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A HUMAN relation column wherein the trouilio *,T CAN SEEK COUNSEL AND GUIDANCE ) 'KrTUrttn2iT- ***? T“ ”’"d ■ <•«■»• with worry S£J* jKEys*•£■stmt: |®i“2 rtSM-* wm JsrssLdSS^rsaiUs SSSHsrSffissw sr-=aa sk as ._ . 11 »a»». ad-irwa and birth date Ic all rtt»r» Explain tool can* full* --a ■■* 1 mi>w*w -rtbi. ib.rt.aol mm. Writ, to THE ABBE' WALLACE SERVICE F. O. Box 11 Atlanta I. Georgia D A H—I have tried with all my power to use my head and do what is right, but I am afraid to trust myself The boy friend I go with now makes fun of me be cause I don't allow him to say ugly words and make dirty re marks in my presence. He refers to me as being goody-goody. This; hurts me very much. Should I give in to this boy or stay as I am. My girl friends just snatch my boy friends away when they get ready Ans: The boyfriend you have now is on the fart side He thinks it is smart and big time to talk fresh. You would not be losing a thing to have one of your girl friends put the snatch on him. Be sweet and friendly to all the boys but don’t give in to any of them. You can be a good sport and still draw the line when it comes to going too far. D M F I have ‘missed’. Th# last time was March 4th. I don't think I am pregnant because I am the same as I was before. I am not getting fat and don't feel mad I am very anxious to know what in wrong. Am I changing life or am I too young? Ans: Visit your family doctor and let him examine you. I think you'll find that you are with child NOW IS THE I IMr. iu YOUR SHOES REBUILT— Quality Material * Guaranteed Quality Work LAKE SHOE SERVICE 2407 Lake Street 21th & I-ake Sts. T> PRESCRIPTIONS . Free Delivery -RE-0609— Duffy Pharmacy GOOD OPPORTUNITY TWO !•<•, earner aad adjolnlaa, on ■Mtkaial eerier Slat aad tlraee Kiteaaln frmlafr on bolb Slat aad Grace. Ideal far 2 or more burner ar eeveelaily aalted aa i bareh gnaada. Make reasonable offer IMIIKIIUTELT. Addreaa HO* A33* ar Call BA-4M*. I.AUI.K 1.0All PREFERRED Kindling per load $5 00 Rl.ACKSTO.AE LUMP COAL $1160 per ton JONES FUEL & SUPPLY Company 2520 Lake Street Phone AT 5631 again. Yes, you are entirely too young at 35 to be going through the change of life. ESM I worked for a man last year and some this year. He wants to build me a house on his place. Should I accept his offer or not? Ans: If you accept his offer you will be more or less obliga ting yourself to him. At your age this might not be the wise thing to do. You are happy living there with your sister for she is a com fort and you enjoy each others company. Talk this over with your sister before agreeing to the pro position The main question is— will you be happy living alone away from your sister? I don’t.. believe you will. E H—I have had trouble since my husband came out of the navy. He says he loves me but he stays with another woman and he asked, me to wait a little longer for us to be together. Would I be happv or should I leave town. How much lo'ger should I wait? Ans: You have waited entirely too long now. Your husband is be ing selfish and unreasonable in his actions. You were true and faith ful to him. while he was in the service, which is all a good wife could do. Let him make a definite choice now and forevermore. Ei ther he oomes home and quits this other woman for good, .or you quit him. You are too young a woman to let yurself be impsed upon in this fashion. I B S—I want you to tell me why does my husband act so very strange ? He seems to be very ner vous. We haven't lived together in 7 years but he comes to see me and gives me money. He keeps me worried I feel sorry for him. He is upset over something. Ans: See if you can’t talk your husband into going with you to visit a physician.. preferably a psychiatrist. A psychiatrist is a doctor who diagnoses nervous dis orders. He definitely needs treat ment and the longer he puts off taking action the more difficult it will be to overcome this condition. L B G—I am a girl of 21. I have been going with A L H for about three years. He tells me he loves me. In April I met FHE. he has been in the army and he tells me that he loves me. Then there is PE who is about 25 miles from my home town. He comes to see me every Sunday and tells me he is in love with me. Which one must I marry? Ans: Marry the one you love the most.. Mr. FEH. These other boys are good Joe's , but your heart has set on one. You couldn't be happy with ALN or PE as you lo\»e only your ex-soldier boy. M T M—I am a discharged vet of World War II. Have a very lovely wife as far as I know but for some reason I have lost all confidence and hope in her. Every small thing that happens seems to disturb me. Please help me! Ans: Yours is a jealous love, Mac. You are poising your mind with evil untruths concerning your good wife. You are forcing your Classified Ads Get Resuits! Would Like to Buy 39 to 42 model ROOM FOR RENT: for young lady. J.i 6283, Mrs M. Johnson. FOR SALE—Seven room House, 19X4 No. 40th St. Needs repairs. Make offer. Call HA-0978. 