deserting but concluded to face the music The next morning he walked nervous ly into the Generals tent Grant looked up Sit down Harrison When did you -leave Bethel How are all the folks and he inquired minutely about all the people of Bethel and Georgetown and together they laughed over the joke about the cadet uniform At the close the General said Im glad to see you Harrison When you write remember me to the folks at Bethel Died Standing The incident of Ratisbon a French officer though mortally wounded rides back to Napoleon reports the capture of the city and then falls from his sad dle dead is paralleled by a story of Gettysburg told by General Doubleday and published in the Chicago Times Herald An officer of the Sixth Wisconsin Reg iment walked up to Colonel Dawes who was in command Colonel Bragg was in Washington on crutches The officer was very erect and very pale Dawes aud Doubleday both thought he was coming with a report or to receive or ders But he was not He had a favor to ask Colonel he said to Dawes will you tell the folks at home I died as a man and a soldier should Then he unbuttoned his coat His whole side was shot away It was nis last ef fort He died standing eyeful scientific experiments prove that at the depth of one mile ocean ters have a pressure equal to oqq too to tbe square inch V4 W a t 4S -- 7 X A 1