0 Distributor IJ anted MARVA LOUIS, Inc.,— wants a reliable well established person to act as sole distributor for Marva Loulf (Mrs. Joe Louis) Toiletries in the city of Omaha, Nebraska. Joe's boundless pop ularity and Marva's beauty makes this proposition unusually attrac tive. Will give two year contract Some cash will be required. Give taro business references and one personal reference. Marva Manufacturing Co., Inc. 6 East Garfield Blvd., Chicago, III. o/o W. I— Lowe, Gen. Mgr. • FOR RENT— Two rooms to two Young Ladies. Phone JA 6283 House for Sale. 251!* N. 17th St. $4.600. B-rTn bung ‘ „? 1-wk pos.* # AUTOS WANTED! SELL US YOUR CAR FOR CASH! • We will come to your home. Fred King Motors AT-046& 2056 Farnam Pl&M, bed, mine, furniture, 1704 & 26th St MA-1006. Heap A Card Furniture Efjtftota Lima—Point Hardman \ W« Boy, Sell and Trade frjfiML FURNITURE MART Perth Mtb— Mth & Lake —WEbrter 2224— *. tht*% Par Tkt Home” «acr FATS TO. car from private party. WA-8289 j rURNISHED ROOM Dojvnstairs i for man and wife, 2507 Hamilton AT-0992. HELP WANTED Couple for Cook and Caretaker—I Good Salary. Colored Old Folks, Home, 933 North 25th St. JA-0704 • FOR SALE 5 rooms completely furnished— 2 lots, Modern, 3033 Pratt street Quick Possession. KEL.LEHER 2424 Bristol St. JA. 6261. HOUSE FOR SALE Vacant, ready to move into, eight rooms, all modern, full basement, double garage, large lot. Phone the owner at AT-7783. $3,750. Beautiful Drape Suits all sizes Oxford Clo. Co. 1101 Farnam - f • McBrady Products Orders Taken at 2506 Burdette St., Telephone JAckson 7284. —Mrs. C. M. Elder. DRESSES AMD COATS, Size 44 and Children’B Clothes CALL GLen. 4065. Tresh Eggs 40c. We dehver on Saturday in your neigh borhood—HA-0137. NEIGHBORHOOD H RVtti rb * CLOTHING SHOP BIG 8ALB—Overcoats, all sisea Shoes, Ns Stamps; Ladles Dresses Rugs, Beds. Gas Stoves and Ot Stoves. 'We Buy and Sell" _ TEL. AT. 11*4 1718 N. Mth 8T, LAEKimiKS A CLEAKEHK KUHOLM A 011HUMAN MSI North Mth 8t WB mH EMF.ILSON LAl.tlHtT UM North Mth It WE. tM DO’S AND DON TS: BREEZY By r-M£iv,w J Ballgames are places to enjoy yourself. However, do let the j teams pitch the ball. Watch your Conduct. By CARL HELM NEW YORK—On the famed side walks, trod by so many millions of feet, the kids of New York somehow —almost miraculously, to the hin terlander—grow up, to be strong and healthy. What they may lack of Califor nia’s tawny tan and the red rosy cheeks of midland children, they make up for in wise alertness and self-assurance. Kids whose front I lawns are the hard stoops of the brownstones, whose playground is the teeming asphalt street, who must play their games with wary eyes on darting trucks and traffic, have to be smart and quick or they don’t survive. They make excellent cops — not the big beefy flatfeet who rule with their fists, but trim and sharp youngsters who know all the an swers without thumbing the book, who can subdue most bully-boy3 with the flick of a nightstick. Facing gunmen, they’re fast on the draw as any movie cowboy, and when they draw they shoot quick and for keeps. Their sisters grow up to be wives and mothers of cops; their brothers and playmates who don’t go into , “the Finest” become city firemen or 1 taxi drivers or subway guards. Most of the civil employees of the metrop olis are keen and hardy alumni of the sidewalk schools — the well trained staff which services the city, for the outlanders who come here to reap its rewards. wife to gradually lose her love for you and respect. I want you to write me confidentially for you have too good a mate to lose by your unreasonable attitude. Let me help you, friend. E B P—I am single and living in New York without any friends By accident I was in the company of Hazel Scott. I think a lot of her and would like to become her private secretary. I>o you think there is any chance of this? Ans: There certainly is not a chance for you unless you ask Miss Scott. Write her a nice note and perhaps she will see you and talk with you. If you can show here where you can be of value to her, she may give you a break. But anyway, do write her a nice letter. You have nothing to lose. Be sure to include a self addres sed, stamped envelope for your re ply. E L C—I am. a young woman 21 and I have a step-first cousin who is very much in love with me and I’ve learned to love him also. I I am not allowed to go out very I much but I go to the movies and j dances with him. I am so thankful j to have found someone who may be able to help me solve this pro blem. Ans: It is no sin for step-first cousins to marry. If you love each other, have everything in common it should make a good match. I don’t believe your people or his, will put up the fuss you think. You are both mutually liked in your family circle and I am sure your engagement announcement would go over smoothly. EBOOK REVIEW The September Selection of the Book Find Club will be upon Sin clair’s latest novel in the Lanny Budd series. A WORLD TO WIN. Readers who have enjoyed this exciting series for its glimpses of "living history” will again be re warded by more of Sinclair’s vi vid close-ups: The Big Three— F. D. R., Stalin, and Churchill; the headline-making Madame Sun Yat Sen; and danger-filled meet ings with such Nazi big-wigs as Hess, Hitler and Goering. And ro mantics have wondered which wo man will finally capture Lanny Budd’s heart get their answer— and something of a surprise. The Club’s current Selection is EARTH COULD BE FAIR by Pierre van Paasen. i Don’t get overtired. Ex treme fatigue makes you I an easier victim. CALL PR5EZY/ VVE^i H!A\ WATER SOY AFTER] .4* *"'* JIM > ST EEL r By MELVIN TAPlEYT c_ ___ _ _ 'AS SPARKY ABOUT TO TRY THE PARALY 414 RAY MACHINE BEFORE USING" iT TO REVIVE THESE VICT1MSOFMAKH& I EXPERIMENTING-— HE FELT HIAASELF SEIZED FROM EE HIND/HUGE FINGERS TIGHTENED ON HIS j Throat when... ‘SPARKY REACHED UP AND - (fljj I GRABBED HI5 ATTACKER.- [,<«. j -THE FALLING PKjURE KNOCK-]1 ED OVER THE RAY MACHINE/! 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Be HERE SOOH Vll be so ftwnrr -T A3 rt , **s.pi.h<E is OecORMB .-li 'an ooT-roor i*ee .;.v'^ *es *s®uaf<* •y~ r; GC*hp* ^3e * ^ j; sw-u. TnUVt-Tiwe cones •)«; .*s> .•? '»* - £ Vi *. «"“*? //.* _ huck_:v^v H6Re Comes huck.- * . ORaSSipiS ^ CRR'SUMA'5 tree— /j* — FOR. SALE FoW #/ ^ Atlanta Doctors Widow Noted In Four Groups WASHINGTON, D. C.—Some where in Atlanta, Ga., there should be a niche in a special hall of fame for Mrs. H. R. Butler widow of a pioneer Negro physician of that city, and mother of Dr. R. H. Butler, Jr., a heart specialist now practicing in Los Angeles. Mrs. Butler was in Washington from July 28 to August 2, attend ing the 50th anniversary conven tion of the National Federation of Colored Women’s Clubs at the 19 Street Baptist Church, where she was present at the first meeting of the organisation. Visiting at national headquart ers of the American Red Cross, she received the commendation of Mrs Mason Colt, administrator of Volunteer Special Services, for her work as director of Red Cross Grey Ladies at Fort Huachuca, Ariz., where her son was a physi cian during World War n . But that isn’t all. Mrs. Butler was founder and first president of the Nation-Congress of Colored Parents and Teachers in Atlanta in 1926, and for 20 years has work ed with this organization. She has just returned rom Durham, N. C., where she attended the national convention of colored P-TAs. YW CA work also has been one of her interests. Nor has Mrs. Butler’s activity been confined to this country. In 1937, when her son received a Ro senwald fellowship to work at London Hospital, his mother went too, spending her energy in a var iety of community affairs, includ ing the Nursery Schools of Great Britain, a national organization for the children of working moth ers. Here she met Thelma Har riott, executive director, under whose leadership she worked. At the outbreak of the war, tan TOPICS . fwsnum f r---TV puttie &CM0K PtNTlSTS _"THIS WON'T HURT A BITS'_ when Mrs. Butler went to Fort Huachuca with her son, she took 20 lessons sponsored by the Red Cross for Gray Lady training. The 19 doctors at the fort participated In the training, and Mrs. Butler said that she felt as If she had had a condensed university course. Eight other Negro Women took the Gray Lady course with her. “That was one place where my age was an asset", she said, her eyes twinkling, *1 talked to liter i ally hundreds Of man, many of I "Next'' Door" By ted shearer] 1 •••'.. ' ■ V I.. »«. I I I I I ..•' .. _. .SIMPLE, ISN'T IT—??" them mere boys away from home for the first time, and I have seen some of them cry like children as they told me their troubles. When ever a grey lady talked to me about dyeing her hair, I told her that this was one place where it wasn't necessary. Boys in trouble are always looking for the lady with the gray hair.” ADVERTISE IN The Omaha GUIDE l